What’s She Thinking? Who Cares!
May 27, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
The wise ol’ Vince Runza, one of the old schoolers from ASF history, chimes in with a very sussinct, but very telling post about the difference in interactions with women between Average Frustrated Chumps and true Pick-Up Artists.
Vince Runza writes:
To the Group:
I used to wonder what women were really thinking. I believed that knowing what was going on in her mind would help me get close to her. I wanted to get better results than I was getting, and concluded that “psychic” connections would help me.Then I found out that what she was thinking was irrelevant. In fact, breaking her train of thought was the ticket to getting better results. Only a guy who was trying to please her, in advance of her proving her worth, would want to know what she was thinking. In point of fact, she needs to figure out what you are thinking.
Any guy who develops the communication and attitudinal skills that Pick Up Artists master become the prize to be sought. An AFC, Average Frustrated Chump, suffers from the Romantic Fallacy that he has to provide something of value to be desired by women. A PUA demonstrates value, without ‘providing’ anything in advance. The way he moves through the world sends a message that this guy is “the goods”.
Money, fame, looks, social position can only get you the first thirty seconds with any given woman. A PUA gets more than that with no money in his pocket, looks that are less than capitivating, no chance of making the Social Register or the cover of People magazine. He gets as much time as he wants, because he has his head screwed on straight and has a reality that draws others into its radiance.
I think Vince makes a very good point here, which is not so much that you shouldn’t CARE what the woman thinks, but rather, you shouldn’t let her control the frame of the underlying interaction. Have you guys ever been with a girl where the first thing she does when she sees you — I mean the very FIRST THING — is start complaining about her problems? About how she’s sick, or her car broke down, or she’s got so much work, etc?
Well, what is that girl doing there? She’s CONTROLLING THE FRAME. She’s sucking you into her problems and her trials and her tribulations. In seduction, pick-up, what have you, the important thing to remember is that YOU need to be controlling the frame. She needs to be caught up with you and your thoughts. Not the other way around.
You should see the fuss GORK made over this post at uASF!
BTW, I’m “succinct”.
[In a Dom DeLuise-doing-Brando's-Godfather voice] Suck WHAT?!!!
This article reduced to one sentence — I love it
CHICK HERDING:
The farmer doesn’t care what the sheep are thinking… so long as they get through that fucking fence!!
LOL,
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