Drinking Guide

March 17, 2004 by  
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d_rock3000 put up this interesting little post on a cold read you can do based on what a girl is drinking.

d_rock3000 writes:
Personality Guide Based on Drinks
Seven New York City bartenders were asked if they could nail a woman’s personality based ON what she drinks. Though interviewed separately, they concurred on almost all counts.
The result:

Drink: Beer
Personality: Causal, low-maintenance; down to earth.

Drink: Blender Drinks
Personality: Flaky, whiny, annoying; a pain in the ass.

Drink: Mixed Drinks
Personality: Older, more refined, high maintenance, has very picky taste; knows EXACTLY what she wants.

Drink: Wine (does not include White Zinfandel)
Personality: Conservative and classy; sophisticated yet giggles.

Drink: White Zinfandel
Personality: Easy; thinks she is classy and sophisticated, actually she has NO clue.

Drink: Shots
Personality: Likes to hang with frat-boy pals and looking to get totally drunk … and naked.

Drink: Tequila
No explanations required — everyone KNOWS what happens here.

A great cold read routine:
Look at her drink, laugh to yourself, then tell her you read an article that had to do with Personality Types Based on Drinks. Tell her it was conducted by psychologist(to make them more interested) and that they did the research all over the country. Then say that you could nail her personality based ON what she drinks.

If you want to read the original article just search for “Personality Guide Based on Drinks” on the internet.

You can read the original post here.

For those of you too lazy to search for “Personality Guide Based on Drinks,” here’s a link for you. Don’t say I never gave you anything. =)

How to Make Yourself Good Looking

March 16, 2004 by  
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A lot of men out there aren’t good looking guys. Well, at least that’s what they tell themselves. In fact, when I talk to good looking guys, I’ll often say to them “Well, it must be easy for you to get girls, because you’re so good looking.” And 9 times out of 10, the guys will balk at that statement. Indeed, even good looking guys don’t think they’re that good looking.

But when it comes down to it, no matter how BAD you look, there are things you can do to improve your appearance. And the bottom line is, it’s not so important that you are good looking, as it is that you have a look that is good for you! This is the basis of my book Fashion For Fat Guys, and the basis of this EXCELLENT post from one of the best PUAs I know, Craig…

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Advice Opener

March 16, 2004 by  
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Well, we’ve all heard of Neutral Opinion Openers, but I found a post on the DJ Forums that talks about something called “Advice Openers.” Now, we’ve all probably used these at some time or another without knowing it, but this is the first time I’ve ever really seen it broken dow as a legitimite form of opening a woman.

Just to warn you, this seems more conducive to venues outside the clubs. So all you coffee shop/grocery store/street guys, this may be something to add to your repitoir…

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Sex Leads to Confidence?

March 16, 2004 by  
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There’s a post over at the Don Juan Discussion Forum by someone named Crackhead (appropriately enough) about how regular Sex breeds the confidence you need to have MORE sex…

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The Angel and Devil on your shoulder

March 15, 2004 by  
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I found this $$$ post from TD on the Tactics board of mASF.

Tyler Durden writes:
“Oh, you’re getting fiesty huh? You know what I would do with you? I would dress you up…. in a red.. PVC… *devil* outfit.. You’d have little horns like this… and a tail.. bitch boots, and….. a pitch fork. Now your friend here.. I’d dress her up in a similar angel outfit.. with wings.. and a fur halo.. and I’d roll with you guys on each arm down the street.. Every girl would be jealous of you.. And whenever I’d have to make a decision.. I’d let each of you fight over which decision is the most fun.. and whatever one would be the most fun.. we’d do that.” (the periods are to show the pacing, because they roll over laughing in between every pause)

I’ve also occassionally been known to follow up with variations of things I heard from Style, like “Actually forget that.. I’d dress you up like a nun.. and me like a priest.. and we’d go into a church and to freak everyone out we’d just start making out.. actually fuck that, you’re my little sister! that’s disgusting! what are you doing to me!? Girls are sexual predators, you know that.. you’re doing (whatever she’s doing) and you think you’re all covert.. but I know this.. Girls are sexual predators.. (sexual predator routine stuff).”

I use this stuff early in set, or later on in set before I’m about to move them, and its to implant the idea of rolling on each arm, and then I throw out my arms and they jump on like magnets.

