Meeting Older Women
June 19, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Articles
Let’s face it, some things just get better with age. Things like fine wine, Cuban cigars, and yes, even women!
Meeting a woman who’s older than you can actually be quite a good way to meet a fantastic partner. Usually, older women are much more experienced, not only in relationships, but also in the bedroom.
So meeting older women can actually teach you a ting or two – not only about relationships, but also about what you’re really looking for in a partner.
So the real question is:
Are you interested in dating a woman who’s older than you are?
Do you find older women more attractive than their younger counterparts?
Well, my friend, you are not alone!
Older women are much more "mature" and experienced in the ways of love. They’ve usually had a lot of practice dealing with men, and know their way around the bedroom.
They can also be MUCH easier to deal with than younger women, who can tend to be a little "high maintenance."
If you’re a man in your mid-to-late 20s who’s mostly been with women in their late teens and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!
They tend to be more mature and less selfish – sexually, and in just about every other way – than the women you’re used to dating. And if you’re not looking for anything serious, the chances are higher that they’re not either, if they’re just past child-bearing age.
In that way, they’re kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and younger, who don’t feel compelled to start a family in the way that single women who’ve hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, she’s more likely to feel that now’s the time to act if she’s ever going to have children.
That’s because she’s not getting any younger, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, it’s only going to get harder to find a great man she can settle down with.
(By the way, a lot of women at this stage make a mistake that a lot of men make their entire lives: they get desperate. Some women actually repel men because of their desire to get into a serious relationship sooner than the man is comfortable with. And a lot of women at this stage will settle for a man who they’re not compatible with, but who will end up fulfilling their need to have a family.)
So how can you start meeting older women?
Well, there are lots of options. But first, I’d like to point out that if you’re looking to go to trendy nightclubs or bars, chances are, you won’t find any there.
Most older women will tend to frequent more low-key establishments. Bars in classy hotels, for instance. Or cocktail hours at certain restaurants which serve alcohol.
Many of the best places to meet older women are places you’d go during your daily errands. Places like the grocery store, for instance, or the mall. Anyplace women go to shop. Coffee shops in the morning and afternoon are good venues as well, since many older women will stop there on their way to and from work.
But the best place to meet older women, in my opinion, is online.
Many older women have kids or jobs, which doesn’t leave them much time to socialize, so many of them will go online looking for dates. Places like Match.com, eHarmony, and even MySpace are fantastic venues for meeting older women.
But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you decide to get married: If there’s a 15-year age difference between you, then she’ll be 50 when you’re 35!
But that’s not to say that you shouldn’t meet and date an older woman. It can be a great experience for you, if you’re aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.
So whether you want to meet older women, younger women, or women your own age, you should take some time to sign up for my free Meet Women crash course.
In this free course, I give you some A-List solid tips, tactics, and techniques on how to meet women without fear of rejection – no matter what age they are. In fact, I even tell you how to make it easy and fun!
You owe it to yourself to take this opportunity. Because if you wait, you may miss out on the woman of your dreams.
You can get your free course here:
Click Here For Free How To Meet Women Course
It only takes a few seconds to sign up, and you get free instant access once you do.
I really wish I had such a resource available to me when I first started! It would have saved me a lot of trouble! So take advantage of it while you can. I don’t know how long I’ll make it available for free.
Wishing you success,
Joseph Matthews
Author of The Art Of Approaching Women
How To Pick Up Women At The Gym Successfully
June 18, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
Some guy named VenusianArtist (not sure if he’s affiliated with Mystery’s new website or what) wrote up a great post over on mASF about how to pick up women at the gym. Check it out:
How To Date Women At Work
June 15, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Articles
Someone over on the mASF forums had a question about dating women in the workplace, so I thought I’d open my big mouth and chime in about this subject.
I think every man out there is well aware of all the problems that go with picking women up at work. As if sexual harrassment wasn’t enough, you now have "sexual intimidation" going on. (Whatever the hell THAT means!)
Having worked in an office environment myself, I definitely know the plight of many men out there who work 40+ hours a week at their jobs. So many guys spend so much time at work, and by the time they get home they’re too tired to go out or they need to get MORE work done, so it becomes a real issue of: work is the only logical place to meet people.
That said, workplace romances aren’t uncommon. Lots of couples meet through work. The very fact that two people are working at the same place creates a commonality that can help build rapport and open an avenue to attraction.
