Here’s some advice from Dan & Jennifer about how to pick up super-attractive women.

Sleeker2610 over on the PUAForums writes an incredibly awkwardly phrased question, that actually addresses an issue lots of guys struggle with:  turning that girl “friend” into a “girlfriend.”

Sleeker2610 writes:

Hi I want to ask for help in my situation because I fall in love with my best girl friend. I know she likes me very much because even if I said her I fall in love with her she accepted a date with me but she still cannot switch me from position of her best male friend to boyfriend :/ . So here is the thing I just have to bring her to swap me from friend zone to eventual boyfriend and its done but I dont know how :/. She is okay even when we hang out alone together she allow me to sleep with her and hugging her during that time and she likes it . I don´t know what more to say if you need more informations just ask about them I will answer them ASAP.

Okay, so I guess now would be a good time to go over how exactly one manages to “escape the friend zone” and actually turn that female friend of yours into something more…

First of all, know this – if a girl is friends with you, it means she likes you.  However, being friends with you also means that she likes you, but isn’t attracted enough to you to want to be anything more than just friends.  Any couple I know of who was “friends first” and later turned into something more always had a certain level of attraction there between the two before they became friends.  So, to move out of the friend zone, you need to establish an attraction with the girl you’re friends with.

I go really in-depth about this process in my course The Art Of Approaching (so much so that I broke it out into its own book, which you get for free with the main course).  But here are the basics…

First, you have to be willing to LOSE this girl’s friendship.  Why?  Well, because in order to create attraction, you’re going to have to start treating her differently than you would a friend.  In fact, you’ll have to change your behavior so much, that the girl in question won’t recognize you from the guy she used to know.  And when this happens, she might decide you’re no longer her friend.

So you need to ask yourself:  What’s more important to you – her friendship, or a chance at a romantic relationship?

If you want to roll the dice and are willing to risk your friendship, know that you will have to start treating this girl in a way that’s radically different from what you’re used to.  Spending time with her and chit-chatting isn’t enough, you have to start building sexual tension and creating a new frame with which you interact with her.  This can be uncomfortable at first, for both you and the girl, but if you keep it up, she will eventually fall in line with it.

You’ll need to add a “sexual” edge to everything you do.  Instead of joking around, you’ll need to joke around in a flirty way.  You’ll have to make comments about her that subtly lets her know you’re attracted to her, without coming right out and making it clear.  You’ll have to limit your interactions to stuff that allows you to seduce her – no more 3 hour phone calls about her boy troubles!  And most of all, you have to know how to get physical with her, because unless that happens, she’s never going to make that transition.

All that said, there’s never a 100% guaranteed way to get a girl to go from being a friend to a lover.  Every person is different, and some women might be looking for things in a guy you just don’t have.  So the best advice I can give in this situation is to not get too hung up on any one girl, even if you think she’s “the one.”  Keep playing the field, but keep working on your target as well, and see which one gets you the result you want the quickest.

Pornstar Shawna Lenee offers some advice on how to get your lady off.  Check it out…

In this report I am going to share with you 3 positions that drive me and most women CRAZY. These positions are a sure fire way to bring your girl to some of the loudest, most intense orgasms of her life.

Most guys, in their struggle to please women never understand the SPOTS that actually trigger orgasms so they flail around uselessly trying weird sexual positions that don’t work.

In this report I’m going to reveal 3 very important things that women know but never say:

1) The Real “Orgasm Zone” and why what most guys do NEVER hit it

2) The 3 Ideal Positions to hit that “Orgasm Zone” and drive her to screaming, shaking orgasms

3) Advanced Sexual Strategies For Each of The Ideal Positions (only if you are looking for sexual mastery, this stuff is a bit wild)

The Real “Orgasm Zone” Of A Woman… And Why Traditional Positions NEVER Hit It!

Many guys know the feeling of having sex and wondering WHEN their girl is going to orgasm. In a futile attempt to get her to come you keep pounding away hoping it will happen. But it never does.

The reason is because you are not hitting the “orgasm zone” that causes us to have an orgasm! Think about it like this:

Let’s say you burn your hand on the stove. You REALLY need to get some cold water. Your friend runs over with a bucket of cold water. But, instead of dumping the cold water all over your hand, they dump it all over your FOOT. You scream in agony that you needed cold water on YOUR HAND because that is what burned. Obviously the analogy is a bit dramatic and simple but it proves a certain point. Yes you need water, but you needed it IN A CERTAIN SPOT. Let me explain how this helps teach you about female orgasm. She NEEDS your penis to have a vaginal orgasm with you inside her. But if your penis isn’t hitting the CERTAIN RIGHT SPOT its like dumping water on your foot when you burned your hand!

