Kill Your Desperation
April 15, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
There’s a really, really good post by Pook over at the DJ Discussion Forum about how women can pick-up on desperation in a man and what men can do to get rid of that desperation. It is funny how women have a kind-of 6th sense about that sort of thing (it’s almost as if they can SMELL how horny we are, lol). But then again, when you learn to see the signs, as women have, perhaps it’s not such a mystical thing…
Pook writes:
Being a Don Juan is not a net sum of smooth manuevers and methods but of your own outlook on the world and on women. ANYONE can memorize ‘techniques’, but FEW can change the way HOW they think. Women will be able to sniff out the former. But with the latter, women will be clawing each other for you.A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks.
This must be stated because it brings us to the subject of ‘desperation’.
In the end, we are all desperate with desire. We wouldn’t be looking for tips and answers if we did not desire a girlfriend or MULTIPLE girlfriends (being a bit ambitious, aren’t we?). We all want a woman (or women), but our desire and feelings brings out the desperation traits within us.
Where I work, I ask the women why they found a co-worker to be so desperate. Here are some of their answers:
-always giving the women attention.
-calling all the time (and calling immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, etc.)
-taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself)
-always available.
-NEVER willing to walk away (NEVER willing to disagree, ALWAYS supplicating).
-etc.What theme can we find in the above? It is that the man puts the woman on the pedestal rather then himself.
Imagine if a woman did all of the above to you. Imagine if a woman was OBSESSED with you, always calling you, always available, and always spending her free time FOR YOU. Any interest you had for this woman would soon evaporate. Why? Because in your own mind you are thinking two things: “No one else must want her,” AND “If I can get her OBSESSED about me, I know I can get BETTER girls to be interested in me.” Her desperation is turning you off. The same is true for women.
Women are not attracted to desperate men. Period. I’ve told my co-worker this and his response: “Well, that is just who I am.” Eventually, he will realize that the only common denominator in his pattern of crash and burns will be HIM. So if anyone has told you that you’re desperate, consider that its true.
There is a KEY to removing desperation forever. There is no simple ‘trick’ that will kill the desperation. It will not be in how you dress, how you talk, or where you go for dates. No, the KEY is in how you think.
The KEY to killing desperation (and attracting crowds of women) is to THINK and BELIEVE that you are The Great Catch.
Desperate guys do not do this. They see the woman as the prize rather then themselves. They see that the woman must be ‘wooed’ rather then them. They will, thus, supplicate and become a ‘nice guy’. (And nice guys finish LAST.)
If you start treating a woman like precious gold, she will believe she is gold. And once she believes it, she will DUMP YOU because YOU have given her the sense that she is BETTER then you. Once she thinks that, she will want to REPLACE YOU with someone better, because you have given her reasons to believe that YOU ARE UNWORTHY OF HER GREATNESS.
After all, if we think we can ****** someone better, we will. This holds true for both men and women. The last thing we want is to settle for a mate when we could have gotten better. (This is why the element of challenge is so important in the Dating Game.)
The lesson: DON’T GIVE HER A REASON TO THINK SHE IS BETTER. You are the gold; she should be thrilled just to have A CHANCE with you.
The first step in becoming the Prince Charming every woman dreams of is to THINK OF YOURSELF AS A PRINCE.
When you BELIEVE you are that prince, that you are The Great Catch, all the ‘desperation’ signs you were emitting vanish and an aura of attraction will surround you. Combine this manner of thinking with all the Don Juan skills you know, and you will become irresistable.
Let us look at the desperation signs again:
-always giving the women attention.
Now that you’re The Prince, you don’t have time to give women attention. A Prince is kind, ENTHUSIASTIC, smiling, yet YOU have things to do. A Prince’s time is precious. A woman must win your attention; you shall not give it to them.
-calling all the time (and calling immediately once getting the number, immediately returning a call, etc.)
The Great Catch simply CANNOT call all the time because he has tons of other numbers. The Great Catch is not competing for a particular girl. The girls, rather, are competing for him.
-taking every opportunity to talk to them (and telling everything about yourself)
Why would Prince Charming tell everything about himself to a woman? No, the woman must JUSTIFY HERSELF to him because YOU ARE THE GOODS. The Prince would reveal things about himself only as a reward. The woman loves the mystery in this and sees knowing the Prince as peeling layers of an onion, knowing him GRADUALLY.
-always available.
The Great Catch is busy with many many women! She must fight for your time, NOT the other way around.
-NEVER willing to walk away (NEVER willing to disagree, ALWAYS supplicating).
