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Hey everyone,

As you might have noticed, I’ve included a phone number on the site that you can reach me at.  It’s 323-319-4903.  Yes, this is a REAL phone number that you can REALLY reach me at.  I’ve had a number of you call it already, and that’s great.

Understand that I’m not always around to answer the phone when it rings, but I do check messages and I WILL call people back.  Just be sure you leave a voice mail and state your number SLOWLY and CLEARLY.  I’ve had a few people who called up asking for help with some relationship issue or another and the call either dropped while they were giving their number or they said it so fast I couldn’t understand it.

Anyway:  I really, really want to hear from you guys!  So feel free to give me a buzz and leave a message if I don’t pick up.  I will try and return your call in a timely fahion (as log as I don’t get a bajillion phone calls I have to return).

I look forward to speaking with all of you.

David Shade Speaks In San Francisco!

This just in:  Threesome master David Shade will be giving a guest lecture to the San Francisco Lair on Sunday May 20th.  Check out the dilly-o…

The Celebration of the Sixth Anniversary of the San Francisco Lair shall go on and there will be much rejoicing.

And partying.

And there is a very VERY Special Guest.

A man sought out by the world famous pickup artist whom we all know as Style.

A man who has been providing the Seduction community with knowledge since the days when Fast Seduction was only a discussion list and fastseduction.com didn’t exist.

His original "how to" book… The David Shade Manual can be found on virtually every famous pickup artists book shelf.

Famous for his methods on how to lead a woman to feel confident and comfortable enough to express her sexual desires, David has helped men world wide how to have fantastic sex and passionate relationships with women.

And now you can meet him, learn from him, and ask him ANYTHING about women and sexuality.

This thing is gonna rock.  There will be food, drink, a DJ (if we can get the equipment there), and Grant & I have been inviting celebrities from the PickUp & Seduction community to join us in the celebration.

Here’s the important info:
——————————
Date
Sunday, May 20, 2007

Time
5:00 pm PST – 10:00 pm PST

Location
Fort Mason Conference Center
Fort Mason Center, Room D-100
(Marina Boulevard @ Buchanan)
San Francisco, 94123

Tickets: $10.00

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Reserve Your Ticket Now:

http://davidshade.eventbrite.com/

Cheers,

Craig
El Presidente

Sounds awesome.  Just be forewarned:  David Shad WILL hypnotise you with his voice!  I don’t know how he does it, but he is one of the most (un)nautral hypno-voices I’ve ever heard.  Anyway, this guy knows pretty much everything there is to know about S-E-X and he ain’t afraid to share it!

As a side note, I’ll be speaking to the San Francisco Lair sometime in June.  More details on that as it gets closer.

Under 21 PUA Convention

Okay, so I know a lot of you guys out there studying this stuff aren’t quite old enough to go to bars and clubs just yet.  Well, not to worry, your plight has been heard.

Check it out…

Okay so i’m not going to go into super details about it because A) you have already heard about it or B) you can just go to www.under21convention.com and see what it’s all about

But a quick summary is that it is a NON PROFIT convention geared to the under 21 crowed although anyone of any age can go.

It’s free, and after each seminar attendies are broken into small groups by the speakers and staff and taken out on their very own workshops

This is a milestone in the PUA Community and I really feel it is "developing" the lost young minds of our community

Thanks for your help and keep up the good work

Love,
Heartwork

The Under 21 convention is happening in Orlando Florida July 19-22nd.  (Like you really need an excuse to go to Florida in July!)

Sounds like a great place for the young’uns to network and learn.  As for who will be speaking at the event, here’s the list:

Mehow
Certainty – Winging
Vincent Chase
Dynamic – Advanced Game
Dream – Completing Your Newbie Mission
Devious – Mall Game + Bathroom Pulling and Cavemanning
Heartwork – Kino
Mayhem – Direct Game
Sheek – Introducer / MC
Orleans
Maverick
Crono – Social Intelligence
Zine
Nilatak – Identity
Plus some un-named possible guest speakers 

The only guy I recognise from that list is Mehow, but hey, I’m an old fogie!  For all I know this could be the Dream Team of the PUA world!  =)

Aside from the cost of travel, it looks like they’re keeping the event affordable with a $20 fee to get in.  So if you’re looking to improve your game and aren’t of legal drinking age yet, this might be just what the doctor ordered!

