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Neil’s doing something really cool.  He’s fostering a month-long "challenge" to everyone out there who wants to improve with women.  He says its his way of "giving to those who couldn’t be part of the Annihilation Method and foster a spirit of self-improvement the community was founded on."

The challenge is running over the course of July, and the goal is to get just 1 date.  I don’t know what Neil has planned, but I think he’ll be sharing a lot of tips and information with those who partake in the challenge to help them reach the goal.

You can learn more about it at StyleLife.com.  Its free – no evil marketing or any of that other stuff you guys hate so much.  =)

Here’s a video Neil is sharing to create awareness of the challenge.

Mystery Method Masters CD Review

I got this review of one of the Mystery Method Master’s CDs from a guy named Waxlrose.  For those of you who don’t know, this is kind-of like Mystery’s answer to David D’s Interview With Dating Gurus series.

Review: Mystery Method Master Series-CD Interview
Volume 3-Sinn and Future on Storytelling and Humor

The Point and Purpose of Storytelling

To convey your high value personality through the use of constructed stories that include DHV spikes while avoiding DLV pits. I believe that, in this game, you are marketing yourself, and your stories are your commercials. You ultimately want her to buy your product-YOU. This is your true purpose. Do you want to be a household, in-demand brand name that EVERYONE wants to buy, or would you prefer to be a bargain bin product at the 99 Cent Store? Have you seen some of the people that shop there? Not many women of quality…

If you can tell a good story, you can spin a most fantastic web to catch the prey that we all desire. I once had a friend who was a master at just this, and the look in the eyes of any girl who had ears was priceless. He could get attraction from ANY quality girl of any age with just the charm of his stories. It was astounding to say the least because, this friend of mine was pushing 60 years old and in a wheelchair. He had been around the world, toured in rock bands, and even played bass on The Doors song "The Unknown Soldier"  All of these facts were reflected in his stories. I would say that having known Jim Morrison personally is a Demonstration of Higher Value, wouldn’t you?

This is the disc that can help you to be the most fun guy in the room.  Embedding your stories with subtle sub-communication of higher value is the essence of what you will learn, as well as the different kinds of stories to use and how to use them. Many people don’t know what even makes a good story, or how to tell it the right way to make a maximum impact. This was one of my biggest sticking points because I didn’t really know how to put it all together. I didn’t know how to embed my DHV’s without sounding like I was bragging. After hearing this CD, I am on my way to crafting my own compelling, bullet-proof stories that everybody wants to hear, just like you will be. You can appear to be the Tribal Leader because, when you speak, everyone listens.

Complaint Department: I would have preferred more order. It would have been nice if the guys at MM had gone more from A-Z with building a story-the simple framework that comes before you put the roof on. All the info is there, just not as orderly as the entire M3 model.

Topics Covered-How to flip Attraction Switches within the context of a story, What to include and what to focus on, Using different types of stories for different phases in the interaction, Topics to avoid at all costs.

Waxlrose

You can find out more details about Mystery’s programs here.

Tight Game Week

Those crazy PUAs down in the nation’s capital are certainly up to some interesting things.  One blog in particular – DC Bachelor – documented a weeks worth of gaming.  The categories break down to Confidence, Default Game, Be A Rock Star, Phone Game, and a playette specific Gots Game category.

They’re actually pretty interesting reads.  I’ll be looking forward to see if they do another Tight Game Week in the future.

Juggler on Anti-Slut Defense

Juggler has a new post up on his blog about Anti-Slut Defense.

Juggler writes:
ASD? What is really going on.

ASD is an oft-used term in the seduction community This is an acronym for Anti-Slut Defense. The idea behind this is that a woman will resist anything that makes her feel easy.

This is a common misunderstanding of women.

I happen to know many women who don’t mind being sluts. Many who get off on being slutty.

A more helpful way of thinking about this concept is that a woman does not want to seem easy in people’s eyes. If actually being easy fulfills her desires and no one who’s opinion she values is the wiser she can usually live with her sutty self no problem.

ASD should really be called Anti-Desperate Defense. A woman just does not want to seem desperate to people, especially you and especially her friends. ie: throw herself at a man.

So how do you get her to unleash her inner-slut and let her feel free to be sexual with you?

You reveal your sexual interest first in a direct way (once you have created a personal vibe). "I think that the way you describe your poetry is sexy. You better stop that cause you’re turning me on." (check out my ebook on more about these type of statements)

That sort of statement allows her to be flirty and sexual because she is not pursuing you in some desperate fashion but only reciprocating.

Now the interesting thing is that she may act sexual with you in a secluded corner of a seedy bar but as soon as she gets in front of her friends she can pull back into a guarded, platonic state.

That is because she knows her friends haven’t heard you verbalize your attraction first. If she was to get all up on you, her friends would be presuming she is actind desperate. But the real interesting thing is that if you then verbalize your sexual interest in front of her friends it can sometimes unlock her and alow her to flirt openly in front of them because now she knows they know she is only reciprocating. Funny how that works.

Wayne

The Boys Of Summer

Hey guys,

I took a few weeks off from posting to enjoy the start of summer  here in Los Angeles.  it’s my favorite time of year in the city.  The sun shines bright, the city comes alive, and the girls come out in force!  =)

I think its important to take time to enjoy life, and that’s what I did.  This summer promises to be a great one, and I hope all of you are taking advantage of it!

Thundercat

PS:  Is anyone as psyched about seeing the new Superman movie as I am?

Pick Up 101 All The Rage…

There’s a pretty big write-up on the Pick-Up 101 guys in the latest San Francisco Magazine.  The reporter really seemed to enjoy the workshop.

its funny, because Pick-Up 101 doesn’t really get as much press as a company like Mystery Method does, but I have yet to hear a single bad thing about their workshops.  In fact, many people who take them seem to have very positive experiences close to what the reporter in the article shares (unlike some workshops which shall remain nameless, you know, the ones that start with an R and end with a D).

Those San Fran boys really seem to be kicking some ass up there.  Check it out for yourself…

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Chick Crack Cold Read

Storyteller has a post up on mASF about a cold read routine he uses…

Storyteller writes:
 This is here is my all-time favorite cold read. I’ve been using it since a long time now and it’s part of all of my Pickups. Chicks love it. This stuff is literally like chick crack!! Enjoy.

