“Catch Him & Keep Him” Author Responds!

So there was a bit of controversy a while back about the latest book to be coming out of David DeAngelo Communications called "Catch Him And Keep Him," which seems to be a Double Your Dating type book for women.  It ruffled a few feathers of the readers of this site because they felt like David DeAngelo was trying to tell women exactly what to do to combat what he teaches guys to do.

Frankly, I don’t see it that way.  And when I contacted the DYD crew about the site, they responded that the author, Christian Carter, was part of the DYD crew and someone completely separate from David DeAngelo.

This, of course, was not believable to MINE’99, who insisted that David D was trying to pull a fast one, that Christian Carter was a made-up name, and that this was some type of "major scandal."

Well, it seems the real Christian Carter has visited the site and didn’t like what he saw.  Here’s his response…

Christian Carter writes:

So the truth is a PURELY subjective matter here?

It’s fascinating to see lies become truth and truth become emotional
ammunition here at a group that I would think prides itself of being
above practices like this.

Same common issue – different context.

I’m in awe of how I’ve been transformed into another human being by
your desires to "hate" or your fixation on the evil, misdirected and
absurd. I guess it’s more interesting that way though…

I’ve gone from myself into David DeAngelo simply through the power
of your thinking and wishing for all the bad things that you fear in
others to be true.

Plus, we all like nothing more than to see people who hold
themselves in high-esteem take a topple. (and I imagine there’s also
some childish short-sided financial "gain" that some of you think
you’re getting by espousing your "truth" – or at least you hope your
making sure other people don’t have too much more than you do)

Would anyone even think to try and meet me or talk with me? I am a
real human- being that does NOT happen to be David DeAngelo, Eben Pagan
or any other name that would apparently not smell so sweet here.

If you’re at Cliff’s Seminar, feel free to ask David about me and who I am.

Actually, I’d like to show up there and talk with to you since you know so much about me.

Then you could tell me all about me.

Hey – and then you could find a way to hate me too.

Seriously – does anyone want to talk, or are you happier living in your version of the world?

Not to be exposed for the idiot he is, MINE’99 spews forth this venomous reply…

MINE’99 writes:

Someone ALLEGING to be "Christian Carter" wrote:

"I’m in awe of how I’ve been transformed into another human being by
your desires to "hate" or your fixation on the evil, misdirected and
absurd. I guess it’s more interesting that way though…

I’ve gone from myself into David DeAngelo simply through the power
of your thinking and wishing for all the bad things that you fear in
others to be true."

So you are claiming you are the person who authored the Catch Him
And Keep Him ebook? Despite the fact that the writing style is almost
identical to Pagan’s. And you also write the newsletters too..is that
what you are claiming?

So Deangelo has NOTHING to do with this, other than lending
marketing expertise, his staff, his money, etc. He gets no profit from
it either.

    Please…pull the other leg while you are at it.

"Would anyone even think to try and meet me or talk with me? I am a
real human- being that does NOT happen to be David DeAngelo, Eben Pagan
or any other name that would apparently not smell so sweet here."

Sure. I’ll meet you. But in the meantime, are you saying YOU
authored the Catch Him And Keep Him ebook? That you write the
newsletters as well?

And that DeAngelo/Pagan has nothing to do with the marketing of
this project, even though you were described, by Thundercat, as a DYD
team member.

In the final analysis, if you wrote the book at Pagan’s request or
he is involved in the marketing of it, it is still a betrayal of his
DYD customer list. He’s still promoting and marketing a product that
tells women to avoid the men who do the stuff he teaches in the DYD
ebook.

  Care to respond?

If you’re at Cliff’s Seminar, feel free to ask David about me and who I am.

Actually, I’d like to show up there and talk with to you since you know so much about me.

Then you could tell me all about me.

Hey – and then you could find a way to hate me too.

Seriously – does anyone want to talk, or are you happier living in your version of the world?

To which Christian replies…

Christian Carter writes:

RJ – I don’t know you. Therefore I feel no need to explain myself, my writing and my association with David D.

After reading where you’re coming from on posting board, I’ve
reached the conclusion that you’re not a person I want to spend my time
with or respond or engage with.

You’ve deceptively claimed that you know what the book is and
intimated that you’ve read it. Tell me what the name of the first
chapter is? I find you’re knowledge of all this amusing since no one
has seen my book besides my editor and a few women I’ve given advanced
copies to.

So say what you want and come to your own conclusions. I’m not going to read or respond to any of your posts in the future.

But thanks for your attention and the publicity/controversy you’re creating.

What’s the deal with MINE’99 and his obsession with this whole thing?  I mean, it’s not like this book is COMPETING with him in any way, unless he’s released some product that teaches women how to hypnotize men into relationships, in which case he’s guilty for the exact some thing he’s acusing David D of.

But when it comes down to it, MINE’99′s posts just wreak of petty jealousy and spite.  Why anyone would want to learn anything from this man is beyond me, since he seems to have obvious problems and issues a person with "guru" status just simply should not have.

I haven’t read Christian Carter’s book, and I don’t know anything about it.  It’s obvious that David D is marketing the book, but the only women who will be buying it/reading it will be lowly ugs who can’t get a guy, so chances are I’m not going to have to deal with any women who’ve read this book.  And if they have read it, so what?  What’s the worse that could happen?  They seduce you into a relationship with them? 

Heaven forbid.