New UK-Based Sex Master?

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So I’ve been hearing a lot about this guy named Nathan X (yes, I’m fairly certain he does, indeed, sport an awesome mohawk!).  He’s a UK based "pick up" instructor who apparently is really, really good.  I got an email from a guy who’s out in the UK scene saying he may be, and I quote, "The best in the UK for the results he gets."

Judging from his blog, he seems to be having a lot of fun.  In addition to taking new students out and teaching them a little sumthin’-sumthin’, he also seems to be quite proficient at… you guessed it… THREESOMES!

Anyway, check out his blog – it’s got some cool pictures and vids on it:  Nathan X’s Sex Blog

5 Things Never To Say On A First Date

A guy named David Zinczenko posted an article on Yahoo about five things you should never say on a first date.  According to David (who authored the book Men, Love, & Sex, The Complete Users Guide For Women), first dates are like the ultimate relationship chess match.

He gives a few examples of what he things you should say INSTEAD of the typical boring stuff.  See below…

Say This: What do you do for fun?
Not That: What’s your job like?       

Standard question, sure. But it’s one that will elicit a standard answer-good people, I like what I do, blah blah blah. While most will certainly get the employment issue covered, the conversation will be more engaging-and you’ll be more appealing-if you try to home in on those outside interests. Certainly skydiving, poodle rescue, or soup kitchens have got to be more interesting than conference calls and Power Points.      

Say This: You look fantastic
Not That: Good to see you

It may very well be good to see her, but that greeting is about as vanilla as a McDonald’s shake. Instead, it’s all about conveying enthusiasm-without having stalker sirens go off. No need for standing ovations, but a simple compliment sets the tone. The tactic isn’t just for men to use on women, but can be especially effective in the reverse.

I will say this:  Its always better to talk about things that are INTERESTING rather than "hum-drum" or "standard."  I think David hit on this pretty well in the article.

If you’re going to compliment a woman, make it an original compliment.  Don’t say "You look fantastic!"  Say "Wow, you have in incredible sense of style!  I don’t think I’ve ever seen you look so beautiful."  That goes MUCH further than your typical "brush-off" compliment.

Not only that, but when you ask a question, you want to phrase it in such a way that it actually ENGAGES the woman.  So instead of asking "What do you do?" you could say something like "If you could do anything in the world, and were not limited by time, space, or gravity, what would you want to be doing?"

There’s lots of ways you can play it.  But typical rule of thumb:  Be as interesting as possible on the first date!

Sex With A Partner Is 400% Better!

Medical Science never ceases to astound me with their conclusions…

LOVERS know only too well that men usually need a "recovery period" after orgasm, and that sexual intercourse with orgasm is more satisfying than an orgasm from masturbation alone. Now scientists think the two phenomena might be linked.

Following orgasm, the hormone prolactin is released into the bloodstream in both men and women. The hormone makes us feel satiated by countering the effect of dopamine, which is released during sexual arousal.

Stuart Brody of the University of Paisley, UK, and Tillmann KrГјger of the Swiss Federal Institute of Technology in Zurich, measured blood prolactin levels in male and female volunteers who watched erotic films before engaging in masturbation or sexual intercourse to orgasm in the laboratory.

Surprisingly, after orgasm from sexual intercourse, the increase in blood prolactin levels is 400 per cent higher in both sexes compared with after orgasm from masturbation (Biological Psychology, vol 71, p 312).

This explains why orgasm from intercourse is more satisfying than masturbation, says Brody. Since elevated levels of prolactin have been linked to erectile dysfunction, this may also explain why most men need a recovery period after sex.

Sex with partner > masturbation.

Duh.

Phone Calls

Hey everyone,

As you might have noticed, I’ve included a phone number on the site that you can reach me at.  It’s 323-319-4903.  Yes, this is a REAL phone number that you can REALLY reach me at.  I’ve had a number of you call it already, and that’s great.

Understand that I’m not always around to answer the phone when it rings, but I do check messages and I WILL call people back.  Just be sure you leave a voice mail and state your number SLOWLY and CLEARLY.  I’ve had a few people who called up asking for help with some relationship issue or another and the call either dropped while they were giving their number or they said it so fast I couldn’t understand it.

Anyway:  I really, really want to hear from you guys!  So feel free to give me a buzz and leave a message if I don’t pick up.  I will try and return your call in a timely fahion (as log as I don’t get a bajillion phone calls I have to return).

I look forward to speaking with all of you.

David Shade Speaks In San Francisco!

This just in:  Threesome master David Shade will be giving a guest lecture to the San Francisco Lair on Sunday May 20th.  Check out the dilly-o…

The Celebration of the Sixth Anniversary of the San Francisco Lair shall go on and there will be much rejoicing.