Lately I’ve also teasing girls as “Polar Responders”, and explain that they’re arguing with everything I say, as well as “stimulus seeking state change junkies” when they’re not focusing.

This routine is AWESOME! I’ll have to memorize it and use it the next time I go out. And Style’s (the most powerful of the Jedi) stuff is excellent too! Nice little role-playing, frame setting, future-projection stuff going on. You can read TD’s post here.

This is why these guys are considered the BEST, ladies and gentlemen.

North American Women Suck!

March 15, 2004 by  
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I’ve heard more than one guy bitch about this. About how women here in America (or more appropriately, NORTH America) are so much trouble to have sex with. Indeed, I’ve been regailed by stories from more than one friend talking about various sexual escapades with all sorts of beautiful South American and European women who seem to be so much less UPTIGHT about their sexuality. So much so, that even Tom Lykis goes so far as to suggest that most men GIVE UP on American women all together, siting that women’s lib has spoiled them to the point where not only are they difficult to get sex from, but they don’t know how to take care of their man.

Anyway, it seems LowRider had something to say about this on mASF…

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Analyze the Player, not the Game

March 11, 2004 by  
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NightBlue put up a pretty interesting post in the Advanced forum of mASF about how people need to pick the style that’s best for them based on the people who invented it.

NightBlue writes:
This is mainly for the people who get confused b/c of the different styles/ methods aspects and need to find and create their own style.

Like said, if you want to see the qualities of a method you need to analyze the inventor of the method. To see why it works so good for the guy who came up with it. Then you know why it works and what can work for you. I’ll give some examples.

Nightblue goes on…

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Getting Comfortable

March 10, 2004 by  
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Well, Tyler Durden put up a new post in the Tactics board of mASF which is neither LONG nor CONVOLUTED! (Huzzah!)

It seems TD is getting back to basics, which is nice. I like not having to set aside a good two hours just to read through a post he puts up. His little thing about getting comfortable so you can work is pretty basic, but I think it’s a solid thing most guys should be concerned about.

Tyler Durden writes:
A big mistake I see a lot of guys making is not sitting the girls down or getting them somewhere comfortable where they can work. They’ll often try to game up the girls in areas with people-traffic, or where they’re standing and not leaning against anything. I can’t see this being very effective because the girls aren’t comfortable and neither are you. Also, because you’re standing for so long, it conveys a bit too much interest, just in the sense of “why is this dude who is supposedly the prize standing in this uncomfortable place for so long just to chat me when I haven’t even done anything to convey value to him yet?” (obviously they don’t think this exact line).

In every set, I’ll want to get them seated ASAP. I’ll often hit them on a high point of a story and start backing up. I’ll back up onto the seat, and talk louder (like I walk backwards as I talk, just really smooth). Usually they’ll follow because they’re liking the emotions they’re getting from the stories. If they don’t, I motion my hands to wave them over slightly, or tease them to come over. I want to be leaning against a wall where there is no traffic, or preferably seated but the first is fine if there’s no seating around.

Likewise, in loud clubs, if its too loud to go too long, I’ll blurt out “Have you ever been CUBE’ed before? It’s awesome. I ask you five questions and you’ll get back info about yourself that not even your friends knew. It’s awesome, you *have* to see it.” (I oversell it to move them to the couch). Personally I think its lame to offer gimmicks like that without them earning it, but I think its even worse to have to stand there in a uncomfortably loud area, and I just want them seated ASAP. I think its also key that you’re CUBE’ing her to amuse yourself to see the results, rather than to impress her in anyway. So I’ll sit them down and often times I won’t even do it, or I’ll run it and then run backwards on my regular program and continue from there.

I think its interesting that the only difference between you meeting a girl who could even become your girlfriend, or not, is just that you got her logistically comfortable ASAP, so that her ASD wouldn’t go up or anything due to you gaming her so extensively in an uncomfortable location.

Of course, just moving them around the room and venue changing is great also. I do seated preferably though, because I can work in closer and phase shift, or just build comfort effectively in a location where I can really work.

Anyway, I know this sounds subtle, but it really makes the difference between things going well and not going anywhere at all.

You can read the whole thread and all the responses from Tyler’s Space Monkies here

E-Mail Rules

March 10, 2004 by  
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So Formhandle has chimed in on some “E-Mail Rules” that he goes by when seducing online.

