Mystery Method After Sex?
October 3, 2011 by Thundercat
Filed under Analysis
Erix5son has a question over on PUAForums concerning the Mystery Method and how to apply it after you’ve “done the deed.”
Erix5son wrote:
So according to Mystery’s method that consists of Attraction, Comfort and seduction how should I play the dating game after the sex already occured?
I am thinking about keeping the comfort with some Tension while on dates or in public and use seduction when having private time with her?
Can somebody comfirm if this is correct/best approach to dating a women after you already had sex with her or give some basic guidelines.
Okay, just to be clear here… if sex has occurred, then you have successfully completed the “seduction” phase of Mystery Method.
Simple, right?
Understand: The Mystery Method is mostly geared towards the initial “getting women to sleep with you” phase of things. So you don’t really NEED to use it on a girl you’ve already slept with – unless you failed to establish any rapport with her and just “got lucky” because she was drunk, she just wanted to get laid and didn’t care by whom, or any other factors which might have gotten you the sex but zero inter-personal connection.
So let’s say you did Mystery Method right, and built up the attraction and comfort before you got her into bed. If that’s the case, then guess what? Your job is EASY now. Read more
Some Notes On How To Pick Up Strippers
March 2, 2010 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
Joker over on the PUAForums had this great post about how to pick up strippers…
Joker writes:
Strip clubs are one my favorite places to pick up women. Consider the logistics: you’re surrounded by gorgeous, scantily clad women. The alcohol is flowing, every element of the environment is designed for seduction — from the music, to the lighting — and every one of these hotties is eager to talk to YOU.Of course, most guys who set foot inside strip clubs are content to be customers, forking over their cash for pointless lap dances and superficial conversations with women who view them as human ATM machines.
The pickup artist, however, views strip clubs as target-rich environments filled with sexy, available women. These are also great places to hone your skills and become comfortable flirting with 9’s and 10’s in “regular” settings.
Now, are strippers simply trying to separate you from the contents of your wallet? Of course they are-at first. It’s their job. But you can use tactics to flip the script, cause them to stop perceiving you as a customer, and make them play YOUR game instead of playing theirs.
Put the right tactics to work, and you can build connections, collect phone numbers, and set up dates that lead to sex — just as you would at a bar. Strippers aren’t the unattainable, unaffordable goddesses that most guys assume they are. They’re just women. It all comes down to knowing how to break through their facade, connect with them on a real level, and get them to feel genuine curiosity and attraction.
Here are ten of my tips for strip club success: Read more