And partying.

And there is a very VERY Special Guest.

A man sought out by the world famous pickup artist whom we all know as Style.

A man who has been providing the Seduction community with knowledge since the days when Fast Seduction was only a discussion list and fastseduction.com didn’t exist.

His original "how to" book… The David Shade Manual can be found on virtually every famous pickup artists book shelf.

Famous for his methods on how to lead a woman to feel confident and comfortable enough to express her sexual desires, David has helped men world wide how to have fantastic sex and passionate relationships with women.

And now you can meet him, learn from him, and ask him ANYTHING about women and sexuality.

This thing is gonna rock.  There will be food, drink, a DJ (if we can get the equipment there), and Grant & I have been inviting celebrities from the PickUp & Seduction community to join us in the celebration.

Here’s the important info:
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Date
Sunday, May 20, 2007

Time
5:00 pm PST – 10:00 pm PST

Location
Fort Mason Conference Center
Fort Mason Center, Room D-100
(Marina Boulevard @ Buchanan)
San Francisco, 94123

Tickets: $10.00

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Reserve Your Ticket Now:

http://davidshade.eventbrite.com/

Cheers,

Craig
El Presidente

Sounds awesome.  Just be forewarned:  David Shad WILL hypnotise you with his voice!  I don’t know how he does it, but he is one of the most (un)nautral hypno-voices I’ve ever heard.  Anyway, this guy knows pretty much everything there is to know about S-E-X and he ain’t afraid to share it!

As a side note, I’ll be speaking to the San Francisco Lair sometime in June.  More details on that as it gets closer.

Under 21 PUA Convention

Okay, so I know a lot of you guys out there studying this stuff aren’t quite old enough to go to bars and clubs just yet.  Well, not to worry, your plight has been heard.

Check it out…

Okay so i’m not going to go into super details about it because A) you have already heard about it or B) you can just go to www.under21convention.com and see what it’s all about

But a quick summary is that it is a NON PROFIT convention geared to the under 21 crowed although anyone of any age can go.

It’s free, and after each seminar attendies are broken into small groups by the speakers and staff and taken out on their very own workshops

This is a milestone in the PUA Community and I really feel it is "developing" the lost young minds of our community

Thanks for your help and keep up the good work

Love,
Heartwork

The Under 21 convention is happening in Orlando Florida July 19-22nd.  (Like you really need an excuse to go to Florida in July!)

Sounds like a great place for the young’uns to network and learn.  As for who will be speaking at the event, here’s the list:

Mehow
Certainty – Winging
Vincent Chase
Dynamic – Advanced Game
Dream – Completing Your Newbie Mission
Devious – Mall Game + Bathroom Pulling and Cavemanning
Heartwork – Kino
Mayhem – Direct Game
Sheek – Introducer / MC
Orleans
Maverick
Crono – Social Intelligence
Zine
Nilatak – Identity
Plus some un-named possible guest speakers 

The only guy I recognise from that list is Mehow, but hey, I’m an old fogie!  For all I know this could be the Dream Team of the PUA world!  =)

Aside from the cost of travel, it looks like they’re keeping the event affordable with a $20 fee to get in.  So if you’re looking to improve your game and aren’t of legal drinking age yet, this might be just what the doctor ordered!

Video Of Mystery On The Conan O’Brien Show

For all of you out there who missed it, here’s Mystery on the Conan O’Brien show.  Overall, I think Mystery did pretty well.

I wonder how many people watching Conan are going to know how to spell "Venusian" though?

Video Of Mystery On The Conan O’Brien Show

For all of you out there who missed it, here’s Mystery on the Conan O’Brien show.  Overall, I think Mystery did pretty well.

I wonder how many people watching Conan are going to know how to spell "Venusian" though?

Video Of Mystery On The Conan O’Brien Show

For all of you out there who missed it, here’s Mystery on the Conan O’Brien show.  Overall, I think Mystery did pretty well.

I wonder how many people watching Conan are going to know how to spell "Venusian" though?

Marriage Vs. Monogomy: Cheating Spouses

I found a fascinating op/ed piece over on the New York Times website that talks about the different culture of "cheating spouses" from around the world.  Check out what they had to say about Americans…

Americans cherish monogamy, but they value honesty even more. In
the 1970s and 1980s, as it became easier to divorce and couples
counseling emerged as the forum for resolving marital spats, Americans
decided marriage ought to be a transparent zone without any secrets.
They developed a unique mantra about affairs: It’s not the sex, it’s
the lying.

One popular American remedy for cheating is now
extreme truth-telling. Couples and their therapists can spend dozens of
hours and thousands of dollars retracing every sordid detail of the
affair, complete with times and dates. (Note to unfaithful Americans:
save your motel receipts to make this easier).