Formhandle writes:
Many of you have been able to take advantage of the e-mail rules I’ve set out, they’re simply the most efficient and dependable means to get a chick responding back so that the mail goal can be achieved – setting up a meet to run actual real game.

Here is some more elaboration on why a lot of guys can’t get past e-mail with a chick:

These kind of guys ask too many questions or bring up too many points for the chick to be able to focus in on. What ends up happening is she only responds to a single, perhaps 2 maximum points, and they are rarely the points the guy is REALLY interested in. The reason for that is it allows her to maintain control, and forces the guy to ask some of the same questions again, defaulting him to beta. The other reason is – the hotter the chick, the more preoccupied she is in the REAL world and the less she cares about e-mail and answering every single point in an e-mail, so she chooses the fastest and easiest points to reply to and feels that she’s “replied” to the mail completely.

Formhandle goes on to elaborate…

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Befriending SUCKS!

March 5, 2004 by  
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Legendary Croatian PUA Badboy chimes in on the Advanced board with a post about befriending guys.

Badboy writes:
About befriending…

What I descovered, its crazy, I mean, even if you disagree on this, this is field tested so much, and proven in real life, by me, shark, Infamous, and all my workshop students…
And that is..With BEFRIENDING, you create COCKBLOCKS in good % of cases!!

Mostly, here I will talk about befriending guys, not girls, they are still really important to befriend…

When you befried guys in set, you just shooted yourself in a leg, you went backwards in set…
Usually, you will se me, behaving to guys like they don exist at all…and trust me that is best AMOG you can imagine !!

In 99% of cases, when I open , I open guys with some lame opener, switch to girls asap, turn my back to guy\guys, and ignore them…

I noticed one really funny thing, when I spend more time talking to guys(befriending tactics), what hspens, is when I turn their back and ignore them… they feel ‘ok’ with jumping into my conversation, they feel ‘ok’ to cockblock, of course, they feel ok, cause we are FUCKING FRIENDS….fuck that!!

In first case, with ignoring guys, they never jumo into my convo, NEVER….they feel little bit scared…its not ‘ok’ to behave like that, to interupt somebodys conversation.
This also will explain Sharks game alot. As he also doesnt give a shit about guys in sets, they JUST dissapear!! ALWAYS!!… he doesnt even think about this, he does it naturally…

Now, I must tell you few more things….
If you are newbee here, or you are really LSE, with not so good bodylanguage\confidence level, dont do this!!! PLEASE, dont do it…you’ll get into fight from time to time…

Cause those afc louzers will think they are above you, DHV then you are… and will cockblock you even more….
I think every guy here must go through phase of talking with guys, (befriending them)…
Why??

First you must interanalize that they are LOUZERS, every guy out there, and not be afraid of them…
When you go over that shit, then you can ignore them, and feel comfortable doing it….
If you try to ignore guys, and in same time you are scared of them….he will kick your ass….
So be really carefull with this weapon I just gave you…
Alpha bodylanguage, will work for you here 100%
Too bad I cnat show you here those bodylanguage tips…

If you can get past the mangled English, there’s some good stuff in this post. I wonder when Badboy’s gonna hire someone to translate his posts for him? Anyway, you can check out the whole thread here.

Lessons for the Older Player

March 5, 2004 by  
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Neo-Rio has an interesting post up in the Tactics forum of mASF about an older PUA he ran into.

Neo-Rio writes:I know this dude from the local bar who’s about 50 or so and is pretty much a self-styled player in his own way. He’s never been married but has kids with about 3 different women and is living away from all of them and his kids at the moment. In fact, one of his women just had another.

The reason why I know all this is because this is his whole routine… how many kids he has and how many women are having them. He’s got his game together and its very telling. In fact he was there push-pulling on some blonde babe who I’d easily rate an 8 – and I crashed the party.

