Some Quick Thoughts On Frame Control
May 9, 2005 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
I’ve recently noticed in my interactions with girls just how important frame control can be when it comes to seducing them or picking them up. I’ve been playing around with this a lot lately and wanted to rant a bit on my findings.
As Rick H is always fond of saying: "If you say anything with enough authority, people will believe you." This couldn’t be more true. For those of you who haven’t seen the movie "Sexy Beast," go out and rent it tonight. You’ll see the ultimate example of frame control, and how powerful it can be.
For those of you who don’t know anything about "Frames," let me explain what I’m talking about briefly. "Frame" is short for "frame of mind." It’s a set of rules, expectations, or beliefs that one accepts to be true or inevitable. When you "set a frame," you’re creating rules, expectations, or beliefs that you are accepting to be true. You can then impose this frame of mind you’ve created on others, and they too will accept these rules, expectations, and beliefs to be true as well.
So when you "Control The Frame," you’re dictating to others what they will believe to be true or inevitable. So if you’re talking with a girl, and you set the frame that the two of you are going to sleep together tonight, if she accepts that frame of mind, guess what? It’s going to happen.
Sometimes this can get hairy because other people may have a strong frame of mind as well and won’t accept the frame you’re setting. In this case, the stronger frame will win (ie: the person who believes in their frame of mind more). Sometimes it’s a draw and the two people walk away from each other.
One thing I’ve noticed is that most women (not all, but most) have quite pliable frames, and if you exude a certain amount of male dominance, you can impose your frame of mind on her quite easily.
I’ve been experimenting around with this for a while now and have found it to work quite well. My style of doing it has become rather aggressive, and if you have the right type of energy and persistence, it can be quite powerful.
For example, the other night I was out with some friends at a bar and went outside with a friend who wanted to smoke. While out there I started talking to a girl. When my friend was done with her cigarette, I turned to the girl I had just met and said:
ME: You should come inside and join us.
HER: I’d like to, but I can’t.
ME: Yes you can. Just come with us.
HER: I can’t, I’m waiting for my friends.
ME: You can wait for them inside with us.
HER: But what if they don’t find me?
ME: They will. We’re easy to spot and have a good view of the door. Come on.
HER: But what if –
ME: They’ll find you, don’t worry. Come on.
Then I took her by the hand and lead her back to our table. Eventually, her friends showed up and they all joined us. It was quite a fun night.
But you see how that worked? I set the frame that she was going to join me at my table. And every objection she raised, I answered powerfully in a positive fashion. I always maid a point to say "Yes." and "You can." I made her believe that she could join me no matter what, without any negative consequences.
Whenever you’re setting the frame, there’s always a point where you can see the person you’re talking to accept it. It’s like a switch is flipped behind their eyes and they light up. In the example above, I went a bit further by taking her by the hand and physically leading her back to the table. I also said all this stuff with a good energy and strong eye contact, so it wasn’t threatening.
I’ve had some pretty interesting results so far this this tactic, and I plan on experimenting with it more.
canadian government approved pharmacies on 
canadian pharmaceuticals online safe on 
Lestermeery on 
Cazrxoy on 
RichardAerob on 
In a procedure called intraoperative radiation therapy, radiation is applied during surgery.
the best ways for men to lead rewarding sex lives in bed.End levitra vardenafil price cause health risk?
It can cause problems with employers, schools, benefit claims etc.
order isotretinoin for sale – dapsone price order deltasone 40mg generic
Thanks a lot, I like this!
zula online casino [url=https://luckyusaplay.com/#]deposit bonus online casinos[/url] jacks or better online casino
You have made your position quite clearly..
1 uk online casino [url=https://luckyusaplay.com/#]online casino games free[/url] best online casino peru
Whoa loads of helpful material!
victory online casino [url=https://usacasinomaster.com/#]new online casinos usa real money[/url] chances casino online login
BUT IT CAN BE DONE Ireally hopes this helps xxxxxxxxx I know what its like…..
