Swinggcat Says: It’s No Big Deal
June 9, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Articles
Well, it seems Swinggcat has released another newsletter. As usual, it’s a good one…
Swinggcat writes:
Hey guys,If you have been following my newsletters you probably have noticed that I have been revealing some big pieces to the puzzle on generating ATTRACTION in women. Today I am going to share with you something that most guys – even guys who are good with women – don’t consciously know. Knowing this secret could very well sky rocket your success with women.
Before moving on to this secret, I am going to review some basics. As you probably know if you have read my book and been reading my newsletters, ATTRACTION is not what women prefer. The collective female prefers a baby faced, tall muscular man, blessed with a monster sized sausage and a tongue with a gifted touch. Why do you think boy bands rake in so much cash? Hello!! – this is what women prefer. This, however, is not what ATTRACTION is.
ATTRACTION is what you do to a woman’s mind and body. The “body” part is creating the emotion inside her of wanting and reaching for more of you, which in my book I call PRIZING. The “mind” part is you establishing that you are the PRIZE to be won over, which in my book I call PRIZABILITY.
Before you can start PRIZING a woman – generating inside her the emotion of wanting, reaching, and chasing for more of you – you must establish PRIZABILITY.
A powerful method for establishing PRIZABILITY with a woman is conveying that you are of slightly higher perceived value than her. Higher perceived value means: her believing that she has more to gain from you than you do from her. Am I saying that you should establish this through promising expensive gifts and buying her lots of overpriced drinks? No!! Doing this would only establish that you are her human ATM machine. Bad thing!
Am I suggesting that you establish PRIZABILITY by treating her like a jerk? Not at all!
Establishing higher perceived value is about you conveying to her that she has more to gain from you than you do from her because of who you are.
Establishing PRIZABILITY – establishing that you are the PRIZE – sets the groundwork for generating ATTRACTION with a woman. If you currently are not as good as you could be at establishing PRIZABILITY you need to get my book today. By not having mastered this skill, you are cheating yourself out of a lot of success with women. My book goes into painstaking detail on exactly what steps you need to take to consistently establish PRIZABILITY with women. Start mastering the art of PRIZABILITY now by getting my book:
Another key concept for generating massive ATTRACTION with women is having a strong intent. Having a strong intent is having the DESIRE and the WILL to do what needs to be done to achieve a particular outcome, coupled with the unwavering belief that you will achieve this intended outcome.
If a person has the DESIRE and the WILL to do what needs to be done to succeed with a woman but does not have the BELIEF that he can, he will come across as needy. If you do not yet have a strong intent, reread my article “Demystifying Charisma,” and reread the chapter in my book on beliefs.
Okay, we got the basics out of the way. Now for the secret most guys DON’T KNOW. But first, I am going to tell you how I discovered this secret. Around three years ago while hanging out at a bookstore I met a woman lumbered with one of the most spectacular bodies I have ever seen. She, furthermore, happened to be bisexual and into having threesomes!! Her and I really hit it off, and ended up having sex in the bookstore’s parking lot. Afterwards, I tried coaxing her into having a threesome with me. She, alas, resisted. This frustrated me and I sought advice. One guy gave me some golden advice.
To paraphrase his words, “One of the worst things you can do when trying to get a woman to have a threesome with you is ASSUMING that it is a big deal. Instead assume it is NO BIG DEAL, and a lot of fun. Pitch the idea to her the same way, for example, you would suggest that it would be fun for the two of you to get ice cream.”
These words apply to more than having threesomes with women. Whatever your intended outcome with a woman is – whether it is, for example, getting her number, getting her to go on a date with you, or getting her back to your house – ASSUME IT’S NO BIG DEAL, and a lot of fun.
Women are like professional psychics when it comes to picking up on when MEN ASSUME that something is a big deal. Even if we don’t explicitly communicate that we think something is a big deal, women somehow always intuitively know. I have a female friend of mine who told me that she always knows when a guy is scared to kiss her. “When a man thinks it is a big deal to kiss a girl he unconsciously displays all sorts of nervous and indecisive body movements conveying his fear,” she told me.
