Bead P: The Newbie Catch 22
For Newbies, It’s A Catch 22
This article is for guys who want to learn pickup but are too afraid to go into the field. If you’re already good at pickup, don’t bother with this one.
After teaching pickup for the last 5 years, I’ve seen my fair share of guys who read pickup tips and then don’t try any of it. It’s the paramount problem that prevents people from improving.
For some guys, there’s a vicious cycle going on.
They can’t get women because they don’t have a lot of balls.
The won’t get any balls until they go into the field.
They can’t go into the field because they’re too scared of what might happen.
So the process of learning can’t ever begin, because in order to learn pickup, you must spend many hours in the field.
It’s a catch 22. You need the fear to go away so you can go in field, but the fear won’t go away until you go in field.
A lot of newbies are caught in this catch 22. They begin to feel that the field is an unattainable goal, and the only thing that might help their game is to read and study some more.
The bad news is that you can’t read and study your way into a girl’s pants. This isn’t grad school. Memorizing a bunch of theories won’t get you very far.
Furthermore, all of that reading moves many students backwards when it’s done with no field time (see The Forbidden Truth).
The solution to this issue is to make the field more attainable to newbies. In order to get to this goal, we’ll have to go against a few of the core pickup values temporarily.
So if you feel like you’re caught in this catch 22, I want you to suspend disbelief for a moment. This isn’t about finding a perfect 10 and cold approaching her and seducing her for a same night lay. You’ll have to work your way up to that. For now, it’s better to start with much smaller goals.
The first goal is to be able to function and be comfortable in a night life environment.
The second goal is to be able to have a conversation with someone in a night life environment.
The third goal is to be able to talk to a woman or group of women for a good 10 minutes without getting negative or nervous.
If you can do that, you’ve made a small step towards seducing the super hotties you’ve got your eye on. But first things first.
In order to make this extremely easy and attainable, I’d like to turn you on to some of the easiest places to socialize. If you’re advanced, or you already have normal social skills, you can skip the rest of this article. This is purely for the guys who are sitting home reading because they are too scared to go out and meet women.
Here are the 2 easiest settings to socialize in:
1- BBW Parties
What’s a BBW, you might ask? Well it’s a politically correct term for “fat chick.” BBW stands for “big beautiful woman.” There are organizations that throw weekly or month parties for BBWs and their gentleman admirers.
The rejection rate is very low at this kind of event. You don’t have to be good at pickup at all. You don’t have to use any lines or techniques, just show up and start talking off the top of your head and you’ll be fine.
I’m not saying you have to date these women or have sex with them, but you can talk with them so you get used to being in the presence of a woman.
In many ways, they respond the same way a normal woman would respond. So it’s really good practice. If you can get good at gaming BBWs, it’s a small leap to being able to game average girls. Who knows, you might even feel some connection or spark with a woman, or make some good friends.
They have these parties all over the country. Just type your zip code and “BBW party” into Google and you’ll see what I mean. Here’s an example- www.clubbounce.net
2- Goth Clubs
The Goth scene is full of people who have trouble socializing and want to break out of this issue and build relationships with others like themselves. In some ways it’s inspirational. The Goths have turned social isolation into a virtue.
People in the goth scene are extremely friendly and accepting of others. They will talk to anyone, no matter how awkward they may be. Many Goths are overcoming social awkwardness themselves, and the goth scene is a safe haven for them to develop their social skills.
You don’t have to look like a goth or dress like a goth to go to a goth club. They’re not the kind of people who would exclude you based on what you’re wearing. Many people who go to goth clubs are 9 to 5 office worker types. Goth clubs have a lot of people who don’t “look the part.”
The best part is that even if you spend the whole night scared and sulking in the corner by yourself, that actually makes you pretty cool by goth standards.
The bonus is that you also get the occasional super hot goth chick in a corset and pigtails. That will brighten your day.
Even if you’re scared to death of social situations, you’ll probably do OK in these 2 settings.
I hope this helps you make the first small step towards becoming more social.
-Brad P.
live nude chat on 
LesterHam on 
Rogerzen on 
sms activate_nest on 
sms activate_ngst on 
стайлер дайсон для волос с насадками купить официальный сайт цен… [url=https://fen-d-10.ru/]fen-d-10.ru[/url] .
дайсон официальный интернет магазин в москве [url=https://ofitsialnyj-sajt-dn-2.ru/]дайсон официальный интернет магазин в москве[/url] .
