Be a Real Man?

Matthew Fitzgerald chimes in at Askmen.com with what is probably the best article I’ve ever read on that site. It’s VERY non-PC, VERY Male-centric, and VERY VERY true in what it speaks of, in my humble opinion. It’s basically a very “Fight Club”-esque philosophy about how most men nowadays have been psychologically castrated by society, and about how it’s hurt both males and females. Here’s the intro to the article:

Matthew Fitzgerald writes:
Men are PC’ed to death. The consequences of almost 50 years of ardent feminism have been devastating: a society in bewilderment about gender roles, the rise of a class of ball-busting bitches whose battle cry is, “We don’t need men,” trumped-up charges of “date rape” and “sexual harassment,” angry women blaming men for all their problems — in short, an overall erosion of male confidence.

As society becomes more and more feminized, as more and more young men are being raised by single mothers who don’t have a clue about the male sex drive, but who teach their sons to surrender their natural masculinity and pander to women, today’s man is forced to apologize for — and feel shame about — his inherent male sexuality.

Mr. Fitzgerald goes on to say:

This abrogation of sexual confidence has resulted in a world full of wusses and doormats, men who cater to women and willingly hand over all their male power in exchange for a few crumbs of approval or sexual “favors.”

The modern man walks around on eggshells, afraid of saying the “wrong thing,” scared of showing his natural sexual interest to a woman, scared of being scorned, humiliated, or even fired — scared of his own true self.

All of this flies in the face of nature. For years now, men have been forced to bend over backwards to please women, but pandering to a self-serving social movement can’t really reverse five billion years of human evolution.

Clearly this essential point is lost on the female gender because women just don’t have a clue what it is to be truly sexual — a woman’s sex drive can’t even begin to compare with a man’s. Yet modern feminism still blindly strives to feminize men into submissive she-males.

Nature intended men to be strong, assertive, bold, sexual — this is why testosterone surges through their bloodstreams. This is a man’s right — his heritage — as a member of the male gender.

And the truth is, despite what women say and how much they protest, they want a man who acts like a man. Scratch the surface and you’ll find that deep down they don’t really want a man to act like a woman any more than a guy wants a chick to be masculine.

So instead of letting women snip pruning shears at their crotches, it’s time for men to stop apologizing for being male, to celebrate their inherently sexual natures, and to reclaim their sexual confidence.

It is funny how in modern times, women’s rights have, in a way, overshadowed nature with respect to men’s sexuality. That is to say that some of it isn’t warrented, since women have been abused and taken advantage of in the past. But what is the cost of this regulation? How much psychological harm is being inflicted upon the new generations of men because of this stuff?

I think the basic problem comes down to women’s rights trying to raise women above men, instead of promoting equality. Most “women’s organizations” out there today are more concerned with keeping men down and subserviant to women than giving both genders equal rights. And it’s this mentality that most men kind-of fall into, since they seek the approval of women.

I know I’m guilty of this, and chances are many men who get into learning Pick-Up and Seduction are too. I’m happy to see an article such as the one Mr. Fitzgerald wrote on such a major website like Askmen, because I think it speaks to a fundamental truth in our society — Men and Women enjoy a sexually confident and mature man who is free from guilt over his desires as a man.

It’s a pretty good read, and you can check out the whole thing here.