Prince Charming wouldn’t accept ANY disrespect from any woman. If a woman gave him such disrespect, he WALKS AWAY. The Prince KNOWS all these women want to be with him so he can eject at any time.
Now, I know what you’re thinking, “Pook, I can’t act like a Prince Charming or The Great Catch. I DON’T have tons of women after me.” This is reversing CAUSE and EFFECT. ASSUME you are the Great Catch, THINK that you are, and as you think you shall become. It becomes a self-fullfilling prophecy. Treat your hobbies as if they have more value then the women do (or treat your hobbies as if they WERE other women). When you think you are the Great Catch, you will act like it and the women will KNOW that you are.
Women love certain traits in guys. By THINKING you are The Great Catch allows you to emit these traits NATURALLY and without any effort.
-Good looks
You cannot change your genes. But you can change the way how you treat those genes. Does Prince Charming wear raggedy T-shirts? Does the Great Catch walk with his head down? NO! You will wear nice clothes and walk with pride BECAUSE you are proud of yourself. After all, you ARE one of the best. So treat yourself accordingly.
Anyone can wear a suit. But few can wear a suit proudly. Few can wear a suit that seems to fit them naturally and creates an aura of importance. Good carriage, excellent threads, are the CONSEQUENCE by how you think of yourself. Women know this and is the reason why you are judged by this criteria.
-Humor
Girls LOVE humor. Prince Charming and the Great Catch are funny because they know that they, themselves, are fun. They don’t worry, “My goodness, she is really cute! How can I attract her!?” They ASSUME she will be attracted and they have fun in the meantime.
Don’t be shy. Let your personality SHINE. When you think you are the Great Catch, this should come more naturally because you have nothing to fear.
-Dominance
You are THE MAN. You must be IN CHARGE. Desperate guys will try to be ‘nice’ in every which way to win the girl (and fail, of course). But Prince Charming and the Great Catch will SWEEP WOMEN OFF THEIR FEET. When you THINK you are the goods, you realize that it is ridiculous to treat a relationship and flirting as walking on eggshells. YOU set the rules, NOT the other way around. After all, YOU are the prize to be sought.
Look at the soap operas and romance novels for grounds of this. Women like to be in the presence of a MAN, not a boy, not a chump, and certainly not a ‘nice guy’.
Dominance is also being sure of yourself. Do not speak in a soft tone. Speak STRONGLY and behave STRONGLY. After all, do you think Prince Charming worries about making mistakes? No, so neither should you.
I know, I know. I can hear you saying, “But I must worry about mistakes or else I’ll have another ‘learning experience’ on my hands.”
This is a GOOD THING. Let us say that, in a normal conversation, you came across a word you did not know how to pronounce. Most people will utter the word softly for fear of criticism. This is stupid. Say the word LOUD! Let me repeat, say the word LOUD! If you are wrong, you will be corrected. Clearing up mistakes is ALWAYS a good thing and should NEVER be feared.
The same applies with dating. Do not date with hesitation and shyness; date with all conviction. Remember, the biggest risk you can take in life is not to take any risks at all.
-Ambition
When you think yourself as The Great Catch, you KNOW women are not the priority of your life. After all, the Great Catch knows he can get any woman whenever he wants. When you feel good about life, you cease to fear success and demand Life show all that it has. Aim for the moon. If you miss, at least you’ll be among the stars.
So in the end, too often men think they need a girlfriend to have their life ‘complete’. The consequence is that these men will emit signs of desperation. Success is achieved first through the mind, then through the world, never the other way around.
Good stuff. You can check out the whole thread here.
skytigeros2Seami on 
swiftqueenis4Seami on 
EchoDreamok8Seami on 
IronEagleis8Seami on 
wine_vrMn on 
как пожаловаться на мошенников [url=http://pozhalovatsya-na-moshennikov.ru/]как пожаловаться на мошенников[/url] .
http://bagration-game.ru
http://ibnews.com.ua
Elon Musk was star guest this year at an annual conference organized by Italian PM Giorgia Meloni’s Brothers of Italy party.
[url=https://vk14.io]kraken14 [/url]
He arrived against the backdrop of an ice-skating rink and an ancient castle in Rome with one of his 11 children to tout the value of procreation.
Italy has one of the lowest birth rates in the world, and Musk urged the crowd to “make more Italians to save Italy’s culture,” a particular focus of the Meloni government.
https://kraken2trfqodidvlh4aa337cpzfrhdlfldhve5nf7njhumwr7instad.at
kraken
Meloni has been a strong opponent of surrogacy, which is criminalized in Italy, but there was no mention of Musk’s own recent children born of surrogacy.
