Why Do Chicks Flake?
June 1, 2006 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
I found this post by a guy named BlueMystery over on mASF…
BlueMystery writes:
Hey guys,I need some help with something that has been frustrating me lately.
I’m able to approach girls, start a convo, get something fun going, get their number while I feel that they are interested in me. (eg: I would say "This was fun, but I gotta go. what can we do to have this conversation again sometime?" They would give it, and we would part.)
I call them up, and sometimes I get the answering machine, where I would tell them (credit to Craig from DYD) "Hey, this is Dan from blah blah, you might wanna call me back. I think you have a confession to make. ok, bye". Of course I would be joking/serious about it.
Most of the time, I dont get a call back. Some times, we set day 2s, and either they flake or cancel on me at the last moment. Lol, one chick blatantly left a message saying "I wont be able to make it because I forgot that I was going to the movies at that time".
What do you guys suppose I am missing when engaging chicks? Are they feeling buyer’s remorse? Am I not screening properly? It’s honestly frustrating.
I will give more more detail to help narrow down the conversation, but I don’t know where to begin analyzing the situ.
Any help would be most appreciated.
You know, this is a REALLY common problem a lot of guys run into.
The meet a girl, they get a number, they think they’re in… and when it comes time to call her up again, she flakes.
No phone call. No 2nd meet. Nothing.
It happens ALL THE TIME. So often in fact, that the top PUAs out there have multiple different strategies to try and prevent it. Things like leaving personal stuff with the girl to "lock her in" so she is in some way OBLIGATED to get back in touch with you.
But in my opinion, that’s a little extreme. To me, unless a woman is truly excited about seeing you again, its not worth the time and effort to try and get her to call you back or meet you for coffee. I’m not saying you SHOULDN’T do that, I just don’t think its worth my effort.
The real fix to this problem comes in the initial meet. You have to do three things in my opinion: Establish a strong connection with the girl, demonstrate higher value, and generate some attraction.
In my humble opinion, those three things will nuke any possibility of flaking you could encounter.
The reason for this is because you need to make a girl WANT to see you again if you want to prevent flaking!
Most guys will maybe get one or two of these in an interaction. But I really think you need all three to make it work. If you just get the connection, you’re the "cool guy who’d make a good friend, but I can’t find the time to hang out with you right now." Same thing with the DHV. If you get some attraction, you might be the "cute guy" she met the other night, but once you’re out of site, the attraction wears off.
BUT, if you get all three, they all re-inforce each other, and you become the "awesome guy" she hopes calls her.
Thoughts?
wefucScoow on 
losari88 on 
Roberthidly on 
prescription drugs without prior prescription on 
site on 
Kasino mendukung permainan bertanggung jawab https://slotdemo.auction/# Slot dengan tema budaya lokal menarik perhatian
Slot dengan bonus putaran gratis sangat populer: BonaSlot – bonaslot.site
Banyak pemain menikmati jackpot harian di slot https://bonaslot.site/# Slot memberikan kesempatan untuk menang besar
garuda888 [url=http://garuda888.top/#]garuda888.top[/url] Banyak kasino memiliki program loyalitas untuk pemain
Mesin slot dapat dimainkan dalam berbagai bahasa: garuda888.top – garuda888.top
Slot menjadi daya tarik utama di kasino https://garuda888.top/# Kasino di Jakarta memiliki berbagai pilihan permainan
Mesin slot digital semakin banyak diminati https://bonaslot.site/# Mesin slot menawarkan pengalaman bermain yang cepat
Permainan slot bisa dimainkan dengan berbagai taruhan: slot demo gratis – slot demo pg gratis
Kasino menyediakan layanan pelanggan yang baik http://slot88.company/# Mesin slot digital semakin banyak diminati
