Some Quick Thoughts On Frame Control
May 9, 2005 by Thundercat
Filed under Rants & Reviews
I’ve recently noticed in my interactions with girls just how important frame control can be when it comes to seducing them or picking them up. I’ve been playing around with this a lot lately and wanted to rant a bit on my findings.
As Rick H is always fond of saying: "If you say anything with enough authority, people will believe you." This couldn’t be more true. For those of you who haven’t seen the movie "Sexy Beast," go out and rent it tonight. You’ll see the ultimate example of frame control, and how powerful it can be.
For those of you who don’t know anything about "Frames," let me explain what I’m talking about briefly. "Frame" is short for "frame of mind." It’s a set of rules, expectations, or beliefs that one accepts to be true or inevitable. When you "set a frame," you’re creating rules, expectations, or beliefs that you are accepting to be true. You can then impose this frame of mind you’ve created on others, and they too will accept these rules, expectations, and beliefs to be true as well.
So when you "Control The Frame," you’re dictating to others what they will believe to be true or inevitable. So if you’re talking with a girl, and you set the frame that the two of you are going to sleep together tonight, if she accepts that frame of mind, guess what? It’s going to happen.
Sometimes this can get hairy because other people may have a strong frame of mind as well and won’t accept the frame you’re setting. In this case, the stronger frame will win (ie: the person who believes in their frame of mind more). Sometimes it’s a draw and the two people walk away from each other.
One thing I’ve noticed is that most women (not all, but most) have quite pliable frames, and if you exude a certain amount of male dominance, you can impose your frame of mind on her quite easily.
I’ve been experimenting around with this for a while now and have found it to work quite well. My style of doing it has become rather aggressive, and if you have the right type of energy and persistence, it can be quite powerful.
For example, the other night I was out with some friends at a bar and went outside with a friend who wanted to smoke. While out there I started talking to a girl. When my friend was done with her cigarette, I turned to the girl I had just met and said:
ME: You should come inside and join us.
HER: I’d like to, but I can’t.
ME: Yes you can. Just come with us.
HER: I can’t, I’m waiting for my friends.
ME: You can wait for them inside with us.
HER: But what if they don’t find me?
ME: They will. We’re easy to spot and have a good view of the door. Come on.
HER: But what if –
ME: They’ll find you, don’t worry. Come on.
Then I took her by the hand and lead her back to our table. Eventually, her friends showed up and they all joined us. It was quite a fun night.
But you see how that worked? I set the frame that she was going to join me at my table. And every objection she raised, I answered powerfully in a positive fashion. I always maid a point to say "Yes." and "You can." I made her believe that she could join me no matter what, without any negative consequences.
Whenever you’re setting the frame, there’s always a point where you can see the person you’re talking to accept it. It’s like a switch is flipped behind their eyes and they light up. In the example above, I went a bit further by taking her by the hand and physically leading her back to the table. I also said all this stuff with a good energy and strong eye contact, so it wasn’t threatening.
I’ve had some pretty interesting results so far this this tactic, and I plan on experimenting with it more.
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아이 슬롯
그는 급히 본당으로 갔고 푸인은 우연히 오늘 홀에 앉아 차를 마시고 있었다.
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피망 슬롯
왕 부시는 화를 내며 피를 토하고 화를 내며 새 집 본당으로 돌아갔다.Wang Bushi는 얼굴에 침착했지만 마음은 매우 흥분했습니다.
프라그마틱 슬롯 무료
Wen Suchen은 얼굴을 붉히며 꾸짖었습니다. “Wang Shouren, 당신은 나를 이렇게 모욕 했습니까?”
탑 슬롯
Liu Jian의 늙은 얼굴이 경련을 일으키고 고개를 숙이고 계속 침묵을 지켰습니다.
캐시 슬롯
“그렇습니다.” Liu Jie가 대답했습니다. “아들은 아버지의 가르침을 따릅니다.”
슬롯 커뮤
그러자 군중 속에 낯익은 사람이 몇 명 있는 것 같았다.
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Zhu Houzhao와 Fang Jifan은 발을 들고 앉아 관리들이 경례하기를 기다렸습니다.
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이때 Zhu Youtang은 더욱 혼란스러워서 한동안 무슨 말을 해야 할지 몰랐습니다.
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Zhao Shiqian은 마음 속으로 한숨을 쉬었습니다. 둘 다 Fang이라는 성이 같았는데 왜 그렇게 큰 차이가 있습니까?
합법 토토 사이트
Zhu Houzhao는 Lao Fang을 경멸하며 노려보았고 Fang Jifan은 미안하다는 듯 미소를 지었습니다.
아시아 슬롯
그들은 주저 없이 한군에 입대하여 하나로 뭉쳤다.
힐튼 슬롯
돈을 듣자 기숙사 전체가 난처한 상황에 빠졌다.
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슬롯 종류
온몸이 뻣뻣해진 장성(張生)을 보고 모두들 앞으로 달려가 우려를 표했다.
프라그마틱 슬롯
이 부탁을 하기 위해 그는 자신의 몸과 명예를 파괴할 용기를 가지고 찾아왔다.
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Tongzhou는 좋은 곳이며 여기에는 대운하가 있으며 도로는 매우 활기차고 있습니다.
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더 도그 하우스 메가웨이즈
이 사람들 중 명나라에서 가장 똑똑한 사람이 아닌 사람이 아닌 사람은 누구입니까?
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Zhu Houzhao는 잠시 생각했습니다. “아직 물을 테스트하지 않았고 아들이 잘 말할 수 없습니다.”
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그는 톤을 설정했지만 모두의 기대를 불러 일으켰습니다.
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