Be Your Own Guru
September 12, 2008 by Psych
Filed under Articles, Guest Authors, Psych
There’s a term out there that applies to newbies. It’s called “Paralysis of Analysis”. When I first started I definitely fell into this trap. I’d read everything there is to read, and post every place I could find, but rarely go out and do any field work. Now I find it irritating to force myself to sit at my computer and post anywhere, since it takes time away from the time that could be spent in the field, developing social circles, or school and other life building goals.
Many new guys fall into this trap yet many find there way out again and begin going out in the field as I did. There seems to actually be a natural correlation. Those who stay in the community for 3 months will keep it going and those who stay for 5 months usually have begun really learning from the field. This post isn’t for the new guys though, (sorry I’ll make one for you guys later on), this post is for those intermediate guys. The guy’s who have taken the game seriously and have gone out again and again into the field and still have yet to begin seeing the results that they’ve been waiting for. This post is for every guy who has asked the following question…
“What do I need to do to make that change and get myself to the next level?”
The answer? Become Your Own Guru
Have you been in this game for over a year and a half and still not getting the results? Be your own guru.
Do you go out practically every night yet still see only mediocre improvement, if any, when looking back over the months or years? Be your own guru.
Are all your PUA friends progressing while you feel perpetually stuck on a plateau? That’s right, be your own guru.
See I began noticing a few months back that every time I went out with my community wings that a familiar pattern began to happen. Before every sarge we’d discuss what Guru X thinks and why some particular way is better because Guru Y said so. Then during the sarge I’d notice that every community guy had a tendency to talk about game instead of actually doing it. I did this myself for a while but finally broke out of that mindset, even so many wings would try and talk about it regardless. Finally at the end of the night we’d have a debrief where I’d be told how something I did was wrong because of something Guru Z said and then we’d debate who made the most sense out of Guru’s A, B, and C.
Everything I did in field was the result of something some OTHER GUY thought was right and taught it to be done. It was maddening to see all the different styles and methods out there, and try and figure out which guy I should listen to. Hoping that the next product from Guru X would finally be the missing piece I’ve always needed. It got to the point where I felt almost everything I learned about pick up could be debated because of the different beliefs and ideas of Gurus. Now that I look back it was a new form of “Paralysis of Analysis” all over again but not quite, it wasn’t exactly guru worship either. It was something I’ll call “Guru Overload”.
PUA’s with Guru Overload can be going into the field nonstop, the problem however is that they keep trying to juggle all these different ideas out there and use stuff from other people without ever trying to figure things out for themselves. Instead of using the community as a reference point to make sense of their own findings they never try and make any of their own findings at all and just keep practicing the next shiny idea in the community. Should we be trying to DHV or is the answer simply to bring the Nimbus?!
I finally had my click one day and decided that from now on I would determine what’s best in field, not any other guru, unless it made sense for what I personally have been finding. When I did this my game improved dramatically. My wings would say “Why are you doing that? Guru X says you should do this instead.” My reply to this every time was “Ah, but I say I should be doing that.” The thing is most of you already know the answers, or can work it out yourselves, but there’s the fear of “I’m not good enough and need to keep seeing what others think I should do.”
For those intermediate guys. You know the theory, you understand how this works, and anything you don’t know you understand how to figure it out and learn from yourself. Here it is finally plain as day, do exactly that. Be your own guru already. Socially experiment and stop doing what you think you SHOULD do or is NEEDED and instead begin doing what YOU feel is right and make your own assumptions on things. This doesn’t mean forget about ideas and material out there that can help though, instead learn to appreciate it on a much more meaningful level. Instead of it being something for you to shape yourself to, it can now become something that you may or may not incorporate into your own individual style.
I’m not going to tell you what needs to be done, or the next best thing for your game, or even a new method that you have to learn…how about you tell me instead?
Hope this helps guys,
-Jarett aka Psych
fen daison_aoKi on 
kypit kyrsovyu_iopl on 
kypit kyrsovyu_abOn on 
fen daison_vjKi on 
fen daison_lier on 
пансионат для пожилых в симферополе [url=xn-----2-53dwibb3a5adehvkaijkcgoft4dwa1orb.xn--p1ai]пансионат для пожилых в симферополе[/url] .
снятие ломки наркомана [url=www.ivanovo.forum24.ru/?1-15-0-00000580-000-0-0-1730872707]снятие ломки наркомана[/url] .
геронтологический центр в симферополе [url=http://xn-----2-53dwibb3a5adehvkaijkcgoft4dwa1orb.xn--p1ai]геронтологический центр в симферополе[/url] .
геронтологический центр в симферополе [url=https://xn-----2-53dwibb3a5adehvkaijkcgoft4dwa1orb.xn--p1ai]геронтологический центр в симферополе[/url] .
