10 Habits Of A Natural

Found a post on mASF about the 10 habits of a natural called "NaturalJJ" and his bisexual girlfriend.  They’re not really anything new or groundbreaking, but that doesn’t mean the 10 habits listed in this post are any less effective.

Hat tip to Handsome Man for pointing this one out.

UPDATE:  Got an email from the author of this post, Asian Playboy.  Turns out he too has a blog (and it’s actually worth checking out!).  You can visit it here.

Asian Playboy writes:
NaturalJJ is a cool
muthafucka. His girlfriend is bisexual and she will sometimes HUNT with
him to pickup chicks. EVERYTIME we’ve gone out, he meets someone he
knows, usually an attractive, bisexual girl. He’s ultra confident and
has great bodylanguage. Like those familiar with BadBoy, whenever he
sits, he sprawls on the chair and rests his leg on something.

His
attitude, demeanor, and appearance are 100% congruent with what he’s
doing. He pretty much acts like he’s chilling at home. Not only that,
he’s a great conversationalist. I’ve got war stories, he’s got war
stories. Anything I say, he’s got something to supplement it. Not in a
oneupmanship, but as two guys shooting the shit and being totally
comfortable.

Very cool guy. But like most natural players,
he doesn’t approach much, prefering women to approach him who are
attracted with his wild, high energy and punk rocking, redneck
appearance or, even better, when he sends in his bi-girlfriend to pick
up a woman.

So to recap, here are certain elements of his Game that puts him above the average dudes:

1.
Cool appearance. He’s got a platinum/black mohawk. Cool as fuck.
Contrast that with the cowboy/redneck theme. Really, he’s only an inch
taller than me, kind of stocky, and could be labeled "cute" but nowhere
near a pretty boy.

2. BadBoy bodylanguage. He’s ALWAYS physically relaxed. He’ll sit down and pull up a chair to rest his feet on.

3.
Wild energy. When his Game is on, he’s high energy, playful, and fun.
Once, the waitress was flirting with him, dancing, and then he tore off
his shirt and she just went BESERK.

4. Spontaneous. Both his
conversation and his actions are on the fly. I’ve heard some of his war
stories more than once, but he always has something new to say. And
he’s always willing to do something different.

5.
Friendly. He conveys a natural honesty and friendliness. I mean, this
is a guy I knew only a few days and he’s already inviting me over to
hang out at his rich apartments, having barbecues, and introducing me
to his own circle of girls & guy friends.

6. Frank sexual
talk. He isn’t afraid of talking about sex with total strangers and
girls. He doesn’t care who the fuck knows that he’s having wild sex,
that he likes threesomes, and fucking girls in the ass.

7.
Physical dominance & touching. He escalates the way he touches
women. Touching isn’t even the right word, it’s a very dominant touch.
He can gently, but firmly hold a woman by her neck and pull her in to
whisper into his ear. And because he has all the other elements of his
Game down, the women almost always respond postively.

8. Smiling
& facial expressions. Part of #5, he always has a ready smile and
laugh as well as a wide range of facial expressions. He’s always
expressing facially what he’s verbally communicating. If he’s telling a
playful story, he’s got a sly, playful look. The same with a sad story,
or anything else.

9.
Women Want Him. Or at least that’s what he THINKS. Quite frankly, I
don’t see all the insane amounts of glances, lookovers, and checkouts
that he’s pointing out, but WHO THE FUCK CARES? It’s the sheer
confidence in his own sex appeal and masculinity. He could be deluding
himself that the slightest glance, the occasional movement, the
accidental bumps from girls are all designed towards him, but WHO THE
FUCK CARES? If he believes it, he’s then willing to approach and take
advantage of every opportunity since they’re basically "INVITING" him
to talk to them, even if it IS mostly in his mind.

10. Phone
game. This is probably where my own Game is weakest. He’s ALWAYS
calling up girls and chatting them up on the phone. He’s got the same
cocky, playful attitude on the phone as he does in real life. He’s free
with his emotions on the phone, saying he loves them (in a friendly, if
sexual way), being funny, calling them on their shit, etc. Doesn’t care
if it’s fucking 3AM in the morning, he’ll still call them and he
doesn’t care what he ends up saying. Every time we go out, he’s always
calling 5 to 10 girls to come out with us and to bring their
girlfriends. He has no shame

In short:  Be outgoing.  Not hard, is it?  =)