Apparently, in the ramp up to the EPIC Matador vs. Sinn PUA Deathmatch, Sinn has been tweeting about getting ready to fight Matador and get him kicked out of a club. But it turns out, Sinn just got drunk, mistook someone for being Matador, and was just being a dick.
Here’s the photo proof of Sinn’s shit-talking to fake Matador. Just click on the pics for larger versions. [click to continue…]
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A poster by the name of Dastardly Fox posted a question on the mASF boards about how to pick up a girl at his office.
Dastardly Fox writes:
There is a super hot blonde (hands down 10 and never uses makeup) here at my firm, we’ve had several exchanges and she acts like a school girl and gets nervous when we talk (good nervous, clearly attracted to me) and I’m looking for good ways that would let me lead this outside the office for the next stage. One catch it’s a law firm so I need to keep the office Convo light and fun (don’t Need harassment on my resume)
Oh and I’m not worried about a workplace romance going sour, she’s extremely shy (very smart book work lawyer) im discrete and the firm is huge, so we hardly run into each other and even work on the same floor. My boy in the kitchen tells me that I’m hot shit because the women talk about me, and I’m attractive so no issues here, its all in the delivery and reason I think. the only catch is that I’m going to have to go out of my way to initiate this, or wait till the next hall encounter… Ideas? Email, phone call, wait for our next hall chat, or walk to her office and just ask? I don’t normally date at work so this is new, but she is by far the finest woman I’ve seen since the last fine woman I saw.
Okay, so when it comes to picking up women at the office/workplace, here are some of Thundercat’s tips…
First of all, try and not present yourself as a “co-worker.” Being a “co-worker” can scare off women from dating you. You need to come off as being an “outsider.” Someone who just happens to work at the same place. So talking about stuff that doesn’t involve work is a must!
Second, organize out-of-office events that get people to hang out with you in a non-work setting. In Fox’s case, he could organize a meeting at a nearby bar or restaurant after work, and invite the girl he likes to join him there. And since there is a group of co-workers meeting, it doesn’t feel like a high-intensity date-type-thingie.
Third, connect with her as much as possible. Friend her on Facebook, text her if you have her number, email with her, IM, etc. Do anything possible to chat her up when you’re not in direct contact with her. This allows you to do all the attraction building stuff you need to.
Fourth, get her to meet you outside the office/workplace where it’s just the two of you. Grabbing dinner, drinks, whatever.
Finally, be prepared for any objections she may have to dating a co-worker. Try and anticipate what problems she might have and come up with responses to them BEFORE they arise.
Most people spend like 70% of their day at work, so its natural to want to date out of the workplace. Just be prepared to handle the consequences if things don’t turn out well! I personally think it’s worth the risk, but just realize that if a woman isn’t interested, it’s probably not a good idea to pursue it like you would with a woman you don’t work with.
Sinn had (kinda) an interesting post up on his blog about “Girl Game,” or the kind of game women run on men.
Sinn writes:
I’ve been having some crazy success lately which has led me to having to wash my sheets every day and the following little nugget of information I want to share with you today.
Girls have lines and “routines” they run too.
I started to notice this before I left AZ, but since I’ve moved it’s become even more noticeable. In fact I can now tell I’m going to end up hooking up with a girl as soon as they start some of they’re “girl game” as I like to call it.
I met a Yoga teacher in Barnes and Noble Sunday who while we were walking around told me she had to be in love to have sex with someone(Something I’d heard before) 6 hours later she was filming herself masturbating and various other things unfit for print.
My favorite example of this is when girls try to push the whole ” I date like a guy” thing. Recently this very cute little cocktail waitress named Sam tried to tell me she doesn’t date and plays guys. Literally a week later she was calling me every day trying to hangout and getting super clingy. Since I’ve moved I’ve heard variations of this from an Abercrombie and Fitch manager and a makeup artist. If a girl tells you she dates like a guy or is a player, run because she’s clingy.
I’ve done the research for you.
The point is, much as we are trying to control our image in the girl’s mind to make ourselves seem fun, confident, masculine and interesting. She is trying to do the same thing, and chances are both of us are misrepresenting ourselves.
Because as Chris Rock once said when you meet somebody of the opposite sex for the first time, you’re not actually meeting them, you’re meeting their representative.
