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You know, dealing with people in the community is always a fun and exciting prospect, because you really get to learn who some people really are.  One of the guys I haven’t yet met in person, but have had some interactions with, is Wayne "Juggler" Elise.

I’ve never had a "bad" experience with Juggler.  In fact, I have a lot of respect for the guy’s teachings.  My friend Alleycat, who I had cover the Austin PUA summit a few years back, really liked Juggler when he met him down there.

But I have heard things from other people about Juggler that aren’t so nice.  Things from more than one source that are making me see some sort of pattern.

I began thinking about this when I saw this post over on Donovan’s blog:

We all want to know – what happened with Charisma Arts?
Without going into specifics, the relationship just wasn’t working out.
But I have respect for what they teach and I think the guys who work
there are amazing. The Juggler Method is a powerful thing, and it was
fun to help take that company from two guys in a coffee shop into the
worldwide success that it is today.

The above is an excerpt from an interview Donovan did with Christian Hudson, one of the guys who started Charisma Arts with Juggler.  I’ve deal with Christian off and on over the years, mostly in the respect that they wanted me to do promotions for Juggler on this site and other stuff.  He always seemed like a good guy, but he hinted to me more than once that Juggler was a difficult guy to work with.

Juggler has always been someone who seems to "March to his own drummer."  I’ve even heard he’s had a much unpublicized feuds with some very prominent "gurus" in the field of dating and seduction, mostly because he reportedly has quite a big ego about himself.

Not that there’s anything new with a pickup guru having an ego.  But apparently Juggler’s one to hold a grudge as well.

Now that I’ve learned Christian is gone, I’m wondering about the future of Charisma Arts.  Will it continue to be a success?  Can Juggler really carry a business on his own?  Who knows?  Juggler being a bit of an egotist doesn’t reflect on his ability to teach others how to succeed with chicks.  But I’m wondering just who else he may piss off while doing so.

How To Date Women At Work

Someone over on the mASF forums had a question about dating women in the workplace, so I thought I’d open my big mouth and chime in about this subject.

I think every man out there is well aware of all the problems that go with picking women up at work.  As if sexual harrassment wasn’t enough, you now have "sexual intimidation" going on.  (Whatever the hell THAT means!)

Having worked in an office environment myself, I definitely know the plight of many men out there who work 40+ hours a week at their jobs.  So many guys spend so much time at work, and by the time they get home they’re too tired to go out or they need to get MORE work done, so it becomes a real issue of:  work is the only logical place to meet people.

That said, workplace romances aren’t uncommon.  Lots of couples meet through work.  The very fact that two people are working at the same place creates a commonality that can help build rapport and open an avenue to attraction.

Back when I was in an office, one of my office-mates was well known as the "Office Dater."  He’d basically only date women who worked at the company, and he was very good at it.  I’ll share the tips I learned from him to effectively date at the workplace…

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Supercharging Your Self-Esteem

A guy named Dreamcruiser over on mASF had a nice little post about how to rev up your state before you go out to da club.

Dreamcruiser writes:
Quite some time ago, when we started to frequently go out at night with friends, we had a special ritual to boost our state and bring everyone in the right party mood.

This was mainly because back then, none of us had much money and warming up with drinks in bars and clubs was too expensive.

So we all gathered at one of our friends place about an hour before going out. Each of us had a special video tape, with music videos and funny stuff on it, recorded for the sole purpose of getting everyone in a good state.

During the weekdays, we recorded the latest clubbing music videos (usually with loads of hot girls), short funny clips of various comedys, funny outtakes and even short clips of wrestling matches. Just everything that was really funny or exciting. Then on the weekend evenings, when we met at my friends place, we sat together with one or two beers and watched all the videos at full volume on his big ass TV. We laughed our ass off to the funny clips and the latest hot music videos got us in dancing mood. The combination of all your good friends having fun together, watching funny stuff and hot girls, listening to good music and enjoying a beer got us in god mode immediately.