The owner of X (formerly called Twitter) was slightly rumpled with what could easily be argued the least stylish shoes in the mostly Italian crowd since Donald Trump’s often unkempt former top adviser Steve Bannon appeared at the conference in 2018.
Meloni sat in the front row taking photos of Musk, who she personally invited. Meloni founded the Atreju conference in 1998, named after a character in the 1984 film “The NeverEnding Story.”
заказ такси https://zakaz-taxionline.ru/
Ищете способ расслабиться и получить незабываемые впечатления? Мы https://t.me/intim_tmn72 предлагаем эксклюзивные встречи с привлекательными и профессиональными компаньонками. Конфиденциальность, комфорт и безопасность гарантированы. Позвольте себе наслаждение и отдых в приятной компании.
http://tritattoo.com
В нашем обществе, где аттестат – это начало отличной карьеры в любом направлении, многие стараются найти максимально быстрый путь получения образования. Наличие официального документа об образовании сложно переоценить. Ведь диплом открывает дверь перед всеми, кто стремится начать трудовую деятельность или учиться в каком-либо ВУЗе.
Наша компания предлагает максимально быстро получить любой необходимый документ. Вы имеете возможность приобрести аттестат, и это будет удачным решением для всех, кто не смог завершить образование или потерял документ. Все аттестаты выпускаются с особой аккуратностью, вниманием ко всем деталям, чтобы на выходе получился продукт, максимально соответствующий оригиналу.
Преимущество такого подхода состоит не только в том, что вы сможете оперативно получить свой аттестат. Процесс организовывается комфортно, с профессиональной поддержкой. От выбора нужного образца до грамотного заполнения персональных данных и доставки в любое место страны — все под абсолютным контролем опытных мастеров.
Таким образом, для тех, кто хочет найти быстрый и простой способ получить требуемый документ, наша компания готова предложить выгодное решение. Купить аттестат – это значит избежать продолжительного обучения и не теряя времени переходить к личным целям: к поступлению в ВУЗ или к началу успешной карьеры.
http://www.hondacityclub.com/all_new/home.php?mod=space&uid=581410
https://aisory.tech – платформа для создания AI Telegram-ботов. Наделяйте своих ботов способностями к естественному диалогу, генерации уникального контента и решению аналитических задач. Простой конструктор платформы делает создание умных чат-ботов доступным для любой компании.
купить квартиру недорого жк казань купить квартиру
жк казань купить квартиру от застройщика жк казань купить квартиру
жк казань купить квартиру https://nedvizhimost16.ru
My partner and I absolutely love your blog and find a lot of your post’s to be precisely what I’m looking for. Does one offer guest writers to write content to suit your needs? I wouldn’t mind composing a post or elaborating on many of the subjects you write about here. Again, awesome web site!
circuit-diagrams.com/pr4-PIC16F84A-discolight-effect-with-bass-beat-control.phpВ
proizvodim.com/a-predprinimatel-li-vy.htmlВ
slcomp.kz/index.php?route=information/blogger&blogger_id=5В
lolipopnews.ru/page/9В
http://www.sonyericsson-championships.com/es/news/story/370.aspВ
http://supplementgear.com
жк казань купить квартиру купить квартиру от застройщика
купить квартиру от застройщика купить квартиру в казани от застройщика
A beloved National Park Service ranger died when he tripped, fell and struck his head on a rock during an annual astronomy festival in southwestern Utah, park officials said over the weekend.
[url=https://kraken13.at-kraken14.at]kraken13.at[/url]
Tom Lorig was 78 when he died after the incident at Bryce Canyon National Park late Friday.
kraken13.at
https://kraken13.at-kraken14.at
He was known for his extensive work as a ranger and volunteer at 14 National Park Service sites, including Yosemite National Park, Carlsbad Caverns National Park and Dinosaur National Monument, the park service said in a statement Saturday.
“Tom Lorig served Bryce Canyon, the National Park Service, and the public as an interpretive park ranger, forging connections between the world and these special places that he loved,” Bryce Canyon Superintendent Jim Ireland said in the statement.
голяк кубик в кубе смотреть онлайн голяк смотреть онлайн
На сегодняшний день, когда аттестат является началом отличной карьеры в любой сфере, многие ищут максимально быстрый путь получения образования. Необходимость наличия официального документа об образовании переоценить невозможно. Ведь диплом открывает двери перед всеми, кто стремится вступить в сообщество квалифицированных специалистов или учиться в университете.
В данном контексте наша компания предлагает оперативно получить этот важный документ. Вы можете заказать аттестат нового или старого образца, и это является отличным решением для человека, который не смог закончить обучение или утратил документ. Аттестат изготавливается аккуратно, с особым вниманием ко всем нюансам. В результате вы сможете получить 100% оригинальный документ.