Back when I was in an office, one of my office-mates was well known as the "Office Dater." He’d basically only date women who worked at the company, and he was very good at it. I’ll share the tips I learned from him to effectively date at the workplace…
FastSeduction.com’s The Art Of The Pick Up – Review
April 9, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
Art Of The Pickup is the first offering from those crazy kooks over at fastseduction.com. It’s a 2 DVD video set with over six hours worth of information culled from fastseduction.com’s vast repository of pick-up knowledge, all compiled into an easy to reference format.
The thing that makes the Art Of The Pickup stand out from other similar DVD sets is that it’s designed more like an interactive course on how to meet women than a simple recorded lecture, like you might get with other DVD courses.
This format works very well in an instructional sense, because it breaks down the different phases of pickup in an easy to follow way, and allows for quick reference of the different tactics available.
FastSeduction.com’s The Art Of The Pick Up – Review
April 9, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
Art Of The Pickup is the first offering from those crazy kooks over at fastseduction.com. It’s a 2 DVD video set with over six hours worth of information culled from fastseduction.com’s vast repository of pick-up knowledge, all compiled into an easy to reference format.
The thing that makes the Art Of The Pickup stand out from other similar DVD sets is that it’s designed more like an interactive course on how to meet women than a simple recorded lecture, like you might get with other DVD courses.
This format works very well in an instructional sense, because it breaks down the different phases of pickup in an easy to follow way, and allows for quick reference of the different tactics available.
FastSeduction.com’s The Art Of The Pick Up – Review
April 9, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
Art Of The Pickup is the first offering from those crazy kooks over at fastseduction.com. It’s a 2 DVD video set with over six hours worth of information culled from fastseduction.com’s vast repository of pick-up knowledge, all compiled into an easy to reference format.
The thing that makes the Art Of The Pickup stand out from other similar DVD sets is that it’s designed more like an interactive course on how to meet women than a simple recorded lecture, like you might get with other DVD courses.
This format works very well in an instructional sense, because it breaks down the different phases of pickup in an easy to follow way, and allows for quick reference of the different tactics available.
Review: Pick Up 101′s Physical Confidence DVD
April 9, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
You know, we all have our own definitions of "confidence."
That is why when someone says "You just need to be confident to get a woman," most guys will groan in dismay.
Why?
Because no one really knows what that means!
What one person things is "being confident" may not be another person’s definition of confidence.
And of those definitions – they may all be WRONG!
Let me share with you my definition of confidence…
Confidence is secure self knowledge. It is knowing who you are – your strengths and your weaknesses – and being HAPPY about it!
Confidence truly stems from your own personal belief systems. Bad beliefs will lead you to not like yoruself, and this will lead you to being unconfident.
However, good belief systems allow you to love who you are and accept your faults – and this leads you to being SUPREMELY confident.
So the big question is: How do you go from hating yourself to loving yourself?
Review: Pick Up 101′s Physical Confidence DVD
April 9, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
You know, we all have our own definitions of "confidence."
That is why when someone says "You just need to be confident to get a woman," most guys will groan in dismay.
Why?
Because no one really knows what that means!
What one person things is "being confident" may not be another person’s definition of confidence.
And of those definitions – they may all be WRONG!
Let me share with you my definition of confidence…
Confidence is secure self knowledge. It is knowing who you are – your strengths and your weaknesses – and being HAPPY about it!
Confidence truly stems from your own personal belief systems. Bad beliefs will lead you to not like yoruself, and this will lead you to being unconfident.
However, good belief systems allow you to love who you are and accept your faults – and this leads you to being SUPREMELY confident.
So the big question is: How do you go from hating yourself to loving yourself?
Review: Pick Up 101′s Physical Confidence DVD
April 9, 2007 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
You know, we all have our own definitions of "confidence."
That is why when someone says "You just need to be confident to get a woman," most guys will groan in dismay.
Why?
Because no one really knows what that means!
What one person things is "being confident" may not be another person’s definition of confidence.
And of those definitions – they may all be WRONG!
Let me share with you my definition of confidence…
Confidence is secure self knowledge. It is knowing who you are – your strengths and your weaknesses – and being HAPPY about it!
Confidence truly stems from your own personal belief systems. Bad beliefs will lead you to not like yoruself, and this will lead you to being unconfident.
However, good belief systems allow you to love who you are and accept your faults – and this leads you to being SUPREMELY confident.
So the big question is: How do you go from hating yourself to loving yourself?