For College Guys Who Want To Meet Women

Tweeder over on the DJ Boards has a pretty great post up giving advice to college students who want to meet more girls.

Tweeder writes:
Okay men, another year
of college approaches. Now is the time to get your game face on. Time
to use all of these tips you’ve been reading about, but haven’t found
the balls to use them yet. The first couple weeks at college are the
perfect time to meet girls and get their numbers. It’s so easy it’s
pathetic really. Getting pu*** couldn’t be any easier if it was handed
to you.

So how do you do it?  Well that’s what this post is here for:

1. USE THE CLASSROOM TO YOUR ADVANTAGE. First thing to know is that
people are like herds of animals. Wherever they sit on the first day,
that’s the area they’ll go to from now on. On the first day of class
when you walk into a room, what do you see? You see a room half full of
people sitting 2 to 3 seats appart. Almost everybody in that room is
nervous as hell, and they don’t feel comfortable. Everyone’s sitting
there saying, "Man I wish someone would come talk to me." Most likely
you do the same thing. But not anymore. When you go into a room, kind
of pause just inside the door. Act calm and cool. After all, you are a
DJ. Look around the room, and find the girl you want. Try and get a
little eye contact first, and then go sit right next to her. Don’t
worry about getting her to smile first. These girls are nervous, and
may just be intimidated by the confidence you display. This is not a
bar or club. Girls are not nearly as agressive and flirty at first. Not
two seats down, not right behind her. You sit right next to her. Then
smile and say, "Hi my names tweeder, what’s yours?"

Easy isn’t it? Watch her warm up to you right away. She’ll think you’ve
got balls of steel for doing something so easy. Every other guy in the
room will wathc you with envy and say, "Man why didn’t I do that? He
must get all the chicks."

2. USE THE CLASSROOM TO GET THE DIGITS. So you hate asking for a phone
number because you don’t want to look stupid? Well here’s another
golden chance. After you’ve been talking to her for the class period,
you shoould have made her feel really comfortable. As you leave say,
hey why don’t we exchange phone numbers in case I miss a day or
something. I’ve never had a girl say no to this. EVER!!!!! It is the
wussy way out, but it’s a good way to get used to asking. If you’re a
good DJ, just ask her to give you her number so you can get together
for coffee sometime.

3. SAY HI TO EVERYONE EVERYWHERE. So now you’re outside of class.
You’re walking to the bookstore or whatever. What do you see? Tons of
hot chicks walking by themselves. Man what are you waiting for? These
girls want to talk to you more than you’ll ever know. "But why aren’t
they holding eye contact tweeder?" you might ask. Well you’re a DJ, and
you look confident. They’re intimidated. They’ll look once, and then
away. Don’t worry my friends, you’re still in. Just say hi. You’ll be
amazed at the positive responses you get.

4. YOU DIDN’T THINK THEY WERE REALLY IN THE ACTIVITY CENTER TO STUDY
DID YOU? How many times did you go through a center of some sort, and
see a girl at a table by herself reading? Too many to count I’d guess.
Don’t let this fool you. They’re waiting for you. They just need to
look busy so they don’t come off as pathetic. Are some girls really
studying? Of course, but not a lot of them. So how do you tell the
difference? Her eyes do all the talking you need.

If a girl is wanting a guy to approach, she’ll look up every couple of
minutes to see who’s around. If she’s really studying she won’t be
doing this. She’ll be concentrating too much. So if you see a girl,
stay in her line of site for a minute. If she looks up, lock eyes and
smile. You might catch her off guard and she’ll look back down without
smiling. Don’t worry. Hang around. IF she’s interested she’ll check you
out again. When she does just go to her table and ask if you can join
her. Tell her you’re waiting for you’re next class or whatever. Then go
from there. It’s easy I promise.

5. THE CONCLUSION TO ALL THIS MESS. It’s simple really. Girls are
everywhere, and they want to meet you. Colleges are full of chumps that
are too scared to approach a girl in the beginning. And the girls are
the same way. This makes it hard for them to meet girls. Thank God
you’re a DJ. You can go get them all while the chumps watch in awe. By
the end of the second week you’ll have so many numbers your only
problem will be which ones to get rid of.

My final point is the most important. I mention it in a lot of my
posts, but that’s because I want you guys to know it. These posts
always say a girl will give you good buying signals when she wants you
to approach. Like she’ll make good eye contact and smile. THIS IS ONLY
IN BARS AND CLUB TYPE ATMOSPHERES. In normal places only extreamly
confident women will do this. The others will look away when you make
eye contact. Or when you smile. PLEASE DON’T GET DISCOURAGED.

Remember this rule. A woman may look by mistake once, but she’ll never
make the mistake again. So she may check you out once and realize
you’re not her type, but she won’t look again unless she finds you
attractive. So if you make good EC with a woman and she looks away,
keep at it. Wait a minute and see. Odds are she’ll look again. When she
does you’re in. You better go for it.

Is this fool proof? Of course not. Rjections is always a possibility.
But you’re success will always outway the rejections. So come on guys,
make these first couple of weeks count.

Hot damn I wish I was back in school again!  To all you guys out there still in college (or going to college), don’t squander your time there being afraid of talking to women!  Never in your life will you find an easier place to meet them.  Sieze every opportunity you have.