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Hey everyone,

Don’t forget to tune into the Bootycast tonight at 6 pm Pacific, 9 pm Eastern.  Me, AFC Adam, and Amanda Lyons are back for a full hour of seduction power as we discuss timely community-related topics!

Remember to come join us for the live stream!  You can listen in while we’re recording the show, participate in our chat room, and even call into the show and get advice from me, Adam, and Amanda.  We’ve been having a great time taking callers on the show, and we’d encourage all of you to come by and participate if you can.

And if you can’t, no worries!  Just check out the replays available after the show.  You can also subscribe to us via iTunes.

Tonight, we’ll be welcoming a special guest to the podcast – El Topo!

All you need to do is go to our show page while the show is being streamed tonight here:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/bootycast

Just check out the “current episode” to participate in the chat and listen to the show live.  We DO monitor the chat room during the show.

And you can call into the show toll-free here:

1-877-806-7458

I hope you all decide to come by and join us this evening and participate in the podcast!

Office Pick-Up Tips

A poster by the name of Dastardly Fox posted a question on the mASF boards about how to pick up a girl at his office.

Dastardly Fox writes:
There is a super hot blonde (hands down 10 and never uses makeup) here at my firm, we’ve had several exchanges and she acts like a school girl and gets nervous when we talk (good nervous, clearly attracted to me) and I’m looking for good ways that would let me lead this outside the office for the next stage.  One catch it’s a law firm so I need to keep the office Convo light and fun (don’t Need harassment on my resume)

Oh and I’m not worried about a workplace romance going sour, she’s extremely shy (very smart book work lawyer) im discrete and the firm is huge, so we hardly run into each other and even work on the same floor.  My boy in the kitchen tells me that I’m hot shit because the women talk about me, and I’m attractive so no issues here, its all in the delivery and reason I think. the only catch is that I’m going to have to go out of my way to initiate this, or wait till the next hall encounter… Ideas? Email, phone call, wait for our next hall chat, or walk to her office and just ask? I don’t normally date at work so this is new, but she is by far the finest woman I’ve seen since the last fine woman I saw.

Okay, so when it comes to picking up women at the office/workplace, here are some of Thundercat’s tips…

First of all, try and not present yourself as a “co-worker.”  Being a “co-worker” can scare off women from dating you.  You need to come off as being an “outsider.”  Someone who just happens to work at the same place.  So talking about stuff that doesn’t involve work is a must!

Second, organize out-of-office events that get people to hang out with you in a non-work setting.  In Fox’s case, he could organize a meeting at a nearby bar or restaurant after work, and invite the girl he likes to join him there.  And since there is a group of co-workers meeting, it doesn’t feel like a high-intensity date-type-thingie.

Third, connect with her as much as possible.  Friend her on Facebook, text her if you have her number, email with her, IM, etc.  Do anything possible to chat her up when you’re not in direct contact with her.  This allows you to do all the attraction building stuff you need to.

Fourth, get her to meet you outside the office/workplace where it’s just the two of you.  Grabbing dinner, drinks, whatever.

Finally, be prepared for any objections she may have to dating a co-worker.  Try and anticipate what problems she might have and come up with responses to them BEFORE they arise.

Most people spend like 70% of their day at work, so its natural to want to date out of the workplace.  Just be prepared to handle the consequences if things don’t turn out well!  I personally think it’s worth the risk, but just realize that if a woman isn’t interested, it’s probably not a good idea to pursue it like you would with a woman you don’t work with.

Girl Game

Sinn had (kinda) an interesting post up on his blog about “Girl Game,” or the kind of game women run on men.

Sinn writes:
I’ve been having some crazy success lately which has led me to having to wash my sheets every day and the following little nugget of information I want to share with you today.

Girls have lines and “routines” they run too.

I started to notice this before I left AZ, but since I’ve moved it’s become even more noticeable. In fact I can now tell I’m going to end up hooking up with a girl as soon as they start some of they’re “girl game” as I like to call it.

I met a Yoga teacher in Barnes and Noble Sunday who while we were walking around told me she had to be in love to have sex with someone(Something I’d heard before) 6 hours later she was filming herself masturbating and various other things unfit for print.

My favorite example of this is when girls try to push the whole ” I date like a guy” thing. Recently this very cute little cocktail waitress named Sam tried to tell me she doesn’t date and plays guys. Literally a week later she was calling me every day trying to hangout and getting super clingy. Since I’ve moved I’ve heard variations of this from an Abercrombie and Fitch manager and a makeup artist. If a girl tells you she dates like a guy or is a player, run because she’s clingy.

I’ve done the research for you.

