Sex without Orgazm
February 24, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Analysis
Sexkitten wrote a pretty good post about having sex and not orgazming.
Sexkitten writes:
It’s difficult for a lot of women to reach orgasm during intercourse, but we can reach one through direct clitoral stimulation such as oral and or hand masturbation. Which leads me to a very important point. We have to know ourselves, and that extends to exploring and familiarizing ourselves with our bodies. For heavens sake don’t be ashamed to masturbate and try different positions while you’re at it. Then tell your man what does it for you and instigate them into your lovemaking. Don’t just tell him, show him. And if there’s a sexual position that feels as though it will send you into orgasmic heaven, let him know so that he’ll keep doing it.
Amen to that. I’m no sex expert by a long shot, but I remember the first time I had sex, it was such an awkward thing. I wasn’t sure if anything I was doing was right (I was pretty much going off of what I’d seen done in pornos) and the girl certainly wasn’t offering much in the way of advice.
But the ability for a man to make a woman orgazm is a powerful one. My buddy MasterClass is a firm believer that the ultimate endgame is the ability to have a woman achieve multiple orgazms reguarly. Once you become that type of an authority in her world, you have incredible value, and will be pursued by her to the end of the earth. I see how MasterClass plays his women with this technique. Very powerful.
You can read the whole of Sexkitten’s post here.
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