How do you deal with this?
With the best advice I ever received about women (from my sister ironically enough, love you Gemma!) Never take anything a woman is saying seriously. Especially if you just met her.
Um, I’m not sure about that. I mean, if a girl says “Get away from me you creepy Edie Munster-looking troll,” I’m pretty sure you could take that seriously. lol.
But, that doesn’t bely Sinn’s main point here, which is lots of women do have a “system” by which they like to try and attract men. It’s probably not as well thought out and theorized about as what we do in our little community here, but it does exist, and lots of women know how to use their sexuality to string men along as much as they want. [click to continue…]
Let’s face it – we all love Asian PUAs. They almost have their own “culture” within the seduction community. But now, we’ve got special “behind the scenes” video from Asian Pick-Up Bootcamps from around the world being leaked onto the internet. In this first video, we see how Asian PUAs deal with AMOGs. It’s quite an eye opening experience, for sure!
Aum writes: when i go to a club. I always get intimidated by the other guys in the club who are lot taller, well built and dress a lot better than me. When i see girls, i get this feeling of inadequacy. I really hate myself because of this. I am working out really hard every day and trying to dress better but never feel good enof. Any advice on chaning my perspective on this? please help!!! this is kiiling me.
I feel ya bro. Speaking as an overweight, bald, ugly slob myself, I know all too well what it feels like to walk into a club and see all these other guys who are way better looking than you are. Heck, even my friends who I go out with tend to be better looking than me! lol.
Ali123, over on the Attraction Forums, had an interesting question about the wisdom concerning meeting women at their places for a date.
Ali123 writes: Ok I’ve been doing this online gaming for a year or two but only inthe last 2-3 months has my game really improved and in fact I seem to be on a bit of a roll.
Do you guys think its a bad idea if a girl invites you over to her place for the first time you meet. In the last month been to 5 girls places as a first date/meet, I’ve slept with 3 of them. The other two didnt work out and didnt want to do anything. Of those two one ignored me and the other said she didnt want to see me again as she didnt fancy me. In fairness 3/5 isnt too bad.
But do you think its a bad environment to meet a girl? Are you more likely to fuck her if you meet her in a bar close to her place and get her to go back to hers? When you meet at their place its tough because you have to make chit chat etc and then make a move and no alcohol to help you!
Finally I was chatting to an HB7/8 on POF chat messenger, and shes told me to come to her place when I finish work on Sunday at 3am!!! Shes said her flatmates away, and I joked she’d be asleep, she had work the next day, and only if she can make a good cup of tea. But she continued to insist. Shes a hot girl and I dunno if I should meet her when I wont be looking my best. Surely its better to go for a drink and get a little tipsy?
Thoughts guys?
Contrary to popular belief, you DO NOT need to get a girl slightly drunk/tipsy before you make your move, my dear Ali123. So I wouldn’t even worry about that.
Here’s the thing…
I think a girl who allows a guy she just met to come over to her place is a definite sign that she’s open to hooking up, as your 3 out of 5 ratio should tell you. The way I like to work things, is I’ll invite a girl to my place when we have plans to go out, let her in, allow her a bit of time to become comfortable with my surroundings, then we go out to dinner or whatever. So by the time the night is winding down, if I ask her to come back to my place, it won’t be that intimidating for her.
If a girl invites you to HER place, she already feels comfortable with the environment, so its much easier to hook up with her there. At that point, the only thing you have to work on is comfort/rapport building and attraction, since the logistics are already in your favor. And let’s face it, if a girl you’ve just met is allowing you into her place on a first date, she’s open to sleeping with you. So no, I personally don’t think going to a girl’s place for a first date is a bad thing.
Now, if she doesn’t want to LEAVE her place and go out, that does seem a bit odd, since that isn’t really a “date” date. When you go over to her place, you can ask her if she’d like to go grab a drink or a bite to eat somewhere close by, and then go back to her place afterward, but if she just wants to stay in, then maybe she is just looking for sex. You have to treat each situation as it comes up, since some girls might just be boring sticks-in-the-mud and others might be looking for some hanky-panky.
But if given the opportunity, I will always accept an invitation to go to the girl’s place. Yes, you can’t always control the environment – roommates, poor living conditions, etc. – but sometimes it can be better logistically.
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