The point is, much as we are trying to control our image in the girl’s mind to make ourselves seem fun, confident, masculine and interesting. She is trying to do the same thing, and chances are both of us are misrepresenting ourselves.

Because as Chris Rock once said when you meet somebody of the opposite sex for the first time, you’re not actually meeting them, you’re meeting their representative.

How do you deal with this?

With the best advice I ever received about women (from my sister ironically enough, love you Gemma!) Never take anything a woman is saying seriously. Especially if you just met her.

Um, I’m not sure about that.  I mean, if a girl says “Get away from me you creepy Edie Munster-looking troll,” I’m pretty sure you could take that seriously.  lol.

But, that doesn’t bely Sinn’s main point here, which is lots of women do have a “system” by which they like to try and attract men.  It’s probably not as well thought out and theorized about as what we do in our little community here, but it does exist, and lots of women know how to use their sexuality to string men along as much as they want. Read more

The Most Interesting Man In The World – On Wingmen…

Simple.  To the point.  No wonder this guy is the most interesting man in the world…

Stay classy…

Asian PUA Bootcamp Behind-The-Scenes Video: Dealing With AMOGs

Let’s face it – we all love Asian PUAs.  They almost have their own “culture” within the seduction community.  But now, we’ve got special “behind the scenes” video from Asian Pick-Up Bootcamps from around the world being leaked onto the internet.  In this first video, we see how Asian PUAs deal with AMOGs.  It’s quite an eye opening experience, for sure!

Feeling Like You’re Not Good Looking Enough

Aum over on the attraction forums shared this heart-wrenching (and all too familiar) post…

Aum writes:
when i go to a club. I always get intimidated by the other guys in the club who are lot taller, well built and dress a lot better than me. When i see girls, i get this feeling of inadequacy. I really hate myself because of this. I am working out really hard every day and trying to dress better but never feel good enof. Any advice on chaning my perspective on this? please help!!! this is kiiling me.

I feel ya bro.  Speaking as an overweight, bald, ugly slob myself, I know all too well what it feels like to walk into a club and see all these other guys who are way better looking than you are.  Heck, even my friends who I go out with tend to be better looking than me!  lol.

But here’s the thing… Read more

Should You Meet A Girl At Her Place For A First Date?

Ali123, over on the Attraction Forums, had an interesting question about the wisdom concerning meeting women at their places for a date.

Ali123 writes:
Ok I’ve been doing this online gaming for a year or two but only inthe last 2-3 months has my game really improved and in fact I seem to be on a bit of a roll.

Do you guys think its a bad idea if a girl invites you over to her place for the first time you meet. In the last month been to 5 girls places as a first date/meet, I’ve slept with 3 of them. The other two didnt work out and didnt want to do anything. Of those two one ignored me and the other said she didnt want to see me again as she didnt fancy me. In fairness 3/5 isnt too bad.

But do you think its a bad environment to meet a girl? Are you more likely to fuck her if you meet her in a bar close to her place and get her to go back to hers? When you meet at their place its tough because you have to make chit chat etc and then make a move and no alcohol to help you!

Finally I was chatting to an HB7/8 on POF chat messenger, and shes told me to come to her place when I finish work on Sunday at 3am!!! Shes said her flatmates away, and I joked she’d be asleep, she had work the next day, and only if she can make a good cup of tea. But she continued to insist. Shes a hot girl and I dunno if I should meet her when I wont be looking my best. Surely its better to go for a drink and get a little tipsy?

Thoughts guys?

Contrary to popular belief, you DO NOT need to get a girl slightly drunk/tipsy before you make your move, my dear Ali123.  So I wouldn’t even worry about that.

Here’s the thing…

I think a girl who allows a guy she just met to come over to her place is a definite sign that she’s open to hooking up, as your 3 out of 5 ratio should tell you.  The way I like to work things, is I’ll invite a girl to my place when we have plans to go out, let her in, allow her a bit of time to become comfortable with my surroundings, then we go out to dinner or whatever.  So by the time the night is winding down, if I ask her to come back to my place, it won’t be that intimidating for her.

If a girl invites you to HER place, she already feels comfortable with the environment, so its much easier to hook up with her there.  At that point, the only thing you have to work on is comfort/rapport building and attraction, since the logistics are already in your favor.  And let’s face it, if a girl you’ve just met is allowing you into her place on a first date, she’s open to sleeping with you.  So no, I personally don’t think going to a girl’s place for a first date is a bad thing.