"You know there are really two types of people in the world. Observer and those who are observed, and you are more the observer kind of person. I think when you get to know people they sometimes think you are aloof and a lot of men also think you are somewhat of a bitch… but I dont think that’s true, they just dont know you. You experience the world through your emotions and want to make sure that the people you let into your life are good people who really come from the heart. That’s why you first when you meet new people you just observe them and try to figure them out before you open up to them. But that’s just some sort of protection shield cause when you are around the right people (point to self) and having a lot of fun with them, you can just let go and be yourself. And I think that’s what you are really looking for in life, people who you can just be real with and who fully understand what you are all about as a person."

Chicks literally wont leave you alone after you’ve used this cold read on them cause they think they just found their soulmate! It’s money.

This is a really good cold read and very similar to one I’ve been seeing Swinggcat use for years.  It can be very powerful in building comfort and trust.

Motivation To Approach

SteviePUA has a pretty interesting strategy to help guys push themselves into approaching women.

SteviePUA writes:
Here’s a technique you can use with your wingman to motivate you to open – you give him 100 dollars at the start of the night. He gets to keep it ALL unless you make approaches.

For every approach you make he has to give you back 10 dollars.

10 approaches and your money is back in your pocket. If you pussy out, you lose your money.

Brings a whole new meaning to "Put your money where your mouth is," doesn’t it?

New Mystery & Style Video

There’s a really cool segment on the Current TV network about Style and Mystery.  It’s a fairly substantial and favorable look at Pick-Up, too.

Check it out here.

Dr. Paul Seminar Info…

Just got some info that Dr. Paul is actually holding his first dating seminar.  Here are all the details…

It’s time.

Our Method is now perfect.

Our Strategy is flawless.

Your execution of Our Tactics will give you the powers of a dating ninja, a relationship intelligence operative. Are you ready?

The weather in Chicago is perfect and the women who are waiting to feel your power have been unleashed from five frigid months of being locked indoors by the meteorological whims of the Windy City.

On June 16th, Men will be flying to Chicago from all over the United States, Eastern Europe and South America to learn the answers to the very secrets that "The Community" has been trying to answer all along.

On June 18th, the same Men will fly home with a renewed confidence in themselves with women, dating and relationships.

Place: Chicago, The Hilton Garden Inn  – in the center of the nightlife, with group rates already established for you by my company.

Upon arrival in Chicago, you will join an elite group of exceptional men like yourself, excited and ready to learn. You will leave the seminar with a newfound wisdom and confidence into the realms of women, dating and relationships.

Destroy this message within five seconds, but only if you don’t want the secrets about women, dating and relationships that no one else in "The Community" has been able to answer.

Did you decide to keep reading?

Good.

If you have ever heard of the terms "immersion training," or
"high-functioning team," this is what we are offering at the…

Dating and Relationship Special Forces Training Camp

For this one of a kind event, we are teaming with Elan Lifestyles, an exclusive agency that trains men in tactics for real world situations involving attracting women and dating. I have taken a team of ten gifted teachers and trained them in the execution of field maneuvers that are targeted not just to any woman in general, but to the specific women who are most perfectly suited to your own personality, and therefore also most attractive to you.

Elan Lifestyles will join me in the classroom and will take you out to some of Chicago’s hottest bars & nightclubs for 2 intense nights of in-field coaching, where they will challenge what you previously believed you were capable of and show you in real-time how to achieve this.

More on this later…

Why learn to be a Dating/Relationship Ninja or go to Special Forces Camp?

Because you CAN.

This is a technology never heard of on any chat board, seminar company or certainly any book.

You will learn how to Master all levels of Dating & Relationships

In one of the intersing parts of this seminar, I’m going to teach you HOW TO MASTER THE FOUR KINDS OF LOVE, and what they mean to your masculinity (this is something you have never seen before).

Additionally, in your weekend with me, I will show you how to:

    * STOP BREAKUP’s before they happen…
    * KEEP THE WOMEN you connect with and eliminate cheating altogether…
    * ELIMINATE COMPETITION FROM OTHER MALES with psychoanalytic methods only known to psychoanalysts…
    * MASTER SOCIAL POLITICS in ways that show you the direct connection between Dating and Career…
    * SEE THE INVISIBLE PSYCHOLOGY OF ALL SOCIAL INTERACTIONS, in ways that neither other men, nor the women you want to meet can. You will have the upper hand…
    * …and much more!

We are going to teach you in a classroom setting all of my latest technology, including the new Dating OS, which is not yet available in any media form, and certainly not from any teacher you have ever heard of. It is patented, and far more powerful than any material I have EVER seen presented on the topic of dating and relationships.

Keep reading and I’ll tell you more about Dating OS.

This is a must-do training. But, don’t take my word for it – here’s what a student at one of my past seminars had to say 5 MONTHS LATER:

"[Once the seminar started] I was BLOWN AWAY. The research and refinement Dr. Paul had done to this material addressed all of my dating life issues and how to handle them. All the way from knowing why certain girls weren’t right for me, to how to find exactly what I wanted in a woman and how to get it. Why I havent been a good friend. The importance of story…Now, I am dating a wonderful Lover (I am a Warrior) that is Ivy-league educated, works with special needs children, and is beautiful. She is on my energy level, and we have a great time!" – M.K.

By attending the Dating & Relationships Special Forces Training Camp, you’ll not only be immediately solving dating and "pick-up" issues but you will be prepared to handle any relationship situation you find yourself.

I will give you the tools you need to succeed.

Dating OS: The only scientifically-verified system of Dating & Relationships

You know as well as I do, there are as many teachers about game skills in attraction and dating as there are guys who can put up a web page these days. Each of them has kitchen table wisdom not rooted in science training or formal education of any kind, but rather, from both a home-spun "opinion of a dude" and trial and error observation in the field. Sometimes they read a book or two, but no one knows what exactly "works" with women, nor when they chance upon something, WHY it works.

I do.

Enter Dating OS. Based on a true synthesis of all the schools of psychology: Cognitive Science, Behavioral Science, Jungian Psychology, Psychoanalytic Principles, Self-Psychology, Transactional Analysis, Object Relationship, and even the pseudoscience, NLP (only the scientifically correct aspects)-with other disciplines: Economics, Drama, Sociology, and even
Mathematics.

Examine the general ideas of some of the other "teachers" out there and you’ll find that Dating OS offers the core science underneath the ideas, underneath the sometimes positive results generated by these other teachers.

Why? Because "opinions" are different from science. Anybody has the right to an opinion about what they think makes people tick (and especially women). But a mere opinion has never explained a real theory or method that can be counted on to WORK, every time, unless it has been tested in a rigorous research protocol.