Then I come along – and he was totally unthreatened by this (as he should be), and his anti-AMOG tactics were to ask me “So how many kids do you have?” So all I said was “Well, shit dude. You have a head start on me there! How old are you?” So then he was like “Well, that’s the whole point of having girlfriends isn’t it? You just don’t understand the joy of being able to hold your own baby in your hands etc. etc. and it’s really wonderful blah blah blah…. you have no idea. You should pop one in your girlfriends oven, you don’t know what you’re missing… etc etc”

The whole tone is now getting condescending as he trys to reframe the situation. Interesting the way an older dude can use his years and experience to put pressure on younger guys, in a completely non-threatening way… whereas all I could possibly respond with would have been “and you probably have a limp cock.” which would have been out of place. So yeah, the situation put me off guard because most of the time I’m dealing with guys my age and not players with the experience of Svengali laying it on hard to some guy who already knows the rules, but lacks the experience. Getting out of this one would have required some really solid shit, but this guy had his game together in many other ways as well. I’ve heard other lame lines, but I was unprepared for something like this.

He turns to the blonde and says “You know, I’ve found that you should always tell ugly women that they’re beautiful, and beutiful women that they’re ugly.” Then he looks at the blonde and says “…and you’re ugly.”. She laughs. It’s a perfectly structured 101 routine.

Another guy shows up and the conversation turns to how to attract women, but wisely the guy refuses to answer any questions. “I don’t know what you are talking about”… but you could tell that he didn’t want to walk down that path, but I bet he had his own ways (or at least did a good job making everyone think he was hiding something)… which was a wise move.

later on he said some other shit, but it wasn’t too long before he was getting the blonde to qualify herself to him. It was really interesting shit to watch. He played a lot of active disinterest, partly listening and partly taking more interest in making rolly cigarettes.

Anyway, I went to take a whiz and when I got back I saw them arm in arm leaving the place. When he could sense other guys moving in, he switched to isolation and left with her.

All in all, an interesting learning experience even when you lose to some other guy with more game. Especially the older guys because they try and reframe you into a father-son kind of situation (just like we reframe our targets into bratty little sister, or little girl frames) Plus actually having been a father gives his the experience to pull this shit off.

The thread goes on with some rather interesting discussion. I like the idea of the Older guy’s AMOG tactics with younger men. It kind of reminds me of the Regan debate where he was up against a much younger opponant who was trying to make Regan’s advanced age an issue, and Regan just replied “I’m not going to hold my opponant’s youth and inexperience against him.” What a way to tool the kiddies! lol.

Anyway, you can read the whole lively thread here.

A Little Tip on Kino…

March 5, 2004 by  
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I found an interesting thread in the Tactics board on mASF by a newbie called “Something My Wife Said About KINO.” Anyway, it lead to a rather interesting discussion on the basics, which I think the new guys could benefit from learning and the veterans could benefit from being reminded on.

punx writes:
No I didnt tell my wife to read this site… I only recently discovered this goldmine of information, and read some stuff. Particulary this KINO interests me and it brought back something my wife told me once.

She was going to a course, and she said this guy there kept touching here, like on the shoulder when he wanted to talk to her, and on her arms when they talked etc. She told me she found it really annoying and intrusive, and got angry about it and asked me what she should say to make him stop it.

I’m not sure if this guy has read this site and was trying this technique or something… but what went wrong for him? Would it be because he did it the wrong way or she had no interest in him?? Can anyone shed any light?

Now here’s ijjjjji’s excellent response to this topic…

ijjjjji writes:
Kino is not for getting a girl interested. Kino is for escalating things AFTER she is interested. Many guys make this mistake. Another mistake guys make is to overdo the kino when trying to escalate things.

Touching a girl when you talk to her introduces a dominant/submissive frame that is GREAT if there is sexual tension and very very bad if there are no tension.

Kino, of course, is the Kinesthetic approach — aka physical touching. It’s usually of a sexual nature, to get a woman in a state of approval and arousal. Touching and stroking the side of her arm, her elbows, stroking her hair, cheeks, stroking her hand or wrist, etc.

You can read the whole thread here

Neo-Rio on Japanese Girls

March 5, 2004 by  
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If you either live in Japan, or just dig Japanese girls, Neo-Rio has a rather interesting response on what it’s like to live and sarge in Japan.

Neo-Rio writes:
For me, LJBF (Let’s Just Be Friends) is something I can RARELY ever get in Japan. It took me a while to figure out that J-chicks wanted me to come on to them early in the piece (but only in the way they wanted) otherwise they would just next me. This kinda pushed me into a difficult spot… either I fuck them and then get dumped again… or I get nothing.