Now, if she doesn’t want to LEAVE her place and go out, that does seem a bit odd, since that isn’t really a “date” date.  When you go over to her place, you can ask her if she’d like to go grab a drink or a bite to eat somewhere close by, and then go back to her place afterward, but if she just wants to stay in, then maybe she is just looking for sex.  You have to treat each situation as it comes up, since some girls might just be boring sticks-in-the-mud and others might be looking for some hanky-panky.

But if given the opportunity, I will always accept an invitation to go to the girl’s place.  Yes, you can’t always control the environment – roommates, poor living conditions, etc. – but sometimes it can be better logistically.

Study Finds Ben More Attracted To Waists Than Boobs

Yet more horny scientists with too much time on their hands…

Researchers found a woman having an “hourglass” shaped figure was more important for a man than her breast size or facial features.

They also discovered that men take a split second to decide if a member of the opposite sex is attractive.

They calculated that a “waist-to-hip ratio” of 0.7, or a waist measuring 70 per cent of the hip circumference, was the “perfect” size.

Women with “hourglass” figures such as Marilyn Monroe, Jessica Alba, the Hollywood actress and Alessandra Ambrosio, the Victoria’s Secret model, were found to posses the “perfect” body.

Scientists concluded that such a small ratio was considered good for a woman’s health and resulted in high fertility.

Dr Barnaby Dixson, a New Zealand anthropologist, studied what different sexes found attractive throughout history.

In his study, a group of volunteers were shown various pictures of a woman, where her hips, bust, and waist were digitally altered.

He then asked them to rate the image for attractiveness and while they studied the photos used infra-red cameras to track their eyes.

Despite most men being drawn initially to the woman’s cleavage, it was her hips and waist that were in fact what they found most attractive.

“Men rated images with an hourglass shape and a slim waist … as most attractive, irrespective of breast size,” said Dr Dixson, from Victoria University of Wellington.

You can read the whole article here.  But it is interesting how most guys will go for a woman with a “nice body” but a sub-par face over a woman with a pretty f ace and a horrible body.  In the article, they make it a point to say “humans simply do not mate randomly.”  And that’s true.  We all have certain things we prefer in a mate.  Guess it just comes down to personal taste in the end.

Kezia Noble Is Stalking Thundercat

So it’s no secret I’ve been poking a bit of fun at “the world’s leading female pick up instructor” lately.  But apparently, Kezia has seen our video and listened to the podcasts and has become a fan of the Lair (naturally!).  But last night after we recorded our unfortunate episode of the Bootycast (because the audio of Adam and I was cutting out constantly), I get a call from a number I don’t recognize.

So I do what I normally do, which is ignore the number.  Sorry, if you’re not already in my phone, I’m not picking up!  (Standard PUA call screening.)

Then, I start getting text messaged by the same number.  And guess what?  It’s Kezia Noble!  Somehow, she stalked me down and got my number and started texting me randomly.  Honestly, I don’t know whether to be flattered or frightened at this point.  But here was the text message exchange:

Kezia:  U buy me shoes? 

Thundercat:  LoL.  Who is this?

Kezia:  The wonderful kezia.  U buy my shoes?

Thundercat:  Wow.  I feel honored to be stalked by such a public figure.  LoL

Kezia:  Ur welcome.  Now buy me shoes!

Thundercat:  Buy ur own shoes.  We aint sleepin together!  LoL

Kezia:  Oh well worth a try!  Im in l.a, and will be back in september for the pua summit.  Hope to c u then mr thunder cat

Thundercat:  Yeah, I’ll probably be there.  Large and in charge.

Kezia:  So i expect a warm reception from my 2 greatest fans adam and amanda

Thundercat:  You should ask them to buy u shoes then. 

Kezia:  Agreed

So yeah, now the world’s leading female pick up instructor (hence forth known as WLFPUI, or WOLFPIE) is obsessed with me and stalking me via text message.  Honestly, she’s probably the hottest stalker I’ve ever had, but still… should I be afraid? 

The Bootycast Episode 11 – Technical Difficulties

Thanks to everyone who tried to check out the podcast last night.  Unfortunately, it seems Blog Talk Radio had some technical issues so the show didn’t stream live.  D’oh.

Plus, for some reason Skype was cutting in-and-out the whole show, so the brilliant commentary by Adam and myself is kinda hard to hear.  It’s too bad because we covered a lot of good stuff, but yeah, you guys may want to skip this episode because the constant voice dropping gets annoying after a while.  (Seriously, it’s like the show was brought to you by AT&T or something.)

We did have 30 callers on the line last night though, so I know at least some of you got to listen in!  We’re working on making it so the next episode has better call quality.  We’re still figuring out the new system as we go.

