If you’ve got some skills in the dating game, then by all means: go ahead and accept the challenge if a woman you’re interested in turns out to be in a relationship. I like challenges.

However, the biggest mistake men make when they approach a woman who’s in a relationship is… talking down. Sooner or later, they’ll try to get a woman to compare them to the bf, when she had a fight with him they complain about him, and so on.

In doing that, you show insecurity because you come across like you fear his “power” over her because you constantly try to fight it. What I do is the complete opposite: I’m literally being the bigger man.

If she had a fight with him? I’ll accept her complaints but I’ll defend the dude here and there, I compliment him, if she doesn’t get him I’ll give advice… why?

It shows confidence, but I’m consistently being more dominant. She feels low and hates his guts, I tell her (= being dominant) that he’s not that bad, I’ll give advice (advice comes from an authority figure = dominant).

Because from the very first moment onward, I put women in the friend zone and call them friends although we do everything that friends don’t do. The result: they start to chase me.

In short: every other guy is trying to get them, have them, impress them… and me? I’m being me, I don’t care, I don’t chase… but I DO build attraction.

And that makes me the 1 man that they need to work for, therefore… they start to chase me… so do some reverse engineering. Put women in the friend zone.

That seriously works too: if you really ARE friends, you can get them to introduce you to their friends. Then it’s one that gives you access to many, so… its losing the battle to win the war.

To More Dating Success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women

@Gabriel- A closed mind is the most expensive thing any of us can ever own. Your entitled to your own opinions of course, but that kind of negative outlook and limiting perceptions can’t be helpful in your life.

David Hart
davidhartdating.blogspot.com