European Women Tactics?
May 18, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
Okay guys, I need some help.
I’m in Europe right now, and I’m having a blast at the moment. However, I’m having a REALLY difficult time with the “language barrier” issue. So far, my best interactions have been with American women out here on vacation/business. But all the foreign women I run into are freakin’ difficult as hell to PU, mostly due to the fact that they don’t understand english all that well.
With my rudimentary knowledge of the language (it’s French, btw) I’m able to say a few things to them, but they’ll either nod and graciously leave, or they will start speaking so fast I loose them and end up repeating myself like a dumbass. Anyway, it’s annoying, because there are some smoking hot women out here I wanna pick-up on, but can’t. So, I need you guys to help a brother out (especially you European guys).
Got any tips for ol’ Thundercat?
Appreciated.
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Bro,
Something I did once WAY before I was ever exposed to any of this stuff, when I was in France with some of my high school classmates. I decided to open up this cute chick while she was in line, and I was by myself. (my classmates were watching from afar). I struck up a quick convo, and basically ended up sitting down with her. I think if you can engineer that you’re off to a good start.
So I think we ended up talking as long as we did, because I communicated in some fashion that I was a foreigner, and needed some guidance, maybe someone to show me around. ( at some point I asked her what she did for work / living and she told me she liked “meeting young tourists and showing them around” was that a sign of interest? I was so AFC back then and so unused to this I never would have pounced on the opportunity to take it further) I think that would work best though, if you demonstrate and allow her to realize that you’re definetly someone she wants to hangout with and introduce to her buddies. How you do that in my opinion, depends very much on your energy i.e. give them the vibe you’re a really cool relaxed and chill guy that can get them into all kinds of excitement, and also very much on your body language, and your lack of knowledge of French will very much be an opportunity for her and her friends to want to naturally brush up on their English skills, and also that you’re this exciting foreigner, who they want to show around.
You need to reframe that this language barrier is an OPPORTUNITY and ASSET. A good friend of mine who is a natural has that down. He reframes everything positively, and as an opportunity, sees the good in everything. He’s very playful verbally and physically (does playful kino early on which also helps set the frame – and he never goes in too serious like James Bond) straight from the beginning, and he SETS the FRAME VERY EARLY on and has a good sense of humour. Nonetheless the vibe he projects ATTRACTS women to him without him having to do much of any approaching. (So VIBE is going to be important in this case – Heck It’s Always important, no one wants to be around anyone who’s creepy). Once they’ve met him they flock to him. It would help next time to know more French . . . maybe some of these beauties could help you brush up on some French. It’s all a limitation of the mind my friend.
Vega
Buy “An Idiot’s Guide to French” or “French for Dummies.”
Learn the phrases you want to say. Record them on a recorder and play it back. This is so you not only can speak the language but understand it as well. Also write everything down that you’re practicing beforehand, so that you can write it as well.
Listen, build a conversational arsenal of foreign language. A sentence is simply:
Nouns- The givers and receivers of action.
Verbs- The actions.(Learn how to conjugate all the verbs AND the verb BE. A form of the verb BE and a verb is the Present perfect tense if I’m remembering correctly.)
Prepositions- the link between the verbs and nouns.
Learn all of this shit above and you got the language licked. You might not be fluent, but you can say ME. YOU. GO TO THE BEDROOM. NOW. TO FUCK.
LOL.
TC, be a good student, and I want you to translate this in French, Italian and Spanish for your boy. If you can do this, you have a whole world of booty at your finger-tips:
“I am going to the store.”
Noun/action giver (Pronoun)- I
Verb (Present Perfect) AM (form of BE) and GOING (The actual verb)
Preposition- TO
Noun/action receiver- STORE
TC, you do realize that I’m just being funny about all this, yet a little serious. Your barrier is broken in Europe if you can translate the sentence in the 3 lanuages (3 of the 5 ‘Romance’ Languages)I listed above.
REMEMBER:
Noun. Verb (Action). Prepostion. Noun.
Now, get that European BOOTY!!
Tingly1
The People’s Champ of Seduction
The scandinavian countries are much better at english than the rest of Europe. So if yu have the time and money – go north.
or go to UK
Dude, who are you kidding. You are a fat, typical American who probably sounds like a clown with your routines, while European guys are in good shape, good looking, smooth, etc., etc. Get over it.
“European guys are in good shape, good looking, smooth, etc., etc. ”
ha! Fag!
MagicTickle, how dare you steal my pimp name?!
Sincerely,
Magic Tickle G. Dazzle
Read TD’s OLD OLD operation mayhem posts. Just stick to Kino if you can’t speak the language.
France is one of the worst european countries to visit, the french absolutely REFUSES to talk english and will even be rude about it…. Girls are friendlier than guys though, I remember the hotellreceptionists, oh god horribly rude dudes.
If you really want hot european women who are FRIENDLY, OPEN and are good at english try scandinavia, preferably Norway/Sweden.