The thing that will get you a relationship here in Japan is if you fuck some random chick who hasn’t got laid enough (and is a bit desperate), and then give her the relationship she demands of you as your taking her panties off…. at least that’s how it panned out for me.

Desperate chicks with stalker qualities make good girlfriends…. it’s just that getting rid of them can be fucking hard on you. Training them even harder…. but if you undo their kinks, they can turn out to be good LTRs (Long Term Relationships).

They just require a fair bit of work.

***Boldface definitions added by me.

Neo-Rio continues…

Jchicks LOVE to feel as if they have an effect on the men they encounter…. it their payoff. They don’t understand that I screen for personality though… they simply assume that their looks will do the work. In any case, they want to feel as if they can do some seducing too.

Usually here, I’m only LJBFing chicks who get my back up by resisting advances.

(snip)

Being direct has gotten me laid, but only on a particular type of chick. Not all chicks here go for that (even though it excites them). LJBF and scoring from behind really has only worked for me on chicks who resist too much. You drop their status to LJBF and let them work their way back up. That way, they get to feel that they are doing the seducing on you… which makes them feel more comfortable. LJBF is only half the story though.

In any case, most of my lays have still come from being direct about sex at some point. (Well, shit, if I’m going to stick my dick in her… it’s going to be obvious to all concerned!)

And he finishes the post off with this…

Well, most of these chicks who resist are typically helpless romantics… and I am anything BUT!

What works is for them to feel that they are seducing you… and you being hard to get (in LJBF) the best way to seduce them is to make them feel like they are doing the seducing, is to slowly (over a period of time) make gradual moves on her, and if she ever stops you at some point, you can turn around and say “OH, for some reason I just felt like touching you here because it made me feel comfortable… but I don’t know why!”

In essence, this is actually direct… BUT you are not taking responsibility and saying “*I* want to fuck you”. Instead, you are blaming *something* for your acting the way you are… but you don’t know what it is that makes you feel the way you do around the woman.

Since the woman is self-referential, she will assume that SHE IS SEDUCTIVE…. and SHE IS THE CAUSE of your behaiour which gives her some excitement and satisfaction. It also challenges her to push for more from you in the LJBF frame you imposed on her.

This is also the goal of SS… to make the woman think that it was all HER IDEA.

Also, when chicks resist you here, by not giving out numbers, going with you, negging you, or generally being a pain, you can say “Stop hitting on me” or in Japanese “Gyaku-nanpa o yamete!”… followed by “Let’s just be friends” or ” Tada otomodachi ni naritai yo!” and they will STOP DEAD. Then you can ask again and get what you want. This works because women here DO actually try to pimp guys by playing hard to get (which I just can’t fucking stand!).

My routine with Japanese chicks goes a little like this:-
* Neutral opener
* Some basic EV to get her talking
* Once she’s talking, screen her
* Once she’s talked for long enough, start showing interest, but do not take responsibility for it. (as in the example above). I do this by working on body language first… gazing, eye contact, prolonged holding of hands. etc. Say for example “You know, for some reason, you seem kind of interesting. I don’t normally do this, but do you have a phone number? I’d like to see you again.”
* If she resists or makes some bullshit up to slow you down at this point, then I’ll drag out “Let’s Just be Friends” If she keeps being a pain, then it’s “Stop hitting on me!”
* If she goes along with it, then I will try to isolate her and ramp her buying temp.

Ah, good stuff from Neo-Rio, as always. You can read the whole, unedited post here.

The Gift of Missing You

March 4, 2004 by  
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So I was reading through the Girl Talk Message Boards today and found a rather interesting post, simply entitled “Boyfriends” with a rather disappointed looking Smiley Face next to the title. So I check it out and this is what I find.

i_am_o_so_sexy writes:
It was about one year after my boyfriend and I had met. His name’s Josh by the way. Anyways, he called me up about two months ago and he said “Howz my sexy gal doing tonight?” We started talking and then after sometime he said “Mel, I’m crazy for you. I would do anything for you” Without hesitation I joked-that was pretty obvious by the way you were on this body last night. He cut me off by saying”I want to call this off bye mel” I was startled and before I could say anything, he just hung up. Two months later my heart still yearns for him. I loved him dearly and the way he broke up was so uncalled for. I see him almost everyday at the coffee shop and he never even answers my hi. I feel awful. Any advice?