We have just such a REAL technology built into Dating OS. And guess how many real scientific supporters there are of it, pulled direct form the science literature. I mean actual experiments on thousands or even tens of thousands of men and women?

Over 2500 science articles that directly tie to a specific part of the Dating OS system, based in small part on mindOS, the e-book you may have already read.

This is not material from some guy who said "Gee, I get a lot of babes. Maybe I could start a web business training guys how to meet women." You have probably already paid 2-4 THOUSAND dollars for a weekend training with any number of those guys.

No, it’s the real thing, and I am publishing this year in a real science journal that only accepts submissions from those trained to appear there.

Our training will be less than half of the cost of any other training you have heard of (and who gave you likely only ten percent or less of what we are going to provide you with.)

What you will Learn…

Have you ever been broken up with and been disturbed by it? Did it affect your future dating, self-image, or even career? This will never happen again after this seminar.

Have you ever suspected your woman of cheating? Or have you yourself cheated and felt bad about it? You will retain the power in the relationship and still be wildly attracted to the women you choose to be with after the seminar.

Have you ever had fear of approaching any woman, any time, at night, in bars or clubs, at socials, or even in broad daylight, such as at a store, sidewalk or park? You will not have these problems again.

Have you ever had a more "complex problem" with a woman and even been to counselors or "dating gurus" and found overly simplistic answers that didn’t really solve your problem?

Of course you have.

This seminar is going to be tailored to YOU, and what you learn will fit your exact personal STYLE, not something crammed down your throat, as if every man is the same and must use the same old stale "techniques" to meet women.

I am going to survey you like crazy. I am going to learn everything there is to know about you and your dating history, I am going to give you the only KWML dating survey that exists.

We will DIG DEEP for the gold from your past, showing you how to create opportunities where you previously saw failure.

Then we are going to tailor a Special Forces training for you before you even show up at my door. Ten highly trained, successful men will be on hand to work you into the most powerful force to be reckoned with in your local social scene.

These are my friends from Elan Lifestyles I was telling you about.

Elan Lifestyles consists of well-developed, highly-skilled Men from all across the King Warrior Magician Lover spectrum who will show you exactly how to implement Dr. Paul material in a social setting.

Just a few of the things they will show you…

    * How to maximize your archetype when talking to women to create strong attraction
    * If you’re a King, you’ll learn how to leverage your natural coolness like a new James Bond, in a way that will create intrigue & mystery with women.
    * If you’re a Warrior, we’ll show you how what kind of women respond best to your natural strength and ‘alpha male’ status and how to best express these.
    * If you’re a Magician, you already know how fun-loving and entertaining you are, let us show you how to use that spontaneity to create some serious attraction in women
    * If you’re a Lover, you’re already passionate and expressive – our Lover coaches will teach you how to use these qualities to really connect with women.

    * They will also show you a surefire way how to identify – IN SECONDS – the type of woman who is right for you and will think you are the most attractive man she’s met in ages.

This is only the tip of the iceberg.

Not only will the coaches at Elan Lifestyles teach you how to enhance your archetype, they will also show you how to use the secrets of the 3 other archetypes to really step up your outer game.

    *

      Be ready to unleash the cool, laidback attitude of The King; the confident, masculine strength of The Warrior; the outgoing spontaneity of The Magician; and the creative sensuality of The Lover.
    *

      Just like me, Elan Lifestyles will be unleashing some brand-new material and techniques designed specially for this seminar. This is some high-octane stuff they have planned for you guys.

Just to give you a little taste of what else Elan Lifestyles has planned for you, they will:

    * Demonstrate how to be a great wingman and increase the success of you & your buddies.
    * Show you how to be seen, heard and stand out in social settings.
    * Teach you a simple method for creating interesting conversation and know exactly where to take the conversation.
    * Show you how to approach groups of women and have them loving you in seconds!
    * Give you a grab-bag of engaging openers, ‘push pull’ games, role-playing scenarios and other techniques you can use right away.
    * Tell you when and how to escalate your interaction with a woman.
    * Help you determine an individualized game plan for evening in-field coaching.

Is this seminar just about Pick Up?

NO. This training fits every man, at every phase of his dating and relationship life. There is a powerful Sexual Attraction segment that men who want the latest of the latest, what they call "bleeding edge" technology in flirting and attraction. Yet men deep in relationships or even marriage could utterly revolutionize their relationships with the knowledge of sexual attraction you are going to learn from my latest research.

What guys who "only want the pickup lines", who want to pick-up women tonite are going to be surprised by is this:

They need the technology of relationships NOW, before they even meet the first woman.

I can’t tell you how many unhappy guys I know who are utterly amazing at meeting or "picking up" women, but someday soon, find themselves in nightmare relationships, or even stoic or despondent over the meaninglessness of night after night of drunken encounters.

The Tools you need for Relationship AND Career Success

Some of you may have wondered if there is any link between sex, dating, and career. Yes. There is a direct set of links and I will teach you what these are. If you master these, you will not only be attracted to women but also will find Money and Career Status attracted to YOU.

Have you ever had good conversation with a woman, but when it came time to go on the first date, she blew you off? We stop that cold.

Have you ever been on one date and found you could not get a woman to go on a second? We know why.

Have you ever been dating for some time and felt like something was "missing" but you still went along with the relationship, coasting for now?

I am going to teach you how that never has to happen.

Any question ever sent by you guys in the newsletter has been answered by my new material and will be answered in person, my me and my "High Functioning Team" at the seminar. You are going to learn to organize your buddies into the same kind of High Functioning Team when you go out together. If you are in a relationship, you are going to learn to turn you and your woman into a self-sufficient and High Functioning Team of Two that depends on each other for total success.

We are going to teach you everything I know about the mind and body, and their use, but also teach you in person, both at night and in daylight what to do in conversation and to get them going in the first place-supermarkets, sidewalks, bars, clubs and the workplace, all in one weekend.

There is one special feature of this event that will blow you away.

I have some serious commitments to the media coming up in a couple months, some of which are going to take me very, very mainstream for people. This may be the last seminar for an indeterminate time…but in meeting you personally in this way, I have never lost ongoing contact with guys who attended the last two seminars (the only ones this year). I will be available to you in an ongoing way that is personal, vital and there for you on short notice.

Like any good doctor, I will be on-call for you.

I will be your available expert, ready to go on your problems. NOW.

