Understanding VALUE.

Most men wrongly assume that they need to HAVE value to be able to attract women: looks, money, power, fame, social status, friends, whatever. Why? Because men fall for physique, beauty, youth, material things… and automatically assume women like these qualities too.

Meanwhile women fall for personality and charisma and also automatically assume that because they like it, men must like it too. This forms the basis of the battle of the sexes, the disappointment on both sides when discovering that the opposite sex is NOT attracted to the same things. It´s why men have a hard time understanding women, and women have a hard time understanding men when it comes to attraction: both sexes think they´re attracted to the same things as their sex are.

This is called attraction circuitry projection. Don´t get me wrong, men are to some extent attracted to personality and women to looks… but it only accounts for 10% of the big picture.

The result: ¨having¨ any alue whatsoever becomes irrelevant, because the value of personality and charisma is relative… different women perceive more or less value with different personality traits and levels of charisma.

Do you understand what this means? It means that as men, creating attraction is all about CREATING attraction and the PERCEIVED value we thus have… so we need NO material or physical things at all to be able to get women.

Proof: Cobra Commander on the Keys To The VIP show. He had nothing, but could get any woman…

To more dating success,

Dennis Miedema
Win With Women