купить фен dyson оригинал [url=https://fen-d-11.ru/]купить фен dyson оригинал[/url] .
ссылка на сайт [url=https://vodka-bet.vodka/]водка бет[/url]
дайсон фен купить в москве официальный [url=https://dn-kupit-2.ru/]dn-kupit-2.ru[/url] .
Читать далее [url=https://vodka-bet.vodka]водка бет казино[/url]
dyson официальный магазин в москве [url=https://ofitsialnyj-sajt-dn-1.ru/]dyson официальный магазин в москве[/url] .
фен дайсон купить официальный [url=https://fen-dn-kupit-10.ru/]fen-dn-kupit-10.ru[/url] .
стайлер купить дайсон официальный сайт [url=https://fen-ds-10.ru/]fen-ds-10.ru[/url] .
стайлер дайсон цена для волос с насадками официальный сайт купит… [url=https://fen-d-12.ru/]fen-d-12.ru[/url] .
купить фен дайсон оригинал в москве официальный сайт [url=https://fen-dn-kupit-10.ru/]fen-dn-kupit-10.ru[/url] .
какой стайлер дайсон лучше купить [url=https://fen-ds-10.ru/]fen-ds-10.ru[/url] .
дайсон стайлер для волос официальный сайт цена купить с насадкам… [url=https://stajler-d-10.ru/]дайсон стайлер для волос официальный сайт цена купить с насадкам…[/url] .
стайлер купить дайсон официальный сайт [url=https://fen-dn-kupit-10.ru/]fen-dn-kupit-10.ru[/url] .
стайлер дайсон цена для волос с насадками официальный сайт купит… [url=https://fen-ds-10.ru/]fen-ds-10.ru[/url] .
фен дайсон купить официальный [url=https://fen-ds-11.ru/]fen-ds-11.ru[/url] .
можно проверить ЗДЕСЬ [url=https://krab-2.cc/]https://krab2.at[/url]
дайсон стайлер для волос официальный сайт с насадками купить цен… [url=https://fen-dn-kupit-11.ru/]fen-dn-kupit-11.ru[/url] .
купить стайлер дайсон краснодар [url=https://fen-ds-11.ru/]fen-ds-11.ru[/url] .
Перейти на сайт [url=https://krab2.com/]krab3.cc[/url]
продолжить [url=https://krab-2.cc/]krab2cc[/url]
нажмите здесь [url=https://krab2.com/]кракен вход[/url]
подробнее [url=https://krab-2.cc/]кракен зеркало[/url]
Aviator игра онлайн [url=https://aviator-plus.ru/]aviator-plus.ru[/url] .
Elusive shipwreck found in Lake Michigan over 100 years after sinking
[url=https://rutorforum24.top]rutorcoolfldlmrpalkmfklw3nyzad6b6fycdtof3xbnixkerr47udyd onion[/url]
A “ghost ship” that sank in Lake Michigan nearly 140 years ago and eluded several search efforts over the past five decades has been found, according to researchers with the Wisconsin Underwater Archeology Association.
The wooden schooner got caught in a storm in the dead of night and went down in September 1886. In the weeks after, a lighthouse keeper reported the ship’s masts breaking the lake surface, and fishermen caught pieces of the vessel in their nets. Still, wreck hunters were unable to track down the ship’s location — until now.
https://rutorcoolfldlmrpalkmfklw3nyzad6b6fycdtof3xbnixkerr47udyd.com
рутор зеркало
Earlier this year, a team of researchers with the Wisconsin Underwater Archeology Association and Wisconsin Historical Society located the shipwreck off the coastal town of Baileys Harbor, Wisconsin, the association announced on Sunday.
Named the F.J. King, the ship had become a legend within the Wisconsin wreck hunter community for its elusive nature, said maritime historian Brendon Baillod, principal investigator and project lead of the discovery.
“We really wanted to solve this mystery, and we didn’t expect to,” Baillod told CNN. “(The ship) seemed to have just vanished into thin air. … I actually couldn’t believe we found it.”
The wreck is just one of many that have been found in the Great Lakes in recent years, and there are still hundreds left to be recovered in Lake Michigan alone, according to Baillod.
The ‘ghost ship’
Built in 1867, the F.J. King plied the waters of the Great Lakes for the purpose of trans-lake commerce. The ship transported grains during a time when Wisconsin served as the breadbasket of the United States. The 144-foot-long (44-meter) vessel also carried cargo including iron ore, lumber and more.
