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Hey Guys,

Last week I got the bright idea that it’d be fun to have a contest to honor the Douchiest Phone Message in history.

So this weekend I sat down and tried to think of a prize WORTHY of such a contest, and as I was walking by the Apple Store at a local mall here in LA and saw the MASSIVE line for the new iPhone G3, I said to myself – "You know what? That would be a great prize!"

So here’s the deal – I will write a check to the winner of the DImitri Contest for the full amount of a brand new, 8 Gig, Apple G3 iPhone.

So you can go out and buy the iPhone if you want, or you can use the money for whatever.  I don’t care.  But I wanted the prize to be WORTH something, because to me, only contests that have great prizes are the funnest to enter into.

So what do you have to do to win the contest?  Well, it’s very simple…

1.  Call my voicemail at 818-462-5196

2.  Leave the docuhiest voicemail you possibly can, in the spirit of Dimitri the Lover.  (Pretend you’re leaving a voicemail for some girl you met – or you can leave it for me!  Whatever you want)

If you want to hear the original Dimitri Message, you can do so by clicking here.

That’s pretty much it.  The person with the douchiest phone message wins.  Anyone with a phone can enter.  You can leave more than one message if you want.  You can be a guy or girl, doesn’t matter.  You do have to be 18 or older, though.

The winner will be announced next week.

Man-360.com

Stephen Nash from How To Get A Girlfriend sent me a video he did with Christian Hudson.  It goes on a bit too long, but its sort-of funny.  Check it out…

Kino & Body Language Tips

Over on the Seduction Bible, I found an interesting article called "An Introduction To Using Kino" written by some guy called the Dicknotist.  (Yes, that’s what he’s calling himself)  Apparently, he too has a blog which you can check out here.

Anyway, I read the article about Kino and wanted to say a thing or two about it.  Here’s a clip…

The Dicknotist writes:
When I think of touch, I imagine that my hands are like paintbrushes
plastering my emotions onto her body.  Call me the Jackson Pollack of
seduction: I paint her arms her arms and torso now so that I can
sprinkle some more on her face later…with my other special brush.  So,
when first talking to a girl, I will often just lightly touch her outer
arms and torso with my fingers as I’m talking to her.  I see it as
expressive: you touch her as you talk to emphasize important points.
That touch is more subtle and friendly, aimed at just making her
comfortable and more trusting.  During high points in the interaction,
however, your touch should become more appreciative.

Touch serves two purposes: to emphasize what you’re saying to her
and to appreciate her.  An example of appreciation could be that in
talking to her, she reveals that she works as a nurse.  That
immediately peaks your interest as your mom was a nurse and you realize
the resiliency and compassion necessary for the job.  Rather than just
telling her how awesome that is, you should also touch her arm and hold
it there a few seconds longer than usual and perhaps even stroke it.

Expressive touch is like a period: light and quick.  Appreciative
touch is like an exclamation point, lasting a good 2-3 seconds.  Yet
the point isn’t for you to have this in your head while talking to a
woman but to give you a context for which touch can amplify and
supercharge your game.

When you touch her, touch her as if you’re already making love to
her.  Cup your hand as you touch her back and cup the back of her
shoulder blades.  Don’t forget her sensitive spots, including her inner
arms, behind her knees, the skin fold on the other side of her elbow.
Later on in the interaction, touching her neck, ears, thighs, breasts
will amplify her desire.  Don’t be afraid to graze her breasts!  Graze
them now so you can glaze them later.

You know, there is something about Kino that a LOT of guys out there NEVER TELL YOU.  And that is this…

Kino is all about CALIBRATION.

Yes, yes, all this flowerly language might be true to an extent, but here’s the deal… you are able to guage what your trust/comfort level is with a girl based on your ability to kino her.

If you go to touch the girl, and she is obviously not comfortable, that tells you that you have some work yet to do.

If you kino her and she’s comfortable with it, that means you’re doing the right thing.

So bottom line – kino is first and foremost a TOOL to see how well you’re doing when it comes to buidling the all important trust & comfort with a girl.

Secondly, once you know the girl is comfortable around you, proper kino will MAGNEFY the connection between you two, and can be used to escalate physical intimacy, when done RIGHT.

