How’s Your Current Game?

Nightblue has a great post up (IMHO) about his current game and what he does to prepare himself for the ladies.

Nightblue writes:
Ive noticed that a lot of guys started to get really good here.
They all have two things in common, dedication and congruency.
Those things are so important in the game.

With dedication I mean, really making the choice to improve. Not I’ll just start with it and later I’ll take it really seriously and sarge everyday.
Ive seen that a lot and it SUCKS bigtime. No later. Later ALWAYS stays later.
Make the choice now. Another thing is congruency.
You can do anything as long as your congruent with it.

For example, I met this guy in field who is very good with women.
No asf theory or knowlegde whatsoever.
But the guy has ONE single thing, congruency.
Next to that he knows how to to get attention.

That can be the most helpful thing you have.
Attention sucking.
The guy I met and hang with now, is Homer fucking Simpson.
Not in persona, but as close as can be.
He literally opens by walking up to girls and opening his mouth as much as possible, pointing and saying:
Dwo I hwaave somethwin in mwy teeth?

Next to being extremely funny, its surprisingly successful. Ive thought about it a while, like How the hell can THAT work? One word, Congruency.
The guy stays like that ALL the time.
At first the girls are surprised and dont know how to act.
After such an opener he just continues acting in the same strong frame, and within a few moments the girls are into him.
He doesnt give a shit about girls not liking him and he shows it.

The verbal skills I mentioned are being able to talk non stop in a captivating way.
From subject to subject, without having the need to finish the previous one.
B/c its captivating or at least interesting, people have no choice but to listen.
Thats why plowing targets with material works.
The material is fieldtested that its very effective, girls cant do anything but to listen.
Prepare such material. Your goal is to kidnap her into your frame.

When Im coming up with material its things that I find socially interesting.
Not technology, sports, science or whatever. Thats interesting for a specific group.
But things like adventure, humor, mystery etc are interesting for everyone.
When I need new routines I think, what is funny and has something that could make others curious.
i.e. penguins. The word alone I find very funny.
Gay penguin. Funny and makes you curious.
Isolated gay penguin. Funny, evokes more curiosity.
Just introduce it with, Hey have you (guys) heard about the isolated gay penguin?
They beg you to tell after you build up tension. You can just come up with infinite routines following this structure.

Another thing that isnt handled enough on the board is creating the circumstances.
Like before a meet I plan every detail and possible obstacle.
If you want to get laid, you have to plan it.
You cant just go there and see what happens.
Having your material, extraction structures etc is a must.
It must be as solid as possible.
Like do you have a place to lay her? Do you have condoms?
Do you have interesting things at the place to avoid her thinking about the possibility of sex.

If you stall for just a moment in the first minutes after the isolation/extraction to the final venue, she will start to think about how you two are going to have sex.
That will put a lot of pressure on her and can destroy the lay. You can and should avoid it.

Another thing I mentioned was attention.
Not just in clubs, you need to collect all of the attention everywhere.
a PUA cant just be anybody. The way you talk and act should be for one thing only, just GET ALL THAT FUCKING ATTENTION. To make people curious and thinking, who is that guy? It will get you opened, and it will give you the best responses when you open.
I began to peacock since I was 16. Wearing sunglasses when I went out, having earrings with a symbol hanging on it, clothing that makes you stand out, anything.
It doesnt need to be extreme, just some little thing that catches the eye will work for your advantage.
I fucking even peacocked my dog before I took him for a walk.
It gets attention. It gets you opened. It makes you interesting. It makes everything so much easier.
A Pua must have all those qualities.

To sum it up. Attention sucking, captivating talk and being congruent with that will make you notice your game going up instantly.

More thoughts are welcome

I find this interesting, because we can always be learning things to incorporate into our social repertoire to up our game. I don’t know if I agree that a Pick-Up Artist should have “ALL” those qualities, because everyone’s game is dependant on their own strengths, weaknesses, limiting beliefs, sticking points, and preference in women. But I think the whole idea of courting attention, telling captivating stories, and being congruent are all INCREDIBLY important when dealing with women. If you aren’t doing those three things currently, you should really be thinking about incorporating those traits and see how things turn out.

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