The ship had a lucrative 19-year career until that September night when a gale-force wind caused its seams to break apart, according to the announcement. The captain, William Griffin, ordered the crew to evacuate on the ship’s yawl boat, from where they watched the F.J. King sink, bow first.
купить фен dyson оригинал [url=https://stajler-dsn.ru/]купить фен dyson оригинал[/url] .
купить пылесос дайсон проводной [url=https://pylesos-dn-1.ru/]pylesos-dn-1.ru[/url] .
купить фен дайсон официальный [url=https://fen-dn-kupit-13.ru/]fen-dn-kupit-13.ru[/url] .
directory [url=https://jaxxwallet-web.org/]jaxx liberty[/url]
купить фен дайсон оригинал в москве официальный сайт [url=https://fen-dn-kupit-12.ru/]купить фен дайсон оригинал в москве официальный сайт[/url] .
купить дайсон стайлер для волос с насадками официальный сайт цен… [url=https://stajler-dsn-1.ru/]stajler-dsn-1.ru[/url] .
оригинал dyson пылесос купить [url=https://pylesos-dsn.ru/]pylesos-dsn.ru[/url] .
купить пылесос дайсон в ростове на дону [url=https://pylesos-dn-kupit.ru/]pylesos-dn-kupit.ru[/url] .
купить пылесос дайсон проводной [url=https://pylesos-dn-2.ru/]купить пылесос дайсон проводной[/url] .
дайсон стайлер для волос купить официальный сайт с насадками цен… [url=https://dn-fen-kupit-1.ru/]дайсон стайлер для волос купить официальный сайт с насадками цен…[/url] .
see this page [url=https://jaxxwallet-web.org]jaxx liberty wallet[/url]
купить пылесос дайсон официальный [url=https://pylesos-dsn-1.ru/]купить пылесос дайсон официальный[/url] .
over here [url=https://jaxxwallet-web.org/]jax wallet[/url]
содержание [url=https://www.gzrally.com]кракен онион зеркало[/url]
Ищете надежную компанию для аутсорсинга персонала в Ульяновске? Наша компания предлагает профессиональные услуги по предоставлению квалифицированного персонала для различных сфер бизнеса. Мы специализируемся на аутсорсинге линейного персонала, что позволяет нашим клиентам сосредоточиться на своих основных задачах, доверяя профессионалам выполнение вспомогательных функций.
[url=https://ulyanovsk.personal-market.ru/services/podbor-personala]рынок труда [/url]
Заказать аутсорсинг в Ульяновске легко и выгодно — мы предлагаем гибкие условия и прозрачные договоры, адаптированные под нужды вашего бизнеса. Наши специалисты готовы обеспечить качественное предоставление персонала, ускоряя процессы найма и снижая издержки. Вы можете выбрать подходящий тип договора аутсорсинг, чтобы максимально эффективно решить свои кадровые вопросы.
[url=https://tambov.personal-market.ru/vacancy]аутсорсинг персонала москва [/url]
Цены на аутсорсинг у нас конкурентоспособные и прозрачные. Мы предлагаем различные тарифные планы, что позволяет подобрать оптимальное решение для любой компании в Ульяновске. Наши услуги включают подбор, обучение и управление персоналом, что делает сотрудничество с нами максимально удобным и выгодным.
[url=https://kazan.personal-market.ru/services/operator-linii]упаковщик ульяновск [/url]
Работа в Ульяновске через аутсорсинг становится все более популярной среди предприятий разных масштабов. Компании обращаются к нам для повышения эффективности своей деятельности, сокращения затрат и получения специализированных кадров. Аутсорсинг работа ульяновск — это надежный способ развивать бизнес без лишних хлопот.
[url=https://ulyanovsk.personal-market.ru/]подбор персонала [/url]
Обратившись к нам, вы получите профессиональное предоставление персонала и полноценную поддержку на всех этапах сотрудничества. Мы являемся одной из ведущих компаний по аутсорсингу в Ульяновске, и наш опыт позволяет успешно решать задачи любой сложности. Свяжитесь с нами сегодня, чтобы обсудить ваши требования и заказать аутсорсинг — мы обеспечим качественный результат!