There are different levels of "invasiveness" with kino, and the more invasive you can get, the better your chances of making out with the girl.

Non-invasive kino is when you touch the hands, wrists, knee, or shoulder.

Mildly invasive kino is the lower back, the back, the forearm & elbow, the calf, and the neck.

Invasive kino is the face, the belly, the inner thigh, the hip, the lips, the ear, the butt, and the chest.

Understand – kino is the method by which you figure out where the girl is emotionally.  A girl who’s "feeling" you and into you will allow invasive kino, whereas a girl who’s not that comfortable with you will just allow non-invasive kino.

So learn to use your touch as a way to guage and calibrate.  Emotions are what create attraction, not touching, but touching will tell you where the girl is at emotionally.

Looks Don’t Matter: The Inspiration Video

Hey guys,

Last week I revealed my big video where I shared with all you guys what I look like, and the type of women I’ve been with.  Reaction was overwhelmingly positive – with a few of the "usual" exceptions, lol.  I can’t tell you how nervous I was putting that video out, but you know what?  It turned out to be a really good thing.

Anyway, this weekend I’m releasing a SECOND video, which I’m calling the Inspiration Video.

This is a video where I go through the inspirations in my life that really helped me to overcome my difficulties – not just with women, but with my inner game and my life in general.

I’ve lead a pretty interesting life, and this video is meant to share with you some of the inspiring lessons I’ve learned throughout it.  I look forward to hearing your comments about the video – feel free to post them in this thread.

Click Here To Watch The Inspiration Video

Looks Don’t Matter: The Inspiration Video

Hey guys,

Last week I revealed my big video where I shared with all you guys what I look like, and the type of women I’ve been with.  Reaction was overwhelmingly positive – with a few of the "usual" exceptions, lol.  I can’t tell you how nervous I was putting that video out, but you know what?  It turned out to be a really good thing.

Anyway, this weekend I’m releasing a SECOND video, which I’m calling the Inspiration Video.

This is a video where I go through the inspirations in my life that really helped me to overcome my difficulties – not just with women, but with my inner game and my life in general.

I’ve lead a pretty interesting life, and this video is meant to share with you some of the inspiring lessons I’ve learned throughout it.  I look forward to hearing your comments about the video – feel free to post them in this thread.

Click Here To Watch The Inspiration Video

Revolution 31 Interview

Quick heads up to anyone who cares…

Next week I’ll be interviewed on the Barry Kirkey Radio Show, over at Revolution31.com.  I would HIGHLY recommend you guys check the show out.  My interview will be on Tuesday, but Barry is also interviewing the massive Sean Messenger on Monday.  Both should be great interviews.

If any of you guys have things you want me to talk about with Barry specifically, let me know in the comments section of this thread.

Dimitri The Lover Hates Cancer

So a while back I posted about Dimitri the Lover in my Podcast on Phone Game.  I honestly can’t believe how much attention this guy is getting.  Even though he’s a douche, he seems to be becoming a huge internet celebrity.

Anyway, in his famous phone call, he talks about the girl’s mother having chemo or something.  Well, it appears there’s a precedence for this…

My mom had cervical cancer, so following surgery, she stayed at the
Princess Margaret Lodge so she could recieve treatment everyday for a
few weeks. We spent a day together shopping around Younge St, and she
takes these steroids that are prescribed to help her nausea, but it
makes her sorta manic and hilarious. So while laughing at something she
said or did, some tall guy walks up to my mom and asks her if he could
hit on "her friend", me.

He was over the top, complimenting me, and so I held out my hand to
introduce myself and he kissed it. We exchanged numbers, and that was
that. A few days later I told him I’d be in town to visit my mom and go
to Kids in the Hall, so we could get a coffee or something. Well, we
decided to do something after the show, so I texted him, saying "I’m at
the show with my mom, I’ll call when it’s done." After, I took my mom
out for snacks, and checked my phone.

Timestamped at 11:06, were 3 raving mad text messages about how rude it
was to not call him, he’s not on call for me, he took time off for me,
go back to my classless hick boys, I blew it with the best thing I’ll
ever meet, etc. So all this came from what originally way, being 6
minutes late from the time I said I would call.

