The Best Time For Cocky & Funny

mASF Mega-poster ijjjji has a fantastic post up about when exactly is the best time to use the David DeAngelo technique of Cocky & Funny when interacting with a girl.

ijjjji writes:
Lately, I
have learned that there is a time when C&F is MUCH MORE EFFECTIVE
than early on before she is into you. The logic that says to attract
her, then seduce her, may be a bit off..

What I have seen is this: Early C&F spikes BT (buying temp) sharply
and strongly. But after this early spike, it is KINDA HARD to spike her
BT again. Its like she is ‘prepared’ and impossible to surprise. As if
she is onto your game.. a feeling like you have played your best card
too early…

The best time I found for C&F is when its getting late and you are
both kinda unsure where its leading. Maybe it was totally on and then
things cooled slightly cos she started thinking about consequences of
going home with you. Maybe you had full rapport but there was a slight
taint of friendliness to it, despite the kino
and the closeness. Maybe you made out like crazy and now she feels she
went a bit too far. No matter the reason, its getting late and its not
fully ON yet. THIS IS THE PERFECT TIME FOR C&F according to my
experience!

Possible reasons why:

-She will forget any sleepiness she probably feels at this point.
-She will forget about the outcome/sex/slut risk that has started to enter her frame since its becoming bed time.
-Since she is already a little into you, the spike brings her all the way up to ‘I wanna rape you now’ BT.
-She has spent some time with you and you still manage to surprise her.
-A lot of guys flirt (C&F) early on. You are different from the rest.

The only exception I found: Unreceptive girls. Girls with bitch shield and girls who have so high energy state or is so pre-occupied, that only high octane stuff can get their attention.

So, think about C&F as a trump card. Save it for when its needed.

I’ve noticed this too, that if you use too much cocky and funny early on, things can peeter out later in the interaction.  Maybe it’s because you set a certain standard that you can’t keep living up to in the interaction.  But regardless, I do notice that C&F works really well once you have a measure of rapport and comfort going.