Slot modern memiliki grafik yang mengesankan http://garuda888.top/# Kasino memiliki suasana yang energik dan menyenangkan
Permainan slot bisa dimainkan dengan berbagai taruhan: slot demo rupiah – slot demo
Slot modern memiliki grafik yang mengesankan http://preman69.tech/# Slot menjadi daya tarik utama di kasino
slot88.company [url=http://slot88.company/#]slot88.company[/url] Permainan slot bisa dimainkan dengan berbagai taruhan
Kasino sering mengadakan turnamen slot menarik: garuda888.top – garuda888.top
Slot memberikan kesempatan untuk menang besar http://slot88.company/# п»їKasino di Indonesia sangat populer di kalangan wisatawan
Jackpot besar bisa mengubah hidup seseorang: slot88.company – slot88
Beberapa kasino memiliki area khusus untuk slot https://slot88.company/# Kasino menyediakan layanan pelanggan yang baik
Kasino sering mengadakan turnamen slot menarik https://slot88.company/# Banyak pemain menikmati bermain slot secara online
Keseruan bermain slot selalu menggoda para pemain: slotdemo – slot demo gratis
preman69 slot [url=http://preman69.tech/#]preman69.tech[/url] Slot dengan tema budaya lokal menarik perhatian
Pemain harus menetapkan batas saat bermain https://slotdemo.auction/# Slot dengan bonus putaran gratis sangat populer
Slot klasik tetap menjadi favorit banyak orang: BonaSlot – bonaslot
Slot menawarkan kesenangan yang mudah diakses https://slotdemo.auction/# Banyak kasino memiliki program loyalitas untuk pemain
Slot dengan tema budaya lokal menarik perhatian: preman69.tech – preman69 slot
Slot dengan tema budaya lokal menarik perhatian http://bonaslot.site/# Keseruan bermain slot selalu menggoda para pemain
Banyak kasino menawarkan permainan langsung yang seru: preman69 slot – preman69
Slot menjadi bagian penting dari industri kasino https://slotdemo.auction/# Kasino menyediakan layanan pelanggan yang baik
Banyak kasino memiliki promosi untuk slot: slot 88 – slot88
Banyak kasino memiliki promosi untuk slot http://slot88.company/# Kasino di Bali menarik banyak pengunjung
bonaslot [url=http://bonaslot.site/#]BonaSlot[/url] Banyak pemain menikmati jackpot harian di slot
Kasino di Jakarta memiliki berbagai pilihan permainan: preman69.tech – preman69 slot
Jackpot progresif menarik banyak pemain http://garuda888.top/# Kasino memiliki suasana yang energik dan menyenangkan
Slot menjadi bagian penting dari industri kasino https://garuda888.top/# Kasino memiliki suasana yang energik dan menyenangkan
Banyak pemain menikmati bermain slot secara online: slot 88 – slot88
http://slot88.company/# Slot memberikan kesempatan untuk menang besar
slot88 [url=http://slot88.company/#]slot88[/url] Kasino di Indonesia menyediakan hiburan yang beragam
Banyak pemain mencari mesin dengan RTP tinggi https://bonaslot.site/# Kasino sering memberikan hadiah untuk pemain setia
Slot menawarkan kesenangan yang mudah diakses: bonaslot – BonaSlot
Kasino di Indonesia menyediakan hiburan yang beragam http://slot88.company/# Slot menawarkan berbagai jenis permainan bonus
п»їKasino di Indonesia sangat populer di kalangan wisatawan: garuda888 slot – garuda888.top
Slot klasik tetap menjadi favorit banyak orang https://preman69.tech/# Pemain sering mencoba berbagai jenis slot
Slot dengan grafis 3D sangat mengesankan: slotdemo – slot demo
slotdemo [url=https://slotdemo.auction/#]slot demo[/url] Slot menjadi bagian penting dari industri kasino
Jackpot besar bisa mengubah hidup seseorang: bonaslot.site – bonaslot
Kasino sering mengadakan turnamen slot menarik https://garuda888.top/# Kasino memiliki suasana yang energik dan menyenangkan
Slot dengan grafis 3D sangat mengesankan http://slotdemo.auction/# Kasino di Bali menarik banyak pengunjung
Mesin slot menawarkan pengalaman bermain yang cepat: preman69.tech – preman69 slot
slot demo rupiah [url=https://slotdemo.auction/#]slotdemo[/url] Kasino menawarkan pengalaman bermain yang seru
Banyak kasino menawarkan permainan langsung yang seru https://slotdemo.auction/# Slot klasik tetap menjadi favorit banyak orang
Mesin slot sering diperbarui dengan game baru https://bonaslot.site/# Pemain harus menetapkan batas saat bermain