So, I decided to call him and act like I didn’t check them, because I
wanted to see if he’d back peddle or anything. He didn’t, so as he was
raving on again, I just said "Sorry for wanting to hang out with my mom
when she has cancer!" And hung up.

Hat tip to Konen for this one.  Read the entire thread – it truly is hilarious.

I’m going to start a contest next week to see who can make the best video demonstrating the "Dimitri Method" over on YouTube.  If we’re lucky, maybe we can start a whole new trend like the Two Girls 1 Cup reaction videos.

Basically, it’ll have to do with you guys demonstrating how to be over-the-top rude to women.  Give me the weekend to figure out a suitable prize, and on Monday I’ll post the rules of the contest.

This is gonna be fun…

Sean Messenger Loves Barry Kirkey

How come I never get crazy man-stalker love like this?

Yes, gentlemen.  Sean is available for one-on-ones.

Podcast 6: Thundercat Vs. Stephane

Okay, yesterday I posted the first part of my critique of Barry Kirkey’s interview with Stephane.  Admittedly, it was not the best Podcast I ever made (considering I’ve only made 6 so far!).  A lot of people don’t seem to agree with my stance on polyamoury.  And you know what?  That’s okay!  You guys believe what makes you happy.

Today’s podcast is light on the preaching, and heavy on the shit talking.  I basically comb through the interview Barry did and call Stephane out on all his lies.

Just a warning for you guys before you listen to this podcast:

1.  It’s LONG!  2 hours.  If you don’t care about Stephane, don’t bother listening to it.

2.  There’s a lot of "community gossip" in it, so if you don’t care about that stuff, don’t bother listening to it either.

3.  Some people might consider it to be a "negative rant."  This is the danger in focusing so much time and energy on BAD PEOPLE, that by proxy, you can come off as sounding negative just by taking them to task.  If you guy don’t want to be exposed to some negative vibes, please DON’T LISTEN TO THE PODCAST.

I’m not a negative person, but I just feel that Stephaker unloaded such a massive amount of lies and bullshit that someone needed to call his ass out on this stuff.

After re-listening to the podcast myself, I realize there are parts in it where I get passionate and sound angry – mostly because people like Stephaker ANNOY me.  But I learned from this experience, I won’t be doing a podcast like this one again, because it’s a real drain on my energy, and I shouldn’t be focusing so much of my time and attention on morons like this.

Regardless – for anyone out there interested in learning from Stephaker, please, LISTEN TO THIS PODCAST.  It’ll help give you a better idea of who you’re giving your money to.

Click Here To Download This Podcast

Why You Can’t Generate Attraction

Some guy named Eric Disco wrote an interesting article over on his blog about why he thinks people can’t generate attraction.

The premise of the article is that you can’t generate attraction because you’re already a naturally attractive guy, and you just need to display this to get people attracted to you.

Overall – I have to agree with Eric’s conclusions.  Its a good article and you’ll definitely want to read it when you get a chance.

Why You Can’t Generate Attraction

Some guy named Eric Disco wrote an interesting article over on his blog about why he thinks people can’t generate attraction.

The premise of the article is that you can’t generate attraction because you’re already a naturally attractive guy, and you just need to display this to get people attracted to you.

Overall – I have to agree with Eric’s conclusions.  Its a good article and you’ll definitely want to read it when you get a chance.

Gurus Promoting Pheromones?

So this guy Mack Tight over on his blog eseduce wrote an interesting post about how he hates gurus like Ross Jeffries, Sinn, and Johnny Wolf who promote Pheromone Colognes, calling them a fraud.  Check out a snippet…

Mack Tight Writes:
I think the idea of a “magical” cologne or soap that will cast “spells” over women and make them want to fuck you when they smell it is a complete bunch of carnie snake oil bullshit.

I believe in selling guys who are not successful with women products and services that will help them change their inner game and learn better social skills. I obviously do not believe in fucking them over by selling them a magical pipe dream.

For these supposed gurus to be promoting this stuff is totally fucking hypocritical of them and shows how far they will go to make a quick buck and scam their followers.

I do give Ross credit for having enough sense to distance himself from the pheromones claims of the product. He seems to know it is BS but yet plugs the product anyhow and even has allowed his name to be used in conjunction with an upcoming body mist product by the company.

