How To Know If She Sees You As A Provider And Not A Lover…
September 9, 2011 by Thundercat
Filed under Analysis
Deelow over on mASF proposes the following question…
Deelow writes:
So you are in a relationship, doesnt matter what kind of a relationship (could be ltr, mltr, oltr, fb etc.)… What signs that she exhibits (besides denying you sex») would be an indication that she views you as a provider more than a lover?
There are a lot of good explanations in the thread as to the signs these guys think signal a provider relationship. But the real crux of the issue here is the question “What are the signs that the girl you’re with is just using you and isn’t really into you anymore?”
Let’s face it. Sometimes girls just stay in a relationship with a guy they’re not really that into because they don’t want to be single. Or, maybe they get into a “relationship” with a guy because they plan to use him for something – be it social status, money, security, whatever. And sometimes, girls get into relationships, and then get bored and lose their passion for their partner. Hey, it happens. But I think Deelow is asking about the signals that your relationship might be in trouble.
The biggest factor is definitely the denial of sex. This is probably the biggest signal that something is wrong with your relationship. I mean, sometimes girls just can’t have sex. Maybe their on their period and don’t feel like it. Maybe their sick, or whatever. But if there’s really not a good reason to not have sex, or the girl keeps coming up with excuses not to, then something is seriously wrong. If she’s lost sexual interest in you, for whatever reason, then you’re not actually in a “romantic relationship” anymore. After all, sex is a big part of romantic relationships, and once that disappears, all that’s left is utterly without passion, and that’s no fun for anyone.
Another tactic, and one that girls use to manipulate guys, is the girl your with may start bartering sex with you in exchange for things she wants. This is a major sign that she doesn’t see your relationship as a “real” relationship. After all, how can you be in a relationship with someone if you have to earn their affection every time? Good, healthy relationships have affection present from both parties. If she’ll only sleep with you if you pay her rent, buy her new clothes, take her on vacation, whatever – that’s a business transaction, not a relationship! As soon as a woman starts bartering favors for sex, you know that something is wrong. (NOTE: This is not the same as a girl with-holding sex if you’ve upset her. This is straight up “You give me what I want, I’ll give you what you want.” There are no feelings involved here.)
Another thing to look out for is a lack of affection. You can tell if a girl is not into you if she doesn’t kiss you, touch you, or let you kiss her or touch her. A girl’s ability to show affection towards the man she’s in a relationship with is directly proportional to how she feels about him. A lack of attraction constitutes a lack of affection. If she doesn’t kiss you back when you kiss her, if she doesn’t want to snuggle up next to you, and most importantly – if you have sex and she doesn’t appear to enjoy it, or doesn’t put forth an effort to participate — you know for sure something is wrong.
There’s also a “lack of communication” factor. A girl who cares about you, likes you, and wants to be with you will stay in communication with you. She’ll call, text, email, hang out, go out with you, and all that other good stuff. But a girl who’s no longer interested will pull back on the communication. She won’t call you back. She’ll take her time returning your texts and emails. She’ll be too busy to hang out or go out with you. When this happens, something is definitely wrong. And if she only is responsive if she needs something from you, that’s a sure sign you’re being used as well. HOWEVER, its important to note that this is meant to be “general behavior,” in the sense that she does this type of thing constantly. If she goes out with her friends one night and doesn’t return a call or text, that’s not a bad thing. But if she makes it a habit of never being responsive, or never having time/or interest in hanging out with you, that’s when you should be worried.
Just be on the lookout for these types of signs. Remember that a good, healthy relationship is one in which both you and her are happy. It can have its ups and downs, but as long as there is intimacy and trust, it can last. Keep an eye out for these signs. If you feel she’s manipulating you, call her out on it. If you feel she’s losing interest, ask her about it and try to fix things. It can be done.
