Realizing Your Hotness

ijjjjji has an excellent post up about male attractiveness. I think he says a lot of good things, especially for someone like me who sits in an office all day and is overweight.

ijjjjji writes:
I’m beginning to realize that I’m no longer the UG4 that I used to be. For a man, his confidence, alphaness, fitness level, social skills and his ‘ability to acquire material things’ are HUGE PARTS of his hotness.

It is equally important for men to be HOT as it is to girls! But, how ‘genetically cute’ you are, plays an extremely small role in male hotness.

Before I started working out 1.5 years ago, girls who tried to guess my age said anything from 30 to 35. Before x-mas I struck a long streak of girls who refused to believe I’m more than 25… I’ve been getting the question about what I’m studying a lot..

And the ultra hot 19 YO I brought home on friday was SHOCKED when I told her my occupation and she told me it was impossible since that education takes like 5 years in university, and she is pretty sure I’m not more than 22..

It is ridiculous, and I refuse to take these silly girls seriously.. but I do notice that my facial features are improving INCREDIBLY MUCH with the work out.

Since the muscles in the face and in the neck are growing, the skin is being filled and stretched out.. thus removing beginning wrinkles I had 2 years ago.

I’m trying to loose some more fat right now, and I think my looks are improving from one week to the next. It is incredibly inspiring and makes me wonder how good I could look if I was able to cut alcohole and nicotine completely.. I will get there!

So seriously, if you are trying to become a PUA but don’t hit the GYM intensively 3 times a week, I think you are very unserious about your plan to become a PUA!

The thread goes on with many excellent responses. You can read them all here. This is actually a subject that hits very close to home for me right now. There was a time in my life where I weighed close to 300 lbs, and through sheer willpower and persistence, I was able to lose 100 lbs. It was a very interesting time in my life, because I looked and felt better than I ever had before, and it definitely changed all aspects of my life and my interactions with other people.

When you boil everything in this game down to it’s core, the fundamental trait every guy who’s good with women has to have is confidence, and so much of confidence has to do with how you feel about yourself. Getting in shape and taking control of your life is absolutely vital to that. Mystery has this thing about how life is boiled down to 3 things: Health, Wealth, and Relationships, and I fully agree with that trinity. But in my estimation, you can’t have good Wealth or Relationships if you don’t got your health. There IS a hierarchy there.

I think I’ll be reading this thread very closely and following the advice. I’m glad we got guys like ijjjjji around to offer up his experiences like this. =)