Video Of A Live Approach

So this guy Oliver, an asian pick up artist who runs the website captivatetoconnect.com, sent me a video of a live pick-up he did.  Check it out:

So as you can see, it is possible to walk up to girls with this stuff and get a good result.  A lot of what he does in the video is covered in detail in my book The Art Of Approaching.  But when you boil everything down, a successful pickup/number close really is just about gainign rapport witht he girl you’re talking to, which I think Oliver did pretty well in the video.

Lots of guys think there’s a "special" way you have to talk to girls to get this stuff to work, but it really is just about being conversational, friendly, and playful.  I think Oliver did a good job of conveying that in the video.  As you can see, he’s not talking all that slow (in fact, he’s quite a fast talker).  He’s not even all that loud.  But he IS engaging, which is the important part of the equation.