Suck Them Deeply Into Your Reality
February 12, 2004 by Thundercat
Filed under Tips & Tricks
Okay, this is a great little bit of advice from LowRider69. I know that sucking people into your reality is a big part of Swinggcat Method (see Part IV of my interview with him for more on this), so I know how powerful it can be, having seen it first hand.
LowRider69 writes:
Before i’d always open with a situational or observational opener and 50% of the time it wouldn’t work. I usually couldn’t rift off the opener and they wouldn’t give me much to work with. In reality you can open with ANYTHING as long as you follow-up but here’s something I do that works really well.I open with a story about me thats usually recent and requires feedback. Basically its stuff in MY LIFE that I want to talk about.
LR69 then goes on to give some examples, followed by this explanation.
You bring them into your reality. The main thing is practicing being totally into yourself when you open girls and don’t ellict anything from them until they open up to your approach. You’ll give off a super-chill vibe because your not expecting anything from them. You don’t give a flying fuck if their interested in your story or not, it must be told!!!
Its pretty funny. The initial response is always DUMB-SHOCK that someone is talking to them. They’ll look at you blankly or confused. Don’t let that phase you, maintain the vibe and say what you have to say. Get them involved in the story and go from there.
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