[url=https://niznii-novgorod.personal-market.ru/vacancy]тамбов вакансии для женщин [/url]
https://tambov.personal-market.ru/vacancy
грузчики нижний новгород авито
1win kazino o‘yinlari bepul [url=http://MAQOLALAR.UZ]http://MAQOLALAR.UZ[/url]
пылесос дайсон оригинал купить [url=https://dn-pylesos-kupit-1.ru/]dn-pylesos-kupit-1.ru[/url] .
A British man, along with five others, has been charged with carrying out 56 sexual offences against his now ex-wife over a 13-year period.
[url=https://trips63.cc]трипскан вход[/url]
Philip Young has been remanded in custody in relation to the string of charges, which include multiple counts of rape and administering a substance with the intent to overpower to allow sexual activity, according to Wiltshire Police.
[url=https://trips63.cc]трип скан[/url]
Young, 49, has also been charged with voyeurism, possession of indecent images of children and possession of extreme images.
[url=https://trips63.cc]трипскан[/url]
Five other men, currently on bail, have also been charged with offences against 48-year-old Joanne Young, who waived her legal right to anonymity.
The alleged offences took place between 2010 and 2023.
The men were named by police as Norman Macksoni, 47, who has been charged with one count of rape and possession of extreme images; Dean Hamilton, also 47, who is facing one count of rape and sexual assault by penetration and two counts of sexual touching; 31-year-old Conner Sanderson Doyle, who has been charged with sexual assault by penetration and sexual touching; Richard Wilkins, 61, who faces one count of rape and sexual touching and Mohammed Hassan, 37, who has been charged with sexual touching.
All six men are due to appear at Swindon Magistrates’ Court in southwest England on Tuesday.
Geoff Smith, detective superintendent for Wiltshire police, described the charges as a “significant update” in a “complex and extensive investigation.”
He added that Joanne Young was being supported by specially trained officers and made the decision to waive her automatic legal right to anonymity “following multiple discussions with officers and support services.”
James Foster, a Crown Prosecution Service specialist prosecutor, added that the CPS had authorized the charges against the six men “following a police investigation into alleged serious sexual offences against Joanne Young over a period of 13 years.”
“Our prosecutors have worked to establish that there is sufficient evidence to charge and that it is in the public interest to pursue criminal proceedings,” he said in a statement.
“We have worked closely with Wiltshire Police as they carried out their investigation.”
tripscan
https://trips63.cc
дайсон официальный сайт выпрямители [url=https://dsn-vypryamitel-2.ru/]дайсон официальный сайт выпрямители[/url] .
выпрямитель дайсон hs07 купить [url=https://dsn-vypryamitel-1.ru/]dsn-vypryamitel-1.ru[/url] .
выпрямитель dyson airstrait ht01 купить [url=https://dsn-vypryamitel.ru/]dsn-vypryamitel.ru[/url] .
фен выпрямитель дайсон купить в тц багратионовская [url=https://dsn-vypryamitel-4.ru/]фен выпрямитель дайсон купить в тц багратионовская[/url] .
A British man, along with five others, has been charged with carrying out 56 sexual offences against his now ex-wife over a 13-year period.
[url=https://trips63.cc]трип скан[/url]
Philip Young has been remanded in custody in relation to the string of charges, which include multiple counts of rape and administering a substance with the intent to overpower to allow sexual activity, according to Wiltshire Police.
[url=https://trips63.cc]трипскан сайт[/url]
Young, 49, has also been charged with voyeurism, possession of indecent images of children and possession of extreme images.
[url=https://trips63.cc]трип скан[/url]
Five other men, currently on bail, have also been charged with offences against 48-year-old Joanne Young, who waived her legal right to anonymity.
The alleged offences took place between 2010 and 2023.
The men were named by police as Norman Macksoni, 47, who has been charged with one count of rape and possession of extreme images; Dean Hamilton, also 47, who is facing one count of rape and sexual assault by penetration and two counts of sexual touching; 31-year-old Conner Sanderson Doyle, who has been charged with sexual assault by penetration and sexual touching; Richard Wilkins, 61, who faces one count of rape and sexual touching and Mohammed Hassan, 37, who has been charged with sexual touching.
All six men are due to appear at Swindon Magistrates’ Court in southwest England on Tuesday.
Geoff Smith, detective superintendent for Wiltshire police, described the charges as a “significant update” in a “complex and extensive investigation.”
He added that Joanne Young was being supported by specially trained officers and made the decision to waive her automatic legal right to anonymity “following multiple discussions with officers and support services.”