If they just advertised it as a cologne or soap I would have no problem. Maybe some girls may like the smell…

All in all, I tend to agree with Mack Tight on the Pheromone Issue.  I don’t know if it really makes a difference or not.  I do know that having a good cologne is ALWAYS a good idea, though, because smelling nice is a big help when you’re with a woman.  I’ve tried this Pherlure cologne before, and I thought it was pretty good, even if it’s a Pheremone based cologne.  However, I think my favorite is Calvin Klien’s Obsession.

I don’t really have a problem with Gurus pitching colognes to people, though, as long as they aren’t trying to convince guys that ALL THEY NEED is a cologne to get laid.

First Date Tips…

I found an interesting article about why movies aren’t good first date ideas, and it got me thinking…

I’ve NEVER thought going to the movies on a first date was a good idea.  EVER.  I’m a huge movie fan, so I never wanted to "mix my pleasures."  Once you and the girl have been dating for a while, its fun to go to a movie – but the first THREE DATES are so important, you don’t want to squander that time sitting in a dark room for two hours and not talking.

Personally, I don’t recommend going to a movie on a date until after you’ve already established emotional connections with the girl you’re dating.  Once you two have a good rapport going, the whole "dinner and a movie" thing can, in fact, work.

But the first couple dates need to be spend doing the following things:

1.  Building comfort
2.  Deepening rapport
3.  Building attraction

In order to do this, you’re going to need to TALK and INTERACT with the girl you’re dating.  And movie theaters aren’t the best place to do that.

If you want to watch a movie, invite her over to your place to watch a video.  One of the things I like to do is figure out what TV shows my girls enjoy, and invite them to come over to my place and watch them with me.  (It helps that I have a DVR, because often times a girl may be working or have some type of commitment during the show, but she can come over later, or even the next day to watch it.)

A good first date is doing something simple and relaxed, like meeting for drinks.  Some people like to meet at coffee shops, and that’s fine.  I actually PREFER restaurants with bars in them.  This way, you can meet for a causal drink, even get a table, and if things are going well, you can turn it into a "dinner date."

As a side note – I also like to take a first date somewhere that’s close to another bar.  This way, if drinks/dinner goes well, I can invite her to join me at this other bar and "mini-date" her.  This is a great time distortion tactic that makes the first date feel like two dates – remember, every time you change the date venue, it feels like you two have been dating longer than you really have!

I actually have a whole "three date system" over in my Consistent Close course that works very well for me.  If you guys are interested in figuring out how to amp up attraction over the course of three dates, you’ll definitely want to check it out.

Podcast 5: Polyamoury & Stephane on Revolution 31

Just got back from my trip over the fourth of July, and suffered an intolerable 18 hour trek back from the East Coast.  (God, I hate air travel!)

During one of my many layovers, I listened to the latest edition of the Revolution 31 podcast, and got SUPER PISSED OFF.

So pissed, I had to make a podcast all about it.  =)

Check it out:

Right click here for the MP3 File

In this edition of the Podcast:

1.  I get irritated and angry
2.  Barry Kirky lets Stephane get away with massive amounts of bullshit.
3.  Why I’m not negative
4.  Why Polyamoury is a BAD IDEA.
5.  To be continued…

Ross Jeffries Responds To Wendi Friesen’s Appology

So last week I did a Podcast about how Ross Jeffries appeared on Hypnosis Guru Wendi Friesen’s YouTube show and pretty much single-handedly SUNK her ratings and pissed off her audience – so badly, in fact, that Wendi had to TAKE DOWN the show and issue an appology to everyone who watched it!

Well, MINE’99 caught wind of this and decided to spew more of his vile vitrol on poor ol’ Wendi, who wanted nothing more than to have a good show to help promote her hypnosis products.

Here’s the exchange:

speedseduction
Shameful. You feel you need to backbite me to excuse the utter technical incompetence with which you attempted to do the show and your failure to grasp ideas which can’t be packaged into 30 second sound bites for your moronic audience?

The check? I’m explaining to you about the three different aspects of consciousness that need to be cultivated for true success in life, I’m teaching about mindfullness and equanimity and you natter about the check? Shameful,Friesen. Lose my number, you hack.