When we started to feel like singing along with each song and the athmosphere was boiling, we rushed to the biggest club in town as fast as possible. No need to tell you we entered the scene as if the whole club fuckin belonged to us.

There were four large cages around the dancefloor with all the HBs dancing inside, while all AFCs were just standing around drooling. As soon as we got there, everyone of us stormed into one of the cages and had fun with the girls there. We were just so POWERED UP and state boosted, that we didn’t care for a second about anything but having fun and enjoying the moment.

There’s always been a lot of talk about state boosting methods in the community. But letters you read to yourself in front of the mirror to make you believe you are the shit are just not working as effectively as this method back then was.

So my advice is: dig out this secret weapon and use it to rock your place like a tornado. We’re in the digital age now, that makes it a lot easier to put together awesome state booster compilations on CD, DVD or even your harddrive.

Here’s what to do:

1.) Collect your favorite (party) music videos. For me this is usually house-music and some hiphop (usually hot girls in the videos also), but just choose what you like. Important: no calm, depressing or boring stuff. Also, you want to avoid that hardcore heavy metal stuff that makes you angry and aggressive. Just go for cool party music. And did i mention that lots of hot asses in the videos never hurt, haha.

2.) Collect some funny clips. Youtube style. Just short amateur clips you can find anywhere on the net – but only the best. They should make you and your friends laugh at it over and over again.

3.) If possible, put together some short movies clips and/or pictures of you and your friends having fun. Stuff that you recorded during your nights out, during the hollidays or other times where you just had a really good time.

4.) Collect some hot party movies, like from spring break or any other big party where everyone is just feeling perfect.

Then just drop all of this on a cd or dvd. Mix up the music videos with the party movies, drop in some funny clips here and there and also the clips of you and your friends.

Some facts about how this works:

Our brain has so called mirror-neurons. In short – they make us FEEL the things we SEE. Even when the things we see don’t affect us personally at all. That’s why we get horny when watching porn, or sad if some movie character dies, get scared from horror movies and so on. And that’s also why we get happy when looking at smiling people. So whatever it is that you see in your statebooster DVD, will put you in a similar state.

Through NLP you can conncet certain impulses to one ore more of your senses to emotions. For example, if you always listen to a special song while chilling, then this song will put you in a relaxed and calm state once you hear it. Or each time you are out and feeling god-like, you wear a special shirt. Then your mind connects wearing that shirt to feeling god-like and you will automaticly feel better each time you wear it.

Putting together a statebooster DVD is many times that strong!! Why? Because it triggers multiple senses at once. You SEE the videos, you HEAR the music, you FEEL your friends around you and all of these impulses are connceted to feeling god-like. You can even enhance that effect by adding a special drink (cocktail or something) you only drink during such "warmup" occassions and thus adding the TASTE state-trigger.

Important: All of these state triggers have to be connected in your mind with very positive states. That means you have to REALLY LIKE these songs and you have to REALLY LAUGH at the funny clips. But NEVER watch this DVD when feeling really bad. It may lift you up a bit temporarly, but you will destroy the effect of the DVD forever, because your mind will then conncet the triggers to feeling bad. Otoh, you could just put together a new compilation.

And you can always add new stuff to this compilation. Just keep the best stuff (these things will become "classics" and "insiders"), and replace everything else with better stuff you find over time.

ENJOY!!!!!

Never underestimate the importance of state control.  Knowing how to make yourself feel good is crucial to raising your self-esteem and feeling confident.  Dreamcruiser suggests a good visual way of amping yourself up.  Another good way is listening to music that gets you excited and feeling good.  But like he also says, NEVER watch or listen to these things when you’re depressed or not feeling good in an effort to "cheer yourself up."  you only want to associate your "state chargers" with good feelings, not bad ones.