Give your wife the happiness she deserves. how to use tadalafil affordably to treat your condition
This will check if the cancer has spread.
brand prednisone 5mg – omnacortil 40mg us permethrin uk
deltasone 40mg tablet – buy omnacortil 5mg online cheap zovirax uk
cost permethrin – buy retin cream generic buy retin generic
prednisone online buy – permethrin buy online permethrin tubes
buy permethrin cream – generic benzoyl peroxide tretinoin cream tablet
where to buy acticin without a prescription – benzac order online retin price
brand metronidazole 200mg – buy metronidazole 200mg sale flagyl 200mg pill
buy cheap betnovate – monobenzone online buy benoquin generic
betnovate 20gm price – purchase differin online benoquin drug
buy metronidazole 200mg online – cenforce 50mg uk purchase cenforce pills
betnovate for sale – buy differin cream for sale purchase monobenzone generic
Amazing a lot of great data.
best australian online casino reviews canadian casino gta online weekly casino car
You revealed it very well.
list of online casinos in michigan online casinos real money online casino spin city
Cheers, I like it.
casino royale film online online casino for real money usa winning big online casino
You actually reported that fantastically!
amex online usa casinos online casino gambling besten online casino
Incredible tons of valuable information!
best online casino uk fast payout captain cooks casino canada snoqualmie casino online promo code
You made your point.
welche online casinos zahlen aus online casinos with highest slot payouts social online casino
Amazing plenty of useful data.
new online casinos canada no deposit bonus slot machine online casino mgm casino play online
flagyl 400mg tablet – buy cenforce no prescription order cenforce 100mg pill
Seriously all kinds of excellent advice.
winfest online casino live dealer online casino all slots casino online login
Cheers, Loads of postings.
best online casino in netherlands best online casino for slots four winds online casino bonus
You made your point extremely well..
online casino credit line best online casino canada bonus codes for no deposit online casino
Many thanks. Very good stuff.
mines online casino best online casinos canada deposit $1 online casino
You said it effectively.
borgata online casino customer service number casino online slots free tropicana gold casino online
Great content. Cheers.
soaring eagle online casino sign up bonus no deposit bonus online casino online casinos with no deposit sign up bonus
Wonderful postings. Thanks!
online casino xrp new online usa casinos online casinos binge day
Amazing lots of very good advice.
the best online casino in south africa online real money casino win win online casino
Seriously many of helpful knowledge.
mejor hora para jugar al casino online online casino with virtual reality gaming experiences lucky nugget online casino review
With thanks! I value this!
admiral x casino online casino online real money usa best online three card poker casinos
Thanks a lot! Lots of forum posts!
gta online casino heist security tunnel luxury casino canada rsweeps online casino 777 download for iphone
Many thanks, Awesome information.
borgata free casino online best casino canada online casino free signup bonus no deposit required australia
Wow all kinds of fantastic material!
online casino reviews australia online casino canada how to start the diamond casino heist in gta online
buy amoxiclav online – order augmentin 375mg generic order levothyroxine without prescription
buy cheap generic augmentin – buy generic amoxiclav how to buy levothyroxine
Thanks a lot. Fantastic information.
casino royale streaming online best online casino for real money gta online casino heist guide
Nicely put. Appreciate it.
online casino tournament real money slot machine casino online casinos online con juegos de mesa clasico
buy clavulanate sale – augmentin ca levothyroxine sale
Whoa quite a lot of helpful information.
sweet bonanza online casino live dealer online casino usa online casino no minimum deposit
Superb content. With thanks!
agen casino osg777 online best online casino real money no deposit mgm online casino desktop
Nicely put, With thanks!
blackjack 21 online casino jackpotcity casino canada online casino sverige
Reliable posts. Cheers!
online casino inclave login online casino slot machines for real money live online casino bonus
oral clindamycin – buy clindamycin buy indomethacin 50mg pills
generic cleocin 300mg – cleocin 150mg canada order indocin 75mg for sale
You revealed that well.
agent 007 casino royale online jackpotcity casino canada casinos en venezuela online