Maybe it was because I blogged about my buddy MasterClass today, but this was exactly what he’s talking about when he says “Give them the gift of missing you.” It’s like a massive form of Push/Pull that just wreaks havok on the female psyche, but it is SUCH an effective technique when done right, you can’t ignore it, especially if you’re looking to keep a girl interested in you.

Now, in the example above, I was reminded by an excellent post by the Great and Mighty Zan on a technique he uses that is appropriately titled “Zan’s Powerful Technique.” Here it is for all you routine junkies out here.

Zan writes:
I don’t know if this has been suggested before. I have read most of TFM and lots of the archive and don’t remember seeing anything like it, so I’m sorry if this is not new.

(Subconscious interjection: Move through life without apology, Zan!)

Wait a minute! I take that apology back.

I haven’t heard anyone mention something like this but IME, it is a very powerful technique. Here is the essence of it: Profess your undying affection and devotion to the girl – and then NEXT her.

When to use this? When you have seen her several times, you have had great rapport, but now it feels like she is starting to flake. If your thing with a girl was hot at one time (she tongued you down, lots of EV and talking, etc), but now you sense the whole thing is starting to drift towards LJBF land, and you have nothing else to lose, try this. It just might help to resurrect a moribund relationship with a girl.

Or if you really like a girl but you have done some stupid AFC moves (and who among us haven’t?) and she is starting to lose interest, try this.

I have used this before to devastating effect. It sounds very AFC at first blush, but hear me out. Notice the difference between these two paragraphs (which I just made up and are cheesy, but it’s just to illustrate what I mean):

AFC: I think about you day and night. You are so beautiful and I adore you. I can’t wait to see you again.

PUA: I think about you day and night. You are so beautiful and I adore you. But now I must go. You have touched me on a very deep level and it is more than I can bear. I am helpless before other women and I will only hurt you and myself. I can’t see you anymore.

Say the first phrase to a girl and she thinks “Ha ha, I have a yappy new lapdog. Buy me dinner!” Zero challenge; she has already won.

Say the second phrase and it throws her into a whirlwind of emotions. Her whole world becomes the cover of a romance novel. Her nurturing instinct kicks into high gear (after all, you are a victim of your desires and she must save you). She knows she is about to lose you. And she senses that you are about to run to the arms of ten other women for comfort.

It is very powerful. But the key is that she has to know that you really mean it. It has to be believable. You are *really* not going to see her anymore. And you should believe it too. After all, it was going cold already anyway and she was probably going to LJBF you.

And this is important – say it and then split. Get the hell out of Dodge. What I have found is that in a lot of cases, she will become obsessed with you. You will be bombarded with emails and phone calls from her. It is almost impossible for her to resist this challenge.

She almost certainly will try to coax you back. But only if you do this move while your rapport is still fairly strong and things are still going reasonably well between you two when you ditch her.

And when she contacts you, you must remain congruent and never let her feel she has you. From this point on. And the beauty is that you *can* go back to seeing her, but now you are the one with value. You are the prize. And you are the one that appears ready to leave at any moment. She WILL work to keep you.

And you have established the fact that you see other women and you can’t help it. And she can’t complain about this because you told her the way you are and that she might get hurt. But she still wants you anyway.

I pulled this on a girl recently. We were making out and I was kissing her neck and stuff and we were both feeling really good.

Using a poem from the manual (and slightly altering it), I said something like:

ME: (kissing her neck and talking very slowly) You know what I am, HB? I am your teardrop… I was conceived in your heart… I was born in your eyes… I live on your cheeks… and I will die on your lips.

Then while lightly kissing her lips, I said some variation of the adoration / Nexting phrase I mentioned earlier. And then I got up and took off.

This girl was almost certainly going to flake out on me, but now she calls me every night, wants to see me, understands that she is not exclusive, wants to save me, etc.

In fact, I have used this as a way to establish almost every one of my MLTRs.

Try it…

See what I mean by very powerful Push/Pull? And coming from a guy like Zan, who has a harem of women who all know about each other and who have threesomes with him reguarly, you can bet the bank this tactic is field tested and PUA approved.

