PlayboyLA Speaks
March 30, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
PlayboyLA, of Project Hollywood fame, had a great little post on the vaclair. I’m reposting it here with permission from the author.
Playboy writes:
Hey guys -Greetings to all from Los Angeles….have had a great few weeks travelling to Sydney Australia with TD and Papa giving workshops, and recently throwing the first big party here at Project Hollywood.
As for BadBoy’s post, he is exactly right. Style calls one of the more critical moments in a sarge the “hook point”. This is when you know the girls would rather you stay than leave. How do you know this? If they are giving you massive IOIs, that’s one – or, if they ask you questions (aka IOIs)…you will begin to intuitively understand this, and be able to recognize it more and more as you sarge and gain field experience.
Overall, one point I make a lot when I teach new guys, is that what you are really doing in a sarge is a continuing process of calibrating energy and tension, until it explodes with sex. So, if you gain attraction and transition into rapport (or – comfort and trust as Mystery says) you have established a certain amount of sexual tension, which allows for a certain new level of interaction. Now, if you can sense that “tension” waning for any reason – perhaps she gets distracted by a phone call, or her friend wants to dance blah blah blah – you may have to quickly shift into teasing/flirting etc in order to stoke the fire and keep her from running off. In a club/bar environment, women are accustomed to following “the shiny thing” (credit – Toecutter). If something else becomes “shinier”, you’ll need to act fast…
Overall, calibrate to both the venue and the level of sexual tension. My rule of thumb is to be slightly more interesting than everything else – so, if that is a coffee shop, to be chill and funny – if it is a danceclub – be higher energy and very fucking fun! If the tension drops – for a gazillion reasons – ramp it up with a good natured tease, story, c&f, whatever…
Best to all.
This is an excellent post talking about how to keep girl’s interested in what you have to offer them. I’ve encountered more than one “shiny thing” in my day as it has dragged girl after girl off into the abyss that is the dance floor. And after seeing Playboy in action, I can say he speaks from experience!
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