We’re your teachers…but we’re also your brothers

If you want to experience the comforts of a team of TEN HIGHLY QUALIFIED MEN, who will analyze your problems and boost your skills at attraction, dating, relationships and even marriage with the intensity of NASA preparing for a shuttle launch, then listen up:

We are here for you. We are highly skilled, competent and caring brothers.

We guarantee a high level of personalized attention. We will get to know you, your strengths, your weaknesses and your history.

We will put in every bit of effort to ensure that – as your finish the seminar and say your good-bye’s to your coaches, your new friends who took this journey with you and Dr Paul – you will leave a CHANGED MAN.

I know for a fact now that there is no problem in existence that cannot be solved. I also now know that there is no level of skill at the deep core knowledge and practice of human interaction that cannot be reached.

In fact, if you are reading this message, you have a mind curious enough to be worthy of this level of event.

You need to be here.

Go to www.doctorpaul.net/seminars or call shauna at 303.425.9119 with questions or write her at shauna@doctorpaul.net to sign up.

Feel free to write me with questions at paul@doctorpaul.net, as I answer EVERY email by hand personally. And continue to enjoy our products, sign up for the newsletter at doctorpaul.net

We look forward to seeing you in June!

Dr. Paul

Looking forward to this one.  Should be good.  =)

Commercialism And Credibility

Okay, there’s been a lot of talk on this blog about a few things that I want to address, not just about me, but about friends of mine and issues I feel affect the community in general.

And I’m sure it’s gonna get ugly before it gets pretty again…

The subject is one of much controversy lately:  Commercialism.

Some look at it as the root of all evil, some hate all involved in it, some just want everything to be free and for no one to ever make any profit off the community – ever.

Okay, fair enough.  But let’s have an honest discussion about this stuff here.

First of all, yes, I admit – I’m a commercial guy.  Didn’t start off that way, but now I’m into it.  I don’t make any bones about it.  I sell a book, I belong to commission based affiliate programs, and all that stuff.

In short:  I make money off of this site and other sites I run.

NO SURPRISE.

But understand one thing… I have a code I live by.  A "moral" code.  I’ve always preached that in order to be successful – with anything – you need to have standards and you need to stick to them.  You must have rules you set for yourself that YOU FOLLOW, and never break – not once.  No exceptions.

Be it with women, work, health, what have you… rules will keep you on the path to success, and you break them at your own peril.

Here are my rules:

1.  I do not endorse anything I have not used myself and do not believe in.  If you see me recommend a product, seminar, ebook, service, workshop – whatever – on this site, it is because I THINK ITS GOOD.  In the end, the only thing I have to go on is what I feel has helped me to grow as a person.  I get approached reguarly from various websites want to exchange links, sign me up as an affiliate, get me to run promotions, etc.

I turn 99% of them DOWN.

Simply because I can see in two minutes whether or not they actually have something valuable to contribute to my growth as a human being or not.  If they don’t, I pass them by and you NEVER hear about them from me or on this site.

2.  I do not claim to be anything I’m not. I don’t walk around singing "I’m the greatest PUA in the world, the other guys suck and stole everything they know from me."  I don’t post false field reports, and I don’t claime to be even one of the TOP PUAs.

I’m still learning, just like the rest of you.  I feel like I will probably NEVER be a top PUA in the community, and you know what?  I’m cool with that – because I don’t want to be a master PUA.  I want to be a guy with a great lifestyle who has wonderful women to share it with.  I don’t want to have threesomes every night.  I want to find one special girl for me.  Since I got involved in the community years ago, my life has completely changed for the better, and I’m a much happier man for it.

When it comes to seducing women and getting them into bed the very night you meet them, there are much better guys than me out there.  I know a few things, but for the most part, that’s still part of my game I’m working on.

However, I do know how to approach women like nobodies business, and that’s what I teach.  Its fun to teach that.  Its fun to go out to a club and try something new that works and then teach it to others.  I enjoy that stuff.

There have been many opportunities for me to create new products based on stuff I don’t feel I’m qualified to teach, and I have resisted them for that very reason.  Not only is this right from a moral standpoint, but if I did try to "fake it" in this community, I’d have my ass handed to me.  All the liars and cheats eventually get exposed.

3.  I value others who need help and are willing to recieve it.  This is my most important rule.  For me, going commercial was never about getting rich.  It was really about helping others as I help myself.  There are LOTS of men out there who need help with women, men who’ve had experiences similar to mine, who I can relate to.  But not all of them WANT to be helped.  They want to wallow in their misery and complain and stay stuck where they are.

The people who truly want to change are the people I value, and want to help.  Having money to advertise helps me to reach them.  Having money to go out and meet more women and learn helps me to develop and pass on my knowledge.

I get lots of emails every day from guys who want help, and though I can’t answer them all personally, I try to when I can.  And when I can’t, I try to either put up a blog post here concerning the issue, or I create a product to sell.

But make no mistake about it:  I do not look at people as dollar signs.  I would never sell anything I don’t believe wouldn’t help others.  When I was at my lowest, I needed something to give me hope, direction, and take me by the hand to guide me.  I do not want to ever be involved in anything that could hurt someone who needs that type of help, and that’s why this rule is very important and close to my heart.

Now that you know where I’m coming from, let’s talk a bit about the Annihilation Method…

I know that the marketing and promotion for that turned a lot of people off.  But understand something:

If You Were Turned Off By The Marketing, This Product Was Not For You.

Look, I’ve been a fan of Neil for years.  He was the one guy I admired most in the community, before his book ever hit the shelves, before anyone even really knew of him, he was someone I respected and admired for his skills at seduction (all you need to do is read the archives of my blog to know this).

When I had the chance to work with him on the Annihilation Method seminar – I JUMPED AT IT.  Like all of you, I’m a constant student, and to have a chance to learn from THE MASTER (I don’t care what anyone says, he’s #1 in my book) was an opportunity I couldn’t pass up.

I was involved with the seminar, and the making of the course, but Style was in charge the whole time.  I wasn’t some "puppeteer" pulling the strings behind the scenes.  I was there to assist Neil in any way I could, and sometimes he made decisions independently of me that honestly surprised me.

Things like:  Giving money to charity.

Things like:  Putting on a free seminar for everyone who bought the course.

Things like:  Only releasing 375 copies of the Annihilation Method.

But regardless of all that, we both knew that the Annihilation Method was a KILLER course.  Its unlike anything this community had ever seen before, or probably ever will see again.