Now let’s talk about where the “orgasm zone” is inside of her. Guys don’t realize that the actual “orgasm zone” is the TOP INSIDE WALL of the vagina. This is where the g spot, the deep spot, and all other sensitive orgasm zones are located!!! When you are having sex in most positions your penis is going IN to her not UP AND IN where it will give her an orgasm. Your not even giving yourself a chance at giving us an orgasm. However, there is hope! Once you learn how to ADAPT certain positions you will be going UP AND IN and nailing that “orgasm zone” EVERY TIME. You can expect your lover to start having g spot, deep spot, and maybe even a squirting orgasm when you start putting these powerful tricks into play!

The 3 Ideal Positions to Hit the Orgasm Zone and Drive Her Over the Edge

Position #1) A Very Advanced Version Of Doggy Style

What you want to do is when you are entering her from behind on the bed you want to flatten her out. But, before you flatten her out you want to stick a pillow under the lower part of her stomach. Once you have pillow under her stomach (to raise her butt higher) you want to lie down fully flat on top of her. Often people refer to this position with out the pillow as “froggy style.” However instead of staying even with her body, move up as high as you can. The goal of this is so that as you thrust you are hitting the top inside wall of her vagina. The entire point of the pillow and moving up on her is so that you are thrusting down DIRECTLY into her “orgasm zone.” As long as you can last at least 5 minutes in this position you are sure to give her an orgasm.

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

- if you are doing it right your head should be right above hers putting you in a perfect position for some dirty talk…As long as you feel comfortable and she is comfortable you can throw in some dirty talk along the lines of: “you like it like this?”, “you like me on top of you?”, “you have a great ass baby”

Here’s another secret:

- you can use your arms to lightly pin down her arms to show male authority…by doing this you are going to increase the “animal primal instincts” that doggy style provides because it shows her that you are totally in control of whats going on.

And one more:

- once she has orgasm DON’T STOP… she will have an orgasm and think she needs a break.. however, you can keep going lightly and she’ll recover… and be ready for an even more intense second orgasm. Slowly increase your speed and pressure and she’ll come again and again and again!

Position #2) What I call the “2 Inches Bigger G spot Missionary”

The missionary position often gets a horrible name. Critics call it boring, plain, and vanilla. However, when used the RIGHT WAY missionary position can be one of the most intimate, orgasm giving positions there is. I personally LOVE missionary for the intimacy and most women do too!

Here is how to change missionary position to “2 inches bigger g spot missionary”: (note: not only does it hit the spot, it also makes you feel 2 inches bigger inside of her due to the “angle of the dangle”)

What you want to do is take a normal missionary position and adapt it to hit the “orgasm zone.” Here is what to do:

1) again use a pillow (or two depending on physical proportions) under her lower back but this time in missionary position

2) start inside of her in missionary and scoop under her legs and put them on your shoulders

3) now place your hands under her lower back between her and the pillow

4) lift her up so that as you thrust in to her again you are thrusting UP AND IN
and hitting the top of her vagina!

(note: the entire reason you have the pillow is so that you don’t have to support her entire lower body weight with your hands)

5) thrust up and in and the position that you have her in is sure to trigger an amazing orgasm

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

If you have the flexibility lean forward and kiss her while you are inside of her. Due to the close physical contact with her (legs on shoulders AND hands around her lower back/ass) it is a very intimate position and adding in kissing makes it highly emotional. If you are a guy that likes romance (like women do!) then you can also tell her how much you like (or love her) and that she is your girl. This position is often a girl’s favorite.

Position #3) This Position Is Seated “Girl On Top” With Her Leaning Back

Let me explain…

Often your lover will climb on top and show that she wants to ride you for a bit. The reason she is trying to do this is because is instinctively trying to position herself so that you are thrusting UP AND in!!

With a few simple adaptions to “girl on top” you can let her take control while you lean back and watch her orgasm!!!
How to do it:

1) sit down in chair or sofa (not on bed) and have her get on top facing you

2) have her put her feet forward on the outside of your body

3) tell her it would be really sexy to see her lean back

4) as she leans back and start riding you thrust straight up..due to the positioning you will actually be thrusting UP and IN

5) lean back on the chair or sofa and watch her ride you to orgasm!!! Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

As she is riding you, reach forward and stroke her clit in a light circular motion…now she is getting stimulation on the inside “orgasm zone” and the external “orgasm zone”.

Beware: She will come quickly!

Now that you have learned WHY normal positions don’t give women orgasms and you have the knowledge as to WHAT DOES GIVE HER ORGASMS.

Take confidence in that fact that if you use JUST ONE of these positions you’ll be blowing her mind in a way that no other man ever has!

If anyone knows how to have sex, it’s a porn star!

Here’s a nifty little ditty that gives you some advice on how to date girls who make a living off of being ridiculously hawt.

Of course, this advice is pretty basic and general and can relate to any woman, not just models.  But sometimes its good to hear it anyway.

Marni from WingWomen has a video up on how to properly finger a girl.  Even if her techniques don’t work for all girls, at the very least, you’ll learn how to finger Marni.  lol.