The French are VERY VERY proud of their culture, they forbid
any name one the street that is english, if they hear you speaking
english (doesnt need to be america) they despise
But they despise americans the most or anyone speaking english?!
So always start with saying something in franch…only thing I know is
“Les pigeons son bleu” hahah Good Luck
btw. when are you coming to Croatia
Shark
Skip France, the “Frogs” are fucked up since they seem to believe they are better than god and anyone else…
Go to Amsterdam, Holland, for instance. Many HBs here and they spreak good English. Use the language barrier to your advantage in C&P way. And if you visit Amsterdam, drop me a line!
Of course, TC didn’t actually say he was in France (he might be in Switzerland or Belgium, where they also speak French).
I’m still very much an rAFC, so I don’t have much to offer in this respect. My only advice would be to bust on them for not speaking good English:
“You have heard of English, haven’t you?”
“It is the world language, you know”
“Don’t you have schools in this country?”
etc.
Other posters have pointed out that many other countries in Europe have better language skills than the French. For instance, if you head just a bit north to Belgium, you’ll find that the Dutch-speakers speak excellent English, and the French-speakers passable English.
If you want any help with how to say specific things in French, just drop me a line and I’ll be glad to help.
Hi there, TC. Glad you came to Europe to get an experience on different chicks. This will be good for you, if you take the oportunity and don’t waste a single hour on your trip.
I’m gonna give you some tips and advices, ’cause I usualy sarge tourist chicks. And if nothing I say sticks in your mind, at least this you should get:
YOUZE GOT IT EASY!!
Yep, that’s right! You have an asset: you’re foreigner!
When you interact with foreign people, there’s an implicit frame that “this will end soon and nobody will ever know what went on”. That stuff is *GOLD*! Moreover, you are “allowed” to stretch your limits because you’re on vacation. Here are some points that you should focus on, because Europe is not monolythic: Sweden and Italy are as oposed as Japan and South Africa, dude!
1. Don’t be the horny American coming to Europe to fuck chicks. That’s not only a female repeller, it’s a human being repeller. Show respect for the culture and willingness to learn. That is the equivalent of europeans going to fucking Thayland to fuck 13 year old children.
2. Don’t be chauvinist about america. That just plain sucks.
3. Learn a funny sentence in French, preferably one that shows you have absolutely no control over the language and play with that. I remember a guy in a conference that used to say something like (phonetically) “Yo estoy mis pantalones”. That was funny as hell, because that means “I am my pants”, as in “I am being my pants at this moment”. But the guy was so convinced that when they told him “You just said you are your pants”, he responded like “Yo no estoy mis pantalones?”. Try to speak the language and make jokes around communication. Anchor a few sentences to situations, this is very usefull.
4. Use facial expressions and tone. Lots of guys that don’t know the target’s language end up taking them to bem nonetheless. Guys even go to the point of saying stuff like “Me, you, bed!”. You don’t have to speak that much. Be a caveman.
5. If you’re in france, don’t expect people to speak english. They just plain don’t fucking care about it, because they are very proud of themselves. The “American Empire” is a new invention, and kind of corny for them anyway.
6. Many chicks would be willing to fuck you because it validates them by being with someone foreign. This is the sexual equivalent of showing off their knowledge in foreign languages like english. Try the lonewolves, don’t go for groups if you can’t speak the language cause it will be much harder.
7. If you’re working clubs and bars, build some instant social proof and try to speak with the people in french. Even if you sound and feel like a perfect idiot, people will appreciate that you took the time and consideration to try, and will make the best to understand you. If a russian guy went to the US asking for directions in russian, you’d think he must be fuckin stupid. Well, that’s pretty much what everybody will think about you if you do the same
Have fun, TC. The best to you.
I can only agree with the above:
you’ve got the advantages on your side as an american in europe – you’re the kind of exotic bird that catches the interest quickly, many (not just girls!) will LOVE to speak to you since you’re an opportunity for them to brush up their english skills. And not only that: you don’t even have to entertain them, they will smile like the sun simply because they’ll have the experience of actively talking english, don’t underestimate that!
The french (if you indeed are there) are a special case here in europe. I really like their women, they are so naturally self confident, it’s amazing. Problem is the language barrier. But you’ll have it much much easier in Croatia dude; ask Shark and BadBoy for good tips on the sea side or better yet, hook up with them!
Trust me, it can’t get worse than France for an english speaker in Europe
yes… get away from that country… really bad choice…
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avoid italy for same problems…
places to visit
skandinavia
danmark\norway\sweeden
Croatia(english is really good here, chicks also
Uk is good, bou london sucks for quality of girls…If you choose UK, go to small places around london
Ask them for directions -in broken French – to the French Fry Museum.
Be indignant when they don’t know where it is. You have come all the way from America to find the Museum of French Fries – France’s only great invention- and they are refusing to help simply because your are an American.
Seriously generate some opinion or situational openers.
Come to Romania
… Here are some of the most beautifull women. You’ll see !
fries are fucking belgian!!!! get some culture please
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