melbet_doer on 
melbet_brer on 
melbet_imer on 
SteveFrodo on 
GeorgeRic on 
adderall canadian pharmacy: real canadian pharmacy – recommended canadian pharmacies
India pharmacy ship to USA: Indian pharmacy international shipping – Indian pharmacy international shipping
mexican pharmacy acp: mexican pharmacy acp – medicine in mexico pharmacies
canadian pharmacies compare [url=https://canadianpharmacyaapd.shop/#]77 canadian pharmacy[/url] buying drugs from canada
canadian drugs: canadian pharmacy no scripts – canadian pharmacy
Best Indian pharmacy: Online medicine home delivery – Best Indian pharmacy
buying from online mexican pharmacy: mexican pharmacy acp – mexican pharmacy acp
mexican pharmacy acp [url=https://mexicanpharmacyacp.shop/#]medication from mexico pharmacy[/url] mexico drug stores pharmacies
pharmacy wholesalers canada: Canadian Pharmacy AAPD – canadianpharmacy com
online canadian drugstore: trusted canadian pharmacy – certified canadian pharmacy
mexican pharmacy acp: mexican pharmacy acp – mexican pharmacy acp
canadapharmacyonline legit: Canadian Pharmacy AAPD – legitimate canadian online pharmacies
online canadian pharmacy [url=https://canadianpharmacyaapd.shop/#]canadian pharmacy world reviews[/url] legit canadian pharmacy
ed drugs online from canada: Canadian Pharmacy AAPD – canadianpharmacymeds
mexico pharmacies prescription drugs: mexican pharmacy acp – mexico pharmacies prescription drugs
Сыграйте РЅР° деньги, почувствуйте азарт!: balloon казино – balloon казино играть
Автомат Ballon — идеальный СЃРїРѕСЃРѕР± расслабиться.: balloon казино демо – balloon казино демо
https://akhbutina.kz/# Выигрывайте большие суммы на автоматах!
balloon казино играть [url=https://balloonigra.kz/#]balloon казино демо[/url] Р’ казино всегда есть что-то РЅРѕРІРѕРµ.
Соревнуйтесь СЃ РґСЂСѓР·СЊСЏРјРё РЅР° игровых автоматах.: balloon казино играть – balloon казино официальный сайт
Рграть РІ казино — всегда интересное приключение.: balloon казино играть – balloon казино официальный сайт
Заходите РІ казино, чтобы испытать удачу.: balloon игра – balloon game
РРіСЂР° РЅР° деньги — это ваше развлечение.: balloon игра на деньги – balloon казино официальный сайт
Удача всегда СЂСЏРґРѕРј, РєРѕРіРґР° играешь.: balloon казино играть – balloon казино
balloon game [url=https://akhbutina.kz/#]balloon казино играть[/url] Рграйте РЅР° деньги Рё получайте удовольствиe.
https://balloonigra.kz/# Автомат Ballon — идеальный способ расслабиться.
Ргровые автоматы делают вечер незабываемым.: balloon казино официальный сайт – balloon казино официальный сайт
Казино — место для увлекательных РёРіСЂ.: balloon казино – balloon казино демо
Обнаружьте новые стратегии РЅР° автомате Ballon.: balloon игра на деньги – balloon game
https://balloonigra.kz/# Рграйте РїРѕ СЃРІРѕРёРј правилам РЅР° автомате.
Заходите РІ казино, чтобы испытать удачу.: balloon игра – balloon игра на деньги
https://balloonigra.kz/# РРіСЂР° РЅР° деньги — это ваше развлечение.
Рграйте СЃ СѓРјРѕРј, РЅРѕ РЅРµ забывайте Рѕ веселье.: balloon казино – balloon игра на деньги
Ballon радует РёРіСЂРѕРєРѕРІ разнообразием функций.: balloon игра на деньги – balloon казино демо
Баллон — это автомат для настоящих любителей.: balloon казино играть – balloon game
balloon game [url=https://balloonigra.kz/#]balloon game[/url] Баллон — это автомат для настоящих любителей.
https://akhbutina.kz/# Рграйте РїРѕ СЃРІРѕРёРј правилам РЅР° автомате.
Ставь РЅР° деньги Рё выигрывай легко!: balloon казино демо – balloon игра
Рграйте РїРѕ СЃРІРѕРёРј правилам РЅР° автомате.: balloon игра – balloon игра на деньги
https://neokomsomol.kz/# Казино предлагает отличные условия для игры.
Рграйте РІ казино Рё забудьте Рѕ заботах.: balloon казино демо – balloon игра на деньги
Попробуйте выиграть РЅР° автомате Ballon!: balloon казино – balloon игра на деньги
balloon казино играть [url=https://neokomsomol.kz/#]balloon казино[/url] Рграйте РїРѕ СЃРІРѕРёРј правилам РЅР° автомате.
Ballon — автомат СЃ захватывающим сюжетом.: balloon казино демо – balloon game
https://balloonigra.kz/# Найдите свой lucky slot в казино.
Автомат Ballon предлагает уникальные Р±РѕРЅСѓСЃС‹.: balloon казино – balloon game
https://balloonigra.kz/# Автоматы Ballon поднимают настроение каждому.
balloon game [url=https://akhbutina.kz/#]balloon казино играть[/url] Ballon — выберите СЃРІРѕР№ путь Рє победе.
https://neokomsomol.kz/# Автомат Ballon — идеальный способ расслабиться.
Ballon — автомат СЃ захватывающим сюжетом.: balloon казино официальный сайт – balloon казино демо