I showed sneak peaks of it to my friends, people like Steve Piccus, Masterclass, The One, and Zan – each and every one of them was amazed by what they saw.

The five guys Neil coached personally saw radically different results with women within ONE DAY of being at the workshop, and their lives haven’t slowed down since.  We have a private message board we post on (Neil, me, and the final five) and I’m constantly amazed by their progress.

Understand:  Pick-up isn’t just some knowledge base you are entitled to.  It is a SKILL SET.  you pay to be trained in skill sets.

Want to be a doctor?  Spend $100,000 for med school to learn the skills of a doctor.  Want to be a lawyer?  Spend $100,000 for law school and learn the skills of a lawyer.  Want to be a mechanic?  Spend the money to be trained like a mechanic.

Can you learn all those skills on your own?  Sure!  Nothing is stopping you from reading every book you can find on a skill set and applying it yourself.  But it is not unreasonable to PAY for training in a skillset.

(After all, you don’t see message boards full of people bitching about how Dr. Wiseman is only teaching his tripple-sutcher technique to people willing to pay him for it.)

And the better the training, the higher the price you have to pay for it.  That’s how the world works.

Neil and I knew that people were upset that The Game had exposed a lot of the more common tactics to the public and made them ineffective.  That’s why we wanted to limit the number of people who learned the Annihilation Method – to keep the techniques taught in there fresh and effective.

After we sold out on Saturday (and yes, we did sell out, don’t believe all the haters out there), we got slammed by emails from people complaining they couldn’t buy for some reason or another.

If it was all about the money for us, we’d have continued to sell the product over and over and over again, cashing in while the iron was hot and laughing all the way to the bank.

We Did Not Do That.

We sold 375 copies, and that’s it.  We will never sell the Annihilation Method again.  This is it.  Its over and done.  We TOLD you guys that, and we stuck to our word.  How’s that for credibility?

Neil could have easily made THREE TIMES what he made off the Annihilation Method, but that wasn’t the point.  Money is NEVER the point.  Money is what comes as a result of your intention.  Neil wanted to give something OF VALUE back to the community.  He spent 4 years pioneering techniques he gave away for free to the community and what happened?

People took them and cheapened them by selling them as their own (I’m looking at you, RSD).  Everyone began using them, and they lost their effectiveness.  There was a time you couldn’t step foot on the Sunset Strip here in LA without girls having heard your material 100 times from other guys who DIDN’T KNOW HOW TO USE IT.

We wanted to avoid that with the Annihilation Method.  The price point was to limit it to people who had already achieved some measure of success in life (Because Health, Wealth, and Relationships are all connected.  Success in one aspect means you can have success in another).  It was also to keep it out of the hands of people who would abuse the technology.

Not only that, but look at what you get for $3779 – a MASSIVE training course from the best seducer out there (8 DVDs, 7 CDs, over 1000 pages of text); Free teleseminars where Neil answers your questions; a FREE seminar in November Neil will be putting on out of his own pocket where he will personally work with you on your sticking points.

In my opinion, the course was CHEAP for what you get!

(And keep in mind, knowing Neil, he’s got a few more surprises for the people who bought the course)

Even as we speak, the people in the final 375 must sign CONFIDENTIALITY AGREEMENTS before they can recieve their course.  That’s how commited Neil is to his belief that the Annihilation Method should retain its value.

And you know what?  As soon as the course gets out, you’re going to start hearing about what is taught in it, and you’re going to see how people are using it, and it will eventually become a part of the community.

But the difference is:  It will be VALUED.  And that’s what’s important to us than making billions of dollars.

At the end of the day, when it comes to making money and having credibility, I can sleep well at night.  I do not care what other people have to say about me, because you know what?  I do not base my self worth on their opinions.

I have moved beyond that.  I feel I conduct myself ethically and morally, and I have no qualms about how I do business or how I value my time and knowledge.  If you don’t like that, you at least have to respect it.

So for those of you who bitch and moan about my lack of credibility, my "shoddy" marketing, and all the other stuff, I just have this to say to you:

Do not come to my site anymore.

Seriously.  If you think I’ve become a joke, why bother with me?  Unless you know, deep down, that I’m not a joke, and I’m still worth your time.

So which is it?  I’ll leave it to you to decide.

Why Do Chicks Flake?

I found this post by a guy named BlueMystery over on mASF…

BlueMystery writes:
Hey guys,

I need some help with something that has been frustrating me lately.

I’m able to approach girls, start a convo, get something fun going, get their number while I feel that they are interested in me. (eg: I would say "This was fun, but I gotta go. what can we do to have this conversation again sometime?" They would give it, and we would part.)

I call them up, and sometimes I get the answering machine, where I would tell them (credit to Craig from DYD) "Hey, this is Dan from blah blah, you might wanna call me back. I think you have a confession to make. ok, bye". Of course I would be joking/serious about it.

Most of the time, I dont get a call back. Some times, we set day 2s, and either they flake or cancel on me at the last moment. Lol, one chick blatantly left a message saying "I wont be able to make it because I forgot that I was going to the movies at that time".

What do you guys suppose I am missing when engaging chicks? Are they feeling buyer’s remorse? Am I not screening properly? It’s honestly frustrating.

I will give more more detail to help narrow down the conversation, but I don’t know where to begin analyzing the situ.

Any help would be most appreciated.

You know, this is a REALLY common problem a lot of guys run into.

The meet a girl, they get a number, they think they’re in… and when it comes time to call her up again, she flakes.

No phone call.  No 2nd meet.  Nothing.

It happens ALL THE TIME.  So often in fact, that the top PUAs out there have multiple different strategies to try and prevent it.  Things like leaving personal stuff with the girl to "lock her in" so she is in some way OBLIGATED to get back in touch with you.

But in my opinion, that’s a little extreme.  To me, unless a woman is truly excited about seeing you again, its not worth the time and effort to try and get her to call you back or meet you for coffee.  I’m not saying you SHOULDN’T do that, I just don’t think its worth my effort.

The real fix to this problem comes in the initial meet.  You have to do three things in my opinion:  Establish a strong connection with the girl, demonstrate higher value, and generate some attraction.

In my humble opinion, those three things will nuke any possibility of flaking you could encounter.

The reason for this is because you need to make a girl WANT to see you again if you want to prevent flaking!

Most guys will maybe get one or two of these in an interaction.  But I really think you need all three to make it work.  If you just get the connection, you’re the "cool guy who’d make a good friend, but I can’t find the time to hang out with you right now."  Same thing with the DHV.  If you get some attraction, you might be the "cute guy" she met the other night, but once you’re out of site, the attraction wears off.

