Pull Da Hair!

May 14, 2004 by  
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Twentysix chimes in with a rather interesting tactic…

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An Indian Lair

May 14, 2004 by  
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Seems like someone got off their ass and started up a lair for our Indian bretheren. Whether it’s Native American or East Indian, he neglected to mention. I’m assuming it’s East Indian, since there seem to be an abundance of them looking to up their PUA skills.

You can join by subscribing to the link below:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/puas_india/

Seven Rules of Self-Respect

May 14, 2004 by  
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A guy who goes by the handle Laife wrote a post that I thought was interesting. Nothing earth-shattering or revolutionary, but I like how he put it.

Laife writes:
Here are Laife’s Seven Rules of Self-Respect as Man

Part I

1. do not let her isolate you from your friends

2. do not let her make you worry about her endlessly

3. do not let any one girl make you become so suggestible to them that you become subservient

4. do not conform to her pressures

5. do not suspend your individuality or critical judgment of her

6. do not depend totally on her

7. do not fear leaving

I will post Part II once this is digested.

Part II? So I guess there aren’t really just SEVEN rules, are there? lol.

You can read the original post here.

Lack of Thursday Updates

May 13, 2004 by  
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Hey Guys,

Sorry for the lack of updates yesterday. I was travelling. In order to make up for it, I’ll be sure to do an update on Saterday. =)

Some Thoughts

May 13, 2004 by  
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Since I’m headed to Europe soon, I thought I’d send some love over to the Croatian camp and devote a day to them and their crazy Eatern-European posts. The first one I wanna touch on today comes from BadBoy, about some random thoughts on game. Perhpas he’s trying to to work his way up to the “Spastic Ramblings” level? You decide.

Badboy writes:
Its funny how every situation, requires totally different model of picking up chicks.
For example, street is totally different then clubs are….
Where on street you must be fast, quick thinker,street doesnt allows making mistakes, and correcting them, one fuckup, and she goes away…
Thats why its so hard to do it.
Again, sarging social circle chicks, is again totally different then any other enviromant.
If you think….. I will buildattraction now, then later rapport(which is default model in seduction) it simply wont work!
Imagine group of friends, you join, and after 10 minutes, you start throwing C&F, ballbust, high attraction material….
She is ginna be WTF?? Is with this guy?? Why the fuck he is making fun of me.???
It wont work, you’ll just fuck up…. instead, in those situations go directly to rapport!!!
In a club it is ok, cause you must separate yourself from crowd….

Fw days ago, I had great example, how C&F stuff doesnt works for emotional chicks…I dont know why, but I was enjoying watching how some crazy stories, that would crack any phisical girl on eatrh, doesnt even hits emotional ones!!
Why is that??
Let me explain this, cause this is really important.
Emotional chicks(those one who search for LTR,), they want comfort, connection & trust from a guy..
They dont want some crazy, advantures guy…..
Those are chicks who search their soul-mates..
Now, if you go in with some crazy material, that conveys (good sex, advanture, confidence, ALPHAness, etc etc……Of course it wont hit her at all, those are not her values she is searching for.
She is searching for comfort, trust, guy that connects with her(soul-mate) who can understand her…etc
Those things you can get just with rapport!
Now, biggest problem is, when guys FLUFF, alot, and they dont go to each topic deep!
They just fluff,(to create rapport), but they jump from topic to topic too fast.
And from chicks point of view, you 2 are not connecting, you 2 are not soul-mates….
Rapport must be wide(lot of topics), and deep(connecting with her on each topic)

For physical chicks, its different…you must go C&F alot, but with minimun rapport. As soon she finds out you want LTR(by building lot of rapport), she will run away.
For them, you must create comfort & trust, but dont go for connection<------(3 parts of rapport)
Only way to create good rapport with physical chick is to give them good sex or be on her level of energy(high energy)… that means, drugs, alcohol, sex…. etc
But just give them good sex, they will always come back for more!!

Good sex=More sex. Makes sense. =)

You can read the whole post here.

Shark Video

May 13, 2004 by  
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If anyone is curious about checking out a video with Croatian PUA Shark going at it, there’s one up at BadBoy’s website:

www.playboylifestyle.net/video/I_like_you.wmv

There’s not much to learn from watching the video, since any sound is drowned out by the Eminem score.  But it is an interesting look at the Croatian nightlife (all be it, a short one).  I’d be interested in seeing more video like this with actual SOUND of the PUA doing his thing.