Video Of Mystery On The Conan O’Brien Show

For all of you out there who missed it, here’s Mystery on the Conan O’Brien show.  Overall, I think Mystery did pretty well.

I wonder how many people watching Conan are going to know how to spell "Venusian" though?

Video Of Mystery On The Conan O’Brien Show

For all of you out there who missed it, here’s Mystery on the Conan O’Brien show.  Overall, I think Mystery did pretty well.

I wonder how many people watching Conan are going to know how to spell "Venusian" though?

Video Of Mystery On The Conan O’Brien Show

For all of you out there who missed it, here’s Mystery on the Conan O’Brien show.  Overall, I think Mystery did pretty well.

I wonder how many people watching Conan are going to know how to spell "Venusian" though?

Marriage Vs. Monogomy: Cheating Spouses

I found a fascinating op/ed piece over on the New York Times website that talks about the different culture of "cheating spouses" from around the world.  Check out what they had to say about Americans…

Americans cherish monogamy, but they value honesty even more. In
the 1970s and 1980s, as it became easier to divorce and couples
counseling emerged as the forum for resolving marital spats, Americans
decided marriage ought to be a transparent zone without any secrets.
They developed a unique mantra about affairs: It’s not the sex, it’s
the lying.

One popular American remedy for cheating is now
extreme truth-telling. Couples and their therapists can spend dozens of
hours and thousands of dollars retracing every sordid detail of the
affair, complete with times and dates. (Note to unfaithful Americans:
save your motel receipts to make this easier).

Even after a
private confession, the moral stain often sticks. America’s founders
thought that the character of their new state hinged on the values and
even the private behavior of voters, so they stressed monogamous
marriage and warned that anything else threatened the state. The United
States is the only country I found where high-profile people who had
strayed are thought to be capable of any manner of corruption and
lying, and apologize to their employees or constituents for their
private behavior.

American confessions baffle the French. Many
of them could die comfortably with their marital secrets. Though they
prefer monogamy, when the French do cheat they typically aren’t saddled
with guilt. Couples give each other privacy so that they don’t trip
over unwanted information.

Apparently the rest of the world is a lot more "liberal" when it comes to extra-marital affairs.  Maybe the argument that true monogomy is just a myth has some bearing?

PUAs on Flickr

Looks like some enterprising guys have started a Flickr page to host pictures of their outings.  If you’d like t
o share some of your own sarging pics, head on over here and check it out.

Mystery On Conan O’Brien Tonight!

Set your TiVos people, because everyone’s favorite Pick Up Artist, Mystery, is going to be on Late Night With Conan O’Brien tonight!

I hear he’ll be on there plugging his new reality show for VH1.  Apparently he’s done 8 episodes and its set to premiere on the network soon.

I’ll be interested to see how Conana treats him.  He’ll be appearing third on the show along with Tina Fey and Kevin Pollack.

How funny would it be for him to demonstrate on Tina Fey?  lol.

Conan is on NBC after the Tonight Show With Jay Lenno.  Check your local listings.

Mystery On Conan O’Brien Tonight!

Set your TiVos people, because everyone’s favorite Pick Up Artist, Mystery, is going to be on Late Night With Conan O’Brien tonight!

I hear he’ll be on there plugging his new reality show for VH1.  Apparently he’s done 8 episodes and its set to premiere on the network soon.

I’ll be interested to see how Conana treats him.  He’ll be appearing third on the show along with Tina Fey and Kevin Pollack.

How funny would it be for him to demonstrate on Tina Fey?  lol.

Conan is on NBC after the Tonight Show With Jay Lenno.  Check your local listings.

Mystery On Conan O’Brien Tonight!

Set your TiVos people, because everyone’s favorite Pick Up Artist, Mystery, is going to be on Late Night With Conan O’Brien tonight!

I hear he’ll be on there plugging his new reality show for VH1.  Apparently he’s done 8 episodes and its set to premiere on the network soon.

I’ll be interested to see how Conana treats him.  He’ll be appearing third on the show along with Tina Fey and Kevin Pollack.

How funny would it be for him to demonstrate on Tina Fey?  lol.

Conan is on NBC after the Tonight Show With Jay Lenno.  Check your local listings.

