Dating on MySpace?
August 2, 2005 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
If you haven’t noticed the trend in online dating away from the pay sites like "Match.com" over to the free community-based sites like MySpace and Friendster, it’s probably time you stood up and paid attention. I know a lot of guys who just spend their days crawling through profile after profile on sites like MySpace looking for hot chicks in their area who are open to meeting up, and some of them have a great deal of success.
Obviously, sites like MySpace and Friendster don’t have the same stigma attached to them as most dating sites do, and not only that, but it’s more interactive and customizable. Many of the women on the site seem to use it as their personal web site that they send all their friends to, because it can be used as a blog and you can send announcements to all your friends. Not only that, but you can upload tons of pictures. Indeed, sites like MySpace are like online crack for a lot of women.
Not only that, but MySpace also hosts a lot of parties across the country where they encourage their members to attend. I must admit, I’ve gone to one of these events, and considering it was a gathering place for a bunch of people who spend a lot of their time online, it was incredibly wild.
It’s my experience (and some of you may disagree with me), that most of the women you find on MySpace can be quite pretty, smart, funny, etc. But a lot of them aren’t the best in the "social skills" department, which is probably why they’ve fallen back onto an online outlet to meet others in the first place. Indeed, there are a great many women who are too busy to have any social life at all who rely on sites like this to meet friends and have fun with (like strippers, for instance. There’s an ungodly ammount of strippers on sites like MySpace! =) I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with the women on these sites, just that none of them really know how to meet people, so they’re more open to dating guys who actually bother to do the work to approach them.
Now, that’s not always true. You do occasionally find party girls on there, and some of the women are too young to bother with. But because these are free services, you’re always getting an influx of fresh blood into the system, which means the "picking ground" never gets stagnant.
I personally haven’t really developed any hard-core strategies for these kinds of community-based websites, but I’m sure some of you out there have. I’d love to hear any suggestions you guys have for dating women off these sites.
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Speaking of MySpace I just made my Myspace thread on mASF.
We need the myspace formula for kicks!
http://www.fastseduction.com/discussion/read?241733,8
I’m working on some stuff but if anyone else has some ideas, here is the thread to do it.
Yeah TC.. you kinda hit this thing on the head.. Myspace is way better than those pay sites.. plus the good thing is that it’s a good way to build your social circle.. I’ve personally been on myspace for over a year now and I’ve gotten plenty of dates from there.. not to mention alot of the people on my profile are people who I run into all the time while going out in clubs, but some people are just people who I meet and eventually hang out with later on.. I highly reccomend that people use things like myspace and friendster to keep intouch with people in your social circle. Know it works for me..
Godammit I’,m not CHINESE !
TC’s spot on right about Myspace/Friendster! It’s an awesome tool that every guy should utilize.
I know a lot of my friends would bust my chops for meeting chicks online but – fact is – the results speak for themselves: 2 GORGEOUS model/actresses, 1 exotic model/PhD student and a sexy law student, all within probably three months. This is not even including all of the invitations for dates I’ve had that I’ve had to decline b/c I was just too busy.
What’s really awesome about meeting girls from Myspace for a coffee or cocktails is – when you two meet for the first time – you have all of these inside connections, all of these little intimate bonds that only you and her know about. This is very crucial in creating a comfortable, enticing experience for her. So, just as in face-to-face pick-up, create little bonds between you two while emailing each other back and forth. The most obvious example is nicknames – it’s cool to create one for her based on some kind of experience you two have shared but, when in doubt, you can call her:
+Rockstar
+Bubbles
+Peaches
+Buttercup
These four are solid! They are totally cute and the girls like them. At the same they convey a certain interest in her that says, “You’re cute, I dig you but don’t get full of yourself, doll”. It’s Mystery’s A3 rolled up into ONE WORD!!!!
In addition to Friendster/Myspace, I’ve also had good luck with Facebook. If you still have a college email address, you can sign up for this and network with people at your college…seriously, every college student uses this. Before I graduated in December, I’ve met quite a few really hot, interesting girls from my school on Facebook and have had pretty good success.
Give these a try, guys! It really is another great way to meet women.
DG
Yep. I’ve been telling this to people for a year. Myspace is the shit for getting a quick lay. You meet, fuck, both go your own way and repeat.
The girls can be the closet sluts they’re always wanted to be without anyone knowing.