Assuming that something is a big deal can stifle your chances of achieving your intended outcome in two ways.
One is that by doing this you are lowering your perceived value in her eyes. She will stop seeing you as a PRIZE to be won over. When you ASSUME, for example, that it is a really big deal to ask for a girl’s number, it conveys to her that she is of higher of value than you. By doing this you are, unknowingly, ESTABLISHING that she is the PRIZE to be won over, not you.
Two is that when women intuit you assuming that something is a big deal, they begin to believe it is a big deal as well. How women feel about doing something with you is oftentimes a mirror image of how you feel about doing something with them. If you are nervous, they will become nervous too. If you, for example, ASSUME getting a woman to go out with you is a big deal, she will pick up on your nervous energy and feel the same way.
When you, however, ASSUME that achieving your intended outcome with a woman is NO BIG DEAL, your perceived value in her eyes will increase. Furthermore, ASSUMING that your intended outcome is NO BIG DEAL will often times put a woman at ease making her assume that your intended outcome is no big deal. When you have perceived value in a woman’s eyes and she construes your intended outcome as no big deal, it makes it very easy to get what you want.
There have been women I have slept with after only knowing them for a short amount of time – in some cases, as short as twenty five minutes! I was able to do this because I ASSUMED it was no big deal, and a lot of fun.
Also, if a woman puts up resistance when trying to kiss her, DON’T become distraught. Instead, keep your composure by ASSUMING it to be no big deal. Then, try again a few minutes later using my physical push-push technique from my book.
Of course having the mindset that achieving your intended outcome is no big deal is easier to achieve if you have the skill sets for both establishing yourself as the PRIZE and creating the emotion inside a woman of her wanting, reaching, chasing for more of you. As far as I know, my book is the only available material that goes into extreme depth, breaking down these skill sets into a step-by-step easy to learn system. Start living the life you deserve by picking up a copy of Real World Seduction today:
P.S., I decided to give my webpage a facelift. So, even if you already have my book, come visit me and tell me what you think of the new look.
Wow, Swingg’s newsletters just keep getting better and better. If you haven’t signed up for them yet (they’re free), I strongly suggest you do so by clicking here. And if you haven’t gotten his book, I definitely recommend checking it out. There’s a TON of good stuff in there.
olozuHaree on 
https://lmpklaw.com on 
Https://Natedickerson.Com/ on 
Joy on 
Lucille on 
I am regular reader, how are you everybody? This post posted at this web site is really fastidious.
шлюхи москвы [url=www.mgtimez.ru]www.mgtimez.ru[/url] .
[url=][/url]
Новые методы лечения болезни Паркинсона в клинике Neuro Implant Clinic.
Акупунктура уха – новый метод лечения болезни Паркинсона, Альцгеймера, Рассеянного Склероза.
Выездное лечение в разные Страны.
Отзывы нашего метода на официальном сайте Neuro Implant Clinic.
[url=][/url]
Промокод – это комбинация символов, которую вводят в специально отведенную строку на сайте. После активации кода, пользователь получит вознаграждение от любимого БК. Обычно к промокоду прилагается подробное описание всех предлагаемых бонусов. Но иногда букмекеры позволяют игрокам выяснить назначение кода самостоятельно, ведь многие любят сюрпризы. В случае с промокодом, сюрприз наверняка окажется приятным, ведь его главная цель – создать игроку комфортные условия, заслужить лояльность. Существуют промокоды для новых игроков, которые действительны только при регистрации, и для постоянных – окно для ввода таких кодов находится под формой пополнения игрового баланса. Melbet промокод Введите: RS777 и тогда при депозите вы получите бонус 10400 рублей автоматически. Букмекерская контора Мелбет в 2024 году создала комфортные условия для заядлых беттеров и новых пользователей. Промокоды – вещь распространенная, потому найти их легко. Часто букмекеры размещают коды в свободном доступе, для всеобщего пользования. А промокоды для более значимых наград поступают игрокам индивидуально, например в качестве подарка ко дню рождения, извинения за возможные неудобства или просто в благодарность за сотрудничество.