In this episode of the Bootycast:

• We talk about RJ Hating on AFC Adam and why they are no longer Facebook friends.
• We discuss how much Adam and I love the Jews.
• We talk about how most of the top PUAs are Jewish.
• We talk about Kezia Noble listening to the podcast and hating on us on Facebook.
• We discuss the upcoming Asian PUA Bootcamp behind-the-scenes video.
• We talk about why we think Asian guys lust after white women.
• We interview a real-life Asian about what Asian men really want.
• We take calls and dish out advice.
• Amanda shares with us interesting sex factoids from Cosmopolitan magazine.
• And more!

If you want to listen to the show, you can do so by going to our show page by clicking here.

Ross Jeffries Loses His Mind… Have Video Proof

Hat tip to Thanh Bonsai over on the Love Systems Instructor’s blogs for posting video proof that Ross Jeffries has lost his mind.

Now, obviously this is not Ross Jeffries.  You can tell that by the fact that he is smiling almost the entire time.  If the real Ross Jeffries ever smiled this much his face would melt off Raiders Of The Lost Arc style.  Plus, he looks like he’s having fun.  RJ hates fun.  Also, this video is bringing joy to thousands of people.  Ross would never do anything remotely like that.

Cajun – Advanced Body Language

Whenever students ask me how I learned to attract women with such ease I always say the same thing: Body language. I then recite a quote, something that was told to me a long time ago:

Everything you’ll ever need to learn about women, you can learn from Rock n roll.

A very wise man once told me this and I’m sure most of my students are just as confused as I was when I first heard it, but now several years (and many women) later I can whole-heartedly agree, it’s absolutely true.

One of the by-products of committing yourself to the study of attraction and how it works is that you start noticing things that you never noticed before. A lot of us instructors refer to this as ‘seeing the matrix’ and it basically amounts to identifying and understanding the cause and effect of the most subtle communications; body language . It becomes somewhat of a sixth sense and it’s exceptionally difficult to turn off, especially if you’re at all an analytical person (and let’s face it, you kind of have to be if you want to get good at this stuff) This is why us instructors are so proficient at breaking down what students did right or wrong in a set simply by casually observing them. We can see the matrix.

I realized a long time ago that the secret to attraction isn’t in what you say, it’s in how you carry yourself; your presence, something controlled almost entirely by your body language . I knew that if I was to master the art of attraction, I would need to master the art of body language . Remembering the words of wisdom I had been told all those years ago, I turned to rock n roll.

I began sifting through literally hundreds of videos documenting performances of the most prolific and sexually charged rock icons in music history. I used my ‘sixth sense’ to meticulously analyze every thing they did. I studied how they walked, how they danced, their facial expressions, even how they stood still! I started to notice a pattern, there were three qualities that nearly every sex symbol in the history of rock n roll all had in common, and it had nothing to do with their music or looks.

The first quality I recognized was immediate; sexual presence. Most of the musicians elicited this through their dancing, which wasn’t that useful since I obviously couldn’t be dancing all the time. The absolute best example of sexual presence I could find was Jim Morrison simply because he elicited tremendous sexual presence by doing very little. I hadn’t watched any videos of him performing since I was a teenager and seeing it again with my ‘sixth sense’ absolutely blew my mind. He moved slowly, purposefully, as if to poeticize his presence. Everything seemed so calculated. After referencing what he did with a number of other sexual icons, I quickly made a list:

Advanced body language – Sexual Presence

1. Less is more.

• Move only when you need to, and react with delay.
• Slow down your movements, as if moving underwater.
• Movement should be bold, sporadic and purposeful.

2. Poeticize your presence.

• Absolutely believe that you are a spectacle to be witnessed.
• Draw attention to your every move with strong eye contact, and delayed responses.
• Always appear physically more comfortable than anyone else in the group. Lean back when standing, angle back and drape your arms when sitting.
• Your demeanor should be carefree, content; you do not want or need anything.

3. Emphasize your sexuality

• Relax your eyes. Look at Jim Morrison, Phil Lynott or even Marilyn Monroe, their eyes all carry the same look, model it.
• Slightly Purse your lips, as if you’re about to kiss them.
• Slightly tilt your head up and look down when speaking.
• Slowly study women’s faces during interaction, glance at lips periodically.
• Keep an inquisitory look of mild arousal on your face.

I began modeling my body language based on this list and the results were epic. This is the reason I stopped using routines , I no longer needed them. Everything they communicated I could now communicate with my body. Even openers started to become unnecessary as women were now opening ME more than ever, based simply on the way I stood and the look on my face. Attraction went from slowly earned to instantaneous, but there were still some gaps…

The hottest women, although attracted, would still shit test me. Not only that, but AMOGs started to become more of a problem as I was now getting a tremendous amount of female attention. This is where the second quality I found amongst sexual rock icons came in handy, and allowed me to smoothly and effortlessly diffuse any shit test or amog attempt that was thrown at me.