It’s not what you say…

May 13, 2004 by  
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Badboy wrote a post on his forums about how it’s not what you say, rather, it’s how you say it that’s important.

Badboy writes:
PU is not routines,PU is not canned material….
there is no way you’ll take somebody material, and be successfull as owner of material…
delivery of routines is much more important then just story-routine you say!!!
when I say delivery
I mean, control of your voice
how much you express emotions in your speech
that was what was my friend cortez was saying.
He knows how good I can bullshit, thats full interesting to listen, but again I say nothing,…
few weeks ago, I went to day2 with some girl, and talked abour croatian going to EU( politics) really most boring material…
But delivery was like I was telling how I jumped from airplane with parachite!! full OF EMOTIONS
now, here is homework for you:

take a DonJuan de Marco movie, and take a look Delivery he has!!!(I am on his level almost)
listen eminem songs…take a look how he colors his lyrics with emotions(hate-love)
watch James bond, his delivery and how cool he is, but again attracted…
work on your storytelling…..when you tell a story, it must be emotional trip for person who listen it!!!EMOTIONS, DETAILS…not boring facts!!!!
Use your fucking face to express emotions, do not play ‘stone face’….
chicks, they love emotions…

You know, I have mixed feelings about this post, especially after my recent rant about Knowing Your Material. I think Badboy brings up some good points, but is also dismissing some important things…

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Most Important Thing in PU

May 13, 2004 by  
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Everyone’s favorite Croatian Pick-Up Artist chimes in with his latest musings on what he considers the most important thing in PU… that elusive thing we like to call RAPPORT!

Badboy writes:
see lot of problems in this community, even with guys who are good with girls…

We all know how to get attraction using C&F…. and other methods… but main problem here is RAPPORT…thats where lay actually is….
Its really easy to get attraction it takes 5-10 minutes, but for a good rapport….. huh….up to 2 hours
If you dont create good rapport, if you pull chick home on high stage of rapport, you have lot of problems like LMR….which again takes few hours to solve…it knows to be fun sometimes
But main prolbem here with guys who already know how to attract, is not knowing wen to switch to rapport….
They continue to C&F her, even when chick already wants you….and then by ball busting her, he is sending wrong messages
like”you cant connect with this guy, he is too much fun”
”I like him, but he doesnt wants me… this is game for him”
”he doesnt want to connect with me”
here in community guys call this effect OVERGAMING HER…. hmmm…I agree and disagree…. just for example if you go to
porsche store to buy new carrera, and guy in store(seller) is making fun of you, ballbusting you…. and you are whole time asking rapport questions(how much it cost, how fast it is..etcetc) and guy is C&F you like(its too much for you…you dont have money for it)… ofcourse you’ll be there for 5-10 minutes, then you’ll leave cause guy doesnt want to sell you new carrera…no matter how much you wanted car..onend, you lose all attraction for that car, cause od that stupid seller in store
same thing happens when you are using C&F too much…she is thinking… wtf?? This guy doesnt wants me…fuck off.. next…
RAPPORT SWITCH is crutial to have…when you see she likes you, and she start to dig rapport with you, by asking questions….STOP all C&F, gp low energy, appear more interested into her, change your voice(deeper)….
And give her rapport and fuck her
Its really important to know how to create it.. you cant have smile on face, and appear disinterested(active disinterest) in rapport stage
Why?? Cause you appear like it you DONT give a fuck about connecting with her…thats WRONG..
Your energy much change 100% when you notice IOI, actually rapport indicator
IOI =indicator of interest for YOU= I want you = I want CONNECT with you = I WANT rapport with you
So when you see IOI’s that means she is sending signal that wants to connect with you…so when you see IOIs that means you need to go to RAPPORT stage.
It can be after 1min, after 5min, after 15… depense how good you are(confidence , delivery, stories and material you use..)
So tip of day…
When you notice IOI’s…change whole energy of PU, go low energy, more serious… create deep &wide rapport..

Silly rabbit. MINE’99 invented rapport back in LA’99.

But should you want to continue to blaspheme, you can check out the whole thread here.

Know Your Material!

May 12, 2004 by  
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Okay, listen up you humps! I gots me some words o’ wisdom for ya.

KNOW YOUR MATERIAL!

Seriously, guys, this is important stuff. I think the line between failure and success is crossed by guys who know their material as opposed to guys who just “wing” it.