BUT, if you get all three, they all re-inforce each other, and you become the "awesome guy" she hopes calls her.

Thoughts?

Dr. Paul Seminar Review

Here’s a review from a rather satisfied customer of the one and only, Dr. Paul…

My Story

Hey Folks, my name is Mike, and I attended the inagural Dr. Paul Dating OS seminar in Chicago last December. Before the event, I had spent a considerable time reading lots of the material that seems to have flooded the dating community, if you can call it that. Some good, some great, some bad. Lots of techniques and some self-improvement stuff. It helped and I saw some improvement in my dating life. In my life I had a couple of girlfriends and hooked up some, but it was hit and miss. I even went through a multi-year dry spell. A couple of them. I was still finding myself unfulfilled. In fact, it mostly sucked.

I seemed to attract a bunch of nuts and none of the women were ones that I really wanted to be with, and weren’t the right ones for me. Like most guys, I was just couldn’t get the ones that I really wanted. I would get slammed and rejected and I just couldn’t push myself to the next level and put things together. I had started reading Dr. Paul’s newsletter and books, and it just seemed to make sense to me. It presented a durable solution and I found that I was able to accept the concepts intellectually. Personally, I wanted to find a better solution that having a cadre of techniques that are derived from breaking down what is essentially a pretty simple process: that of attraction. His point really is true: Address and fix your inner game, and the outer game will follow. Enter the seminar. As soon as I found out about it, I knew I had to attend. It was December, and there were a lot of things I could have done with the money I was going to spend on the seminar and the trip, but I "just knew" I had to take advantage of this opportunity.

Fast forward to a cold December Saturday morning in Chicago. I went to the building where our meeting was not knowing what to expect. I walked in, and saw guys (and a lovely woman!) of all ages, backgrounds, and experience. I was surprised to find guys from all over the world too. There were 25 of us, and we were all there for 1 thing: to improve our dating lives. Finally, it was time to go upstairs and get ready for the seminar. We had to take care of paperwork and other things before we started. And I finally got to meet Dr. Paul in person.

The seminar started, and once I took a look at the material and what we were going to cover, I was BLOWN AWAY. The research and refinement Dr. Paul had done to this material addressed all of my dating life issues and how to handle them. All the way from knowing why certain girls weren’t right for me, to how to find exactly what I wanted in a woman and how to get it. Why I havent had relationships go to the next level, or last for the duration too. The importance of having a story. I am bound by a non-disclosure agreement, so I won’t go too much into the material. I will say after being in the classroom all day, the chair I was sitting in was killing my butt, but I wanted more. But, it was time to get ready for dinner, and the FIELD portion of the workshop. Theory and reading is one thing, but to see it in action is another. None of this stuff would have had the effect on me it did without it.

We went to dinner as a sort of family. A chance to bond, hear stories, and meet and get friendly with the coaches. We were assigned into smaller groups with a coach, and then had plans to switch groups later on. This way everyone got time with Dr. Paul. I left to go change to meet later with the guys at our first stop of the night.

I walked in the Cubby Bear, a neighborhood bar in Wrigleyville, and our first stop of the night. It was an X-mas pub crawl, and all of the bars were jammed with people. Now, in my life I have had problems with anxiety and I can tell you that it was at an all time high here. I was under glass, as the coaches were evaluating all of us from our dress and body language, to our attitude and approach. I found the guys, and saw Dr. Paul in his pimpafied fur coat with his big pink ring. He had about 7 girls around him and one was kissing his ring. I could not believe it. Typical to my history, I didnt really want to engage anyone, but a coach found me, and forced me into an approach. We talked to a couple of friendly girls, but I could feel myself blowing it, going down in flames. The coach said "you have too much negativity man. You are too negative. It’s like you are pissed off or something." In hindsight it was something I needed to hear. In the moment, it didnt help, and I started to feel bad.

Our next stop was Red Ivy, a bar a couple of doors down. Once we got in, we switched our coaching groups. I was feeling pretty low not being able to approach anyone. I hung out with your coach, Jacob (name amended to protect privacy) and watched some of the other guys. Jacob is an interesting fellow, an artist. Women are literally not a challenge AT ALL for him. In fact, he is from out of state, but didn’t even bother booking a hotel room in Chicago for the weekend, if you get my drift….anyway, Jacob really wanted to help me. He said "find a girl you like and tell me. We will do something about it."

I saw 2 girls and 2 guys standing in sort of a box, with the girls facing each other and the guys facing each other. The hotter of the 2 (tall, blonde, fit around 25, named Sam) looked at Jacob once, then twice. He had his back to her. I said "hey Jacob, that girl over there just looked at you. Twice." He said "which one, that one?" "Yeah." He walks over and I follow in order to eavesdrop. He walks up, at sort of an angle…

Jacob: So…you like to dance?
Sam: No not really.
Jacob: No me either.

Now, that was all I could hear of the conversation, but it seemed to me like Sam had this look of "like you have a chance with me." But they quickly got cheek to cheek and were talking mouth to mouth, on the verge of making out. Turns out her group was leaving, going to the next bar in the pub crawl. Jacob got her phone number and put it into his cell phone. 30 seconds MAX.

No "how old are you, what do you drive, how much money do you make, what do you do." None of that, and he was almost making out with her. Blew my mind. (Incidentally, I followed up with him the next day on the phone number. I wanted to see if it was real. He goes "Oh yeah. Let me call her." He called and her machine picked up. I was listening over the phone. "Hi, this is Sam." Enough said…) Back to the bar. I managed to get in my own head and kind of strayed away from the groups.

I watched some of the guys talking to girls and the coaches talking to many girls. I literally shut down and couldn’t get anything going. Honestly, I was FREAKING out inside. Dr. Paul noticed this, and said "don’t worry about it. I will work with you personally this weekend. We will get this taken care of." At the time, I didnt believe him.

It was time to go to the next bar, and we were standing around talking, waiting on the other guys to gather up. Around that time, Orion (you might know him from David D stuff) asked me how I was doing. "Crappy" I replied. He was kind of disappointed I think. I kind of backed a couple of feet. Next thing I knew, he yelled to me. "YOU! Those 2. NOW!" and pointed to a couple of girls. I didnt have time to think. I went up to them…

Me: Hey girls, how’s it going.
Girls: Good
Me: Are you guys doing the pub crawl? Having fun?
Girls: Yeah

About this time I was stuck for something to say. Luckily one of the guys from the seminar stepped in and started talking to one of the girls, leaving the hotter one for me; Allison – best looking girl I had ever talked to. Ever.