снятие ломки на дому цена [url=http://ivanovo.forum24.ru/?1-15-0-00000580-000-0-0-1730872707]снятие ломки на дому цена[/url] .
кликните сюда [url=https://vk.com/brows_makeup_kotlas]Вычегодский[/url]
special info [url=https://smmpanel.one]Twitter Provider[/url]
Every time I read such posts, I understand how accurately they reflect our reality :::
—–
Like 2201
снятие ломки у наркомана [url=https://mediaworld.ukrbb.net/viewtopic.php?f=49&t=5476/]снятие ломки у наркомана[/url] .
снятие ломки у наркомана [url=http://golosa.ukrbb.net/viewtopic.php?f=3&t=7484]снятие ломки у наркомана[/url] .
снятие наркотической ломки [url=ivanovo.forum24.ru/?1-15-0-00000580-000-0-0-1730872707]снятие наркотической ломки[/url] .
use this link [url=https://smmpanel.one]smmpanel[/url]
Попробуйте свою удачу в лучших онлайн казино, где ставки высоки.
Получайте азарт и адреналин вместе с нами, и ощутите атмосферу азарта и волнения.
Сделайте свой выбор в пользу казино онлайн, и начните выигрывать уже сегодня.
Почувствуйте атмосферу настоящего казино в режиме онлайн, не покидая своего уютного кресла.
Выигрывайте крупные суммы при помощи наших игр, и почувствуйте себя настоящим чемпионом.
Играйте вместе с друзьями и соперниками со всего мира, и покажите свои лучшие результаты.
Играйте и выигрывайте, получая щедрые бонусы, которые принесут вам еще больше радости и азарта.
Почувствуйте свободу и возможность выбора в каждой игре, и готовьтесь к бесконечным выигрышам.
Получите доступ к уникальным играм и выигрывайте крупные суммы, сделав всего несколько кликов мыши.
онлайн казино беларусь [url=https://casino-on-line.by/]онлайн казино[/url] .
navigate to this website [url=https://smmpanel.one]Cheapest SMM Reseller Panel[/url]
How good it is that there are people who are able to so clearly express what many feel ::
———-
Like 6252
взгляните на сайте здесь [url=https://vk.com/brows_makeup_kotlas]Макияж Котлас[/url]
more helpful hints
[url=https://puerto-lopez.com/es/]hosterias[/url]
Every time I reread this post, I find more and more deep meaning in it
—–
Like 2706
посетить сайт [url=https://autopark.kg/]Аренда авто Бишкек[/url]
перенаправляется сюда [url=https://autopark.kg/]Аренда авто Бишкек[/url]
смотреть здесь [url=https://autopark.kg/]Аренда авто Бишкек[/url]
страница [url=https://vk.com/brows_makeup_kotlas]Укладки Вычегодский[/url]
Возможности выигрыша в онлайн казино, где ставки высоки.
Играйте и выигрывайте вместе с нами, и ощутите атмосферу азарта и волнения.
Обнаружьте свое новое казино онлайн, и начните играть уже сегодня.
Почувствуйте атмосферу настоящего казино в режиме онлайн, не выходя из дома.
Выигрывайте крупные суммы при помощи наших игр, и покажите всем, кто здесь главный.
Играйте вместе с друзьями и соперниками со всего мира, и покажите свои лучшие результаты.
Получите бонусы и призы за активную игру, которые принесут вам еще больше радости и азарта.
Играйте и наслаждайтесь азартом в каждой ставке, и погрузитесь в мир бесконечных перспектив.
Станьте частью казино онлайн и получите доступ к эксклюзивным играм, буквально за несколько секунд.
онлайн казино [url=https://casino-on-line.by/]Казино[/url] .
Лучшие 10 программ https://www.cctvfocus.ru для видеонаблюдения. Программное обеспечение для видеонаблюдения. При выборе программного обеспечения важно учитывать наличие функции обнаружения объектов с использованием искусственного интеллекта.