Cheers to Myspace!
Eric
I heard that Dave M. from insiderinternetdating.com was planning on covering myspace pickup in his product. Anybody know anything about this?
Oh and has anybody considered using myspace to network for wings or anything? I myself have found several cool guys who are familiar with ASF through that site.
Any thoughts?
Hey Guys, You are seems like you have been very sucessfull in thise friking sites, For me it hasn’t been the same.. I been fucking sending messages to girls and so most of them end up saying not I don’t give up my phone or well I don’t know you or bla bla. It freaks me out!!! holy shit I want to get lay more often…
Guys you see I am just friking a little frustrated with these sites, So start sending me e-mails right away and help me out…
I can’t believe I’m following up after this last post but I too am frustrated with myspace.
I was allured into thinking it would be a gold mine to meet women and set up dates.
Just a short background. Im 6’2, height weight proportionate, decent looking and have no real problem meeting women offline in bars and coffeeshops.
So when I got onto myspace I thought I hit the jackpot. Here I am within inches of meeting tons of women who are all just wanting to have fun.
Well guess what?
So are thousands and thousands of other guys. I could only imagine what it must be like to look at your inbox on a daily basis if you were an attractive woman and have to weed through all of the emails.
Plus, alot of women, it seems to me, love to have the social validation of adding you to their friends list and even babbling about nonsense for a few weeks, all the while throwing out the “Let’s get to know each other better first” any time I suggest we get up off our fat and happy asses and actually meet!
In other words, it is my opinion that many women on here have no intention of actually following up with anything on here and it just adds to their cat and mouse game that keeps them occupied.
I would love, I mean LOVE, to hear someone explain to me what the angle is on this one.
Do I need a shot of myself with a sixpack and some hairgel, button down shirt unbuttoned?
Is that what it comes down to?
Somebody drop some science already!!!
Hey guys…have you noticed that there are thousands of guys chasing the MEGA HOT women in real life too?
You have to set yourself apart from the crowd. Try lots of different things. Basically, you can do anything you want (without threatening national security) online, because nothing bad is going to happen. What’s she gonna do, send you a frownie face?
Also, don’t think of the whole dating scene as playin’ “the game”. That’s what women play. Think of it like you are ABOVE the game.
Once a woman thinks “who the hell does he think he is?”, you win.
Women are strange creatures. Science doesn’t apply here, unless you actually get HOW they are thinking. Ask some girls that are friends for details about their last date, and think about what they say (make sure they are open enough to tell you in the first place, though).
Anyway, back to the games, when you do things that are UNEXPECTED, in a NON-THREATENING and INTERESTING way, girls will definately take note. This really comes down to how you do it. Think of James Bond. Sort of that confident air about him…not much get’s to him…basically KNOWS girls will stick on him like shit on velcro…
So, in a nut shell, women are curious. They want to know more. Just act like you’re shit’s ice cream. And don’t answer all their questions. e.g. “Do u like me?” You- “Do u have lots of money?”
And, as for dating, don’t ask for a date. Tell them “Hey, let’s go here…”, and see what they say. For anything but NO, say something like: “OK *sigh*, I’ll let you, as long as you won’t stalk me. It happens.” You’d be amazed at the similarities between ‘confident’ and ‘ass hole’. The only difference is the ass hole appologizes.
By the way, you can be a really nice and romantic person. Just do it because YOU WANT TO, and not to get her to like you more. Women can tell the difference.
Well Myspace IS a great way to meet girls, I will offer this advice that has been successful:
1. Send a friend request to the girl, she’ll either “accept” or “deny” if she deny’s your request then you can not waste your time trying to pick her up, she’s probably fake. But if she does accept however you can comment her and e-mail her, I find it best for a first e-mail to be less then three lines long, also forget the “thanks for the adds” I’ve found they think this is annoying. Also of note I have people on my friends list that I have no clue what they look like, but don’t be put off by this as a friend on my list has no image of her but she’s very pretty.
Also, AVOID SIMPLE SEDUCER AND WHAT MAKES WOMEN CLICK! Those are snakeskin product’s that offer absolutely nothing, Vitalio’s Seduction Science on the other hand is useful, especially volume 3 in which he annotates his IM and E-mail conversations.
And I recommend coffee when meeting someone live, and not to bring more the $20.00 on a first date.