Плюсы такого подхода состоят не только в том, что вы оперативно получите свой аттестат. Процесс организовывается удобно, с профессиональной поддержкой. От выбора требуемого образца аттестата до грамотного заполнения персональных данных и доставки по России — все будет находиться под полным контролем качественных специалистов.
Всем, кто хочет найти максимально быстрый способ получить требуемый документ, наша компания предлагает отличное решение. Купить аттестат – это значит избежать продолжительного процесса обучения и сразу перейти к важным целям, будь то поступление в ВУЗ или старт карьеры.
https://www.lit-mp.ru/articles/14052019.html
Hi there to every body, it’s my first visit of this website; this website consists of remarkable and genuinely good stuff in support of visitors.
http://arusak-attestats24.com
Hello i am kavin, its my first occasion to commenting anyplace, when i read this paragraph i thought i could also create comment due to this good article.
XRumer – это наиболее пользующийся популярностью и еще лучшее программное обеспечение для создания гиперссылок да продвижения сайтов. Оно используется для автоматического прогона страниц сквозь разные соц сети, форумы, онлайн-дневники да другие интернет-ресурсы.
http://www.botmasterru.com/product33230/
Купить XRumer Оффициально
[url=http://www.botmasterru.com/product33230/][img]https://xrumer.cc/i/x.png[/img][/url]
купить диплом кандидата наук [url=www.russa24-diploms-srednee.com/]www.russa24-diploms-srednee.com/[/url] .
A beloved National Park Service ranger died when he tripped, fell and struck his head on a rock during an annual astronomy festival in southwestern Utah, park officials said over the weekend.
[url=https://kraken13.at-kraken18.at]kraken14.at[/url]
Tom Lorig was 78 when he died after the incident at Bryce Canyon National Park late Friday.
kraken13.at
https://www-kraken16.at
He was known for his extensive work as a ranger and volunteer at 14 National Park Service sites, including Yosemite National Park, Carlsbad Caverns National Park and Dinosaur National Monument, the park service said in a statement Saturday.
“Tom Lorig served Bryce Canyon, the National Park Service, and the public as an interpretive park ranger, forging connections between the world and these special places that he loved,” Bryce Canyon Superintendent Jim Ireland said in the statement.
гейтс оф олимпус играть [url=http://gates-of-olympus-ru.ru/]гейтс оф олимпус играть[/url] .
Подарок для конкурента
https://xrumer.ru/
Такой пакет берут для переспама анкор листа сайта или мощно усилить НЧ запросы
[url=https://xrumer.ru/]Подарок для конкурента[/url]
gates of olympus slot [url=gates-of-olympus-ru.ru]gates-of-olympus-ru.ru[/url] .
https://seobrandster.bloggazzo.com/26990575/Как-продвигать-сайт-с-xrumer-art
A beloved National Park Service ranger died when he tripped, fell and struck his head on a rock during an annual astronomy festival in southwestern Utah, park officials said over the weekend.
[url=https://http-kraken13.at]kraken13.at[/url]
Tom Lorig was 78 when he died after the incident at Bryce Canyon National Park late Friday.
kraken13.at
https://kraken13.at-kraken15.at
He was known for his extensive work as a ranger and volunteer at 14 National Park Service sites, including Yosemite National Park, Carlsbad Caverns National Park and Dinosaur National Monument, the park service said in a statement Saturday.
“Tom Lorig served Bryce Canyon, the National Park Service, and the public as an interpretive park ranger, forging connections between the world and these special places that he loved,” Bryce Canyon Superintendent Jim Ireland said in the statement.
Hello colleagues, its great paragraph about cultureand completely defined, keep it up all the time.
http://http://musey-uglich.ru/
Портал о культуре – ваш гид по культурной жизни города. Здесь вы найдёте информацию о театрах, музеях, галереях и исторических достопримечательностях. Откройте для себя яркие события, фестивали и выставки, которые делают Ярославль культурной жемчужиной России.
вход 1го казино 1go casino официальный сайт
Daddy Casino – Официальный телеграм канал со слотами от Дэдди Casino [url=https://t.me/daddycasinorussia]daddy казино официальный[/url] . Актуальное, рабочее зеркало официального сайта Дэдди Казино. Регистрируйся в Казино Daddy, получай бонус используя промокод, не забудь скачать
дэдди казино
https://t.me/daddycasinorussia
свит бонанза [url=https://sweet-bonanza-ru.ru]свит бонанза[/url] .