Me: So, that’s a beautiful scarf you have on. Does it make you warm and fuzzy?
Allison: Sorta, I just like it. I like your shirt.
Me: Thanks. Look at my ring too. Cool isnt it? You should kiss it. (Tried to steal the Dr. Paul line)
Allison: Noooo, dont think so.
Me: So you are a good girl then?
Allison: I like to think so.
Me: Well, I would like to find that out.

About this time, I was struggling for more to say, and I did all I could do at this moment.

Me: Well, I am going to go back to my friends.
Allison: Awwww. (Turns to me, and blows me a kiss)(No joke).

I walk back to Orion, and all he says is "See?" I knew what he meant.

We go to the next club, an upscale and exclusive bar in Mid-Town. There was a private party in the upstairs and weren’t many women in the downstairs part. We had bottle service (first class!) and it was a good time to reflect and discuss what went on at the other bars. Jonandre worked with me on some style tips and ways to carry myself.

I caught a cab with Dr. Paul and went back to the hotel. I was EXHAUSTED, but it took me a while to get to sleep. I was so excited about what took place that night. But wait….it gets better….

Sunday morning we all met back in the classroom, and things were abuzz with field reports and stories. I didn’t have much to tell, but the progress that I made was huge for me. We covered the more advanced material of the program. A part of the seminar that was interesting was that Dr. Paul had many movie clips that really highlighted a lot of the material and how it manifests in real people. It was a huge eye opener, and we all could quickly analyze the situations in the movie with the framework of the DatingOS. Great, great stuff. We were all amazed at how fast we picked this stuff up. We analyzed some high profile couples too. Why Brad & Jen split. Why Bill & Hillary are still together.

Now, this is where Sunday gets real interesting. Dr. Paul does an EMDR demonstration at each of the seminars. No doubt, you have heard of EMDR in the newsletters, so I wont go into technical details here, other than it is a very advanced and effective sort of hypnosis technique. It eliminates barriers that other methods do not. Dr. Paul had promised to address my issues that came up Saturday night, and now it was time. Another guy had done it before me, so it became my turn.

I was apprehensive about having my inner issues drawn out before an audience, but I came to Chicago to get my problems solved, so I did COURAGE and went up. The best I can describe the process is that my mind went into a cloud-like state. I could tell that it was completely relaxed. An event came up from my life that I had completely forgotten about. Oddly, I found it linked to my total self-image, and that transferred to how I interacted with women. 20 minutes later, it was over. I felt like a new person. That something that had been holding me back for too many years was gone now. The guys in the group were all very supportive, and thanked me for sharing in front of them.

Time for dinner again, and another field workshop. We went to Stanley’s Kitchen, a famous restaurant and karaoke bar in Chicago. Had a great dinner and follow-up discussions. Watched all of the coaches talk to a couple of the servers and had them laughing and falling all over themselves to hang out with the coaches. We went to the karaoke side for a bit and watched Robert, a guy from the seminar TEAR UP "Wanted Dead or Alive" by Bon Jovi. (nice). A couple of the guys remarked that I acted like a new person. From there, a few of the guys stayed and Stanley’s and some of us went to Spoon, an upscale club.

Sunday nights are industry night, which translates into "models and up-and-coming actresses come here tonight." I walked in to Spoon with Robert, and we went to the upstairs part of the club. Robert went off to dance, and I was standing off to the side of the dance floor. Next thing I know, 2 girls grab me, and off we go to the dance floor. We danced a while, then went up to the bar. Some other girl comes up to us, and starts talking and hanging out.

Then another hott blonde comes up and starts dancing in front of me. All this is while I am standing there with my back against the bar, chatting up the girls. In walks Dr. Paul, and he says "Dude! What is this?!?" I looked at him like, "hey man, I dunno. But they are here." A couple of the girls get us drinks, and Paul says "let’s do some advanced stuff." "That girl is testing you…turn your back to her. NOW!" I did it. 20 seconds later he says "now turn back to her, slowly." Did that, and she smiled.

About this time, the blonde grabs me for some attention. I pick up my finger and wave in a NO NO manner. She gives the pouty look and I motion for her to turn around. She does, and starts grinding her posterior on me. She looks back, and I give her the bored look. So she lifts up her short shirt to show me the tattoo on the small of her back. Then, I motion to her for more. Next, she pulls the strings of her little pink thong out of the top of her pants. I laugh. NICE!

One of the other girls walks off, and Dr. Paul goes "let’s send to her." So we send, and she comes walking back in a few minutes. Great stuff. I could not believe what was happening. I had 5 girls that came up to ME, in the hottest bar in Chicago. Unbelievable. I even showed one of the guys from the seminar what I was doing and helped his game. Sure enough, a couple of girls came up to him. From there, we were exhausted, and decided to call it a night. I had accomplished what I wanted to.

Notice that we used "sending." Sending is such an underrated method. What I have found is that your are sending ALL THE TIME. Don’t believe me? The next time you pull up at a traffic light, look over at the car next to you. The person always looks over. And women do it twice as fast as guys. That’s sending my friends. In a nutshell. I will give you a small tip about sending for reading this far, free of charge, from me to you.

When I enter a place, be it a club, restaurant, music event, or whatever, I have what I call a default send. I imagine sending warmth, and good positive emotions all over the area. From there, I find the place I want to hang and stay there. In less than an hour, women will be orbiting and milling around. They will come up and say, "I am not sure why, but I felt I needed to come up to you." I have merged many groups of friends using this method, and made many new friends. It’s unbelievable how this works. And it works over and over again.

Now, I will say this which is a theory. If I had not addressed my challenges and gotten this material from Dr. Paul, I would not be sure of the effectiveness of the above method. Maybe it would work, maybe not. I would be interested to hear reports from anyone that tries it.

So, thats my story. Dr. Paul promised that anyone that attended the seminar, he guaranteed that they would have a great guy/girl by New Years. I didn’t have one. I had three. In January, I had four. And they all knew about each other. Heck, on the way home from Chicago, I met a girl on the way out of town, 2 at O’Hare, and 2 on the plane. In between I have had many relationships that were short-term in nature.