When you think about it, this is true in all areas of life, right? Let’s say you want to be an accountant. you have to know math, right? You have to know all the different accounts there are in the business. You have to know how to keep records. You have to know everything there is to know about taxes. You have to know how to work a calculator and a computer. You gotta save reciepts. In short, you gotta know your shit! That can be said for ANY profession out there.

What if you guys spent as much time memorizing and rehersing the material you see here as you did memorizing and rehersing the skills you needed for your current profession. Do you think you’d start to see results?

So many guys out there are boring snubs. They have nothing interesting to say. A lot of what we study in thsi community is based off of what Naturals do. Guys who are naturally good with women are GREAT storytellers. They may not be aware of it, but they are. I had a buddy of mine in college who was a great story teller. And each time he’d tell a story, it’d get better and better, and more and more elaborate, until it was one of the greatest stories you ever heard.

That’s what we do. We learn stories to engage other people. Some people think it’s “fake” or “unnatural” to learn canned material to repeat to women. The thing is, Naturals do the EXACT SAME THING, they just aren’t aware they’re doing it whereas we are. That’s the only difference, really. But if you don’t know your material, you’re destined to keep floundering on your road to pink abundance.

So what material do you need to know? This is a question I get asked a lot. In my opinion, every PUA worth his salt needs to have 3 things:

1. A Structure
2. An Understanding of Concepts
3. Memorized Routines

I’ll deal with these in order. The first is structure. If you don’t know where to go in the interaction with the girl, you’re going to lose her. If you know what you have to do and where you want to take your target, you’re going to have a much greater chance of getting her there. The best structure, in my opinion, is currently The Mystery Method. It’s an excellent break-down of how interactions should be played.

The second thing is Concepts. Obviously, you need to know what you’re doing and why it works. All the structure in the world won’t get you anywhere if you can’t grasp the concepts you need to employ in order to get that structure to work. Personally, I think Swinggcat has some amazing concepts that when employed, are incredibly effective. Things like “Tension Loops,” “Intentional Undermining,” “Reality Sucking,” and “Meaning Coups” are quite effective techniques to understand.

If the Concepts are the broadstrokes, the Routines are the scalpel/percision strikes. Routines spring from Concepts, and are the things that will get you your desired result. For my money, Tyler Durden has some of the best routines and continues to come up with great ones on a daily basis. The problem with routines is you gotta MEMORIZE them, and if you don’t understand the purpose behind them, what they are meant to do, and where they fit in your overall interaction, they aren’t going to work.

So there you go. Three things you HAVE TO know if you want to get good at this stuff. Are there more? Of course there are. But I think those three things are the fundamentals you need to get down first if you wanna see progress fast.

It’s my opinion. Take it for what it’s worth. =)

One Fat Bastard

May 12, 2004 by  
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I was going through some old pictures of mine today, and I realized that i have gained some fuckin’ weight!  Seriously, I am FAT!  (And that’s sans "P-H" fellas).

Seriously.  I’m so fat I’m thinking of giving up walking all together and just slithering around like Jabba the Hut.  It would be more congruent with my outward appearance, I’ll tell you that much.  Nothing’s more depressing than seeing yourself as being overweight (you skinny guys probably don’t understand this, since your conception of "being fat" is relatively skewed compared to a truely fat man).  When your clothes don’t fit right, and you notice your buying more and more groceries, the ol’ self-esteem tends to hit the floor.  In fact, I’d go so far as to say it misses the floor all together and decends into the bottomless pit that is dispair.

The funny thing is, I’m not too depressed about it or anything.  I mean, I’ve been fat before.  I’m talking FAT!  As in 300 lbs. of Orca Fat.  And back when I didn’t know what to do with women, that was a rough ball to juggle.  I used to think that only thin guys got the chicks, because it just wasn’t in my reality that fat people were considered attractive.

But being the fat bastard I am, and having the ability to go out and STILL get women into me (at least to a certain point.  I’m still learning, after all =) is quite a different experience from the good (or were they bad?) old days of being fat AND miserable instead of just fat.

I think that men, due to society and whatnot, tend to put too much importance on their appearances.  I mean, sure, it’s important to look good.  But so many guys look at being fat as something that REPELS people, when the reality is that for the most part, women don’t seem to mind it.