Opening Girls Who Are On The Phone

Zardoz over on mASF had a question about how to open girls who were on their cell phone…

Zardoz writes:
Cellphones are the bane of the PUA. I want to know how you all deal with this issue.

As I see it, there are two situations in which cells hinder a sarge,

1: You can’t make an approach because the target is on the phone.

2: You have intitiated the seduction, then her phone rings and she opens it up and starts yacking.

Well?

Some dude named Cinder had a pretty nice reply…

Cinder writes:
Personally what I do for phones is the same
that I do with if they stop to do anything other than listen to what I
say: a mini-freezeout via stopping what I’m talking about mid-sentence.
So if she gets a call, I’ll stop and say "you can take that" OR if she
reaches for it, I’ll just stop the thread mid conversation (my personal
favorite). The trick with this one though is that if she says "go
ahead, I’m listening", then to treat it like nothing is happening and
to talk and carry on the thread as usual because *she IS investing into
the interaction like I am*.

Oh yeah, I wouldn’t suggest to walk off.  The set is definitely still good.  Hell, every set is always still good, let alone these instances.

Opening a girl who is on the cell phone is NOT A BIG DEAL AT ALL.
Anyone can do it with success. I vividly remember multiple times *early
in my pua
career where I’d open a girl, and she would just stop and say on the
phone "let me call you back" and quickly hang up on the person. I think
the trick is, just after you get her attracted
or pass the hook point, ask her "are you talking to someone or
something?". I’ve opened plenty of girls on cell phones before. It’s no
different. It’s seriously all there for looks… like she THINKS this
will stop guys from talking to her. In all reality, she probably is
holding it up because SHE’LL ACTUALLY STOP AND TALK IF SOMEONE TRIES TO
OPEN HER.. haha, and this is her defense.

I think that’s a pretty good strategy over-all.  Don’t let phones intimidate you.  The girl can always call the person they’re talking to back.  =)

Dance Floor Game

If you’re a club-goer, you’ll know that having "dance floor game" is pretty essential to picking up chicks.  After all, in a club where the music is thumping so loud you can’t hear anything else, knowing how to dance is freakin’ essential.

Some guy who goes by the nick Bandit, who by his own admission was a "semi-professional" dancer, made a little video on dance floor game for you to check out.

Now, if you’re a big lump like me, you don’t need to to bust moves like Bandit.  I find that just getting on the dance floor and having the balls to shake your thang with any random girl will usually be enough to get your game on.  But Bandit gives some good moves in his video, so if you want to practice that, you should be in good shape.

Of course, you could try killing two birds with one stone and taking a dance CLASS, so not only do you learn how to dance, but you’re able to meet some women in the process.  =)

Project Hollywood Part 2 – The Return?

I heard a very interesting rumor the other day.  I don’t know if its true or not, but it is definitely within the realm of possibility.

It appears as though Mystery might be looking to make another go at creating a Project Hollywood – but here’s the twist – it will be in the SAME mansion as the original Project Hollywood!

As you all know, this is the Project Hollywood house that was in the book The Game, off of Londenberry Place in West Hollywood.  The entire "PUA Project" concept has been alive and well since the destruction of the first Project Hollywood, with Project San Francisco and Project Miami proving that yes – a house full of pick up artists CAN work, as long as no one from RSD is there. 

Basically, the notion of creating a "PUA Lifestyle" based around an entire venue is the ultimate in Game.  If you’ve got the pimp house, its easy to be a pimp.  If Mystery is in fact coming back to H-Wood to make another go at it, I’ll be looking forward to his triumphant return.

Pick Up Women In Bars (The Basics)

Sonics over at mASF has a pretty good post up about the fundamentals of picking up women in bars.  Check it out:

Sonics writes:
Bar basics:
 

1) “The girl on her way from A to B has no time for me.”

Say and repeat, don’t grab girls by the arm, that’s weird!
 

Let her get to where she’s trying to go. If she gave you good eye
contact, then yeah go ahead and lightly touch her with the back of your
hand and game her. But for the most part “The girl on the way from A to
B has no time for me.” Say this to your self, let it marinate, say it
again and we’ll move on.
 

2) Girls sitting down are easier to pickup and get to know.  Just sit with them
 

3) Girls standing are easier to isolate.
 

4) If a girl is alone and not talking to anyone, she isn’t alone. If
she’s attractive she’s worth your time. These are the girls that will
love your company.
 

