New Best Friend’s Test
March 24, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
Tyler Durden has posted some good tips on the Tactics board of mASF. I found his reworking of the “Best Friend’s Test” to be pretty solid too. =)
Tyler Durden writes:
For girls who interupt you, or tell you what to do like “tell
the story.. tell it, tell it!”, I’ve found this line very useful.“Hey! It’s too early in our relationship for you to be telling me what to do / interupting me”.
For extracting or venue changing or moving girls in the club, I’ve found this line to have actually changed my game.
“Hey, we’re going to sit down over there. Would you like to join us?” (or add in for a drink or to discuss something).
This line sounds subtle, and it may be hard to see the value on the surface. But the reason I’ve found it to have changed my game, is that first of all it establishes that you’re friends and the verbal sparring or resistance need not continue, and also it says to the girls “You are being called upon to socialize, so you must tee-up things to say” (as Mystery calls F2M attract or whatever).
So I’ve found that the girls are much more talkative when they come to sit down. I think it also feeds into their stereotype of how they think being picked up ought to go down. Either way, I’ve found the girls to be amazingly receptive to this when they come to sit down, and they aren’t so much in that mode of “I’m leaving as soon as I get bored”, when they’ve consented to come sit down and socialize.
I use the line as soon as I see that they really want me to stay, and I’ll use it on a buying temp spike (them laughing or finding something really intriguing).
If I don’t feel that they’d bite on the offer, but I still want them to sit down because I need a clear space where I can work (I always have a priority to move the girls somewhere comfortable ASAP in every set), then I’ll just oversell the CUBE or lying game or some lameass routine, so that they’ll be forced to sit down. Like “You HAVE to see this. It’s amazing. Check this out”, without asking if they want to or not.
THE EXPANDED BEST FRIENDS TEST:
Briefly:
“You guys are best friends aren’t you. You have the exact same posture. And you have the exact same facial expressions. And the big thing, and I’m not sure if all girls do this or what, but every time you go to talk, or I’m talking to you, or you’re about to do something, you guys keep looking at eachother first”They bust out laughing as they look at eachother’s posture, then again at their facial expressions, and then of course lastly at the looking at eachother.
You can proceed to analyze you and your wing, and other people, under the same criteria.
Good way to blow open the convo.
As always, great stuff from Tyler. You can read teh original post here.
853303 878449 An intriguing discussion is worth comment. I think which you ought to write a lot more on this subject, it may well not be a taboo subject but normally men and women are not enough to speak on such topics. Towards the next. Cheers 11178