(I have done this before knowing he existed, however my annotation’s werent that great though)
Well. In myspace most of the girl who come are much younger and many are not for dating. They browse the site for fun and more in favour of posting comments for pictures and so on. Not all are targeting Online Dating sites for dating. Hence there response is poor. I would say may be only about 5% respond for your dating request.
“I would say may be only about 5% respond for your dating request.”
That may be related to formless blob that is placed on top of your neck.
Also known as a “face” to normal looking people.
5% response the much bigger and we cannot say it is only 5%. If you take an average of how many girls we meet online for dating on daily basis is much higher and if 5% respond is good.
Me and my wing Song_bird have been developing a MySpace system over the last two years. I have a ton of info up on our blog. Together we have met and slept with well over 100 girls on myspace. It is an amazing way to double or triple the girls in your life if you know what you are doing.
cheers,
-Hatch
http://www.myspacemethod.com has an ebook out specifically for myspace pickup and I’ve been using it the last month with tremendous success. The creators are just a couple of regular joe pickup artists so the site isnt very impressive, but the ebook works ridiculously well.
CHECK OUT A BRAND NEW EBOOK THAT BREAKS DOWN HOW TO GET AT WOMEN ON MYSPACE! http://WWW.MYSPACETOMYPLACE.COM
CHECK OUT A BRAND NEW EBOOK THAT BREAKS DOWN HOW TO GET AT WOMEN ON MYSPACE! http://WWW.MYSPACETOMYPLACE.COM
There is ton of free info (how to set up your profile, how to get her phone #, etc) along with actual interactions with and pictures of girls picked up on myspace and facebook at my blog: http://www.windowshoppingforwomen.com/blog
I am one of those guys who tried myspace. I thought it would be an easy way to fuck women and make myself feel more like a man. I dont give a fuck about how the girl feels. I just want to be a blantent typical slob and get laid/
I use lines like U R SO FUCKING HOT and the girls get pissed and block me. Whats up with that. Sometimes I dont yose
fuill punktuation and it makes them think i a,m stupid.
I know that the women on there have no social skills and thats why theuy have to be online to pick up hot gems like myself. Unlike me, they have no finesse. I have a social circle unlike these womens. BUt I am on myspace to better them. My presence is better than any of them like the OP implied of himself. Like him, I cant see that I am on MYSPACE just like those strippers…no social skills, just a hawt dancer looking for a lay. I am no dancer but I am unique just like everyone else on there picking up women and yet dont need to, because I have a lot of friends. But I do it to pass disease and judge others like a stupid fucking typical circle jerking pig man with disease and addictions -
But hey – I would never say that about my mom and sisters or aunts or cousins…even though they have myspace pages to promote themselves (just like me). Only other women…over half a million…all strippers out for an easy lay. Thank goodness I am there to clean the place up. I love double standards…i like to fuck but dont like women to have morals – oh wait, do I? Wait. What do I want?
A woman with standards and social skills – or a good fuck? Wait…what does that say about me? OH…Im a stupid male pig. Just like the OP
I am one of those guys who tried myspace. I thought it would be an easy way to fuck women and make myself feel more like a man. I dont give a fuck about how the girl feels. I just want to be a blantent typical slob and get laid/
I use lines like U R SO FUCKING HOT and the girls get pissed and block me. Whats up with that. Sometimes I dont yose
fuill punktuation and it makes them think i a,m stupid.
I know that the women on there have no social skills and thats why theuy have to be online to pick up hot gems like myself. Unlike me, they have no finesse. I have a social circle unlike these womens. BUt I am on myspace to better them. My presence is better than any of them like the OP implied of himself. Like him, I cant see that I am on MYSPACE just like those strippers…no social skills, just a hawt dancer looking for a lay. I am no dancer but I am unique just like everyone else on there picking up women and yet dont need to, because I have a lot of friends. But I do it to pass disease and judge others like a stupid fucking typical circle jerking pig man with disease and addictions -
But hey – I would never say that about my mom and sisters or aunts or cousins…even though they have myspace pages to promote themselves (just like me). Only other women…over half a million…all strippers out for an easy lay. Thank goodness I am there to clean the place up. I love double standards…i like to fuck but dont like women to have morals – oh wait, do I? Wait. What do I want?
A woman with standards and social skills – or a good fuck? Wait…what does that say about me? OH…Im a stupid male pig. Just like the OP