James Foster, a Crown Prosecution Service specialist prosecutor, added that the CPS had authorized the charges against the six men “following a police investigation into alleged serious sexual offences against Joanne Young over a period of 13 years.”
“Our prosecutors have worked to establish that there is sufficient evidence to charge and that it is in the public interest to pursue criminal proceedings,” he said in a statement.
“We have worked closely with Wiltshire Police as they carried out their investigation.”
trip scan
https://trips63.cc
A British man, along with five others, has been charged with carrying out 56 sexual offences against his now ex-wife over a 13-year period.
[url=https://trips63.cc]трипскан[/url]
Philip Young has been remanded in custody in relation to the string of charges, which include multiple counts of rape and administering a substance with the intent to overpower to allow sexual activity, according to Wiltshire Police.
[url=https://trips63.cc]tripskan[/url]
Young, 49, has also been charged with voyeurism, possession of indecent images of children and possession of extreme images.
[url=https://trips63.cc]tripskan[/url]
Five other men, currently on bail, have also been charged with offences against 48-year-old Joanne Young, who waived her legal right to anonymity.
The alleged offences took place between 2010 and 2023.
The men were named by police as Norman Macksoni, 47, who has been charged with one count of rape and possession of extreme images; Dean Hamilton, also 47, who is facing one count of rape and sexual assault by penetration and two counts of sexual touching; 31-year-old Conner Sanderson Doyle, who has been charged with sexual assault by penetration and sexual touching; Richard Wilkins, 61, who faces one count of rape and sexual touching and Mohammed Hassan, 37, who has been charged with sexual touching.
All six men are due to appear at Swindon Magistrates’ Court in southwest England on Tuesday.
Geoff Smith, detective superintendent for Wiltshire police, described the charges as a “significant update” in a “complex and extensive investigation.”
He added that Joanne Young was being supported by specially trained officers and made the decision to waive her automatic legal right to anonymity “following multiple discussions with officers and support services.”
James Foster, a Crown Prosecution Service specialist prosecutor, added that the CPS had authorized the charges against the six men “following a police investigation into alleged serious sexual offences against Joanne Young over a period of 13 years.”
“Our prosecutors have worked to establish that there is sufficient evidence to charge and that it is in the public interest to pursue criminal proceedings,” he said in a statement.
“We have worked closely with Wiltshire Police as they carried out their investigation.”
трипскан вход
https://trips63.cc
A British man, along with five others, has been charged with carrying out 56 sexual offences against his now ex-wife over a 13-year period.
[url=https://trips63.cc]tripscan[/url]
Philip Young has been remanded in custody in relation to the string of charges, which include multiple counts of rape and administering a substance with the intent to overpower to allow sexual activity, according to Wiltshire Police.
[url=https://trips63.cc]трипскан вход[/url]
Young, 49, has also been charged with voyeurism, possession of indecent images of children and possession of extreme images.
[url=https://trips63.cc]tripscan[/url]
Five other men, currently on bail, have also been charged with offences against 48-year-old Joanne Young, who waived her legal right to anonymity.
The alleged offences took place between 2010 and 2023.
The men were named by police as Norman Macksoni, 47, who has been charged with one count of rape and possession of extreme images; Dean Hamilton, also 47, who is facing one count of rape and sexual assault by penetration and two counts of sexual touching; 31-year-old Conner Sanderson Doyle, who has been charged with sexual assault by penetration and sexual touching; Richard Wilkins, 61, who faces one count of rape and sexual touching and Mohammed Hassan, 37, who has been charged with sexual touching.
All six men are due to appear at Swindon Magistrates’ Court in southwest England on Tuesday.
Geoff Smith, detective superintendent for Wiltshire police, described the charges as a “significant update” in a “complex and extensive investigation.”
He added that Joanne Young was being supported by specially trained officers and made the decision to waive her automatic legal right to anonymity “following multiple discussions with officers and support services.”
James Foster, a Crown Prosecution Service specialist prosecutor, added that the CPS had authorized the charges against the six men “following a police investigation into alleged serious sexual offences against Joanne Young over a period of 13 years.”
“Our prosecutors have worked to establish that there is sufficient evidence to charge and that it is in the public interest to pursue criminal proceedings,” he said in a statement.
“We have worked closely with Wiltshire Police as they carried out their investigation.”
trip scan
https://trips63.cc