Comments Fixed

It seemed the comments on the blog weren’t working and no one bothered to tell me!  lol.  Well, I’ve done gone and fixed them, so you guys can start sassing back to me now.  =)

Jessica Alba Wants One-Night Stands

So who DOESN’T want to bang Jessica Alba?  Well, according to this article, that might not be as hard as you would think…

STUNNING actress Jessica Alba says she is up for a one-night stand – as long as the man leaves the next morning.

The curvy 23-year-old, who was recently romantically linked to Hollywood hunk Mark Wahlberg, likes the idea of getting intimate with lots of different people because she loves experimenting in sex.

She told Cosmopolitan magazine: "I just wanted to see what it was like to be with different people. I don’t think a girl’s a slut if she enjoys sex.

"I could have a one-night stand, and I’m the kind of girl who looks over in the morning and is like, ‘Do you really have to be here?’ I don’t need to cuddle and do all that stuff because I know what it is and I don’t try to make it more.

"I feel like a lot of women try to make it into more, so they don’t feel so bad about just wanting to have sex. I don’t really have a problem with just wanting sex. Never have.

"Even when I was a virgin and wanted to marry the first guy who I slept with, I never passed any judgments about that. But now I’m done with dating around."

I don’t know how accurate this article is.  Alba is pretty much known to be somewhat of a "prude" when it comes to the sex stuff.  (I think she’s also a devout Christian, though I might be mistaken.)  Anyway, this is probably just a way of getting more publicity for her upcoming Fantastic Four movie.  At least she’s not pulling a Katie Holmes and marrying some other Hollywood A-Lister.

Bad Boy Workshop Dates

So I got this email from Bad Boy the other day with a list of his workshop dates:

Hi big boy.

It was fun meting you few night ago.  I attached my US trip for august, so it wuld be very nice if you could post it on your blog >

August 3-4-5 New York

August 10-11-12 Miami

August 17-18-19 San Francisco

August  24-25-26 LA

August 29-30 -1 Las Vegas

I will be teaching normal Club game(very direct), as well as day time game, and my favorite – Shopping Center Game.  So there is something for everyone .. LOL

have fun
Dan

I don’t know exactly where you would go to sign up for these events, but I imagine it would be at Badboys website www.badboylifestyle.com.  If you’re looking for an interesting workshop to try out this summer, maybe you should look into it.

Women Are Attracted To Men Who Look Like Their Father

Who’s Your Daddy?

The type of man who makes woman’s heart flutter has a lot to whether she was a daddy’s girl, according to a new study.

Women who got along well with their dads as kids are attracted to men who resemble their fathers, whereas women who had a bad father-daughter relationship do not.

Lynda Boothroyd, a psychologist at Durham University in England, and her colleagues at the University of Wroclaw and the Institute of Anthropology in Poland asked a trained anthropologist to perform facial measurements on the photographs of 15 random men as well as the photographs of the fathers of 49 Polish women participating in the study.

The anthropologist calculated 15 key proportions based on how various features—such as the lips, nose, cheekbones and brows—related to each face’s height and width. The researchers also compared the 15 random faces to each of the father’s faces to determine how closely they resembled one another.

The women then rated their childhood relationships with their fathers based on how emotionally invested they felt their dads had been in raising them and how much time their fathers had spent with them. The women were split into two groups based on how positively or negatively they rated their relationships.

Then the researchers asked the women to rate how attractive they found each of the 15 random male faces.

The women who had reported positive relationships with their fathers were much more likely to be attracted to men resembling their fathers, the researchers found. On the other hand, women with bad dad relationships did not find men who looked like their fathers appealing.

“While previous research has suggested this to be the case, these controlled results show for certain that the quality of a daughter’s relationship with her father has an impact on whom she finds attractive,” Boothroyd said in a prepared statement. “It shows our human brains don’t simply build prototypes of the ideal face based on those we see around us, rather they build them based on those to whom we have a strongly positive relationship.”

Although no one yet knows for sure why females show these preferences, a woman with a great dad may choose a similar-looking mate in the hopes that he will also be a good father, the researchers wrote.