квартиры в казани цены https://novostroyka-kzn16.ru
продажа квартир цены https://kvartiru-kupit-spb.ru
sweet bonanza [url=https://sweet-bonanza-ru.ru/]sweet bonanza[/url] .
Что такое прогон по профилям?
На форумах при каждом прогоне регистрируется новый юзер, в профайле которого в поле Вебсайт или Домашняя страница стоит ваша ссылка. Также в некоторых форумах есть возможность в профиль вставить подпись, туда можно вставить ссылку с анкором. Все это можно варьировать. В профилях ссылки живут довольно долго, т.к. нет спама в чистом виде, и профили не мозолят глаза ни читателям форума, ни модераторам. Прогон производится последней версией хрумера с сервера с максимально возможной скоростью и производительностью.
ПОДРОБНЕЕ
НОВЫЙ [url=https://xrumer.ru/]ОТЛИЧНЫЙ VPN[/url] ДЛЯ XRUMERA!
За последние недели состоялась серия важных обновлений комплекса: XAuth, Captchas Benchmark, XRumer, XEvil 6.0 [Beta]. В XEvil 6.0 [Beta] обновлен механизм обработки hCaptcha и многое другое, в XAuth повышена стабильность работы, в XRumer повышена эффективность, устранён ряд погрешностей и обновлены прилагаемые базы.
https://xrumer.ru/
Интернет-казино [url=https://t.me/daddycasinorussia]daddy casino зеркало[/url] — сайт или специальная программа, которые позволяют играть в азартные игры в интернете. Сайты интернет-казино могут специализироваться на различных азартных играх: игровых автоматах, рулетке, лотереях, викторинах, покере или других карточных и настольных играх. Википедия
daddy casino
https://t.me/daddycasinorussia
A beloved National Park Service ranger died when he tripped, fell and struck his head on a rock during an annual astronomy festival in southwestern Utah, park officials said over the weekend.
[url=https://web-kraken13.at]kraken14.at[/url]
Tom Lorig was 78 when he died after the incident at Bryce Canyon National Park late Friday.
kraken13.at
https://kraken13.at-kraken14.at
He was known for his extensive work as a ranger and volunteer at 14 National Park Service sites, including Yosemite National Park, Carlsbad Caverns National Park and Dinosaur National Monument, the park service said in a statement Saturday.
“Tom Lorig served Bryce Canyon, the National Park Service, and the public as an interpretive park ranger, forging connections between the world and these special places that he loved,” Bryce Canyon Superintendent Jim Ireland said in the statement.
купить квартиру https://novostroyki-spb78.ru
купить квартиру купить квартиру в Санкт-Петербурге от застройщика
купить диплом юриста https://diplom-izhevsk.ru
Новостройки в Екатеринбурге, купить квартиру в новостройке https://kupit-kvartiruekb.ru от застройщика. Строительство жилой и коммерческой недвижимости. Высокое качество, прозрачность на всех этапах строительства и сделки.
купить диплом с реестром https://diplom-izhevsk.ru
крейзи манки играть онлайн [url=http://www.crazy-monkey-ru.ru]http://www.crazy-monkey-ru.ru[/url] .
пожаловаться на телефонных мошенников [url=http://pozhalovatsya-na-moshennikov.ru]http://pozhalovatsya-na-moshennikov.ru[/url] .
куда можно пожаловаться на сайт мошенников [url=www.pozhalovatsya-na-moshennikov.ru]www.pozhalovatsya-na-moshennikov.ru[/url] .
Cериал Голяк https://golyak-serial-online.ru смотреть онлайн в хорошем качестве и с лучшей озвучкой на любых устройствах. Все сезоны истории мелкого преступника Винни и его друзей в английском городке!
Ежегодно в течение сентября проводится Тюменский инновационный форум «[u][b]НЕФТЬГАЗТЭК[/b][/u]».
Форум посвящен определению способов инновационного продвижения областей [b]топливно-энергетического комплекса[/b], рассмотрению а также изысканию решений, организации наилучших обстоятельств для формирования инновационных проектов. Ежегодный тюменский форум является авторитетной дискуссионной площадкой по развитию нефтегазовой ветви в Российской Федерации, содержит большой статус и своевременность, созвучен общей стратегии продвижения инноваторского курса в [u][b]Российской Федерации[/b][/u]
-https://neftgaztek.ru/
Драгон Мани Казино https://krpb.ru – ваше место для азартных приключений! Наслаждайтесь широким выбором игр, щедрыми бонусами и захватывающими турнирами. Безопасность и честная игра гарантированы. Присоединяйтесь к нам и испытайте удачу в самом захватывающем онлайн-казино!