Remove Neediness
May 19, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
ijjjjji wrote a post in the General Forum of mASF called "Step 1: Remove Neediness." You can find that thread here. Now, I agree with the concept of removing neediness, because it can really destroy state and make you do dumb things. Girls can tell when someone is needy. It’s the equivalent of a bum walking up to you on the street and asking for change. It just turns you off.
The the actual REMOVAL of neediness is a different subject all together. How does one remove neediness? The answer, of course, is by having abundance. You need to have an abundance of something in your life in order to not NEED it anymore. However, if you’re not getting laid, and you don’t have an abundance of pussy, how do you go about ridding yourself of the "N" word?
Well, I’m not quite sure how. Lord knows I’m a needy little fuck. I’ve been walking around the beaches lately here in Europe, and every time I see a beatuiful big-boobied lady letting it all hang out, the first thing that runs through my mind is "I NEED ME SOME O’ THAT!" Sometimes the need becomes so overpowering that it can turn into depression when you bottle it up in order to keep from raping the poor girl. So how do we overcome this neediness mentality? How do we train ourselves to rid ourselves of it?
The answer is, I think, that we can’t. If you’re needy, you can’t get rid of that neediness until you succeed, and you can’t succeed unless you get rid of the neediness. So you’re stuck in a Catch-22. What do you do? How do you overcome that?
I think maybe the answer is we have to embrace our neediness. We have to accept the fact that we, as men, need sex, need women, and will never go without that need, and figure out a way to function while feeling that emotion. Part of PUA skills are training yourself to be a performing artist. Actors could feel nervous or scared on stage, but you’d never know it because they are acting their part so well due to their training and rehersal.
So you need to train yourself to not LOOK needy, even though you may FEEL needy. I have a few acting skills, so I am able to do this quite well (except in extreme circumstances, but that’s a rarity). But part of not looking needy is knowing your material and having experience under your belt. The better you know your stuff, the more you practice, be in in front of a mirror or in public, the better you will become at not looking needy.
And if you don’t look needy, you can fool others into thinking you’re NOT needy. So fake it until you make it. That’s my opinion on the subject. What do you guys think?
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The easiest way to remove neediness is to understand that no one woman controls all of the pussy in the world… No one woman can keep you from ever experiencing the pleasure of pussy.. In other words, you don’t need any one chick. I like pussy, I might even have some deep biological need for it so if I wasn’t getting it then I could come across as needy, but I know there is more than one place to get what I need. I don’t think acting is going to get you anything.. The best way is develop your inner game and form inner beliefs that set the solid foundation for success. Also, don’t think about not looking needy because thinking about it will make you look needy.. Focus on using your material and having fun.
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Thunder,
Your blog rocks and keeps getting better ! And you rock !
If you feel comfortable discussing it, I am curious how many different women have you gotten laid with ? What is you current rate of success and how often do you get laid with a new women ?
OK, this might be woo woo sounding . . .
Realize that what you want is already here.
Here’s an example of a BAD case scenario: You want something and you feel like crap because you don’t have it. IMO girls pick up on this INSTANTLY, and it really hurts game.
For me it used to be and sometimes still can be 1) See Hot chick 2) Want her and feel like crap because I don’t have her. This is a formula for disaster. I know this may sound crazy but here are some things I have experimented with that have given me improved results. (I am in the process of tying these all together to see if there is a synergistic effect to applying these all at once)
1) Breathing meditation practices. I know I know it sounds new age and woo woo but it helps a lot and I do it before I go out specifically to sarge, or any social situation where I know there are going to be women that I want to be game-up. It helps me relax and not give a damn about the outcome, but my skills are still in place (and can be enhanced). Ask RJ about this one. Because I got this idea from him
2) This is NLP right here. Affirm what you want. Read your affirmation outloud, vividly visualize the result in the first person, and the feeling you’ll get once you get the result (You must do those three things mentioned above. And be specific too (well it at least helps) i.e. I choose to find it fun and easy to weight 150 lbs by August 31st 2004) (I tried this hardcore a few weeks ago, and amazed myself with the results. You’ll want to balance your affirmations with other parts of your life because when they’re done right you’ll be driven almost OBSESSIVELY, with attaining your goals – and this can be done for any goal – i.e. weight change)
3)Learn about Manifest Destiny – I’ve had very interesting results with this one – however, I do not know whether or not this DIRECTLY translated into improving my game or not when I was working on it specifically to improve my game. However, my game has improved since I last practiced Manifest Destiny techniques and meditations. The good folks at Nightingale-Conant have an audio series called “The Secrets To Manifesting Your Destiny” by Wayne Dyer. Listen to it and implement the techniques in there. I’ve seen them at work in my life.
A player friend of mine (he’s a natural) told me when it comes to women the old adage “The Hungry Don’t Get Fed” applies, meaning if you’re desperate you’ll never get what you want which goes in tune with the philosophy outlined in the Silent Power – don’t lean forward, if you want something act detached from the outcome, so if you don’t get it you’re cool. This immediately does one of two things a)you’re at peace regardless of whether or not you get what you want and b) you’re more likely to get it (note how women hate neediness in guys, and guys who supplicate, that’s why we all know you need to be detached, and always make them reach for us instead of “chasing” them.
Wow!
I’ve managed to post another doctoral thesis here.
I really really hope this helps you. I like this stuff because it’s more deep and can be applied to a lot of other things, and not so on the surface whereas advice that is content oriented tends to apply to what you are specifically dealing with and you have to decipher the principles in the solution in order to figure out how to apply it to other things.
Cheers,
Vega
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