It’s no secret that you can figure out a lot about how to pick up a woman based on her relationship with her father.  Typically, women who had bad relationships with daddy are easier to get into bed fast, but they are also harder to deal with in the long term.  (At least, that’s been my experience.)

The interesting thing I’ve found about this article is that the women are actually attracted to certain PHYSICAL features that their father had, based on their relationship with him.  And women who had a bad relationship with daddy were actually repulsed by similar features.

So if you have a really hot chick who hates daddy, and her daddy is a really good looking guy, then chances are there are physical things about "good looking guys" she doesn’t find appealing.  Interesting, right?

Just more proof that you can never tell what, exactly, a girl’s "type" is.

The Real – Honest To God – Ball Breaker

This bitch deserves to die.  Seriously.

Amanda Monti, 24, flew into a rage when Geoffrey Jones, 37, rejected her advances at the end of a house party, Liverpool Crown Court heard.

She pulled off his left testicle and tried to swallow it, before spitting it out. A friend handed it back to Mr Jones saying: "That’s yours."

Monti admitted wounding and was jailed for two-and-a-half years.

‘Pulled hard’

Sentencing Monti, Judge Charles James said it was "a very serious injury" and that Monti was not acting in self defence.

The court heard that Mr Jones had ended his long-term but "open relationship" with Monti towards the end of May last year.

The pair remained on good terms and on 30 May she picked him up from a party in Crosby and went back for drinks with friends at Mr Jones’s house.

An argument ensued and Mr Jones said there was a struggle between them.

In his statement, Mr Jones said she grabbed his genitals and "pulled hard".

He added: "That caused my underpants to come off and I found I was completely naked and in excruciating pain."

The court heard that a friend saw Monti put Mr Jones’s testicle into her mouth and try to swallow it.

She choked and spat it back into her hand before the friend grabbed it and gave it back to Mr Jones. Doctors were unable to re-attach the organ.

In a letter to the court, Monti said she was sorry for what she had done.

She said: "It was never my intention to cause harm to Geoff and the fact that I have caused him injury will live with me forever. I am in no way a violent person."

The letter added: "I have challenged myself to explain what has happened but still I just cannot remember. This has caused much anguish to me and will do for the rest of my life."

You don’t mess with another man’s package like that.  EVER.  There should be a fuckin’ database of "ball offenders" who need to register and tell all their neighbors about their crimes.

No Happy Endings – Iran Votes To Kill Porn Stars

There’s always been a debate about pornographic material here in America, but I don’t think the far right would ever go this far:

TEHRAN, Iran (AP) — Iran’s parliament on Wednesday voted in favor of a bill that could lead to death penalty for persons convicted of working in the production of pornographic movies.

With a 148-5 vote in favor and four abstentions, lawmakers present at the Wednesday session of the 290-seat parliament approved that "producers of pornographic works and main elements in their production are considered corruptors of the world and could be sentenced to punishment as corruptors of the world."

The term, "corruptor of the world" is taken from the Quran, the Muslims’ holy book, and ranks among the highest on the scale of an individual’s criminal offenses. Under Iran’s Islamic Penal Code, it carries a death penalty.

The "main elements" refered to in the draft include producers, directors, cameramen and actors involved in making a pornographic video.

The bill also envisages convictions ranging from one year imprisonment to a death sentence for the main distributors of the movies and also producers of Web sites in which the pornographic works would appear.

Besides videos, the bill covers all electronic visual material, such as DVD and CDs. Other material, such as porn magazines and books are already banned under Iranian law.

To become law, the bill requires an approval by the Guardian Council, a constitutional watchdog in Iran.

Apparently the bill just stopped short of making it illegal to WATCH the darn stuff.  No wonder they have people running around blowing themselves up in that part of the world.  If they just had more pornography, they’d probably just be content to stay at home all day long!

I say we airdrop some Playboys into Fallujah STAT!

