Congruence — Being All of a Piece

Vince Runza has an excellent post up on the General board of mASF talking about the importance of congruency. Here’s my favorite paragraph:

Vince writes:
Your reality must be more powerful than hers. It’s that simple. As long as your reality is the dominant reality, no woman can shake you up, make you crazy or ever take away your power. While this may sound like hubris, or overweening pride, it’s simply the way things work. It may not be absolutely true that you are the best possible choice for her to make, but it is an effective working rule that you are. She wants you to be the man. It’s her own hard wiring that makes her respond positively to a strong lead.

Wise words indeed. Very powerful stuff. Read it all here.