But the really interesting thing here, and this is evidenced by the very first post from the girl, is that it is a very powerful emotional hook that can be created by men in any relationship. The Gift of Missing You is probably the most powerful tool any man can have in his relationship arsenal.

David Shade Manual Practice

March 4, 2004 by  
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Since I got onto the topic of Sex Game and in particular David Shade’s Manual, I figured I’d share this post from Sir Italian on how he goes about practicing the DSM techniques.

Sir Italian writes:
David Shade’s Manual Practice Guide

A few people have asked me how to best prepare ladies for the stuff that can be found in David Shade’s Manual. So here it is, the complete Study Guide for the Manual. :)

Day 0
Begin with the chapters in the second half of the book. Start with What Women Must Have. This will give you a good foundation for the next days.

Day 1
You have succesfully seduced a lady and are in a (M)LTR with her. Now you want to introduce her to new sexual experiences and have purchased David Shade’s Manual for that.

It is essential that you begin early in the relationship to establish a positive atmosphere where it’s encouraged to talk about sex, pleasure and fantasies. If you don’t, you’ll find it more awkward to change the tone later.

I recommend you start your experiments with the chapter The Deep Spot. In the afterglow of a good fuck, begin to try out the Deep Spot techniques and see how she reacts. This alone will introduce a whole new dimension to your sexual life.

Day 2
Continue with The Welcomed Method to show her the power of clitoral stimulation. While you’re at it, you can show her how to squirt (Learning to Squirt).

Day 3
If she is a lady with normal to high sex drive, she’ll be asking, pleading for more at this point. It’s time to add some kinkyness to the play. Time to Slip in the Back Door for some rough sex. In case this your constitution is weakened by now, read the chapter Viagra Field Test Report. :)

Day 4
You and her deserve some relaxing. Give her a massage (better yet, let her give you a massage). Then put the chapters The Seven Chakras and Hypnocharged Tantra into practice. Don’t worry about hypnosis yet, just follow the text in the book.

When she is well-oiled from the massage, take some pictures (see: Getting Her to Pose for Pics).

Day 5
I’ve found that some men are sceptical about the hypnosis parts of the book. But we’ve spent four days without touching that subject at all! She’ll never forget you for the pleasures you gave her. When you start to introduce her to hypnosis now, she’ll never leave you (well, no guarantee, you know how women are. :D )

Revisit But She Won’t Let Me Hypnotize Her, just to be prepared. Then memorize the concepts of the chapter A Complete Script and put it in practice with Her First Hypno-V.O.. Oh, and then the fun starts: The Ten Count to Orgasm.

Day 6
Let’s build on the previous chapter by giving her the ability for an Instant Orgasm on Demand. To add some variety buy the Remote Control Egg and take her to a restaurant with it.

Next time you’re away from her, call her on the phone and have her Thinkoff.

Day 7
With the Remote Control Egg, you have already looked into realizing some of her fantasies. We will expand on this now with Fantasies into Realities and The High-Paid Hooker. This will prepare her nicely for further threesomes.

Day 8
Get deeper into hypnosis with Time Distortion, Coming Continuously, and The One Hour Come. Train her on the Instant Orgasms you learned earlier. You’ll need it to show your lady’s abilities to your threesome partner later. :)

Day 9
Dating the Bisexual Woman and Threesomes will bring some fun for you, again. If she feels nasty after that, you can restore her virginity (She’s a Virgin Again).

Day 10
Turn the heat on with some Spanking for the bad girl that she is, then explore her Rape Fantasies. Then tell her you love her and make her come Like in a Dream.

That’s it! In ten days (of course, the days don’t need to be next to each other), you have shown her things she has never seen before and will never experience again with other men. She’ll be much closer to you now and you’ll notice that her sexual drive even increases. The more you let her be your dirty little slut, the more she’ll enjoy sex and pleasing you. Have fun!

My favorite thing from the David Shade manual is probably the chapter on Making a Girl Squirt. Not only is it a great technique, but I’ve also gotten a pretty good routine out of it. Girls who haven’t squirted before find it intriguing, and girls who have find it pretty hot. This is probably one of the best things I got out of the book (and the video he recommends you learn it from is a pretty good porno too, for all you WANKERS out there =)

Anyway, you can visit Sir Italian’s site here. And if you wanna buy David Shade’s Manual, check it out here.

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