Even after a
private confession, the moral stain often sticks. America’s founders
thought that the character of their new state hinged on the values and
even the private behavior of voters, so they stressed monogamous
marriage and warned that anything else threatened the state. The United
States is the only country I found where high-profile people who had
strayed are thought to be capable of any manner of corruption and
lying, and apologize to their employees or constituents for their
private behavior.

American confessions baffle the French. Many
of them could die comfortably with their marital secrets. Though they
prefer monogamy, when the French do cheat they typically aren’t saddled
with guilt. Couples give each other privacy so that they don’t trip
over unwanted information.

Apparently the rest of the world is a lot more "liberal" when it comes to extra-marital affairs.  Maybe the argument that true monogomy is just a myth has some bearing?

PUAs on Flickr

Looks like some enterprising guys have started a Flickr page to host pictures of their outings.  If you’d like t
o share some of your own sarging pics, head on over here and check it out.

Mystery On Conan O’Brien Tonight!

Set your TiVos people, because everyone’s favorite Pick Up Artist, Mystery, is going to be on Late Night With Conan O’Brien tonight!

I hear he’ll be on there plugging his new reality show for VH1.  Apparently he’s done 8 episodes and its set to premiere on the network soon.

I’ll be interested to see how Conana treats him.  He’ll be appearing third on the show along with Tina Fey and Kevin Pollack.

How funny would it be for him to demonstrate on Tina Fey?  lol.

Conan is on NBC after the Tonight Show With Jay Lenno.  Check your local listings.

Mystery On Conan O’Brien Tonight!

Set your TiVos people, because everyone’s favorite Pick Up Artist, Mystery, is going to be on Late Night With Conan O’Brien tonight!

I hear he’ll be on there plugging his new reality show for VH1.  Apparently he’s done 8 episodes and its set to premiere on the network soon.

I’ll be interested to see how Conana treats him.  He’ll be appearing third on the show along with Tina Fey and Kevin Pollack.

How funny would it be for him to demonstrate on Tina Fey?  lol.

Conan is on NBC after the Tonight Show With Jay Lenno.  Check your local listings.

Mystery On Conan O’Brien Tonight!

Set your TiVos people, because everyone’s favorite Pick Up Artist, Mystery, is going to be on Late Night With Conan O’Brien tonight!

I hear he’ll be on there plugging his new reality show for VH1.  Apparently he’s done 8 episodes and its set to premiere on the network soon.

I’ll be interested to see how Conana treats him.  He’ll be appearing third on the show along with Tina Fey and Kevin Pollack.

How funny would it be for him to demonstrate on Tina Fey?  lol.

Conan is on NBC after the Tonight Show With Jay Lenno.  Check your local listings.

Opening Girls Who Are On The Phone

Zardoz over on mASF had a question about how to open girls who were on their cell phone…

Zardoz writes:
Cellphones are the bane of the PUA. I want to know how you all deal with this issue.

As I see it, there are two situations in which cells hinder a sarge,

1: You can’t make an approach because the target is on the phone.

2: You have intitiated the seduction, then her phone rings and she opens it up and starts yacking.

Well?

Some dude named Cinder had a pretty nice reply…

Cinder writes:
Personally what I do for phones is the same
that I do with if they stop to do anything other than listen to what I
say: a mini-freezeout via stopping what I’m talking about mid-sentence.
So if she gets a call, I’ll stop and say "you can take that" OR if she
reaches for it, I’ll just stop the thread mid conversation (my personal
favorite). The trick with this one though is that if she says "go
ahead, I’m listening", then to treat it like nothing is happening and
to talk and carry on the thread as usual because *she IS investing into
the interaction like I am*.

Oh yeah, I wouldn’t suggest to walk off.  The set is definitely still good.  Hell, every set is always still good, let alone these instances.

Opening a girl who is on the cell phone is NOT A BIG DEAL AT ALL.
Anyone can do it with success. I vividly remember multiple times *early
in my pua
career where I’d open a girl, and she would just stop and say on the
phone "let me call you back" and quickly hang up on the person. I think
the trick is, just after you get her attracted
or pass the hook point, ask her "are you talking to someone or
something?". I’ve opened plenty of girls on cell phones before. It’s no
different. It’s seriously all there for looks… like she THINKS this
will stop guys from talking to her. In all reality, she probably is
holding it up because SHE’LL ACTUALLY STOP AND TALK IF SOMEONE TRIES TO
OPEN HER.. haha, and this is her defense.

I think that’s a pretty good strategy over-all.  Don’t let phones intimidate you.  The girl can always call the person they’re talking to back.  =)

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