Comments on: Overcoming Shyness http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/ Dating & Seduction Tips, Advice, News, & Gossip Tue, 28 Apr 2026 03:13:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Switchdrift http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/comment-page-1/#comment-669 Switchdrift Mon, 07 Jan 2008 09:01:16 +0000 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/#comment-669 Can anyone recommend great material for not falling into the divorced side of the 50% divorce rate? My friend says that the rate increases to 70% for the second marriage. He divorced his first wife after 15 years but is reluctant to get married again due to those figures. He's a guy who's good with the ladies and has had to break up with several cool sporty chicks (some with teenage kids of their own) because he wanted to take it really slow before committing again whereas they wanted to escalate to the full meal deal. That figure of 90% of divorces being instigated by women jives with what I've seen. Women will flake out on anyone and everyone at all stages of life. How do we filter out women who are not good marriage material? Overcoming shyness and attracting women is the first essential step I am taking. Who will come up with solutions for the next step of maintaining relationships with worthy women? Just because "it's always the guy's fault" doesn't mean guys aren't lucky for not ending up with many of those women. The moral of the story is what all these master PUA's keep telling us: don't look for fullfillment only in women. Of course a lot of people occassionally don't follow their own advice. . . Here's another moral: don't worry about dying alone because you'll be damn lucky to have your woman or kids or other loved ones at your bedside when you croak. Look for fullfillment in other areas of life too. If you're sarging four nights a week and you're not falling behind in some aspect of your life then either sarging is your career in large part (like Mystery, Thundercat presumably, Tyler Durden, etc.) or you're seriously neglecting other things you've always wanted to do. Or you play MMORPG's. So learn how to attract women. And then learn how to filter out the mismatches. Can anyone recommend great material for not falling into the divorced side of the 50% divorce rate? My friend says that the rate increases to 70% for the second marriage. He divorced his first wife after 15 years but is reluctant to get married again due to those figures. He’s a guy who’s good with the ladies and has had to break up with several cool sporty chicks (some with teenage kids of their own) because he wanted to take it really slow before committing again whereas they wanted to escalate to the full meal deal.

That figure of 90% of divorces being instigated by women jives with what I’ve seen. Women will flake out on anyone and everyone at all stages of life.
How do we filter out women who are not good marriage material? Overcoming shyness and attracting women is the first essential step I am taking. Who will come up with solutions for the next step of maintaining relationships with worthy women? Just because “it’s always the guy’s fault” doesn’t mean guys aren’t lucky for not ending up with many of those women.

The moral of the story is what all these master PUA’s keep telling us: don’t look for fullfillment only in women. Of course a lot of people occassionally don’t follow their own advice. . .
Here’s another moral: don’t worry about dying alone because you’ll be damn lucky to have your woman or kids or other loved ones at your bedside when you croak. Look for fullfillment in other areas of life too. If you’re sarging four nights a week and you’re not falling behind in some aspect of your life then either sarging is your career in large part (like Mystery, Thundercat presumably, Tyler Durden, etc.) or you’re seriously neglecting other things you’ve always wanted to do. Or you play MMORPG’s.

So learn how to attract women. And then learn how to filter out the mismatches.

]]> By: Disgusted http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/comment-page-1/#comment-668 Disgusted Sun, 25 Nov 2007 18:50:44 +0000 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/#comment-668 Google love-shy and Gilmartin and you'll see where he got it. No citations = plagarism. Google love-shy and Gilmartin and you’ll see where he got it. No citations = plagarism.

]]> By: s http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/comment-page-1/#comment-667 s Fri, 16 Nov 2007 13:14:33 +0000 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/#comment-667 just get drunk and find a hooker just get drunk and find a hooker

]]> By: Adam http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/comment-page-1/#comment-666 Adam Sat, 03 Nov 2007 08:44:52 +0000 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/#comment-666 Thank you for the article and your kind words of wisdom. It is indeed all about choice. Deciding that you are going to do something and sticking with it despite failure is the key to seduction and everything else in life. Knowing that life is in your control but it requires effort and occasional failure to get to where you want to go is key. Thank you for the article and your kind words of wisdom. It is indeed all about choice. Deciding that you are going to do something and sticking with it despite failure is the key to seduction and everything else in life. Knowing that life is in your control but it requires effort and occasional failure to get to where you want to go is key.

]]> By: Pete http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/comment-page-1/#comment-665 Pete Sat, 20 Oct 2007 17:47:30 +0000 http://www.thundercatseductionlair.com/2007/10/15/overcoming-shyness/#comment-665 What social anxiety site did you crib this off? I got a strong sense of deja vu reading this. By the way, someone this shy will likely have very little success jumping straight into seduction materials. They have too much more basic baggage to deal with first. What social anxiety site did you crib this off? I got a strong sense of deja vu reading this.

By the way, someone this shy will likely have very little success jumping straight into seduction materials. They have too much more basic baggage to deal with first.

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