Anyway, apparently this whole bill came up as a response to a recent "sex tape scandal" in Iran where their own version of Paris Hilton – some Iranian actress – was filmed doing the nasty and then had it released.

What gets me about THAT particular event was that the poor woman involved had absolutely NO part in making the video available to the public, yet people what to have her whipped and sent to jail.  Jeesh.

I’d like to see the passage in the Koran where it says it’s okay to kill a billion people in the name of Muhammad, but you can’t look at a naked lady.

My Dinner With Badboy…

Last night I sat down at the Velvet Margarita, a posh Mexican restaurant in the heart of Hollywood, with Croatia’s preeminent  pickup artist, Badboy.

For those of you who have been following this blog for some time, you’ll know that Badboy is one of the "real deal" pick up teachers out there.  While Mystery Method and Real Social Dynamics were duking it out here in the states, Badboy was content to teach his own style of "Direct Game" pick up over in Europe.

People who’ve taken Badboy’s workshops become die-hard converts.  A few of these people have been friends of mine, and while I was always interested in checking out Badboy’s skills, I was reluctant to make the 18 hour flight to Europe for the pleasure of doing so.

But recently, Badboy was able to get a work visa for the USA, and is now here, for the first time, in the states ready to prove that his method works just as well with American chicks as it does with the Eastern European ones.

By dinner with Badboy was a pretty low key affair.  It was just him, me, and his business manager Nick Savoy.  We spent the time sharing stories of the "good old days" as I like to call them, as well as a few current theories and adventures.

Probably the highlight of the conversation was when Badboy laid down his "One Dick" rule, which he explained pretty much stated that when it comes time to "close the deal," he’s the only guy allowed within a 50 yard proximity.  I thought that was pretty funny.

Badboy is certainly an interesting character, but I found him to be a very cool guy and funny.  While we were leaving the restaurant, he even offered to let me go out the door ahead of him, saying "Ladies first," in his thick Croatian accent with his lopsided smile.  Ahhhh… nothing like a good-old AMOG.

Badboy is going to be teaching some workshops in the LA area very soon, so keep an eye out on www.badboylifestyle.com for more information.

Where Does Confidence Come From?

Here’s a recent message I got from a MySpace user…

Wow well i must congratulate u on making one of the best books of our time, lol

Ive read it all and its the greatest stuff..i know enough praising.. only thing is i find it really hard to approach women, i mean i don’t see the problem when i think about it when its quiet, but as soon as i’m at a bar/club its like my feet are in cement n all the things i remembered just leave my head

I know i can only overcome this by going out there and just doing it but i don’t know why i can’t, lol, just wondering how u managed to and where the confidence comes from.

Any comments would be greatly appreciated

Well, I try to cover this as much as possible in The Art Of Approaching (the book this guy is talking about), but I guess I’ll go into it a bit more in-depth here because this seems to be a large topic of interest for a number of guys.

I always hear people lament "Wow, meeting women is so hard!"  And you know what?  It can be.  There seems to be a myth out there that Approach Anxiety can be "stomped out" forever.  But in my experience, that just isn’t the case.

I know a lot of big time pick-up artists – guys who go out every night and always pull girls – who still suffer from approach anxiety.  I know there are times when I, myself, still do, and I’ve been doing this for a LONG time!

I think the notion that a guy can "always be confident" is an unrealistic expectation to hold oneself to.  Approach Anxiety will always be there in some form or another, because successfully meeting women has a lot to do with your MINDSET.

So then the question becomes:  Is it simply a matter of feeling the fear and doing it anyway?

Well, yes and no.

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Picking Up Women

When you’re out picking up women, it’s important to remember some very simple rules that will make sure your chances of picking up women will actually WORK, rather than get a drink thrown in your face.

You can never really know when a pickup is going to go well, but there are ways you can prepare. So here’s some steps for success BEFORE you go out picking up women!

When you go to a place where you know there will be attractive women, make the decision that you’re actually going to pick them up!

Too often, guys will go out with no real goal in mind. And guess what? When you have no outcome in mind – you’ll usually end up with NOTHING.