Now, I am dating a wonderful Lover (I am a warrior) that is Ivy-league educated, works with special needs children, and is beautiful. She is on my energy level, and we have a great time. But, I still socialize and make friends with new women all the time. I always wanted to hang out at the house and sit on couch or on the computer. Now, I am always going out. I would much rather socialize than anything else.

Before the seminar, my favorite complaint was "I never meet any women, and the ones I do are all nucking futs." Now I say "I cant believe there are so many beautiful, wonderful women that have so much going for them. How can I date them all?" Seriously. I came back from the seminar and studied the material, and have gone over the events of the weekend again and again. It really was life-changing.

Whatever happens with my current girl, I know I can meet a wonderful woman at any time. Do you have any idea how great it feels to walk into a place, and get looks from women that acknowledge they know you are a guy that has it together? In watching the coaches, I saw that attraction happens in 30 seconds or less. Everything that needs to be communicated is done in that time span. (Remember the Jacob story?)

Having access to the best dating system literally on the planet has put me over the top in that 30 seconds. When you KNOW, in your head and in your heart that you possess ways to deal with anything that women throw at you and anything that happens in relating to the opposite sex, it literally becomes no problem anymore. Rejection? Yeah right. At the worst, if someone walks off from me, more often than not, they will come back later on. It’s just a test to see if you get rattled. Having this material makes it HER LOSS that she chooses to miss out on getting to know you. Even if a particular girl doesnt come back, so what? I can easily meet more.

This part of my life is handled. It’s over. Having this out of the way, has allowed my quality of life to skyrocket in other areas. I have used this stuff and applied it to my business life with much success. My superiors have all mentioned that I seem more mature, and able to handle things better. I can easily frame the personality of people I have to meet and deal with on a daily basis. I have moved into a leadership role. I am continuting to use EMDR to overcome some business challenges, and move into a self-employed situation.

You wont see me in the "Top 10 Pick-up Artists of the Year" that Thundercat puts out (on which Dr. Paul got an honorable mention by the way this year.) You wont see me going toe to toe with Mystery, or the RSD guys. I couldnt care less about that stuff. I don’t want to notch my bed post with the number of strippers I have banged. (Although, I did a little demonstration for my brother with a girl from his work. To this day, she will not leave him alone about me) I am just a guy from Alabama that went to the seminar, did courage and handled my business, and have had more success than I can imagine. Sometimes, I think I am living in a dream.

Finally, I want to mention Dr. Paul is a great guy. He could be teaching this stuff for 2, 5 or 10 times the price AND GET IT. He could work one on one with weathly guys. But he doesnt. He chooses to work with groups in a seminar format, that is less in cost than other guys that is not nearly as effective. He even gave me a ride back to my hotel from Spoon on Sunday night at 1 A.M. even though I could tell he was tired, and had to be back at work on Monday morning. Dr. Paul, from the bottom of my heart, I want to say "THANK YOU." My life is incredible now. I went through years of medication, therapy and other stuff, and nothing ever came together until the seminar. Thanks so much.

Most of the other guys out there that do workshops focus on the actual pick-up. Some have good stuff. Like I mentioned, the process of attraction happens in less than 30 seconds. After that, what do you do? Attraction, after all, is a pretty simple process that has been sliced and diced up by guys teaching stuff. In my experience though, you either have it together or you dont. Dr. Paul addresses all of that. Anything that you can encounter all the way from "picking-up" to marriage or a break-up is handled. There are less than 100 people on the planet that have this information. Good for us, bad for you.

For the people that were on Dr. Paul’s list back when he offered the seminar in December, but didnt attend, another 6 months has gone by. Are you where you want to be? I am, and more. When I committed to going, I didnt really have the money either. But, in January, I lucked in to getting some side work for a couple of weekends that exactly paid for the seminar, and my plane ticket and hotel room. Deliver pizzas, cut grass, whatever for 3 months. Just get there.

As a favor to Dr. Paul (incidentally I haven’t communicated with him since the seminar) I have set up a new e-mail box. If anyone has questions about being a seminar STUDENT only (I am not qualified to answer problem questions) email me through Dr Paul’s assistant, shauna (shauna@doctorpaul.net), who has kindly agreed to forward questions to me.  And no, not under any circumstances will I give you a copy of the material. Don’t even ask. It wouldn’t make sense to you anyway without the classroom instruction. Any of the guys from the December seminar, I would love to hear from you; let me know how things are going!

Take care all.

Mike

Sounds like Dr. Paul has some interesting inner game techniques.

Review: Mystery Method Master Series-CD Interview 2

Got sent this review of one of Mystery’s CD products.

Review: Mystery Method Master Series-CD Interview
Volume 2-Mystery on Disqualification Theory and the M3 Model
Approx. 66 Mins.

Like many of you guys, before I discovered the PUA community, I never would have believed that all the techniques, tactics, and gambits in the world would work on women in the dating and seduction area…but they do work, and work SO well ! I used to have vitually NO "luck" with women in those days and put it all down to not being good looking enough. Since then, my eyes have been opened and I have realized (just like you) that it’s not luck-It’s SKILL !

TO ATTRACT SOMEONE IS A SKILL. Opening correctly is a skill that will set off the beginning of attraction, and that you will learn. What happens when you attract someone, then disqualify yourself as attracted to them? They chase YOU. What is you disqualify them further? They chase you HARDER ! It’s simply text-book psychology at it’s finest…and most ridiculously surreal; People want what they think they can’t have. You have just become the "bling" that girls want. You are the dancing string that kitty wants ro play with.

Scarcity…

Who’s the man who introduced thr M3 Model, the "neg", and group theory to the community? Shaft? Hell no! Mystery? You’re damn right. On this CD he is giving you one of the most important tools you will ever use and how to successfully use it. Over the years, the neg has been misinterpreted as some sort of put down or insult, and coming from that kind of frame, it’s easy to see the potential disaster that can be had when a neg is thrown the wrong way. Fear not, because this interview with Mystery clears up and defines what is now known as "Disqualification Theory" and the thoery behind "Negs"-With that potential disaster solved, you can feel free to game on. This CD is useful for so many reasons, but it’s more than worth it for just that one alone.

Some other topics covered: Target selection, Target switching, Locking-In, Some Do’s and Dont’s of Day and Night game, Baiting for Qualification

Now, when you go to mysterymethod.com, you will notice there is a forum there, and it is open to ALL. It is a place of answers and community, sometimes Mys himself answers questions, but there are always former students of his and members of his lounge to help you out.

Bottom Line: You start to feel that Mystery Method cares.

-Waxlrose