So this is Ross’s opening salvo.  A nice little re-frame about how the poor quality of the show was all Wendi’s fault, and that it was HER who couldn’t possibly grasp the concepts Ross was talking about.  He even goes so far as to attack her AUDIENCE as being idiots, which isn’t surprizing since it was the audience backlash which prompted Wendi to issue an appology in the first place.

Ross also tries to reframe sticking Wendi with the check as though he was giving Wendi, a woman who is MUCH MORE finanically and professionally successful than Ross, something of greater value.

After this negative attack, Wendi responds..

WendiFriesen
Hi Ross, I definitely wrestled with this. I got so many emails from people asking me why I had you on the show, as it reflected badly on me. I thought it would be interesting and intriguing and would help people to understand what you are really all about, maybe even in a good way. However, with so many emails of complaints I had to respond to my members. The lunch thing, not a big deal, just odd, and straight from your SS teachings. I had to make the apology for my members. They werent hip 2U.

So Wendi is basically explaining that it was the outcry from her members that propted this whole thing.  The funny part here is where she says she wanted to "Help people understand what you are really about."

Well, I hate to break it to you, Wendi – you DID help people understand what Ross is really about.  That’s why you got so many complaints!  The guy is a massively insecure, self-improtant weasel.  His techniques are amateurish, his philosophy about women is wrong, and he is just NOT a likable guy!

Wendi saw, first hand, the hurricane that is Ross Jeffries.  When he touches down, he leaves a path of destruction in his wake.

speedseduction
Sometimes a teacher has to take their students beyond what they expect and with what they are comfortable.

Lunch? Good God, I was YOUR guest. Politeness dictates that the host pay and you didn’t even offer.

Possessing a vagina doesn’t accord you special privilege. You were the one who showed zero class. And smacking me on the internet when my father is just in the ground? Shame on you for whoring to your students instead of doing what was right. Go away, little insect.

Yet another reframe – saying that it’s up to her to dictate to her students what they should and shouldn’t like.  This is another reason why Ross is such a bad teacher.  He’s always been about making his students come around to his style of teaching rather than teaching his students in the way that’s best for them to learn.  Good teachers don’t operate that way.  Teaching is a conversation between student and teacher.  It’s a dialogue.  Teaching can’t be ridgid.  But more so, in a business, you have to listen to your customers, and Wendi is not doing anything but that.

Ross simply doesn’t want to face the fact that it was HIM to misread the audience, and that he should have adapted his style to suit the audience Wendi was exposing him to.  But Ross is too much of an ego maniac to believe he should change.  I’m also willing to bet that Ross saw Wendi, being a woman, as a target to be trivialized.  This is Ross’s M.O.  He doesn’t like women!  Seriously.  He treats them (and all people, for that matter) with utter disrespect at all times.

Now, I do have to concede that Ross has a point about the fact that if
you’re a guest on someone’s show, it should be their treat for lunch.
But I know how Ross operates.  When the check comes, he didn’t even
reach for his wallet.  He just sat there and ignored the check until
Wendi picked it up.  How do I know this?  Because Ross does the same
thing with his students!

At least make a guesture like you’re willing to pay, so Wendi can say
"Oh no, this is on me."  But that type of social nicety is apparently
too advanced for Ross.

WendiFriesen
OMG, this is now about having a vagina? Having you as a guest is a business venture. I promoted you to my list and my groups, exposed you to 1000s of people who then go to your site. Since you didn’t want to set up a promotion (typically a show host makes their money on the promo sales during the show) you simply got new traffic, I gave up my time to promote you with no upside for me. Marketing is about mutual promotion for events. That’s why "splitting lunch" was hilarious and worth a mention!

So basically, Wendi is now saying that Ross didn’t even allow her to profit from any promotion she made of his products.  I guess now I gotta take her side in the "lunhc" argument, since the free traffic and increase of sales for Ross’s products for being on the show was probably going to pay for lunch and then some.  No wonder Wendi took the show down.  Massive public backlash and ZERO financial upside?  Gursh…

Just yet annother example of how freakin’ lame Ross is.  He just needs to stop making public appearances.  Seriously.  He embarasses himself every single time.

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