One of my best friends of all time is a 300 pound guy who’s not much better looking that I am (in fact, I’d rate myself higher on the looks scale, but who am I to judge?) and this guy gets TONS of sex from incredibly hot women.  Why?  He’s not famous.  He’s not rich.  But the dude is fucking FUNNY as hell!  He can make anyone laugh.  And when girls laugh, and they realize they’re having a good time, they’re going to be into you.  My friend’s real strength comes from being able to amp up the sexual tension and actually make a move on the girl (something which most guys can’t do).

So in short, I think that if you have a great personality, and aren’t afraid to get sexual with a woman, you’re going to have a degree of success that is fairly consistent, no matter what you look like.  The thing is, a lot of guys I meet in this community are seriously lacking in the "personality" department.

So how do you develop a great personality?  Well, that’s for another blog entry.  But most of it is being someone who has something to talk about that is interesting.  I think Swinggcat’s concept of "Open Loops" and "Tension Loops" is gold for this.

Anyway, I’m rambling.  To sum things up:  I’m fat.  Gotta get motivated to lose the weight, because when I do, I feel so much better physically.  Anyone got any tips for us porkers out there who wanna carve a little bacon off?

The Pitfalls of Single Motherhood

May 12, 2004 by  
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Sexkitten had a post up on her blog sending a special Mother’s Day Shout-Out to all the Single Moms out there.

Sexkitten writes:
SINGLE MOTHERS LOOKING FOR LOVE
I want to send out a special mother’s day wish to all the mothers in the world. And a super shout out the the single moms. It’s hard enough to be single and looking for love, but when you’re a single mom it’s especially difficult. Single moms have all kinds of new concerns to deal with. Should we allow the man that we’re dating to sleep over? If so, do we wake him up to leave before the kid(s) wake up? Should we even introduce our child/children to the men we date unless the relationship has moved beyond the dating stage? But before there’s even a date, we have to worry about finding good and afforadable babysitters. Everything has to be planned down to the last minute. Sometimes we’re late for our date, sometimes we can’t make it at all. Sometimes the dress don’t fit anymore.

The kid’s well being comes first, but we also need time to ourselves, and yes, we have to keep the passion burning, keep the dreams alive never losing touch with who we are. We are all individuals with individual needs and desires and those needs and desires matter.

You know, I’ve dated a few single moms in my time, and all I can say to you guys out there is DON’T DO IT!  I don’t care how hot or special they may be, IMHO, Single Mothers are simply more trouble than they’re worth.

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A Map for Seduction

May 12, 2004 by  
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Sir Italian has a great little graphic up on his site that maps out a cognitive model for seduction. It’s pretty neat, and definitely worth checking out. You can view it here.

What ANNOYS Women, and What ATTRACTS Them

May 11, 2004 by  
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David DeAngelo, everyone’s favorite Dating Guru, put out a new newsletter which I thought was pretty good.  It’s about the wussy behavior men exhibit that drive women away, and what you can do to turn the tables and make yourself more attractive to them.

Pretty basic stuff, but solid none the less.  If you’re just starting out with this stuff, I’d say this is a must read.  =)

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Some Major Mark Quotes

May 11, 2004 by  
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Okay, since I did this with Rick H, I may as well do this with the good Major, since he had a lot of great quotes at the recent Double Your Dating Masters Seminar as well.

“At any given time, you can feel any emotion you want.”
“In trance, everything is real.”
“You only have one limiting belief.  And it’s that you think there are things called ‘limiting beliefs.’”
“The most dangerous thing for most men is a girl.”
“It only takes you one time to learn something.”
“Every time you jerk off, you’re having sex with a man.”
“Don’t practice failing.  Practice success.”
“Whatever experience you have goes into your belief system.”
“All women wanna be fucked.  Women expect you to show up, charm them, and fuck them.”
“Women will change and do anything in life to experience what they want.”
“If you’re not in control of yourself, how can you be in control of others?”
“You can do whatever you want, nobody cares what you do.”

There you go.  Words of wisdom from everyone’s favorite seduction-related hypnotherapist.  If you want to find out more about Major Mark, check out his website at www.trucor.com.

A Field-Dash-Report!

May 11, 2004 by  
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Well, well, it looks like Twentysix finally got around to posting a field report after a stint of relative silence from mASF. Not only that, but the field report is $$$ with a capital $! Definitely one of the best I’ve read in a while. So sit back, relax, and take a gander at the smooth musings of the TWO-DASH-SIX!

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