The Art of Orgasm

Sexkitten has chimed in with a post on her blog about multiple orgasms that I found interesting.

Sexkitten writes:
MULTIPLE ORGASM

…yes, that’s what I’ve been promised by a fellow I’m dating. This could be a ploy to get me in bed. But am I curious? Of course, and he knows it. And not only does he promise me multiple orgasms-he claims that he can make sex so pleasurable that I cry. I’ve never cried. And I’ve had lots of sex. So now he’s got me thinking: What if he can give me what he’s promised? What if he can make cry? Do I owe it to myself to find out? A mind-blowing, multi-orgasmic sexual experience that makes me cry is soooo, well, I’ve never had one.

He teaches meditation and spends most of his time doing Tai-chi. I’ve been on a few dates with him and he’s very intense. He’s even got me sword-fighting. But if I jump into bed with this man and he doesn’t give me multiple orgasms, or better yet, make me cry, and I’m going to have to make him cry. Hehehe.

You can check this article out on Sexkitten’s blog here.

This brings up a topic I’ve numerous conversations about with some of the best in the game. In fact, I’d have to say it’s a question of long term seduction versus pick-up and fast seduction. With Pick-Up and Fast Seduction, you’re goal is to get the girl into bed with you as quick as possible. But what if you want to keep her coming back? Well, that’s a question of long game, and a big part of long game is sexual prowess.

I have a buddy who goes by the handle MasterClass, who’s an old school SSer from back in the day. This is a guy who can’t cold approach to save his life, but when he meets a woman through his social circles, he’s like Yoda. But the real thing that impresses me about MC’s skill is that he’s able to keep the girls coming back and even chasing him, and it all comes down to something he calls “The Sex Game.”

Basically, his philosophy is you have to make a woman cum at LEAST 5 times before you even put your dick in her. You gotta be so good at lovemaking, that you ruin her for all other men. Basically, what he’s doing is raising his percieved value with his sexual techniques. But raising his value so high, that should he pull away, the girl experiences a sense of loss so great, that she’ll do anything to get it back. By doing this, he’s able to keep MULTIPLE women on the string. Seriously, I think he’s got something like 5 girls in his harem. Not only that, but he uses this power he has over them to negotiate threesomes and the like. And whenever one of them gets uppity or dramatic, he just “Gives them the gift of missing him” as he calls it and pulls away. Before long, the girl adjusts her behavior to please him so he’ll come back and she can enjoy mind-blowing sex again.

This is something I also discussed with Tyler Durden recently, who’s just now starting to up his skills in this part of the late game. A great resource for lots of guys out there who want to learn about this is David Shade’s Manual. That’s the book where MasterClass learned a lot of his techniques. It’s got a lot of hypnosis mumbo-jumbo in it, but it also has a few solid sexual techniques I’d never read about anywhere before, so it’s definitely worth checking out. If you buy it through my site, I get a commission, so be a friend if you decide to get it. =)

Anyways, my game isn’t quite at the stage where I can practice my sexual technique as much as someone like MasterClass and Tyler Durden, but I do recognize that it’s a very important part of the long term relationship with a girl. All the best pick-up artists I know are incredibly skilled lovers, so if some of you out there are stalling, this might be something you want to work on.