Have a Goal
May 24, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
I found a post on mASF from a guy named Sreomon which I thought was pretty good about the importance of keeping a goal in mind during your interactions with women.
Sreomon writes:
Hey guys,I am starting to notice a lot of guys just go out to “sarge”. They run around clubs doing sets, and jumping from set to set every 10 minutes. They run material…stop…NEXT… run material…stop… NEXT.
I agree that when you are first starting out, its good to get comfortable talking to chicks, but afterwards, IF YOU WANT results you have to SPEND the time. As per my field experience, I may do 5-6 sets all night (at a busy club), 3-4 will be solid # closes (spend 20-30 min), and spend the rest of the time to get a ONS with one/two chicks. I may leave the set and talk to other people. I am not “doing sets” but SOCIALIZING.
The question you have to ask yourself, is “WHAT IS MY GOAL FOR TONIGHT?”. If its going out and trying new material, then running around trying that “new” line may be fine. BUT if you are frustrated in trying to understand why you are getting so many flakes, the main reason is probably because you didn’t spend enough time. If you invest the time to learn about them, they will invest the time in you.
Also, its not always about RUNNING “game”, this is not a show, you are not an entertainment monkey. IF you entertain, I am sure you will run out of gas before you get to the lay. All the PUAs I willing to bet are really good at “shooting the shit”, they talk about everyday life and make it interesting and funny, they don’t necessarily run “material”. They may have good stories they share but the “glue” that makes it all work is maintaining a good conversation and talking about “normal” stuff. Making women feel, I can talk to this guy about ANYTHING, he is a central piece in my “puzzle”. Understand the process/stage the PU is in and play your cards accordingly.
The KEY is: ALWAYS HAVE A GOAL FOR THE NIGHT. When I had the threesome last weekend, my goal that night was to have a threesome, I didn’t just stumble upon it. There were opportunities present and I made the best of them, and you can do the same.
If you don’t know what your target is, then where are you going to aim?
I think there’s something to be said about having a goal and pursuing it relentlessly. It’s amazing what we as humans can do when we put our minds to something. When we have a goal, it helps us to create a gameplan on how to achieve that goal, and that gameplan is part of what we in the PUA community study – be it Mystery Method, DYD, or Swinggcat, it’s all about finding the things we need to get from point A to point B when it concerns a woman.
If you want to read the whole thread, check it out here.
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Is this a serious website? I swear, I haven’t heard the “run game” terminology since 8th grade.. because that’s when it was cool. College and beyond.. not so hot. First of all, none of you have any idea of how a woman’s mind works; rather, it is a very, very fucking warped perception. I highly doubt all these stories have any validity and if they do, you must live in a place where all the girls are inherently blind or just incredibly stupid. I don’t know ANYONE who would even talk to a schmuch who was running around getting numbers from various chicks in a bar, let alone give him her number. I really could go on forever about how this website is a complete waste of space and time (I pity people who actually follow this shit).. but I’d rather not. I just hope I never witness some of the lines (like the BF Busters?? Are you serious?) that you are so enthusiasticly advocating.
It’s not at all surprising that you came up with that comment, but the fact is this stuff does work. And you’re right, most people running around asking for numbers may get blown off, but most guys at the beginning of starting a band wouldn’t get many gigs by walking into a bar and asking if they could play.
But imagine, in the real world, if a guy said something that totally took you by surprise and you started laughing. Then you started to take notice of him, then half an hour later he says “Well, it was cool talking to you. I’ve gotta go now, but we should hangout, how can I reach you?”
If you’ve enjoyed the guys company and he made you laugh, are you going to turn him down? And if you say, “Sorry, I’ve got a boyfreind.” Then he says, “That’s okay, i just meant as freinds. I’m new around here and want to make some contacts.” If you still turn him down, so what, this guy can go over to any girl and get a better reaction.
In real life, I have started many conversations with girls by saying “What drink are you buying me?” Most people wouldn’t advocate that, but it works.
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