Swinggcat’s new student… Tyler Durden?

So Tyler has a really excellent thread going in the Advanced board of mASF called “How to play hard to get, actually for real.” You can read the whole thing here.

Anyways, everyone’s loving it, and then dvs comes along and posts this:

dvs writes:
nice post. how to get girls to chase you is explained in greater depth in the realworldseduction ebook by swinggcat. it kicks ass and i recommend it to anyone interested in getting a girl to chase you. its right up there with deangelo’s shit.

i find that for me personally what works better than the active disinterest act is conveying my tentative interest. like if she says the wrong thing or doesn’t live up to my standards and expectations than I’m going to lose interest.

conveying tentative interest makes the hole thing run much smoother in terms of transitioning, IME.

I have to agree with dvs on this one. I think tentative interest is very much an important part of a seduction. I used to be in the TD camp with the whole “active disinterest” thing, but seeing Swinggcat in action and reading his book, I’ve found using tentative interest is much more effective, because it allows you to take that interest away as a form of “Push-Pull.”