“Baiting” Technique

IN10SE chimes in with a bit of advice from his midgame.

IN10SE writes:
Ok guys, I’m going to GIVE AWAY one of my GOLD techniques so pay attention… and to the guys that don’t read this… well their loss and your gain!

One of the things that I do early on is to give a woman a sense that there is “something more”.

I may start off as being overly confident and tease her just like a good PUA would – but then I’ll let her “discover” that I keep a journal… or drop a line about some random act of kindness that I just did… or mention something that I did for my mom recently (“I took my mom out for dinner last Valentines day”)… let her get a hint of a “softer” side that I’m trying to hide.

And I just leave it at that… a one sentence hint about what I did or do, and then move on to the next topic as if I don’t really want to talk about it.

If they DON’T ask about it, you can bet they’re THINKING about it and will bring it up later. -often times after sleeping with you when you ask them “So what were some of the things about me that first attracted you?”.

If they DO ask about it – I may mention a little more and then say, “It’s not really a big deal… it’s just me. I don’t usually tell people about it because guys aren’t supposed to “do” those kinds of things.” Then they’ll say things like, “Well REAL guys do!” And then she begins to “discover” what a great guy you are… and humble too because you don’t talk about it much. And they’ll LOVE you for it.

I call this technique of mine “Baiting”. Because it’s what you offer to hook them in.

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