But if you go out with a specific goal, your chances of achieving that goal go up DRAMATICALLY.

It doesn’t matter if it’s as simple as "Talk To One Woman Tonight," or as ambitious as "Get Two Women To Come Home For A Threesome."

As long as you have a goal, your chances of picking up a girl will increase substantially.

You don’t even have to be GOING OUT to pick up women. Maybe you’re visiting a food court in mid-afternoon because you’re feeling hungry, and you know you’ll spot at least one attractive woman there who you could see later.

You may or may not succeed in your quest, but you’re much more likely to have a positive outcome if you go with the mindset that you can pull off a successful pickup.

Always take a pen and paper, or at least your cell phone, wherever you go. You’ll need it for when you exchange numbers with women. Be sure to keep a condom with you, too, just in case! Knowing that you have protection on hand is just one more thing that will keep you from chickening out.

Remember: Do Not Give Yourself An Excuse NOT To Pick Up Women!

The more excuses you make for yourself, the more likely you are to experience FAILURE.

And that hasn’t been working out for you too well, has it?

I can guarantee you, that the only way to 100% fail with women is to NOT MEET THEM.

Understand:  Picking up women is a mental game.  It’s about overcoming your fears and insecurities and having the courage to go after the woman you desire.

That is why you must FOCUS on your mindset.

Think positively.  Visualize a favorable outcome instead of failure.  Try feeling excited about talking to a girl instead of nervous.  Smile.  Make it a game.  Have fun, and the girl you’re talking to will have fun too.

Know your environment. When you meet a girl you like, you’ll want to get together with her soon – preferably the same day, while her attraction for you is still high. Be aware of good places nearby where you can "bounce" to, like bars, coffee houses, lounges, art galleries, or other fun place where you and your "target" can have a change of scenery.

You’ll want to go to a place that’s low-key enough so you can get to know each other better. When you bounce from one location to another, it’s like you’re going on another date. Why wait for another week to pass by to take her on another date so you can build comfort with her, when you know you can do it on the same day?

Have a place in mind where you can become intimate with her. If you live nearby and you can bring her home, so much the better.

Have an excuse to take her home that has nothing to do with sex. You can have a DVD that she’s never seen but has to see, or an exotic drink she’s never tried, or some photos you’ve taken of a place where you’ve been that she’s never seen. Or you can play her a song that you’ve written. It doesn’t matter, as long as it makes her comfortable enough to come over!

Honestly, I could go on and on about the subject of picking up women.  It is, after all, a hobby of mine, as I’m sure it is of yours.

But the fact of the matter is, this is an EXTENSIVE subject!  And it’s much too in-depth to cover here.

That’s why I would highly recommend checking out my free "How To Meet Women" Crash Course.

By signing up, you’ll instantly get tons of my best tactics on how to meet, date, attract, and pick up women sent directly to the privacy of your own email.

Just visit my website for free instant access.  In just a few short minutes, you’ll be getting the best tips on picking up women you’ve ever read – guaranteed.

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Wishing you success,

Joseph Matthews

The “Cholo” Method

If you’re finding Mystery Method too complicated, next time you’re in a club, just try to "Lean Like A Cholo."  Apparently, it’s damn effective.

Science proves that putting your elbows in the air and leaning has some sort of "primal" mating ritual attached to it, which attracts women like mad.

The “Cholo” Method

If you’re finding Mystery Method too complicated, next time you’re in a club, just try to "Lean Like A Cholo."  Apparently, it’s damn effective.

Science proves that putting your elbows in the air and leaning has some sort of "primal" mating ritual attached to it, which attracts women like mad.

The “Cholo” Method

If you’re finding Mystery Method too complicated, next time you’re in a club, just try to "Lean Like A Cholo."  Apparently, it’s damn effective.

Science proves that putting your elbows in the air and leaning has some sort of "primal" mating ritual attached to it, which attracts women like mad.

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