If you want to obtain a good deal from this piece of writing then you have to apply such methods to your won web site.
[url=][/url]
Временная регистрация в Санкт-Петербурге: Быстро и Легально!
Ищете, где оформить временную регистрацию в СПб?
Мы гарантируем быстрое и легальное оформление без очередей и лишних документов.
Ваше спокойствие – наша забота!
Минимум усилий • Максимум удобства • Полная легальность
Свяжитесь с нами прямо сейчас!
Временная регистрация в СПб
[url=][/url]
Смешные анекдоты. Что такое анекдот.
Смешные анекдоты. Что такое анекдот.
kantorbola
Kantorbola adalah situs gaming online terbaik di indonesia , kunjungi situs RTP kantor bola untuk mendapatkan informasi akurat rtp diatas 95% . Kunjungi juga link alternatif kami di kantorbola77 dan kantorbola99 .
Article writing is also a excitement, if you be familiar with then you can write if not it is difficult to write.
https://utahsyardsale.com/author/poppytoe1/ [url=https://www.heidewebster18.livejournal.com/profile]https://www.heidewebster18.livejournal.com/profile[/url] .
Every weekend i used to pay a quick visit this web site, because i want enjoyment, for the reason that this this web site conations actually pleasant funny information too.
Профессиональный сервисный центр по ремонту посудомоечных машин с выездом на дом в Москве.
Мы предлагаем: мастер по ремонту посудомоечных машин москва
Наши мастера оперативно устранят неисправности вашего устройства в сервисе или с выездом на дом!
Как развеселить друга с помощью забавных приколов
This piece of writing presents clear idea designed for the new people of blogging, that truly how to do running a blog.
эскорт в москве [url=http://www.prime-girls.ru]http://www.prime-girls.ru[/url] .
Kantorbola adalah situs gaming online terbaik di indonesia , kunjungi situs RTP kantor bola untuk mendapatkan informasi akurat rtp diatas 95% . Kunjungi juga link alternatif kami di kantorbola77 dan kantorbola99 .
First off I would like to say wonderful blog! I had a quick question in which I’d like to ask if you don’t mind. I was interested to know how you center yourself and clear your thoughts before writing. I’ve had trouble clearing my mind in getting my ideas out. I do take pleasure in writing however it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes tend to be wasted just trying to figure out how to begin. Any ideas or hints? Thanks!
Профессиональный сервисный центр по ремонту МФУ в Москве.
Мы предлагаем: где можно отремонтировать мфу
Наши мастера оперативно устранят неисправности вашего устройства в сервисе или с выездом на дом!
[url=][/url]
Временная регистрация в Санкт-Петербурге: Быстро и Легально!
Ищете, где оформить временную регистрацию в СПБ?
Мы гарантируем быстрое и легальное оформление без очередей и лишних документов.
Ваше спокойствие – наша забота!
Минимум усилий • Максимум удобства • Полная легальность
Свяжитесь с нами прямо сейчас!
Временная регистрация в СПБ
[url=][/url]
Как развеселить друга с помощью смешных приколов
Сервисный центр предлагает починка компьютеров dell ремонт компьютеров dell рядом
уличный турникет для проходной [url=https://for-gate.ru]https://for-gate.ru[/url] .
I am extremely impressed with your writing skills as well as with the layout on your blog. Is this a paid theme or did you customize it yourself? Anyway keep up the nice quality writing, it is rare to see a great blog like this one nowadays.
Kantorbola adalah situs gaming online terbaik di indonesia , kunjungi situs RTP kantor bola untuk mendapatkan informasi akurat rtp diatas 95% . Kunjungi juga link alternatif kami di kantorbola77 dan kantorbola99 .
instagram account [url=http://storyanonviewer.com/]instagram account[/url] .