look at this now [url=https://smmpanel.one]Buy YouTube Views[/url]
здесь [url=https://vk.com/brows_makeup_kotlas]Брови цена[/url]
helpful resources [url=https://smmpanel.one]Provider Instagram services[/url]
перейти на сайт [url=https://vk.com/brows_makeup_kotlas]Укладки Вычегодский[/url]
see it here [url=https://smmpanel.one]Provider SMM Panel[/url]
каталог [url=https://vk.com/brows_makeup_kotlas]Укладки Котлас[/url]
right here [url=https://smmpanel.one]Buy YouTube Views[/url]
Полезная информация как купить диплом о высшем образовании без рисков
нажмите здесь [url=https://vk.com/brows_makeup_kotlas]Макияж Котлас[/url]
пояснения [url=https://autopark.kg/]Аренда авто Бишкек[/url]
台中外送茶
台中外送茶：安全快速的外約服務指南
引言
台中外送茶是一項方便且受歡迎的服務，無論是夜晚的放鬆需求還是特殊場合的社交活動，都能提供快速、安全且專業的體驗。本文將深入探討台中外送茶的選擇、流程以及相關注意事項，幫助您在選擇服務時更加安心與滿意。
什麼是台中外送茶？
台中外送茶服務主要提供以下特點：
快速應對：透過線上或電話聯繫，立即安排外送服務。
多元選擇：服務涵蓋不同需求，從高端到實惠方案應有盡有。
隱私保障：強調保密性，確保客戶資料不被外洩。
台中外送茶適合哪些人？
商務旅客：在台中短期停留，追求品質與方便的伴侶服務。
壓力族群：希望藉由互動放鬆身心，增添生活樂趣。
聚會需求：特殊場合、生日或朋友聚會需要專業的伴侶服務。
選擇台中外送茶的注意事項
如何選擇安全的服務？
查詢評價：選擇高評價且有口碑的服務提供者。
確認價格透明：避免隱藏費用，提前溝通價格範圍。
合法經營：確認服務平台是否具備合法經營的資格。
常見的服務流程
聯繫服務商家，了解可提供的選項及價格。
確定時間與地點，確保雙方需求達成一致。
接收外送服務，享受專業的伴侶陪伴。
informative post [url=https://smmpanel.one]Buy Instagram Followers[/url]
台北外送茶：精選安全便捷的外約服務攻略
引言
台北外送茶服務因其便利性與多樣化而備受歡迎，不僅滿足社交需求，更以快速、安全為核心，成為許多人的理想選擇。本文將深入剖析台北外送茶的特點、流程，以及如何選擇適合的服務，幫助您享受安心的高品質體驗。
什麼是台北外送茶服務？
台北外送茶服務是一種針對多元需求的伴侶外約服務，常見特點如下：
即時安排：快速回應客戶需求，提供靈活的服務時間。
多元選擇：從高端到平價方案，滿足各種預算層級。
私密性高：確保所有客戶資料絕對保密，安全性有保障。
為什麼選擇台北外送茶？
生活壓力舒緩：透過高品質的互動體驗，放鬆身心。
臨時需求應對：解決因臨時變動產生的陪伴需求。
特定場合加分：生日、商務活動等場合的高端陪伴服務。
如何選擇優質的台北外送茶服務？
辨別專業合法服務的重要性
查看評價：選擇具有良好口碑的服務商。
確認價格透明：事先了解費用，避免臨時加價問題。
重視隱私保障：選擇承諾保密的合法經營商家。
服務流程簡介
聯繫商家，表達需求並獲得建議。
確定伴侶類型與服務細節。
安排時間地點，享受服務。
提升台北外送茶體驗的建議
事先規劃：提前安排服務，避免臨時出現不便。
選擇信譽品牌：確保選擇口碑良好的服務商，避免風險。
溝通需求：明確表達需求與期待，達成雙方共識。
九州娛樂城
find out here now [url=https://smmpanel.one]smmpanel[/url]
check out this site [url=https://smmpanel.one]Buy Twitter Followers[/url]
Source [url=https://dimax.one]Global investments in crypto arbitrage strategies[/url]
снятие ломок на дому [url=dexanet.ukrbb.net/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=20449]снятие ломок на дому[/url] .
снять ломку наркомана [url=www.sait.anihub.me/viewtopic.php?id=5691]снять ломку наркомана[/url] .
снятие ломки наркологом [url=http://family2.quadrobb.me/viewtopic.php?id=1856/]снятие ломки наркологом[/url] .
снятие наркотической ломки [url=http://dexanet.ukrbb.net/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=20449/]снятие наркотической ломки[/url] .
снятие ломки цены [url=https://family2.quadrobb.me/viewtopic.php?id=1856/]снятие ломки цены[/url] .
снятие ломки наркологом [url=www.pokupki.bestforums.org/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=24119]снятие ломки наркологом[/url] .
снятие ломки клинике [url=www.dexanet.ukrbb.net/viewtopic.php?f=14&t=20449]снятие ломки клинике [/url] .
myspace.com [url=http://freebookmarkstore.win/story.php?title=xxxbp-tvxindian-college-girls#discuss/]http://freebookmarkstore.win/story.php?title=xxxbp-tvxindian-college-girls#discuss/[/url] .
снятие ломок [url=www.family2.quadrobb.me/viewtopic.php?id=1856/]снятие ломок[/url] .