DYD and Your Reality

February 11, 2004 by  
Filed under Tips & Tricks

A great post by Sirducer on how to handle shit-tests the DYD way is up in the General Forum of mASF. But what makes this thread really great is Neo-Rio’s reply, which only reinforces my opinion that this guy is one of the few who really knows what he’s talking about.

Neo-Rio writes:
Hanging up and cutting her off doesn’t get you laid any.
Threatening to walk away will get you what you want. Even worse, allowing the woman to walk away will get you zero because sometimes they will take you up on the offer.

You have to control the situation enough to talk the reason out of her and not give up on her, (or let her give up on you) until you solve the issue.
(Surprisingly, this is how families stay together and not get divorced. If people weren’t so willing to use the “You can’t fire me I quit” bluff…..)

If a chick is making a bullshit excuse, it’s actually because she’s scared of rejection and thinks that by being a jerk she can attract you (sound familiar guys?). It’s taken me YEARS to figure this out, but it only just clicked for me last weekend (I think…).
So my response to chick bullshit is:

(wait for it………)

“Let’s Just Be Friends”

(Hopefully a few lit up light-globes will now appear above several people’s heads)

You can read the whole thread here.

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Comments

2 Responses to “DYD and Your Reality”
  1. Sirducer says:

    Ive recently started reading this site and gotta say that Thundercat has a great place here. Should have found it earlier, mASF gets littered with many rubbish posts from noobs who go around in circles, its good to have guys like TC who relocate good stuff on here.

    Cheers!

  2. countSpanky says:

    Yeah, great work TC. Even though I still hate you for posting about the upcoming TD monster post, and it STILL hasn’t shown, the hate is diminishing and I’m starting to learn to love you again.

    No beer and no TD makes countSpanky CRAAAYZEY!!

    Keep up the super work.

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