Stay tuned for part 2 of the article where I go over the second quality: Restraint.

Johnny Wolf Reveals The Secret-Happy-Fun-Button Spot…

I’m not sure how accurate this is, but what the heck?  It can’t hurt to try…

Johnny Wolf writes:
A lot of guys have been asking me about the so called “Secret Kino Spot Technique” where you can massage it on a girl and get your instantly turned on because it is somehow connected to her clit.

First, I’ll explain what the Secret Kino Spot is, then I’ll tell you where the Real Secret Kino Spot is.

Imagine there is another green dot on the other side. The secret kino spot is not the back dimples as some people think, it’s on the sides of the hips. Supposedly you can rub them while dancing with a girl to turn her on. This is unproven however, it might work, you might as well try it for yourself. Massaging a girl always works to build sexual comfort and to turn her on.

The Real Secret Kino Spot according to Johnny Wolf

This one is proven, as I’ve done it with enough girls to know that it works. I’ve also asked them after we’ve had sex how it feels when I rub them there and they love the feeling and says it makes them horny.

It’s not quite her pussy, so you get as much LMR (Last Minute Resistance) from rubbing her Real Secret Kino Spot as you would if you tried rubbing her pussy or her clit, which works much better if you can get that far. So if you don’t want to take the big jump to get her pants off and rub her clit, you can instead, keep her clothes on and rub her Real Secret Kino Spot, the Wolf Spot as I like to call it or even just firms press down on the spot with your thumbs which I do while I’m kissing her.

The Wolf-Spot Kiss using the Secret Kino Spot:

While holding a girl by her hips and kissing her, I place my thumbs on her two wolf spots, and as the kiss gets more passionate I gently start adding pressure and pushing down on the two points while we kiss. This turns her on and sends shivers down to her pussy while you kiss her.

The Wolf-Spot Massage:

I actually learned this technique while getting massages in Thailand. Some of the girls there will try to test to see if you want a happy ending by pushing on your wolf-spots to see if you get a hard on. They do this so they don’t offend you by touching your dick if you’re not into it. It’s a sneaky tactic that you can use on girls. When I give girls massages, I will massage their back, their legs, and then have them flip over to massage their arms and their thighs. Then I will locate their wolf spot, lean down and start applying pressure slowly. The trick is, the slower you press down the better it feels and the deeper it can go. But you MUST release twice as slow as you originally pressed for it to work.

Self-Practice locating the Wolf Spot:

You can practice on yourself to find where the wolf-spot is. Take your thumbs and feel for the spot about one and a half inches down from where your stomach fold ends,near the “V” shaped mound of soft flesh above your penis. Slowly rub around until you think you found it, and then slowly push down on it. Make sure you push VERY slowly, and release TWICE as SLOW as you pressed down.

You should feel a tingly sensation where if you need to pee, will make you want to pee even more. The deeper you push down, the more the sensation will be, and you will continue to feel it down there for a few minutes after you release.

Good luck with this, it has gotten me laid more than a few times.

Warm Regards,

Johnny Wolf
www.TheSocialSecrets.com

One note:  I refuse to call this the “Wolf Spot.”  I think we should coin the term “Secret-Happy-Fun-Button” spot.  Or SHFB for short.  Any other ideas for names?

Bootycast Episode Live – TONIGHT! 8/25/10

Hey everyone,

Don’t forget to tune into the Bootycast tonight at 6 pm Pacific, 9 pm Eastern.  Me, AFC Adam, and Amanda Lyons are back for a full hour of seduction power as we discuss timely community-related topics!

Remember to come join us for the live stream!  You can listen in while we’re recording the show, participate in our chat room, and even call into the show and get advice from me, Adam, and Amanda.  We’ve been having a great time taking callers on the show, and we’d encourage all of you to come by and participate if you can.

And if you can’t, no worries!  Just check out the replays available after the show.  You can also subscribe to us via iTunes.

All you need to do is go to our show page while the show is being streamed tonight here:

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/bootycast

Just check out the “current episode” to participate in the chat and listen to the show live.  We DO monitor the chat room during the show.

And you can call into the show toll-free here:

1-877-806-7458

I hope you all decide to come by and join us this evening and participate in the podcast!

How Women Trick Men Into Thinking They’re Good Looking

This video has been making the rounds on the internet, and though it’s a bit tongue-and-cheek funny, she actually pretty much nails the whole “stripper/slut” method of how women doll themselves up into making guys think they’re hotter than they really are.

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