Kino & Body Language Tips

Over on the Seduction Bible, I found an interesting article called "An Introduction To Using Kino" written by some guy called the Dicknotist.  (Yes, that’s what he’s calling himself)  Apparently, he too has a blog which you can check out here.

Anyway, I read the article about Kino and wanted to say a thing or two about it.  Here’s a clip…

The Dicknotist writes:
When I think of touch, I imagine that my hands are like paintbrushes
plastering my emotions onto her body.  Call me the Jackson Pollack of
seduction: I paint her arms her arms and torso now so that I can
sprinkle some more on her face later…with my other special brush.  So,
when first talking to a girl, I will often just lightly touch her outer
arms and torso with my fingers as I’m talking to her.  I see it as
expressive: you touch her as you talk to emphasize important points.
That touch is more subtle and friendly, aimed at just making her
comfortable and more trusting.  During high points in the interaction,
however, your touch should become more appreciative.

Touch serves two purposes: to emphasize what you’re saying to her
and to appreciate her.  An example of appreciation could be that in
talking to her, she reveals that she works as a nurse.  That
immediately peaks your interest as your mom was a nurse and you realize
the resiliency and compassion necessary for the job.  Rather than just
telling her how awesome that is, you should also touch her arm and hold
it there a few seconds longer than usual and perhaps even stroke it.

Expressive touch is like a period: light and quick.  Appreciative
touch is like an exclamation point, lasting a good 2-3 seconds.  Yet
the point isn’t for you to have this in your head while talking to a
woman but to give you a context for which touch can amplify and
supercharge your game.

When you touch her, touch her as if you’re already making love to
her.  Cup your hand as you touch her back and cup the back of her
shoulder blades.  Don’t forget her sensitive spots, including her inner
arms, behind her knees, the skin fold on the other side of her elbow.
Later on in the interaction, touching her neck, ears, thighs, breasts
will amplify her desire.  Don’t be afraid to graze her breasts!  Graze
them now so you can glaze them later.

You know, there is something about Kino that a LOT of guys out there NEVER TELL YOU.  And that is this…

Kino is all about CALIBRATION.

Yes, yes, all this flowerly language might be true to an extent, but here’s the deal… you are able to guage what your trust/comfort level is with a girl based on your ability to kino her.

If you go to touch the girl, and she is obviously not comfortable, that tells you that you have some work yet to do.

If you kino her and she’s comfortable with it, that means you’re doing the right thing.

So bottom line – kino is first and foremost a TOOL to see how well you’re doing when it comes to buidling the all important trust & comfort with a girl.

Secondly, once you know the girl is comfortable around you, proper kino will MAGNEFY the connection between you two, and can be used to escalate physical intimacy, when done RIGHT.

There are different levels of "invasiveness" with kino, and the more invasive you can get, the better your chances of making out with the girl.

Non-invasive kino is when you touch the hands, wrists, knee, or shoulder.

Mildly invasive kino is the lower back, the back, the forearm & elbow, the calf, and the neck.

Invasive kino is the face, the belly, the inner thigh, the hip, the lips, the ear, the butt, and the chest.

Understand – kino is the method by which you figure out where the girl is emotionally.  A girl who’s "feeling" you and into you will allow invasive kino, whereas a girl who’s not that comfortable with you will just allow non-invasive kino.

So learn to use your touch as a way to guage and calibrate.  Emotions are what create attraction, not touching, but touching will tell you where the girl is at emotionally.