I’ll never buy someone’s approval, either with words, gifts, dinner, flower, or money. You guys already know what that is – needy, desperate, and it shows a HUGE lack of confidence.

However, Angel said “And, since you’re buyin’, you can accuse and tease people if they get girlie shots… OR JUST FLAT OUT REFUSE TO BUY THEM.”

Correct me if I’m wrong Angel, but it sounds like you’re opening a group in a way that gets all of the group’s attention at once instead of going old school and using an opener on one woman in the group and expanding the conversation to the whole group so you won’t get cockblocked.

So the difference is in opening 1-for-all or Angel’s all-for-1 way, but it sounds to me like this method doesn’t NEED you to buy ANYTHING. You can act like… and then bust women’s balls for their sissy shot choice and/or refuse to buy them something and ask something in return first.

That’s not buying approval, that’s creating attraction.

Again, I’m not “pro buy” but we should at least test variations in-field dudes. Here’s another one: bust everybody indivually for their sissy choice, ask something in return, and then go ahead and buy them the shot YOU want them to have (if you’re ever going to buy it).

Shows dominance, playful teasing, being picky all in one routine. What I would do is get the cheapest shot, don’t get the biggest competitor (if its a male/female group) a drink and AMOG him with his clothing, and also DON’T get my target a shot “sorry honey, Im all out of money… or maybe I just don’t like you enough yet.”

As you can see, the technique is worth exploring. Don’t knock it until it blocks chicks

To more dating success,

Dennis Miedema