5) If a girl smokes, don’t tell her you don’t like girls that smoke unless you’re about to bust one out and smoke yourself.
 

6) If you’re talking to a girl and she is just hideously rude or does
something you really don’t like… eject out. Ex: she’s really drunk,
she’s swinging bottles, venting on you for something you had nothing to
do with… just move on
 

7) Leave each interaction with a smile.  Think of something funny.
 

8 )  I never really understood Rafc… Try not to get turned down more than you get turned on, approach the girls you want.  I’ll say this, 10 1 minute sets doesn’t equal one 10 minute set in experience/learning.
 

9) HAVE FUN!!!! This is really all that matters. (period)   
 

10) You’ll have more/easier success on the dance floor if you show up
and start dancing when the first groups of girls start dancing. Around
10 PM. You can leave after awhile and always go back to those same
girls. Then if you’d like you can use them as social proof and pawn off
them.
 

11) Go indirect with intention on the hired guns.
 

12) Drinking alcohol: Have fun be safe and know that you’ll learn more
if you were sober. I’ve personally noticed a direct correlation with my
alcohol consumption and f-closes.
1 to 5 to 2. One time when I’m trashed for every 5 times that I have a
3-4 drink buzz and finally two lays sober. For me at 23 that’s how it
is and I enjoy a buzz when taking that step.
 

13) Young girls love the DD (designated driver).  You can then designatedly drive them to a place to eat or to somewhere.
 

14) Girls will drive a drunk guy home. Girls will also pick a drunk guy
up, call some of your girlfriends… it’s too easy at that point.
 

15) Write field reports: You won’t remember the logistics of what
happened if you were drunk. Even if you are a brand spankin’ newbie and
your field report says something like this “I saw this really pretty
girl standing at the bar a few feet away from me just waiting for her
drink, I should have gone up to her and said hi.” That’s pretty weak;
but I believe that if you actually write it out you’ll be more likely
to approach a girl in a similar situation next time. I’ve been there
and it sucks.
 

16) Being innovative is the funnest.
 

17) How to become a VIP (the abridged version, love you djozer): Get
good with your social skills and show up to the same place a lot, once
a week is plenty. You don’t even really need to tip well; but once you
do it will be expected. Actually make friends with these people and
they won’t even take a big tip from you.
 

18) Your body speaks: What you say isn’t necessarily what the girl
you’re talking to is hearing… ex: You’re 10 minutes into an interaction
you’re looking deep into her eyes like your about to pound the living
daylights out of her… she’s looking back at you with a glint of passion
and lust and you’re talking about how your grandma crochets the
craziest doilies. I hope you can see that. You can get tons of stuff on
body language from any guru.
 

19) Be yourself: If you don’t think being yourself works you’re not
being your true self. The you that gets what you want with little
effort, the you that achieves things you haven’t even thought of yet.
This is what I’m here for.
 

20) “Attraction is not a choice” DYD: he’s right.
 

21) Once you have attraction you decide what happens.
 

22) Your social intuition is everything… you’ll get this with experience.
 

23) Everything works. There are girls that will appreciate the gesture
of buying them a drink. There are girls that cheesy pickup lines will
work on. “I’m a like Michigan snow storm I’ll give you ten inches and
you won’t want to leave your house for days.” (Not recommended)
 

24) Everything you learn in this community is a guideline or a rule of
thumb, not a law. After you develop your social intuition you’ll bend
rules and skip guidelines. Here’s proof: Time constraints are sweet,
they basically instantly disarm the set. Well, I’m 99% sure your dad
didn’t use one on your mom and he had you.
 

Bonus

Don’t breathe on people technique: Direct your breath away from people
when you talk with them. Seriously bad breath is gross, I’ve noticed
the guys that talk with me don’t normally aim their breath away and I
can’t see how they would aim it away with girls. Learn to love gum when
you’re in the field. Don’t smack it just chill with it in your mouth
giving it the eventual chew.

The real trick to bars (at least in my opinion) is to be as high-energy as possible.  People go to bars to have fun and unwind.  Typically, you have lots of loud music too, so if you are abile to keep up with the general pulse of the venue, you will usually do pretty well.  If you’re just not a high energy guy, or you’re having a bad night, maybe the bar scene just isn’t for you.

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