We’re Artists, Not Just Craftsmen

The legendary Vince Runza has graced the General boards of mASF with yet another sage post.

Vince Runza writes:
To the Group:
Ideally, every chick you successfully sarge will flip over you. However, the reality many guys here experience is less than ideal. In fact, most guys here came looking for better results than complete failure. Heh, there are guys who’d consider it a major success if they could get a chick to kiss them AND caress their back at the same time!

While there are many different approaches to closing, the measurement standard for success is the !close. However, there are lame !closes and not so lame !closes. Check out the Playettes board for what it’s like for a chick to !close an ALF – Absolutely Lame Fuck. There are guys who need to know that sexual prowess is not measured by blowing your load. It’s measured by how you are remembered by the blowee.

I remember reading a post by a guy who had a chick who was so turned on by him, she’d literally drip her juices on him, in anticipation of what was to come (!). Truly, the best measure of how you’re doing with women is how sexy you are AFTER the first time you both seal the deal.

For those of you who have never had a chick flip over you, make that your next short term goal. Do whatever it takes to achieve it. Read books on sexual technique, get feedback from other guys who know the game, debrief chicks on how they perceive you, and so on. Strive to excel.

After all, we are artists, not just craftsmen.

Good stuff from one of the originals in the community. I think it is important to get your bedroom game up to snuff so you can give the woman you’re with such a wonderful experience that she keeps coming back again and again. It just makes your life so much easier. =)

You can read all of Vince’s thread here.