Some Thoughts
May 13, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
Since I’m headed to Europe soon, I thought I’d send some love over to the Croatian camp and devote a day to them and their crazy Eatern-European posts. The first one I wanna touch on today comes from BadBoy, about some random thoughts on game. Perhpas he’s trying to to work his way up to the “Spastic Ramblings” level? You decide.
Badboy writes:
Its funny how every situation, requires totally different model of picking up chicks.
For example, street is totally different then clubs are….
Where on street you must be fast, quick thinker,street doesnt allows making mistakes, and correcting them, one fuckup, and she goes away…
Thats why its so hard to do it.
Again, sarging social circle chicks, is again totally different then any other enviromant.
If you think….. I will buildattraction now, then later rapport(which is default model in seduction) it simply wont work!
Imagine group of friends, you join, and after 10 minutes, you start throwing C&F, ballbust, high attraction material….
She is ginna be WTF?? Is with this guy?? Why the fuck he is making fun of me.???
It wont work, you’ll just fuck up…. instead, in those situations go directly to rapport!!!
In a club it is ok, cause you must separate yourself from crowd….Fw days ago, I had great example, how C&F stuff doesnt works for emotional chicks…I dont know why, but I was enjoying watching how some crazy stories, that would crack any phisical girl on eatrh, doesnt even hits emotional ones!!
Why is that??
Let me explain this, cause this is really important.
Emotional chicks(those one who search for LTR,), they want comfort, connection & trust from a guy..
They dont want some crazy, advantures guy…..
Those are chicks who search their soul-mates..
Now, if you go in with some crazy material, that conveys (good sex, advanture, confidence, ALPHAness, etc etc……Of course it wont hit her at all, those are not her values she is searching for.
She is searching for comfort, trust, guy that connects with her(soul-mate) who can understand her…etc
Those things you can get just with rapport!
Now, biggest problem is, when guys FLUFF, alot, and they dont go to each topic deep!
They just fluff,(to create rapport), but they jump from topic to topic too fast.
And from chicks point of view, you 2 are not connecting, you 2 are not soul-mates….
Rapport must be wide(lot of topics), and deep(connecting with her on each topic)For physical chicks, its different…you must go C&F alot, but with minimun rapport. As soon she finds out you want LTR(by building lot of rapport), she will run away.
For them, you must create comfort & trust, but dont go for connection<------(3 parts of rapport)
Only way to create good rapport with physical chick is to give them good sex or be on her level of energy(high energy)… that means, drugs, alcohol, sex…. etc
But just give them good sex, they will always come back for more!!
Good sex=More sex. Makes sense. =)
You can read the whole post here.






I don’t want to stir up an indirect vs. direct war here, but this was brought up on by Tyler on Cliff’s List about a year ago. He said that with Party Girls you can omit a large chunk of rapport and concentrate on C&F, and with Librarian-Type chicks you can omit large chunks of C&F and focus more on rapport.
Looks like the two systems really aren’t that different after all…In my view it all comes down to calibrating the woman or set in front of you to see what approach will work best.
I agree but with a librarian-type who doesn’t respond to C&F I just move on, those chicks are never much fun in the long run and they’re not as much fun in bed. I use heavy C&F to weed them out (didn’t realize this early on when I thought C&F was backfiring but eventually figured out that it scared the prudes away and kept the fun party chicks coming for more.)
I don’t know about that…Librarian/emotional type chicks can be some of the most adventurous in bed…(maybe b/c they’ve repressed sexuality?)
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