пропускная система купить [url=https://northern-computers.ru/]northern-computers.ru[/url] .
Профессиональный сервисный центр по ремонту принтеров в Москве.
Мы предлагаем: ремонт принтера на дому москва
Наши мастера оперативно устранят неисправности вашего устройства в сервисе или с выездом на дом!
Hiya! I know this is kinda off topic nevertheless I’d figured I’d ask. Would you be interested in trading links or maybe guest authoring a blog article or vice-versa? My website goes over a lot of the same subjects as yours and I think we could greatly benefit from each other. If you’re interested feel free to send me an e-mail. I look forward to hearing from you! Wonderful blog by the way!
1xBet Singapore https://actuchomage.org/includes/wkl/code_promo_69.html
1xBet offers a localized experience for users in Singapore, including region-specific promo codes and bonuses. These promotions are tailored to the preferences of Singaporean users, providing them with the best possible betting experience.
СМЕШНЫЕ ШУТКИ И АНЕКДОТЫ
Как развить чувство юмора
It’s impressive that you are getting thoughts from this paragraph as well as from our dialogue made here.
Профессиональный сервисный центр по ремонту плоттеров в Москве.
Мы предлагаем: цены на ремонт плоттеров
Наши мастера оперативно устранят неисправности вашего устройства в сервисе или с выездом на дом!
rgbet
Wonderful site. Lots of useful info here. I’m sending it to some friends ans additionally sharing in delicious. And obviously, thank you for your effort!
Профессиональный сервисный центр по ремонту объективов в Москве.
Мы предлагаем: ремонт объектива
Наши мастера оперативно устранят неисправности вашего устройства в сервисе или с выездом на дом!
кодировка человека от алкоголя [url=https://www.xn----7sbbfcijbwcrwtjcjarh1adw8u.xn--p1ai]кодировка человека от алкоголя[/url] .
автоматические турникеты [url=https://www.sigmavision.ru]https://www.sigmavision.ru[/url] .
схема лечения алкоголизма [url=www.xn-----7kcablenaafvie2ajgchok2abjaz3cd3a1k2h.xn--p1ai]схема лечения алкоголизма[/url] .
[url=][/url]
[b]Продажа мини-погрузчиков Lonking[/b]
Продажа мини-погрузчиков Lonking на территории России от официального
дистрибьютора. Новая многофункциональная техника для любых задач.
Наши машины предназначены для того, чтобы упростить вашу работу:
от строительных площадок до складских операций.
Высокая эффективность, надежность и инновационные решения — все,
что вам нужно для успешных проектов. Погрузите свой бизнес в будущее
с мини-погрузчиками Lonking!
47% российских покупателей выбрали мини-погрузчики Lonking в 2023 году
продано более 1200 единиц.
Lonking
[url=][/url]
Link exchange is nothing else except it is just placing the other person’s weblog link on your page at appropriate place and other person will also do same in support of you.
Смешные анекдоты про евреев
Заходи посмеяться
Профессиональный сервисный центр по ремонту серверов в Москве.
Мы предлагаем: ремонт компьютеров серверов
Наши мастера оперативно устранят неисправности вашего устройства в сервисе или с выездом на дом!
Its like you read my mind! You seem to know a lot about this, like you wrote the book in it or something. I think that you can do with some pics to drive the message home a bit, but other than that, this is excellent blog. An excellent read. I will definitely be back.
Смешные приколы
view instagram anonymously [url=www.anstoriesview.com/]view instagram anonymously[/url] .
insta story viewer [url=https://anonstoriesview.com/]insta story viewer[/url] .
Your means of explaining everything in this paragraph is in fact nice, every one can simply understand it, Thanks a lot.
nhà cái
Как кодируются от алкоголя в Астане [url=kodirovanie-ot-alkogolizma-astana.kz]Как кодируются от алкоголя в Астане[/url] .