Conclusion to the Ellyn Saga

**Reposted from the first Lair, original date: 1/6/04

If any of you are wondering, I did end up visiting Ellyn while I was in DC.  I don’t want to go into too much detail about the meeting because it wasn’t very eventful at all.  In fact, it was pretty pathetic.  Poor Ellyn had really let herself go, and was pushing upwards of 200 pounds (she said she had gained a little weight, but Jesus!).  Its funny, because when she used to be attractive, I was willing to put up with her bullshit and mind games — but take away the looks and keep the same attitude, my patience becomes a lot less forgiving!

She tried pulling a few of those mind games with me, but I wasn’t really going for any of them.  I just wanted to get the hell out of dodge after about 10 minutes of being with her.  I made her pay for everything though, so I got a free diner and a movie out of it.  She was being pretty forward with me, but I was quite passive-aggressively apathetic (a-la Adam, the natural =) which only drove her more wild.

It was an eye-opening experience for me, and I’m glad I went through with it.  It sort-of made up for all those times she fucked with my head when we were seeing each other.

So I’ll just end the whole fiasco with this:  You can take the girl out of the trailer park, but you cant take the trailer park out of the girl.

Good riddance.

Thundercat